Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / New
Stats: 3,158,281 members, 7,836,252 topics. Date: Wednesday, 22 May 2024 at 12:37 AM

Bonjoconjo's Posts

Nairaland Forum / Bonjoconjo's Profile / Bonjoconjo's Posts

(1) (of 1 pages)

Celebrities / Re: KWAM1 Snubbed His Wife Who Wanted To Kiss Him At His Birthday Party by bonjoconjo: 2:37pm On Mar 06, 2023
I dont know why women behave like this, you see all his Gurlfriends and side chics there, you still want to kiss him, these women sef
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Who Should Be Responsible For Payroll Management by bonjoconjo: 4:52pm On Nov 07, 2022
Payroll calculations are strictly finance , because of pension taxes PAYE and other statutory deductions which HR doesnt know about,
HR will provide attendance records, intakes , leavers & joiners and advise who is confirmed and who isnt etc , then finance do they calculation and present to the CEO and MD for approval.

if you do it any other way. if any problems happens with LIRS or FIRS you are on ur own. some tax mistakes can be costly and lead to huge fines & penalties because HR is strong headed.

Finance has full responsibility for payroll, HR has partial responsibility
HR advises Finance on payroll info. Shikena, but ultimately it is finance responsibility HR JUST SUPPORTS.

1 Like

Family / Re: How Do I Forgive Him? by bonjoconjo: 8:56am On Oct 25, 2022
Registeredguest:
I'm a lady in my mid- twenties, I got married aged 22, (always wanted to marry early) on the second year of our marriage we were blessed with a baby, parked to our house and things were rosy. I have always been a workaholic due to that I have never lack as a young lady in terms of finance.

I have always helped him in his house projects, might not be much 100k, 50k, 20k when need be. I never siphoned my money to myself, as a young lady I envisioned my pretty little family on my head, (3 children, handsome husband and pretty wife with a fine car living happily)

Now to the main problem,I think it all started when he told me he has seen a genuine plot of land that we should buy it together, I told him no, I want the land all by myself I have money to pay for it, (just want to have something tangible for myself alone) he said no problem.He sent me an account number of the seller I sent 600k to the seller.we did the necessary documents and everyone was happy.

After some weeks, I decided to dig around his phone then I discovered that the account I sent the 600k to, refunded 200k back to my husband, woke him up instantly I demanded for an explanation.he story no make sense. I was heartbroken, for months I was hurt...the two families got involved and settled the issue.money I no see...

Ever since this issue happened,the home has not been peaceful, fighting everyday. I find it so difficult to forgive him. I insult him, he insults me, he broke my phone, I break his door...I was demanded for an apology he says
"I'm his wife, no be today man dey collect him wife money, he say woman go build house for him husband no ear no go hear" those things hurt me more... everyday was fight, I parked out,I went to my sister's place,he didn't call, he didn't reach out.

3 weeks after I parked I discovered I was pregnant,and informed him immediately through text.i stayed at my sister's place for 2 months no word from him... I decide to rent my own place,I rented a place and went to his house to park my remaining stuff,I meet him home,as soon as he sees I came with a truck to park my things he knelt down and started begging me...I was like,na today I commot for your house why now? He say he think say I dey play, he no think say I serious like this,for good two months you didn't say anything why now...with enough dragging I parked my things to my new rented apartment... since the day I park till now this man has not allowed me rest,his family members has been calling me to come back home, his dad came from the village to plead on his behalf.


My dad is insisting I should not go back...I'm now 6 months pregnant ,I need a father in my children's life.im finding it difficult to forgive him,I'm struggling within myself to forgive and trust this man again.

How can I let go of the past and move back with him...I decided to pay him a visit on Friday,he was happy I came,he did everything possible to show me he has changed but that feeling of betrayal and hurt is there.i left there this morning with querrell,I know I started the querrell,but I can't just seem to forgive him.please I need your help and advice on this pressing issue of mine.

No insult please, I have cried enough.



Your major problem is you dont understand that marriage is a union. This is not a relationship, this is a marriage. You are supposed to be your husband's Blanket and cover his shame. Now u come dey shame am cuz he nor get money. If the man has money he will do for you without blinking an eye.

he even begged you, you are feeling like you are more than what you are, on top ordinary 200k o, A man that can still make it and dash u 2 Billion naira when GOD finally answers his prayers.

instead of you to be there for him in trying times, you are busy dealing with him, This is somebody u sleep with o someone u know in and out that he wont betray u no matter what , he is not just a random person on the street that u have no loyalty to.

