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That's just asking for trouble, The new girlfriend will feel that she has to compete with the ex girlfriend to be the better girlfriend and the ex girlfriend will probably feel you only brought the new girlfriend to make her jealous or to rub it in that you have moved on. Even if both parties are mature and the new girlfriend feels secure in the relationship it still will be very awkward. That's just my opinion though. Go with whatever you feel

You like a girl, she likes you but you don't make a move (i dunno maybe because of fear) would you like it if the girl approached you or would you think of her as desperate? Guys I want to hear from you.

Yes she can. My older brother has married a woman older than he is. At the beginning of their relationship my parents never thought that they were serious so they were against it but over the years they had showed their commitment to each other regardless of what everyone was saying and now my parents are happy about it and they are going strong. Really all that matters is that the woman can submit to the man and that the man can be mature enough to be a husband and father.

Me and this guy are close family friends and we have liked each other ever since we were 12, and now he is 23 and I’m 22. We both knew that we liked one another but never said. We first met 10 years ago but it was the fact that we were in two different states that kept us apart. Three years later we meet again and tell each other that we still feel the same, but mind you we are still apart as he went off to university up north and I'm down south, but he tells me he has a girlfriend (he met her at uni). He has now been with her for 3 years but has recently broken up with her saying he didn’t see them having a future. He’s doing his Master’s degree now in some uni in the west and I’m in my 1st year in a uni down south. A mutual friend asks us both if we still have feelings for each other, we both say yes and he kinda sets us up. I called him and we arranged to meet when we’re less busy. So now we are just messaging each other online. He then says we'll talk again when his life is back on track as in schoolwork free.

I haven't heard from him in weeks and I'm starting to feel like I'm being put on hold. My roommate says I should be more understanding as he has got a lot of schoolwork to do, but I feel that its not the schoolwork but that its he's gone off me.  I then got to find out that he met someone while doing his masters. But whenever we meet up I still get this vibe that he still has feelings for me but that the whole situation is complicated. Is he still interested? Or is it the fact that we are family friends that he doesn't want to mess things up? I dunno what to do cause I love him so much. What do y'all think?

The guy I was seeing had a girlfriend all along. I have now deleted his number, deleted off Facebook and Myspace but he still tries to contact me thru my friends, I'm off men for now mehn!! But I do believe the right one will come in God's time.

I'd like to think of myself as a strong black woman. All I need is a strong black man who has a job and can provide for his family, that's all that matters. One thing I have noticed about us Nigerians is that we love titles. (Dr so so and so, Engineer so so and so) Many of us go into university studying what our parents pressured us into studying and when we do graduate many of us do not even work with our degrees, I think one needs to seriously pray for God's guidence when choosing someone to marry,