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~ Marriage is not the solution to promiscuity

Sexual pleasure is one of the key things in the institution of marriage. God placed sex within the confines of marriage for all legally married. Sex should be for procreation or enjoyment between couples. It's a disaster for someone to decide to marry because of sex or sexual urges.. If you are experiencing promiscuity you need to solve the issue separately. Marriage may not help you . Here are ideas to help you.

#1. Address your problem on its own.. Marriage doesn't solve promiscuity
#2. Marriage could come in part of the process to change your life
#3. Do not marry to satisfy your sexual urges, your partner may not have high libido as you.
#4. Get a therapist to help you fix your sexual issues before you venture in to Marriage
#5. Deal with excess sex desire and work on your hormones
#6. Avoid watching pornography it creates unrealistic expectations of sex
#7. Avoid and get disconnected from all the situations and persons that can stimulate you sexually.

Don't Marry because of sex.. If you do, you will be disappointed because marriage entails more than sexual pleasures..

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~ Why you should Romance and kiss him always

Men are hard, emotional stubborn and naturally too professional.. Many women don't understand this and thats why they can't get their man they want to stay with them... Cooking good meals, is not enough to make a man stay, just sex is not enough , you need to do extra ordinary by been so emotional and tender loving

Men love kiss and romance and the following happens when you always initiate it

#1. They feel more loved and cherished
#2. The love for you will increase
#3. They will give you Quality time because you care and you are lovely to be with
#4. a welcome back kiss from work can make a man forget his sorrow and be happy
#5. That's your will power as a woman to control any man you want to stay where you want
#6. You will get whatever you want from him because you have created atmosphere of intimacy
#7. You make him think more about you than other girlfriends
#8. Level of intimacy will jump up
#9. Fighting and arguments will reduce to zero level
#10. Both of you will feel comfortable to share your mind and thoughts

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Five Tips for Overcoming Performance Anxiety During Sexual Intercourse

1. Confide in your partner. She/he needs reassurance that the
problem is not her or his lack of desirability.

2. Stop thinking of sex as a personal performance. Substitute the word “lovemaking” for sex. In lovemaking, two people give and
receive pleasure in many different ways. A perfect erection is not required.

3. Learn to relax. Study relaxation techniques. Get more exercise. Take up a hobby. Perform volunteer work.

4. Set the mood. Create an ambiance for lovemaking with candles, music, flowers. Focus on the full range of sensual experience: sound, sight, smell, as well as touch.

5. Redefine sex. “Sex” is more than intercourse. It can be any form of stroking, kissing, touching, caressing. Sex is mutual pleasuring. Under this definition, you cannot be a failure as long as
you are willing to give and receive love.

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*Five Tips for Overcoming Performance Anxiety During Sexual Intercourse*

1. Confide in your partner. She/he needs reassurance that the
problem is not her or his lack of desirability.

2. Stop thinking of sex as a personal performance. Substitute the word “lovemaking” for sex. In lovemaking, two people give and
receive pleasure in many different ways. A perfect erection is not required.

3. Learn to relax. Study relaxation techniques. Get more exercise. Take up a hobby. Perform volunteer work.

4. Set the mood. Create an ambiance for lovemaking with candles, music, flowers. Focus on the full range of sensual experience: sound, sight, smell, as well as touch.

5. Redefine sex. “Sex” is more than intercourse. It can be any form of stroking, kissing, touching, caressing. Sex is mutual pleasuring. Under this definition, you cannot be a failure as long as
you are willing to give and receive love.

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If you are not going to be his wife, stop receiving money or gifts from him, it's dangerous to think you are playing smart because the law of karma will caught up with you. It's true some men can go to any length to make you pay back all you have collected Be careful Don't play him, if you don't love him, let him know and do not pretend to in order to gain materials from him that you may ended up regretting later. We all need to be careful of what we are doing in a relationship. Many singles are facing a lot of challenges due to what an Ex did to them and they in pains and emotionally sick for very long period of time. When you break a man's heart you have just awaken the beast in him causing him to hurt a lot of innocent and good ladies too as a result of fear and lack of commitment you introduce him.
Enough is enough. Please have pity on innocent women and and save their marriages by not creating confusion, pains, lack of trust and emotionally sickness for their husbands to be.