Men una see why we dont rely on a woman for anything, A woman's money she will shame you, but they knw how to chop our money and feel like it is their birth right, can u imagine this woman. May GOD not give me a wife that will shame me and not cover my shame/

Imagine the man didnt even cheat on u o, he is loyal to you He ate ur money, how much ordinary 200k . and u dey cry. see this wonan
how much of his money have u eaten that he didnt complain nor shame u for?. These women enh. grin grin wahala no dey finish o

1 Like

Rap Battles / Re: Nairaland Battle Rap World Cup 2007 FINALS .QUARTER FINAL MATCHES.. A MUST READ by bonjoconjo: 9:48pm On Dec 30, 2007
wink
Forum Games / Re: Nairaland best Game ever. 1000th Downloader Wins. Check It Out by bonjoconjo: 9:46pm On Dec 30, 2007
explain this well again
Music/Radio / Re: . by bonjoconjo: 9:45pm On Dec 30, 2007
so??i have 2 cars mazda 626 and toyota corolla.so whats the big deal?
Rap Battles / Re: "Star Warz" - Scores To Settle by bonjoconjo: 11:17am On Oct 17, 2007
eyo eyo eyo eyo
bolaji's remix didnt blow up but in a couple of minutes
his stan is going to be blowing naira up in naira (nairaland )
just like market women from idumota squeezing naira into their bellyta, ether
your niggas rap like soludo chewing teeths like the naira plan is for the naira in his pocket
no wads in his wallets just squeezing em into his teresstial initials
your niggas spiitin wolf crying howling like u got bitten by the viper known as puff adder
without asking the president if u can go ahead to diss him
playhating bolaji is like u drank bacardi, then sipping hennesy into your oblongata
words so ill my revenge is laced with venom
.so enormous that it will turn your cerebrum
into the lyrics of an empty cerebrum, much venom
feeling high dissin him is like streamlining your testicles into his ventricles
aids aided by the aides of ministerials snakes known as the puff adder beta
cheddar the beta of a cheese version which is much better in earther
about to be stuffed into your moutha to shut u up the cellar
striking thunder on u all like the wwe nigga called papa shango
better still like mic called mike michael or  michalangelo shallow
halo,   much ado like the shadow of an harlot called jennifer j-lo
sippin shit mixed with faeces which i blend to deface your faces init
mad haters running wild like them niggas going helter skelter
your skirts tied into my shelter like your buretti was in ma buretta
haters
dark vader the vendetta of the rapper known as the dark bj -tar

watch out for bonjoconjo
Music/Radio / Ghetto P : Who Is He ?where Is His Song? by bonjoconjo: 2:01pm On Oct 10, 2007
ghetto p , who is he ?where is his song?
Music/Radio / Sauce Kid Diss Song : I Found It Free Here by bonjoconjo: 1:36pm On Oct 10, 2007
Sports / Download Free Pc Football Game Better Than Winning Eleven Here by bonjoconjo: 1:34pm On Oct 10, 2007
Music/Radio / Whats This Https://ssl.rapidshare.com/cgi-bin/collectorszone.cgi by bonjoconjo: 1:32pm On Oct 10, 2007
Music/Radio / Downloadable Naija Songs Https://ssl.rapidshare.com/cgi-bin/collectorszone.cgi by bonjoconjo: 1:30pm On Oct 10, 2007
Gaming / Get Free Playstation Games For Ur Computer Here by bonjoconjo: 1:18pm On Oct 10, 2007
for free playstation games on ur computer , mail me bonjoconjo@yahoo.com

i will send it to u
Music/Radio / Get Free N1000 Recharge Card By Doing Just This : by bonjoconjo: 1:01pm On Oct 10, 2007
this is how it will work:

post the video of modenine "glo i rule" advert recorded with ur phone
or
post ghetto p diss song to modenine
or
post eedris abdulkareem diss song to 50 cent

and leave ur cellphone number or email addy , i will send the card to ur number and call u to confirm,
dont doubt me cos its real and am dead serious
Music/Radio / Sauce Kid Is Better Than Modenine,ruggedman,freestyle Eldee,2shots All Of Em by bonjoconjo: 12:38pm On Oct 10, 2007
true or false comment pls
Music/Radio / Where Can I Get Eedris Song About 50 Cent ? by bonjoconjo: 11:53am On Oct 10, 2007
where can i get eedris song about 50 cent
Music/Radio / Freestyle Friday Rap Battle In Nigeria: Apply Here by bonjoconjo: 10:47am On Oct 10, 2007
freestyle friday rap battle in nigeria, if u r interested mail bjpumpindogg@yahoo.com to apply now .
Music/Radio / Lets Tell 2face To Relocate To Abuja To Join Us : Isnt Lagos Too Rough: Pls C by bonjoconjo: 10:45am On Oct 10, 2007
LETS TELL 2FACE TO RELOCATE TO ABUJA TO JOIN US , ISNT LAGOS TOO ROUGH, PLS COMMENT,, COS WE LUV THIS NIGGA
Music/Radio / Can Someone Post Saucekid/ Ghetto P Diss To Modenine 4 Me Pls .comment Pls by bonjoconjo: 10:13am On Oct 10, 2007
can someone post saucekid/ ghetto p diss to modenine 4 me pls
Music/Radio / Re: Best Nigerian Song You've Ever Listened To? by bonjoconjo: 10:31am On Oct 06, 2007
sauce kid - kabiyesi diss
sauce kid sanboribobo
sauce kid majjit freestyle
and a video on youtube caled my ohio cousins freestyling , if u want me to send this sogs to you , mail me and request 4 it .my email addy is bjpumpindogg@yahoo.com
brooklyn holla back .its gangsta 4 life , nigga sauce , sk, sssssssssssssss.its naija

(1) (of 1 pages)

(Go Up)

Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health
religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket

Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10)

Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 40
Disclaimer: Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nairaland.