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What Are The Top 5 Things You Learned This Year?

1.The attitude of “That's just the way I am. Take it or leave it" is still a sign of immaturity. As an adult, it's your responsibility to figure out which of your traits are toxic & are negatively impactful towards others.

2. Be teachable. You are not always right.

3. Not all your friends need to be forever-friends. Some people are just meant to be your friend for that particular time in your life.

4. Social media makes people think they're more important than they really are.

5. I can cut some people off of my life & still wish the best in their lives. Their failures, heartaches & setbacks do nothing for me personally.

What Is Something People Need To Understand?

1. Nobody dies a virgin. Life f*cks us all.

2. If your love ain’t a verb, don’t bother.

3. People lie more to themselves than to others.

4. Go where your energy is reciprocated, celebrated, and appreciated.

5. Younger you probably wouldn’t listen to older you’s advice.

6. The hash truth is that someone’s mom has probably used you as a bad example to their kid.

7. Only people who care about you can hear when you’re quiet.

8. Being alone is not as bad as being with people who make you feel alone.

9. Your big heart deserves an even bigger love.

10. First, know your worth. Second, control your emotions. Third, never settle.

What Are Some Psychological Facts About Love?

1. People are biased to turn their heads to the right when a kiss is initiated.

2. Your sense of smell plays a huge role in love. The smell is tied very slowly to memory.

3. Falling in love triggers feelings of euphoria, sleeplessness and obsession, which is similar to cocaine high.

4. Talkative girls and silent boys make the best couples.

5. People who use emojis in their texts are perceived as more likable.

6. A woman is more attracted to a man when she is uncertain about how much he likes her.

7. People with different-colored eyes are more likely to be attracted to each other.

8. When you become really close to someone, you can hear their voice in your head when you read their texts.

9. A crush only lasts for a maximum of 4 months, if it exceeds, you’re already in love.

10. Just by looking at the picture of your beloved one, you can feel a sense of relief.

What Are Some Things You Realized When You Got Matured?

1. If you think you’re fat, you probably are.

2. Best friends see each other 3 times a year and may have no pictures together.

3. If you text, call, and still get ignored, just walk away.

4. Your hair was put on your head to remind you that you can’t control everything.

5. No one talks about how lonely healing can feel.

6. Don’t let your loneliness make you reconnect with wrong person.

7. True relationship comes when the silence between you two is comfortable.

8. Go where your energy is reciprocated, celebrated, and appreciated.

9. You still haven’t met all of the people who are going to love you.

10. If today is not your day, remember there’re 365 days a year.

What Are Ten Truths Everyone Should Accept In Life?

1. If it doesn’t open, it’s not your door.

2. Some days you need the music and some days you need the lyrics.

3. If someone is stupid enough, then walk away from you, be smart enough to let them go.

4. Making mistakes is better than faking perfections.

5. Remember to learn your limits if you are givers.

6. It’s better to lose someone instead of losing your mind.

7. Kindness is not flirting.

8. Attention is not love.

9. Silence is not anger.

10. Tears is not a weakness.

Funny Stuff.

I mowed the lawn today, and after doing so

I sat down and had a cold beer.

The day was really quite beautiful, and the drink facilitated some deep thinking.

My wife walked by and asked me what I was doing,

and I said, "Nothing."

The reason I said "nothing" instead of saying "just thinking" is because she then would have asked, "About what?"

At that point I would have had to explain that men are deep thinkers about various topics, which would lead to other questions.

Finally I pondered an age old question: Is giving birth more painful than getting kicked in the nuts?

Women always maintain that giving birth is way more painful than a guy getting kicked in the nuts, but how could they know?

Well, after another beer, and some more heavy deductive thinking, I have come up with an answer to that question.

Getting kicked in the nuts is more painful than having a baby, and even though I obviously couldn't really know, here is the reason for my conclusion:

A year or so after giving birth, a woman will often say, "It might be nice to have another child."

