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*Question : Nowadays all guys feels that if you don’t have sex with them, you don’t love them; so in a relationship is it not right to have sex to prove your love to them? – Anonymous.

Answer: you don’t prove love by having sex with a guy. Sex in a relationship is not right and not a sign of true love. Don’t be deceived by the waves of lust and immorality that make guys to say sex means love. Sleeping with a guy you are dating is not a sign of true love; so you should be well grounded in dating rules and don’t be carried away and lower your defenses to have sex with him. If you do, the possibility that he will dump you thereafter is very strong. He will likely think you are cheap and do the same thing with every other guy too and you are available to any man who is interested. Save sex till after your marriage. Let your guy first be your friend so you can find out if he is truly qualified to become anything more. Let him appreciate your inner beings before he discovers your body after marriage. Movies may cheapen it, trying to make immorality look natural. Sex is the ritual that seals the marriage covenant. You can only seal it after signing the marriage register or a pride price is traditionally and mutually paid on you.

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Question : how can a lady and a guy show true and not a selfish love to each other in a dating relationship? – Anonymous.

Answer: If you both truly love each other, you will be more interested in giving happiness to each other, and you will be less concerned about whether you are receiving much of it. True love cares for the other more than for self. True love says, “I want to listen to your ideas, and care about your problems. I will be gentle and patient with you.” True love wants to give love to the other, and is less interested in whether it is receiving love. True love is the opposite of self- love. Self-love says, “Love me. Think of my needs.” True love says, “I will care for your needs.” Human beings by nature are selfish. But when one person truly loves another, he or she will think mostly of the other’s happiness and less of his or her own and don’t sleep together before marriage as it negate the principle of true love. You have to keep yourself pure.

You do not prepare for wedding, you prepare for marriage." Ladies these days get so motivated when they attend wedding and they will quickly want to say yes to that guy.

Wait!!! It is not just the wedding oh. The wedding is just one day. After the wedding WHAT NEXT?

It is not something you rush to the market and just pick a shoe because you like or can purchase it. Ask questions -Where is this shoe made from? (Background) -What's the size (Values) -How much (His/Her interest) -How long will it last (His/Her Character) -Who made it? (Is she/He of the same faith This is compatibility) -Will it match me? (This is whether he/she love you and will accept you the way you are) for counseling and advice see signature

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Quitters don't win and winners don't quit. Nice effort

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There is no point keeping an unhealthy relationship. After prayer and counsel and the situation still remain the same, then end the relationship. You must consider backing out in a relationship if you both are not going in the same direction in life

Dating Advice For Today..

Before you get overwhelmed with love and head for marriage you should make sure that you are both compatible. Compatibility means that you both agrees in several areas of your lives. The degree to which you agree determine the extent to which your marriage will succeed. Love blinds your eyes to several issues that may destroy your marriage in future the excitement of falling in love most times makes you let down your guard, standard and values. Go through the list and examine of the compatibility
»» Religious compatibility
»» Social compatibility
»» Age differences etc..... For counseling advice add on 08170399634.

Advice For Today.

If you are ready for marriage and it seems as if you are not connecting with the right person, you may need to look inwards and make some changes in your life. The only permanent thing in life is change. Take a look at your lifestyle ;there may be an area in which you need to effect some changes if you want to attract the right kind of man / woman for you and make the relationship work.. For relationship advice add up what'sapp 08170399634

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Nonsense topic. Read your Bible very well and see what God says about marriage. Instead posting assumption content here. Next time use your time creating good content that supports and embrace marriage, so that our community can be reduce of late marriages

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In a relationship, we should not allow friends or other people to cause problems for us. Though we could seek counsel from them, it is not advisable to discuss every little issue of misunderstanding with your friends. Some jealous friends may mis-advice you and could become a potential competitor and may eventually seek the destruction of your relationship. When you have things that disturb you in a relationship seek advice from experienced counselors only. You should hold your relationship accountable to a counselor you both respect and trust; someone who is genuinely interested in your success and can speak to you and ask after the health of your relationship. A third party as a counselor is allowed in a relationship for conflict resolution and issues that disturbs you in the relationship. Not a friend who may misguide you out of jealousy.

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Dating Advice For Today...

The right age for starting a relationship is maturity age. You may be eighteen and not matured yet, though you seem big physically but not financially, emotionally, mentally ripe for a relationship. The ideal motive for starting a relationship is marriage. If it is not defined right from the beginning that it is for marriage, it may end in a heart break.

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