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> Love & communication.
> Romance.
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> Child raising.
> How to improve communication skills. and get what you want in your relationship.
> How to communicate difficult feelings in a relationship with love letters.
> How to avoid argument in a relationship/marriage.
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> Questions and answers sessions.

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Question: In a relationship that the parents are not in support, yet they go ahead and contracted the marriage, what can the couple do to gain their Parents consent?

Answer: Since you both have married against your parents’ wishes you need wisdom to deal with the situation. Don’t confront them to force them to accept you, rather use persuasion prayerfully. Keep been nice to them and pray that God will touch their hearts for them to accept the union.

Now that you can't satisfy her, you can never satisfy her, run for your dear life because she is only using your to feel her curiosity and higher demands for sex. When she is done, she dumps you and move to the next person.. Sex drains a man be wise now, before it's too late

»» Why couples should pray together

1. You feel heard.
2. You don't feel you are alone.
3. That's one of the reasons you are married to your spouse.
4. Two heads are better than one for where two or three are gathered. God is in their midst.

A breakup or divorce launches us into uncharted territory. Everything is disrupted: your routine and responsibilities, your home, your relationships with extended family and friends, and even your identity. A breakup brings uncertainty about the future. What will life be like without your partner? Will you find someone else? Will you end up alone? These unknowns often seem worse than an unhappy relationship.

Recovering from a breakup or divorce is difficult. However, it’s important to know (and to keep reminding yourself) that you can will move on.

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Question : Sir, can two believers of the same “AS” genotype marry each other?


Answer: No they will run into problem when one of their children becomes a sickle cell carrier. This future crisis can be avoided. But love makes some lovers blind in the present that their eyes only open when they are in trouble. If they will adopt a child and not have a child of their own then they can marry.

Question? Sir, how can a lady and a guy show true and not a selfish love to each other in a dating relationship? -


Answer: If you both truly love each other, you will be more interested in giving happiness to each other, and you will be less concerned about whether you are receiving much of it. True love cares for the other more than for self. True love says, “I want to listen to your ideas, and care about your problems. I will be gentle and patient with you.” True love wants to give love to the other, and is less interested in whether it is receiving love. True love is the opposite of self- love. Self-love says, “Love me. Think of my needs.” True love says, “I will care for your needs.” Human beings by nature are selfish. But when one person truly loves another, he or she will think mostly of the other’s happiness and less of his or her own and don’t sleep together before marriage as it negate the principle of true love. You have to keep yourself pure. It is not time to kiss and caress each other. Be wise.

For singles who wants to get married, you need to be careful while choosing a life partner. Some people are not marriable that is why you must consider these reasons

1. The unaware addict" (to either food, sex, alcohol, video, games porn, gambling etc.
2. The perceiver deceiver(the big liar)
3. The perceived abuser (in any form of emotional, psychological, physical coercion of sexual abuse, the twister of God's word on the spiritual form etc.
4. The unavailable ' who is less concerned and not connecting in a relationship.
5. The unapologetic narcissist who is obsessed with him/herself.
6. The arrogant one who is so full of him/herself.

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There are many reasons for marriage failure. Below are the key factors that destroys marriages and will continue to destroy as many as possible. To have fruitful and successful marriage you must consider the following factors.

1. Unfaithfulness by either the husband or the wife or both of them.
2. Breakdown in communication.
3. Lack of submissiveness on the part of the wife
4. Denial of sexual pleasure either by the wife or husband
5. Shabbiness especially on the wife's part
6. Interference of third parties e. g in laws, Friends neighbors
7. Bareness
8. Incompatibility
9. Lack of cooperation
10. Comparison - comparing one's marriage with other people's marriage.
11. Financial instability (insecurity) in the home. It is Important that couples have a solid financial plan of how they make their money and spend it.

Dating Advice For Today

In a marriage bound relationship it is not a crime. It is the normal thing for a guy to buy good gifts for his lady. Even a lady can buy gifts for her guy. It is a good thing to do. It helps to build the relationship. When two people are in love they give gifts to each other. Such gifts should benefit the other partner; not worthless gift of ice creams please! However no amount of material or monetary gift should make a lady cheap and give herself sexually to a guy. If he demands sex because he gives gift to you, simply return his gift and keep yourself pure.

Question?? If you meet a guy that is always putting his friends first before you, what do you do?



A number of ladies spend their time and effort trying to get the attention and commitment of guys who they are crazy about despite the fact that these men really have no wish or desire to be with them. Because these guys do not love these ladies the way these ladies love them, they have no regard, consideration or respect for them.
When you think you are in love with a guy who doesn’t love you simply because you feel he is the best thing in pants, you put yourself at a disadvantage. You are going out with him because you would like him to be your future husband. You are in love. I am sorry for you. He is going out with you because he is just having a nice time. He doesn’t see any reason why he shouldn’t leave you waiting endlessly for him at the restaurant you both had arranged to meet on a date because his friends called and he had to be with them. He will hang out with you only when he finds it convenient for him and you will always be last on his list of priorities. Of course, once he had enough of you and he feels he meets someone that trips him, he will dump you. So dear lady, be smart. If he puts his friends first before you it is because he has not found you worth the time, so don’t stress yourself and don’t force yourself on any man. Someone who will celebrate you is on the way.