But you never hear a guy say, "You know, I think I would like another kick in the nuts."

I rest my case.

Time for another beer. Then maybe a nap.

Can You Write Something So Deep That It Would Make You Feel Something?

1. If you have a plan B, your plan A is less likely to work.

2. Even bad days have tomorrows.

3. The memory of happiness is perhaps also happiness.

4. Younger you probably wouldn’t listen to older you’s advice.

5. Some people are like ads, just skip them.

6. Dating is as much about choosing the person as being chosen.

7. Faking a smile is easier than explaining why you’re sad.

8. Cheating is a choice, not a mistake.

9. Sitting alone and enjoy your own company is better than being surrounded by fake people.

10. Your apology needs to be as loud as your disrespect was.

11. Loving does not consist of gazing at each other, but in looking outward together in the same direction.

12. Healing is about accepting, not forgetting.

13. The world produces waves, surf or drown. You decide.

Why Is Keanu Reeves So Great?

I know that the ones who love us, will miss us.”

This is what Keanu said when Stephen Colbert asked him what happens to us when we die.

He understands misery unlike anybody else in Hollywood.

His dad left when he was 3. He struggled with dyslexia, attending 4 different high schools before dropping out. His best friend died of a drug overdose at 23. His girlfriend, Jennifer Syme, had a stillbirth 8 months into pregnancy. She later died in a car accident not too long after.

Even with his hardships, he hasn’t let his success get to his head.

He helped his sister get cured of leukemia, and since then has donated an anonymous amount of money to hospitals that treat the disease through his private charitable foundation.

He’s worth over a couple hundred million dollars, but he still takes the subway.

He doesn’t really have many fancy things.

It is rumored that he gave up a considerable portion of his pay for the latter two Matrix films so that the stunt and design and costume teams could help make the movie as amazing as possible.

Many sources claim the amount he cut from his own pay ranged just a touch above $30 million.

When his flight had an emergency landing enroute to Los Angeles in Bakersfield, he not only opted to rent a large vehicle and drive the rest of the way, but he took a good number of people on the flight with him.

He’s known for paying attention to detail—there is a story about him on Twitter where he bought an ice cream just to get the receipt paper so he could autograph it for a fan. He later tossed that ice cream away.

He is one of the few actors who gets to know everybody working on the set of his projects. Several accounts of him genuinely asking people about their day and wellbeing. There is a photo of him taking a break from filming John Wick 2 just to walk a pit bull in New York City:

He treats everybody with the same amount of kindness. This means everyone:

Someone on Reddit recalled a friend who was stranded on the highway outside Los Angeles. Keanu Reeves pulled up, tried to jump the car to no success, and then drove her 50 miles out of the way to get her home. Not only that, he gave her his number to call in case she needed help with anything.

When he found out one of the crew members on the set of John Wick was struggling, he gave him $20,000 as a Christmas bonus.

There is another story of him giving every member of his stunt team for The Matrix a Harley Davidson.

Keanu just loves.

He is love incarnate.

There is no additional component to his character. He’s stayed the same human throughout the worst and the best in his life. He’s pure.

And people see that.

What Are Some Things You Realized When You Got Matured?

1)It’s better to keep silent. In some situations when you explain people more, it doesn’t help. The more you explain, the more they will suspect you. Nowadays, people don’t like to get more explanation, it’s better to stay quiet when you know the other is not ready to understand.

2) Social media is useless. When you are a child you don’t know the value of time and waste lots of your time on social media, but when you realize the value of the time you stop wasting your precious time on social media. Stop or limit using those apps before you realize the fact.

3) Friends are not important. Friends are good to have but don’t give that much because you make friends at each stage of your life, your that stage will complete, you’ll move on and they too. But don’t get upset if you all move on, just remember the memories you had with them and smile that it did happen.

