NYSC › Re: Fish Seller Buys A Car As She Completes Her NYSC (photos) by Bostin(m): 1:32pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
Her exaggerated rejoice shows the car comes as a surprise gift and not what she has being labouring or saving for ...Small girl Big God parrol |
Autos › Re: Nissan Micra Painted To Taxi 400k sold by Bostin(m): 7:57am On Jul 12, 2020 |
Fireson: 20k ( serious buyer ) pay 5k |
Romance › Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Bostin(m): 10:17pm On Jul 11, 2020 |
nenelistic: Enjoy you melanin-less slacked pussy with your pencil dick. I don’t need a man to define me but your self worth is obviously defined by the colour of your women. If you need cash, let me know. Brokeass scallywag. Overdose on chill pills, you go Dey alright Sweetheart I need that cash , drop it here and prove him wrong ...0009526152 access bank . |
Autos › Re: Nissan Micra Painted To Taxi 400k sold by Bostin(m): 10:08pm On Jul 11, 2020 |
100k cash |
Family › Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by Bostin(m): 11:36am On Jul 06, 2020 |
The only friend we have is Jesus ,forget every other friends on earth. Worldly friends are the people that can never get tired of you no matter the situations , a true meaning of for better and for worse. True Love is to love the unlovable ...It doesn't exist in this generation ..just live it and leave it .. |
Autos › Re: Sold! Sold!! 2008 Nigerian Used Kia Rio @ 390k by Bostin(m): 8:58pm On Jun 30, 2020 |
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Romance › Re: Nude Birthday Pictures Of a Single Mother And Her Son Right Or Wrong? by Bostin(m): 8:36pm On Jun 30, 2020 |
Its not new to that boy , that is how she has being walking naked at home before him . |
Family › Re: My Bitter Experience by Bostin(op): 8:37pm On Jun 26, 2020 |
jaszplus12: My brother! You should be jumping for joy that she left you especially that she left you before you married her! Had you gone abroad with her she would have finished you completely using foreign laws and you know how they operate over there. Next time, don't look at the "religious outlook" of a woman...look at her character by dating her and getting to know her. As for your daughter, it's just a matter of time before she finds out about her mom, no matter how much lies she's told. Put your acts together and get to work...you have a lot to accomplish. Cheers May God bless you more than you deserve |
Family › Re: My Bitter Experience by Bostin(op): 6:27pm On Jun 26, 2020*. Modified: 8:02pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
seborrhic: I concur with u "in toto". U wud be amazed the length some Nigerians can go to twist a story to suit their narrative. No matter how wonderfully crafted and foolproof a story might sound,always wait to hear the other side. By the other side own narratives,one can even pick out the party that is lying;but with one sided story,it's difficult. For eg,it's possible the Op was the one that assured the girl he wud take her abroad and that was what convinced her or for eg,the lady was sponsoring the Op's Visa processing and house rent or building. These are just instances of possibilities to drive home d point of waiting to hear d other side before rushing to conclusion. Lol ...promise to take her abroad when my mum and siblings are there . She can't foot my bills because she was jobless after she resigned her job in other state to move in with me in my state ..I started building my house before I came down to Nigeria , my mum was in charge ..I even dropped out of my course in but she finished her's and got certificate. I spent on many things at the same time until I was broke before she pick race . |
Family › Re: My Bitter Experience by Bostin(op): 1:43pm On Jun 26, 2020 |
pansophist: First of all, go confirm if the child is even truly yours, since she was desperate for a child and you are not, there is a possibility that she got it elsewhere and wanna cuckold you to father the child.
Secondly, you should be happy that she is not in your life anymore. If the child is yours truly, then go get equal parental rights and be a good father to your child.
Thirdly, hope yoy know that you messed up completely (see martinez39s post). You are the architect of your problems. She is playing the fast game from the beginning, but like many men, you are fooled with romance and not bringing your A game from the start. You failed to lead and get what you want from the relationship.
Lastly and most importantly, do everything you need to do, to be better and not fall into this nonsense anymore. The world is a jungle, no such thing as love. Love without sacrifice is selfishness. She never loved you, she only wanted to secure the bag, and her behaviour was a result of securing the wrong bag. Honestly I'm not that type of a weak man , I was coming from a lonely planet where I lives for more than two years with a girlfriend nor sex . I don't double date neither do I really have time thinking about woman , she left more than two years now and no girlfriend whatsoever in my life ..She just caught me that's all and I blamed myself as well . |
Family › Re: My Bitter Experience by Bostin(op): 8:12am On Jun 26, 2020 |
sexylassie2: the reality is people have control over brokenness, it is like saying people are born to be forever poor, people change their conditions, it has been done many times, dont compare yourself with jesus, jesus was a popular religious leader, he was never broke.
My simple advice, cut your cut according to your size, work hard, save for emergency You can be broke even if you lives in a mansion and ride luxury cars . Brokenness doesn't mean you have nothing , even if you save for the raining days you still can't correctly predict the future . There are some unforseen circumstances and unpredictable crisis like the Covid-19 now , the whole world is broke .. If you won't take mine I take yours , case closed . |
Family › Re: My Bitter Experience by Bostin(op): 7:24am On Jun 26, 2020 |
Graxie: How are you sure you are the father of the child? Please go for DNA. That your monika |
Family › Re: My Bitter Experience by Bostin(op): 7:20am On Jun 26, 2020 |
Ishilove: People don't read. They were never legally married, just cohabiting.