#womenstophurtingmen

If you are not going to be his wife, stop receiving money or gifts from him, it's dangerous to think you are playing smart because the law of karma will caught up with you. It's true some men can go to any length to make you pay back all you have collected Be careful Don't play him, if you don't love him, let him know and do not pretend to in order to gain materials from him that you may ended up regretting later. We all need to be careful of what we are doing in a relationship. Many singles are facing a lot of challenges due to what an Ex did to them and they in pains and emotionally sick for very long period of time. When you break a man's heart you have just awaken the beast in him causing him to hurt a lot of innocent and good ladies too as a result of fear and lack of commitment you introduce him.
Enough is enough. Please have pity on innocent women and and save their marriages by not creating confusion, pains, lack of trust and emotionally sickness for their husbands to be.

#womenstophurtingmen

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~ Learn To Say Am Sorry Instead Arguing

There are no perfect relationships or perfect love. It's okay to make mistakes but it's more intelligent to apologize to your partner. Many people don't like to apologize and it's tearing their relationships apart all because they don't want to accept defeat even when they are wrong. This seven letter words ( AM SORRY) can save your relationships from injuries

#1. It saves you from losing your relationship
#2. It helps to boost love and Confidence
#3. It's a stitch in time and it saves nine 9
#4. It saves you from unnecessary regrets and painful conditions
#5. It's a form if acceptance and remorse
#6. It can go along way to heal emotional injuries
#7. If can bring your relationship back to life
#8. It's a way to show you care, but you aren't perfect
#9. It's a form of maturity act
#10. It helps you prevent third-party and the relationship from breaking

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~ How To Resolve Relationship Issues With Love Letters

One of the best ways to release negativity and then communicate in a more loving fashion is to use the LOVE LETTER TECHNIQUES. through writing out your feelings In a particular manner, the negative emotions automatically lessen and positive feeling increase.

1. Write a love letter, expressing your feelings of anger, sadness fear, regrets and love

2. Write a response letter expressing what you want to her from your partner

3. Share your love letter and response letter with your partner.

To do all this steps is a powerful and healing experience for both of you.

~ How To Boost Communication In Marriage

Communication is very important in a relationship and how you communicate with your partner matters a lot. It determines the future of the relationship. Here some tips to help boost your communication skills.

1. Be honest and transparent about your feelings
2. Encounter each other to share what bothering them
3. Affirm your spouse feeling try to see the side of their stories
4. Be kind to your spouse
5. Accept each other's flaws
6. Relationship takes time and work keep trying and retrying
7. Pray for each other and your marriage
8. Work together as a team

Don't play with danger signs... They are warning from God to save your life and your marital life

Never make mistakes of planning marriage when you have not research the family you want to marry. Either through prayers or doing your findings

~ Ten Things Responsible Men Does

Every man should learn the proper way to care for a woman, it's the duty of a man to help or assist, guide, and encourage a woman. whether she is a wife, friend or a stranger a responsible knows the value of a woman.. Here are few tips of what is expected of a responsible man

1. A responsible men show women respect and care
2. Responsible men treats women right
3. Responsible men will displeased themselves to Satisfy a woman
4. Responsible Men are caring, matured and understanding
5. Responsible men are emotional and also understand what women are passing through emotionally
6. A Responsible man don't beat a woman or molest her
7. A responsible will sacrifice for a woman
8. A responsible is always loyal, kind, and loving
9. Responsible men fights for women instead of watch them suffer
10. Responsible men take good care of their wives, friends and family members
11. Responsible men are diligent and they have integrity
12. Responsible men treats a woman like a lady.
13. Responsible men listen instead of arguing with a woman.

When a man treats a woman rights he reaps the benefits. Women are like eggs. They need to be cared for. Make sure you are caring, loving, understanding as a man. Be responsible.

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~ Ten Things Responsible Men Does

Every man should learn the proper way to care for a woman, it's the duty of a man to help or assist, guide, and encourage a woman. whether she is a wife, friend or a stranger a responsible knows the value of a woman.. Here are few tips of what is expected of a responsible man

1. A responsible men show women respect and care
2. Responsible men treats women right
3. Responsible men will displeased themselves to Satisfy a woman
4. Responsible Men are caring, matured and understanding
5. Responsible men are emotional and also understand what women are passing through emotionally
6. A Responsible man don't beat a woman or molest her
7. A responsible will sacrifice for a woman
8. A responsible is always loyal, kind, and loving
9. Responsible men fights for women instead of watch them suffer
10. Responsible men take good care of their wives, friends and family members
11. Responsible men are diligent and they have integrity
12. Responsible men treats a woman like a lady.
13. Responsible men listen instead of arguing with a woman.

When a man treats a woman rights he reaps the benefits. Women are like eggs. They need to cared for. Make sure you are caring, loving, understanding as a man. Be responsible.