4) It’s OK to be misunderstood. It’s OK if people don’t understand you, you owe no explanation to anyone. It’s is common to be misunderstood, you are not here to make everyone understand you, but to understand yourself.

5) It’s OK to make mistakes. No one is perfect in this world and mistakes don’t mean you are failures. Mistakes tell you to do better next time. Life doesn’t come with instructions so it’s fine if you have made mistake. It’s OK to have a bad day, be less than perfect. You will be still you. These are some of the things you realized when you got mature or by your life experience.

6) Crying doesn’t make you weak. Crying is the symbol of inner strength, it is the only thing that is heavy yet makes you feel lighter. It doesn’t have to be considered as a weakness. Things you realize when you got mature is Crying itself is a form of strength. A strong person cries, then get up and fight again.

Rare Stories.

On September 25, 2000, 19-year-old Kevin Hines tried to kill himself by jumping off the Golden Gate Bridge. He fell more than 220 feet to the water below, slamming into it at 75 miles per hour.

The impact shattered three of his vertebrae and came within two millimeters of severing his spine — yet he somehow survived. And when he realized he was still alive, he was immediately overtaken by an overwhelming will to live.

However, the weight of his clothes kept dragging him down below the surface of San Francisco Bay. For what felt like an eternity, he barely managed to resurface for mere seconds at a time and breathe just enough air to cling to life. Then, he suddenly felt a strange force from below pushing him up above the water, where he stayed until the Coast Guard eventually came to get him.

Only later did he learn that eyewitnesses had seen the mysterious force that had been keeping him afloat: a sea lion that was propping up his body until the rescue boat arrived.

What Are The Lessons People Most Often Learn Too Late In Life?

1) You spend your first 20 years worrying what people think about you. You spend your next 20 years swearing that you don’t care what people think about you. You spend the next 20 years realizing that they aren’t thinking about you. A liberation!

2) Any day on this side of the dirt is a good day. Some people didn’t make the cut last night. I was hit by a speeding taxi as I was walking to a bus stop. I spent a month in rehab with two broken legs, a brain injury, multiple back injuries and other fractures. The night before I was hit, a young, married couple was also hit. They both died. Practice gratitude.

3) A woman I know spends most of her time thinking about how much she hates her thighs. She can give you a detailed report on what is wrong with them. She forgets all the places those legs have taken her, all the miles they have walked for her. It doesn’t occur to her that when she gets up in the middle of the night to pee, those very thighs walk her to the toilet. Spend more time appreciating what you’ve got— a heart that beats, a way to pick up your cup of coffee, the eyes that see that cup and know what color it is. Blessings abound.

4) There are two kinds of people in this world – those who believe there is enough to go around, and those who don’t. Here is an example: If Margo is leaning up against the car kissing her boyfriend, and I think how nice that must feel, do I try to steal Margo’s boyfriend or do I go out and get my own boyfriend? I go out and get myself a boyfriend. I don’t need to steal Margo’s. I know that there is enough to go around.

5) An old Native American woman was asked why she was always so happy. She said that she has two wolves in her heart and they are both hungry— one wolf is angry and evil, the other wolf is filled with love, and that's the only one she feeds.

What Makes People Likeable?

Princess Eugenie, granddaughter of the Queen of England, wore a dress on her wedding day that revealed a scar on her back after she underwent surgery to correct a spinal deformity (scoliosis) as a child. When she was asked: Why didn't she wear a dress to hide her surgical scars? Or why not undergo a cosmetic operation in which the scar is completely removed.

She replied: I studied in Newcastle and got my degree with flying colors. I can speak 3 languages. And you're talking about the repercussions of an old operation. One should only be proud or ashamed of what is on their mind. In nothing else. I also did it to thank the paramedics and encourage the girls not to be ashamed of the aesthetic flaws of their bodies.

Your true beauty lies in your morality, humanity, and kindness.

What Are Your 10 Laws Of Manhood?