Op people have advised you ( with the exception of a few very senseless comments). Do what you feel is right and going forward always factor God in your life's decisions. Thank you |
Family › Re: My Bitter Experience by Bostin(op): 8:16pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
merieam16: Ehya pele, wont comment until i hear ur baby's mama version
btw, u didnt give enough information abt her, u should av added her name, age,d course she studied, nd d year she graduated, cos d name of d church is nt enough. iranu Why are you so pained sis , if you read between the lines of my story you would see I did not accused her of anything, I got all the information's through the yahoo boyfriend she ran to when she left me. The yahoo guy posted the message on her Facebook page to embarrass her of sleeping with his friend he tested her with and also with the guy who gave her to him to marry. She did not deny it when I sent her the screenshot rather warned me to mind my business as she could f**ck anyone she likes ...I still have her warning text message on my phone . |
Family › Re: My Bitter Experience by Bostin(op): 8:00pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
chukwuibuipob: Soldiers/Military Lol ... I love peace oo bro , I will leave them to God to deal with them . |
Family › Re: My Bitter Experience by Bostin(op): 7:56pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
Omar09: Look bro, forget about them. Your daughter and your wife, you will be alright without them. If you want to fight for them, you will loose. If you want to fight for your daughter alone, you will still loose. Your daughter is not old enough to decide for herself and when she's old enough, what makes you think she will choose you? She will be brainwashed into thinking you are the bigger devil. Until she's old enough, that's when you can try to get your daughter back. But for now, document all the threats from her brother, record your calls any time you call your wife and make sure you request to speak with and see your daughter, obviously she will reject it, save it and back it up to your Google drive. When she's old enough, show her those evidences. Don't also forget to screenshot all your chats with her and her family and back it up to your Google drive. If after you show your daughter (when she's old enough) and she still sees you as a devil, bro move on.
And until she's old enough, look for other countries to migrate to and move on with your life. Do not base it on this girl and your daughter. How do I mean, don't waste your time trying to bring her back or trying to clean the bad name she's given you. It's not your burden but hers. At the fullness of time, she will come to her senses and then it will be too late. Focus on something. If you want to stay back here in Nigeria, fine hustle. Chat emmaodet up for little beginnings he will guide you just like he is guiding me. Also least I forget, save every money you make via child support on your daughter, they are your weapons. In the end she will cry! OK |
Family › Re: My Bitter Experience by Bostin(op): 7:48pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
2special: It's well with you bro...wishing you the best...remain calm and reorganize your life..you will end in praise Amen |
Family › Re: My Bitter Experience by Bostin(op): 7:37pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
sexylassie2: Next time, don't be broke.
Put your life together and work to get a better life for yourself.
She played a fast game on you, since you can't afford the life that she wants, she changed.
Also go check the paternity of the child and confirm if it is yours. Nobody have control over brokenness and failure even Jesus Christ was broke in his entire life on earth, he borrowed donkey to ride and also seek volunteers for food to feed people. Brokenness and failure are part of life as death is for everyone , anyone that is scared of Brokenness is a coward and not ready to learn the true meaning of life and God . Brokenness and failure are the best time to rediscovered yourself for the next journey of life ..Thanks for your advice , I already picked mine between the lines .. |
Family › Re: My Bitter Experience by Bostin(op): 7:12pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
LadySarah: Screenshot and also record ur conversations and take it to welfare.
The question is will you be around to take care of her and not to leave her with your family to turn her to family help? I already have all that , my mum will do the job ..thanks |
Family › Re: My Bitter Experience by Bostin(op): 7:11pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
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Family › My Bitter Experience by Bostin(op): 8:37pm On Jun 24, 2020*. Modified: 7:30am On Jun 28, 2020 |
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Autos › Re: Nissan Quest For Sale In Ibadan by Bostin(m): 9:23am On Jun 24, 2020 |
200k tomorrow |
Autos › Re: Used RAV4 2000 For Sale by Bostin(m): 9:07am On Jun 24, 2020 |
price |
Autos › Re: Sold! Sold!! 2008 Nigerian Used Kia Rio @ 390k by Bostin(m): 3:51pm On Jun 18, 2020 |
jigga2010: Pls call or Whatsapp 08090567007 for any other inquiries. 200k |
Autos › Re: Toyota Camry (fish) For Sale 400k Negotiable by Bostin(m): 8:50am On Jun 18, 2020 |
200k and I pick it today |
Autos › Re: SOLD: Registered 1997 HONDA ACCORD (manual+4plugs+fabric+ac) by Bostin(m): 11:41am On Jun 13, 2020 |
100k I pick it asap |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Three Farm Workers Needed by Bostin(m): 11:29am On Jun 13, 2020 |
Where in Ogun is your Farm located , how is the security and safety of the workers ..What type of farming are you into , manual or mechanised ? |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Drop Your Number And Location, You Might Get A Date by Bostin(m): 11:11am On Jun 13, 2020 |
oloriomolade: Am Amoke based in ogun state, single mom of a beautiful girl, am 34, u can reach me on 07036480867 WhatsApp Play boy should stay off,
Am not here for hook up pls...... Are you in Abeokuta or where in Ogun |
Autos › Re: Toyota Camry (fish) For Sale 400k Negotiable by Bostin(m): 10:57am On Jun 13, 2020 |
250k |
Family › Re: My experience with a lady I thought was different. by Bostin(m): 8:52am On Jun 01, 2020 |
Hathor5: One of the most useless write-ups I have ever read in my entire life. Peele |
Autos › Re: 1999 Honda For Sale by Bostin(m): 8:03pm On May 26, 2020 |
price and location |
Family › Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Bostin(m): 9:56am On May 23, 2020 |
cnonyechi: Brother I said LOVE oo Aunty but it is Money oo , everyone knows |