If you are ready for marriage and it seems as if you are not connecting with the right person, you may need to look inwards and make some changes in your life. The only permanent thing in life is change. Take a look at your lifestyle ;there may be an area in which you need to effect some changes if you want attracts the right kind of man or woman for you and make the relationship work.

1. Change your appearance :
people see who you are before they hear what you have to say. The clothes you wear play a major role in attracting people into your life. You need to change your wardrobe, your clothes however may become a distraction and undermine your values, conveying the wrong messages to people around you.

2. Change your attitudes :
A bad attitudes is a turn off no matter how pretty, handsome successful, educated or rich you may be. This may be the reasons why men in your life come and go. But the good news is that your character can be redefined. You can become more positive and exciting person to be around by reading books and associating with positive people.

3. Change your friends :
Are all your friends singles, unattached and married? Then you need to change some of them. Get close to ladies & guys who have relationships that are going somewhere or you can even get closer to married people. The only advice you can get from a single is how to remain single.

4. Change your job :
Does your job description include traveling all year round, never giving you enough time for settle down and develop a relationship with a man or woman? Does your job give you enough time to socialize and spend time with the people you love? If it doesn't start thinking of another job if you really want to get married.

5. Change your partner :
You are not married. The man has been dating you has not proposed to you. It is high time you looked for someone else. You may think that where will you find another guy like him. If he is a time waister or one of the unserious types who will never commit to you dump him now.

6. Change your social habits :
Go out to where you can meet and mix with people. You must become very visible for him or her to notice. If you are shy, get close to outgoing guys and ladies who will take you to the right social gatherings where you can connect with the right people.

7. Change your vision :
If your vision involves traveling alot or keeping late hours, you may need to modify it a bit to help you connect more easily with the right man or woman for you. If you are not in a relationship, it may be very easy for you to live that way, but for a relationship to succeed, it requires time and commitment from you. If you are never there, how can the relationship work our? You don't have to choose between career and relationship ; you can modify your dream in such way that you have time for your love life to flourish and succeed.

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is it a crime to go into a relationship with a single mother?

It is not a crime as a Christian guy to go into a relationship with a single mother. If she has the child either out of wedlock or from a previous marriage, can you love her and her child the way they are without any strings attached? Are you emotionally mature enough to handle the responsibility of being a stepfather to her child? Hope she is not trying to force your relationship with her to work by all means because she needs a father figure for her child. While you can marry a single mother as a Christian single, it is not to be encouraged if you don’t have a child of your own yet. There are cases where the guy marries such a lady and they never had another child, this later affected the man so much that he developed hatred towards the innocent child of the wife. Yet we also have cases of so many happy men that treat such a child as their own biological one without any discrimination whether they have their own children or not. They take such a child as their own. So it all depends on the man

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What can you do to a guy that does not call but truly loves you and your parent knows and everybody knows and the girl also loves him but she is not happy because the guy doesn’t call? – Anonymous.

Answer: I could imagine how you feel when throughout a week; your boyfriend did not deem it important to call you. Yet you boasted of his love for you. If he truly loves you he will call often no matter how busy he is at work. You claim that your parents and others in the family know that he loves you, how did they know? If he truly loves you, you will be the first person he will call each day to know how you are faring. If he truly loves you, he will always want to see you happy, he will hate to see you disturbed, depressed or upset. You are supposed to be in his mind always; the object of his daydreams and imagination. So tell him how you feel when he does not call. He should not hang out or call you only when he finds it convenient for him and treat you as you are always the last on his list of priorities. Be smart and make your feelings known to him.

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What We Will Do

»»Figure out and define what you need in a partner
»»Realize your strengths and weaknesses when it comes to dating.
»»Build a positive attitude around dating and meeting new people.
»»Discuss ways to meet new people.
»»Discuss how to create, attract and keep the relationship that you want.
»» How to break old habits and create positive onesheal from past relationships to open your heart to new love.
»» Develop dating skills for great dates.


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Question: Should girls date guys with potentials of becoming rich but poor at the moment? -


Answer: Yes, no problem dating a poor guy; he may become a millionaire tomorrow. But let love be the reason for your dating him. You see, every girl want to get married to a rich guy a man that can take care of all her financial needs. Yes, men that can buy her expensive things and treat her like a queen. But unfortunately there are fewer guys with such ability today in the dating dynamics. While there is nothing wrong for girls to date potential rich guys tomorrow, it is important to stress that you don’t date a guy because he is rich or poor, but date him because of love.

Question: How can someone break a non working relationship that has lasted for 7 years? – Anonymous.

Honestly speaking, when did you start the relationship? Was it during your secondary school or you were just friends but not in a marriage bound relationship at all and you never knew it. Has this brother formally proposed to you? What is keeping you from getting married? Is money the problem? Can you afford to add another seven years to your dating relationship and become the 21st century Jacob and Rachael? Please call your guy or lady to define the relationship now? You both are not getting young at all, so do it soon.
To end a non working relationship, you must take the initiative because this guy or lady may have no plans of leaving you. Tell her or him what is on your mind. Don’t be scared, intimidated or threatened by him or her; do what you must or continue to live in torture. Don’t wait for him or her to get tired and get lost because it will never happen. The sooner you both face the inevitable, the happier you will be. Part in peace: If you started off as true friends you will still have the friendship intact, even if the relationship goes away. If you need further assistance whatsapp. 08170399634

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