1. Never look at a menu for longer than 90 seconds.

2. The average male get 37843200 minutes in his lifetime. You don’t really want to spend them on Snapchat.

3. Beer, pizza, and BBQ is an acceptable payment for another man.

4. Do not roast a man in front of their kids.

5. If you wear cologne, no one should smell it from five feet away or five minutes after you’ve left.

6. Be especially kind to bartenders, baristas, taxi drivers, and anyone else who is often looked over.

7. If riding the bus doesn’t incentivize you to improve your station in life, nothing will.

8. Good relationships are absolutely not 50/50, they’re fluid things.

9. You cannot have a love affair with whiskey cause whiskey will never love you back.

And my favorite last one:

Rules are for the obedience of fools and the guidance of wise men.

What Is The Biggest Life Lesson You Have Ever Learned?

1. Be selective. Not everything that calls your name is for you.

2. You gotta find the balance between having fun & having funds.

3. Sometimes home isn’t 4 walls, it’s 2 eyes and a heartbeat.

4. To avoid disappointment, take people as they are and not what they could be.

6. The internet might make it look like there’s plenty fish in the sea, but most of it ain’t worth catching.

7. Stop saving your nice sh*t for “special” occasions. If you flex regularly that will become your vibration.

What Is The Best Way To Choose A Life Partner?

1. Find someone who can laugh at your silly jokes.

2. Find someone who can bear your pain.
Find someone who feels the same way as you do.

3. Find someone who has a few basics in common, loves you back, differs with you some, waits on you when you’re low and truly loves and feels for you.

4. Find someone who is compatible with you and who shares common interests and views about sex.

5. Find someone who wants to be with you for the rest of your life; choose someone who chooses you.

6. Find someone who will still love you when you’re broke.

7. Find someone who knows at least how to take care of money. You can tell by how much she/he spends during the few times you’re together dating.

8. Find someone who will remain faithful to you when you’re away.

9.Find someone who disagrees with you sometimes, but cares about you all the time.

10. Find someone who doesn't smoke, is not an alcoholic and is not on drugs.

11. Find someone you can talk to and become real friends with.

12. Find someone who can give you a shoulder to lean on; someone who can support you financially and emotionally.

13. Find someone you can enjoy to love; someone loveable and someone who can appreciate love.

14. Find someone who is already happy; not someone you have to work overtime to make happy.

15. Choose the person who makes you better.

16. Find someone who can support your vision.

17. Find someone who is pulling in your direction.

18. Find someone who loves family and loves kids.

19. Find someone who is stable financially and emotionally.

20. Find someone who does not complain.

21. Find someone who appreciates and respects you for who you are; not for what other people think or say about you.

22. Find someone who can be an iceberg; dive low with you and come to the surface with you.

What Have You Learned About Living?

1. The key is to remember you have a key.

2. Your words can’t fix what your actions broke.

3. Loyalty is rare. If you find it, keep it.

4. Never get so comfortable in pain that you forget happiness is still an option.

5. When it’s over leave don’t continue watering a dead flower.

6. Your taste in people will change when you learn to love yourself.

7. Love in its purest form is equality.

What Are Some Things You Realize As You Get Older?

1.

To avoid disappointment, take people for what they are and not what they could be.

2.

The insults, judgements, and the negativity people attempt to throw your way are actually reflections of their own insecurities and are absolutely irrelevant to you and your life.

3.

People are who they are, and there’s no any other way to look at them.

4.

Mature enough to wish the best for people who no longer talk with you. Because after all their achievements or failures do nothing for you personally.

5.

You will continue to suffer, if you have an emotional reaction to everything that is said to you. It’s a choice to let dumb things affect you.

6.

People will disappoint you. So learn not to take everything to heart.

7.

Be gentle to yourself. Because you don’t need one more critic picking at your insecurities.

8.

You are allowed to do what’s best for you, even if it upsets people. You are not responsible for how people react, when you’re trying to do the best for you.

What Are Some Lessons That Life Teaches You?

1. The idea is to die young as late as possible.

2. The only thing standing between you and your goals is your own lack of execution.

3. Never be a prisoner of your past, it was just a lesson not a life sentence.

4. Care too little, you’ll lose them.

Care too much, you’ll get hurt.

5. Worst pain is getting played by a person you lowered your standards for.

6. You are choosing someone who can influence your daily thoughts when you choose a partner. Choose wisely here.

7. Trying to control who you fall in love with will keep you single.

8. Nobody is too busy, it is just a matter of priorities.

9. Don’t let social media trick you into thinking your accomplishments aren’t enough.

10. The most underrated form of self-care is getting enough sleep.

11. You can be a whole package at the wrong address.

What Are Some Unwritten Social Rules Everyone Should Know?

1. 1+1 = 3 if you don’t use the condom.

2. Alcohol increase size of the “SEND” button by 89%.

3. Never underestimate the power of stupid people in large groups.

4. Sometimes we create our own heartbreaks through expectations.

5. Life is too short to be with the wrong person.

6. Just because you love them, it doesn’t mean they’re right for you.

7. Feelings that come back are feelings that never left.

8. Everything’s not as easy as getting fat.

9. Even a bad day is just 24 hours.

10. It’s not your job to fix people.

What Are The Behaviors Of A Confident Person?

Observe confident people around you. You’ll find these 9 behaviors in them:

1. They don’t cross their arms.

Confident people don’t cross their arms because they’re not feeling defensive, nor do they have anything to hide.


2. They don't constantly check social media.

Mindlessly scrolling through social media can waste more time than you imagine. A confident person knows how to use their time wisely to be more productive.

3. They listen 10 times more than they speak.

Truly confident people already know what they think, they want to know what you think.

4. They celebrate their peers’ successes.

Insecure people don’t want others to succeed. When confident people say “good luck” to someone, they sincerely mean it.

5. They don’t seek approval from others.

Confident people gain attention due to their brilliant work. Since their self-worth comes within, they don’t need approval from others.


6. They never gossip.

Confident people realizes that another person’s private is none of their business. When people engage in gossip, all it serves to do is make themselves more judgmental and toxic.

7. They’re in a pleasant mood most of the time.

Confident people aren’t easily thrown off their emotional game. They don’t feel insulted or slighted as easily as other people, and this is part of their appeal.

8. They maintain eye contact.

Eye contact is a shared experience and one of the most powerful tools in human face-to-face interaction.

9. They aren’t ashamed to ask for help.

Confident people are secure enough to admit a weakness. Saying “Can you help me?” Shows tremendous respect for that individual’s expertise and judgement.

What Psychological Tricks And Hacks Are Useful To Know?

1.

Our mind has the ability to detect and sense danger. If your gut tells you something is wrong, never ignore that feeling.

2.

Alarm clocks don't necessarily wake you up, they startle you, causing a panic that interrupts your sleep state, which isn't healthy.

3.

A person usually makes a lot of hand gestures when telling a true story. When they lie, a person's hands will stay noticeably still.

4.

The human mind can only maintain complete trust once for each person. Once broken, it's never the same.

5.

If someone makes eye contact with you for 60% of a conversation, they're bored, 80% and they are attracted to you, and 100% of the time, then they are threatening you.

6.

Overthinking is a special form of fear. This fear becomes worse when adding anticipation, memory, imagination and emotions together.

7.

When you try to remember a past event, you're actually remembering the last time you remembered it, rather than the event itself.

What Are Some Unknown Facts About Psychology.

1:— Money can't buy happiness but poverty can't buy anything.

2:—They start missing you when they fail to replace you.

3:—Anger is a condition in which tongue works faster than the mind.

4:— You can't be strong all the time. Sometimes you just need to be alone & let your tears out.

5:-Everything comes with an expiry date.

6:— You can' t start the new chapter of your life if you keep re-reading the last one.

7:—Money is numbers & numbers never end . If it takes money to be happy, your search for happiness will never end.

8:—No one's always busy. It just depends on what number you're on the priority list.

9:— Believe it or not you can have whatever you want,your ability is limitless.

10:—Everyone is trying to find the right person but nobody is trying to be the right person.

11:-Your rumours don't define your character, your grades & finances don't define your intelligence.

12:— No Comparison please: No one can play your role better than you.

What Is Something That Needs To Be Said?

1. People aren't getting dumber. Dumb people are getting louder.

2. Orange is the only color to have a confirmed taste, texture, and scent.

3. A different version of you exists in the minds of everyone who knows you.

4. The saddest part of life is when the person who gave you memories becomes a memory.

5. Most single people on Earth are here involuntarily.

6. Getting married and having kids with the right person is more important than doing it by thirty.

7. When a flower doesn’t bloom you fix the environment in which it grows, not the flower.

8. The toughest thing to do as an adult is to keep your screaming on the inside.

9. Cleaning actually isn't bad unless someone asks you to do it.

10. People encourage others to do what they love but judge them when they actually do it.

11. The last kid to leave the school bus knows where everyone lives.

RULES TO TEACH YOUR DAUGHTER.

1. Make your bed every day, even if it’s right before you get in it.

2. Don’t wear holey underwear…in case you’re in an accident and they cut your clothes off.

3. Travel light through life. Keep only what you need.

4. It’s okay to cry when you’re hurt. It’s also okay to smash (some) things; but, wash your face, clean your mess, and get up off the floor when you’re done. You don’t belong down there.

5. If you’re going to curse, be clever. If you’re going to curse in public, know your audience.

6. Seek out the people and places that resonate with your soul.

7. Just because you can, doesn’t mean you should.

8. 5-second rule. It’s just dirt. There are worse things in a fast food cheeseburger.

9. Happiness is not a permanent state. Wholeness is. Don’t confuse these.

10. If you’re staying more than one night, unpack your bag.

11. Never walk through an alley alone.

12. Be less sugar, more spice, and only as nice as you’re able to without compromising yourself.

13. Can’t is a cop-out.

14. Hold your heroes to a high standard. Be your own hero.

15. If you can’t smile with your eyes, don’t smile. Insincerity is nothing to aspire to.

16. Never lie to yourself.

17. Your body, your rules.

18. If you have an opinion, you better know why.

19. Practice your passions.

20. Ask for what you want. The worst thing they can say is no.

21. Wish on stars and dandelions, then get to work to make them happen.

22. Stay as sweet as you are.

23. Fall in love often. Particularly with ideas, art, music, literature, food and far-off places.

24. Fall hard and forever in love with nothing but yourself.

25. Say Please, Thank You, and Pardon Me, whenever the situation warrants it.

26. Reserve “I’m sorry” for when you truly are.

27. Naps are for grown-ups, too.

28. Question everything, except your own intuition.

29. You have enough. You are enough.

30. You are amazing! Don’t let anyone ever make you feel you are not. If someone does….walk away. You deserve better.

31. No matter where you are, you can always come home.

32. Be happy and remember your roots, family is EVERYTHING.

33. Say what you mean and mean what you say.

34. No one will ever love you more than I do.

35. Be kind; treat others how you would like them to treat you.

36. If in doubt, remember whose daughter you are and straighten your crown.

What Is The Most Useless Fact You Know? Vol 2.

1:-Napoleon Was Once Attacked By a Horde of Bunnies.


2:- The footprints on the moon will be there for 100 million years.

3:- Hippo Milk is pink.


4:- Polar Bears can eat more than 50 lbs. of meat in one setting.

5:- The Electric Chair Was Invented by a Dentist.

6:- Snails can sleep for 3 years.

7:- In 2015, scientists on a National Geographic expedition discovered sharks living inside Kavachi, one of the most active underwater volcanoes on Earth.Divers couldn't investigate because of the heat and acidity, so they used robots.

8:- The word “Dude” is gender neutral. Because I’m a dude. He’s a dude. She’s a dude. We’re all dudes.

9:- An estimated 2,450 Americans die from heart attacks caused by sex every year.

10:- Male llamas bite off other male llamas’ testicles to get rid of competitors during the mating season.

What Is The Most Useless Fact You Know? Vol 1.

1:- The King of hearts is the only King with out a moustache.

2:- When a person lies, they experience an increase in temperature around the nose.

This is known as the “Pinocchio Effect.”

3:- On April 18th, 1930, the BBC announced they had "no news" to report.Then they just played piano music.

4:- It's estimated that only 10-20% of the human population can wiggle their ears and raise one eyebrow.

5:- Only about 40% of a chicken nugget is actually meat.The rest is fat, skin, blood vessels, and bone fragments.

6:- The genetic similarity between two humans – 99.9%

The genetic similarity between a human and a chimp – 96%

The genetic similarity between a human and a cat – 90%

The genetic similarity between a human and a dog – 84%

The genetic similarity between a human and a banana – 60%.

7:- About 68% of people experience "phantom vibration syndrome" where you mistakenly think your phone is buzzing in your pocket.

8:- Cats cannot taste sugar.They don't have sweet taste buds, because one of the two genes necessary for sweetness receptors was permanently turned off millions of years ago.

9:- When a secretary at Apple was late because of car trouble, Steve Jobs gave her a Jaguar and said, "Don't be late anymore."

10:- The average person spends 45 to 62 minutes a day just waiting.

What Is Something You Will Never Understand?

I don't understand this ✓

I understand people like this , who don't respect their values but make others to do it .I don't understand people who can't treat other people equally

Men who had many girlfriends in the past want a virgin bride .They want to get laid every single day but want a wife who never saw another man in her life .

Real men are who make sure that their other half is getting equal opportunities no matter the outcome.

I don't understand people who don't believe in gender equality .

If you can do it , why can't she ?
If you can drive , why can't she ?
If you can go to beaches , why can't she ?
If you can make decisions ,why can't she ?
If you are important , why can't she be important ?
If you can wear something , why can't she ?
I don't understand people , who can't treat other people equally.

What Is The Deep Secret Of Life?

1.Unconditional love is not unconditional tolerance.

2. Grind in your 20’s. Build in your 30’s. Chill in your 40’s.

3. Bad communication ends a lot of good things.

4. Real friends: when you get to the top, your friends know who you are. When you hit the bottom, you know who your friends are.

5. It is not about the size of circle. It is about the loyalty in it.

6. Your biggest supporter is a stranger. Your biggest hater is someone you know.

7. After you hit a certain age all you want is Money, Stability, and Peace of mind.

8. Standards: high

Focus: sharp

Confidence: on

Self-doubt: off

Gratitude: on

Intentions: set

9. The level up is about improving, not impressing.

Thanks for scrolling, we don’t know each other, but I wish you all the best in life and may things work out in your favor.

What Are Your 10 Laws Of Manhood?

1. If boys don’t learn, men won’t know.

2. Do not take a sip from another man’s drink.

3. Always know the difference between calling a woman sexy, and calling her beautiful.

4. People who say real men don’t like ice cream obviously don’t know any real men.

5. The taker may eat better. But the giver always sleep better.

6. The difference between wanting and achieving is discipline.

7. Real men don't dance to other people's tune, instead, they play for others to dance.

8. Never let you friend drive home drunk. Drive him home or call him a taxi.

9. Never forget who helped you out when everyone else was making excuses.

10. A real man is one who fears the death of his heart, not his body.

What Are Some Of The Dark Lessons That Life Showed You?

By Dilki Dissanayake.

01.

Stop holding onto people, just because you have a history together.

02.

Accept people as they are, but place them where they belong.

03.

The day you let go of the people you've been pointlessly holding onto, is the day your life gets a whole lot better.

04.

Sometimes growth requires new company, new friends and new mindsets.

05.

Some disconnections will bless your life.

06.

Sometimes you block your own blessings, by telling everyone your business.

07.

A lot of people become unattractive, once you find out how they think.

08.

Most people will show you who they really are by mistake. Pay close attention.

09.

Your greatest test will be how you handle people who mishandle you.

This is too good not to share. I asked a friend who has crossed 70 & is heading towards 80 what sort of changes he is feeling in himself? He sent me the following:

1. After loving my parents, my siblings, my spouse, my children and my friends, I have now started loving myself.

2. I have realized that I am not “Atlas”. The world does not rest on my shoulders.

3. I have stopped bargaining with vegetable & fruit vendors. A few pennies more is not going to break me, but it might help the poor fellow save for his daughter’s school fees.

4. I leave my waitress a big tip. The extra money might bring a smile to her face. She is toiling much harder for a living than I am.

5. I stopped telling the elderly that they've already told that story many times. The story makes them walk down memory lane & relive their past.

6. I have learned not to correct people even when I know they are wrong. The onus of making everyone perfect is not on me. Peace is more precious than perfection.

7. I give compliments freely & generously. Compliments are a mood enhancer not only for the recipient, but also for me. And a small tip for the recipient of a compliment, never, NEVER turn it down, just say "Thank You.”

8. I have learned not to bother about a crease or a spot on my shirt. Personality speaks louder than appearances.

9. I walk away from people who don't value me. They might not know my worth, but I do.

10. I remain cool when someone plays dirty to outrun me in the rat race. I am not a rat & neither am I in any race.

11. I am learning not to be embarrassed by my emotions. It’s my emotions that make me human.

12. I have learned that it's better to drop the ego than to break a relationship. My ego will keep me aloof, whereas with relationships, I will never be alone.

13. I have learned to live each day as if it's the last. After all, it might be the last.

14. I am doing what makes me happy. I am responsible for my happiness, and I owe it to myself. Happiness is a choice. You can be happy at any time, just choose to be!

I decided to share this for all my friends. Why do we have to wait to be 60 or 70 or 80, why can't we practice this at any stage and age?

What Habits Can Transform My Life Completely?

There are some good habits which I think can change a life:-

1. Getting up early just before 5 A.M, believe me, you will never regret it instead of you may appreciate your self one day for this effort.
2. Just walk of 30 minutes in the early morning or hitting Gym for 1 hour, believe this will make you proud one day especially if you are thinking about GYM workout.
3. Taking enough amount of Fruits, Vegetables and dairy products. All these will provide you with entire essential nutrients, which make you active and help you to grow properly.
4. Study at least 4 hours a day and consider it one of the most crucial tasks of the day, it does not matter when you are going to study, do whenever you have the time for it.
5. Whenever you among the accompany of people make them speak because while listening you will learn a lot of new things instead when you speak you are just going to repeat the knowledge, you already have.
6. Do not believe in everyone except parents just one day they are going to betray you and make you feel regret.
7. Do not forget to spend time with your parents and grandparents as they did and are still doing a lot for us.
8. Do not give up ever in your life as there are only a few people who want to be successful and they have a lot of expectations so do not insult them by breaking their beliefs. Another side there are a lot who just laugh on your failure and want you to follow the pity path which they are just going to show you.
9. Rules are meant to be broken so understand them well then you can break them well, I am not here mentioning about traffic rules.
10. Never tell all your secrets to anyone. Secret means something means to be hidden for a particular reason.
11. Never forget to appreciate people who take time out of their busy lives to do something very important for you even though they really do not want to get from you anything in exchange but on that time it's your responsibility to reward them.