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Nothing is so special in what she's doing if this was not planned to get pity votes. Travel abroad and see how white men/women are grilling and selling in public open market . Cook/Chef is a global recognised profession. Kudos to her for chosen her business over Olosho, she doesn't deserves any pity votes. note...I never watched the program and I will never do .

The best ways to do it is to always preach against unlawful earning in the Church and make it cleared that tithes from such earning are not acceptable by God. Also it should be placed on Church Notice board boldly that tithes from non born again are not accepted by God . I bet you , most pastors can't do this because their income and gifts will drop drastically.

Amotekun777:
Professor Soyinka... una wellu donu!

change "is" to it yourself , I was in hurry to give you back your request ...enjoy it Mr Amotekun

Amotekun777:
..and how's that any of ur business?

Does is pained you ? Pele

It is called Derived Demand in Economics . One needs deserves other .

That lady has his child/ren ,they are not telling us that

Uyi168:
From deeper life to olosho..

You say wat ?? Loool

emmaoanidu:
This is beautiful. Will call you.

Thanks for calling...we won't disappoint you. Keep Calls coming .

Get your

NSA zone

Longbean11:
What's her reason for her not to be with the two men? Ask questions b4 u put ur head

He should investigate himself

Her exaggerated rejoice shows the car comes as a surprise gift and not what she has being labouring or saving for ...Small girl Big God parrol

Fireson:
20k ( serious buyer )

pay 5k

nenelistic:
Enjoy you melanin-less slacked pussy with your pencil dick. I don’t need a man to define me but your self worth is obviously defined by the colour of your women. If you need cash, let me know. Brokeass scallywag. Overdose on chill pills, you go Dey alright

Sweetheart I need that cash , drop it here and prove him wrong ...0009526152 access bank .

100k cash

The only friend we have is Jesus ,forget every other friends on earth. Worldly friends are the people that can never get tired of you no matter the situations , a true meaning of for better and for worse. True Love is to love the unlovable ...It doesn't exist in this generation ..just live it and leave it ..

jigga2010:
Still available

200k

Its not new to that boy , that is how she has being walking naked at home before him .

jaszplus12:
My brother! You should be jumping for joy that she left you especially that she left you before you married her! Had you gone abroad with her she would have finished you completely using foreign laws and you know how they operate over there.
Next time, don't look at the "religious outlook" of a woman...look at her character by dating her and getting to know her.
As for your daughter, it's just a matter of time before she finds out about her mom, no matter how much lies she's told. Put your acts together and get to work...you have a lot to accomplish. Cheers

May God bless you more than you deserve

seborrhic:
I concur with u "in toto".
U wud be amazed the length some Nigerians can go to twist a story to suit their narrative.
No matter how wonderfully crafted and foolproof a story might sound,always wait to hear the other side.
By the other side own narratives,one can even pick out the party that is lying;but with one sided story,it's difficult.
For eg,it's possible the Op was the one that assured the girl he wud take her abroad and that was what convinced her or for eg,the lady was sponsoring the Op's Visa processing and house rent or building.
These are just instances of possibilities to drive home d point of waiting to hear d other side before rushing to conclusion.

Lol ...promise to take her abroad when my mum and siblings are there . She can't foot my bills because she was jobless after she resigned her job in other state to move in with me in my state ..I started building my house before I came down to Nigeria , my mum was in charge ..I even dropped out of my course in but she finished her's and got certificate. I spent on many things at the same time until I was broke before she pick race .

pansophist:
First of all, go confirm if the child is even truly yours, since she was desperate for a child and you are not, there is a possibility that she got it elsewhere and wanna cuckold you to father the child.

Secondly, you should be happy that she is not in your life anymore. If the child is yours truly, then go get equal parental rights and be a good father to your child.

Thirdly, hope yoy know that you messed up completely (see martinez39s post). You are the architect of your problems. She is playing the fast game from the beginning, but like many men, you are fooled with romance and not bringing your A game from the start. You failed to lead and get what you want from the relationship.

Lastly and most importantly, do everything you need to do, to be better and not fall into this nonsense anymore. The world is a jungle, no such thing as love. Love without sacrifice is selfishness. She never loved you, she only wanted to secure the bag, and her behaviour was a result of securing the wrong bag.

Honestly I'm not that type of a weak man , I was coming from a lonely planet where I lives for more than two years with a girlfriend nor sex . I don't double date neither do I really have time thinking about woman , she left more than two years now and no girlfriend whatsoever in my life ..She just caught me that's all and I blamed myself as well .

sexylassie2:
the reality is people have control over brokenness, it is like saying people are born to be forever poor, people change their conditions, it has been done many times, dont compare yourself with jesus, jesus was a popular religious leader, he was never broke.

My simple advice, cut your cut according to your size, work hard, save for emergency

You can be broke even if you lives in a mansion and ride luxury cars . Brokenness doesn't mean you have nothing , even if you save for the raining days you still can't correctly predict the future . There are some unforseen circumstances and unpredictable crisis like the Covid-19 now , the whole world is broke .. If you won't take mine I take yours , case closed .

Graxie:
How are you sure you are the father of the child? Please go for DNA.

That your monika

Ishilove:
People don't read. They were never legally married, just cohabiting.

Op people have advised you ( with the exception of a few very senseless comments). Do what you feel is right and going forward always factor God in your life's decisions.

Thank you

merieam16:
Ehya pele, wont comment until i hear ur baby's mama version


btw, u didnt give enough information abt her, u should av added her name, age,d course she studied, nd d year she graduated, cos d name of d church is nt enough. iranu

Why are you so pained sis , if you read between the lines of my story you would see I did not accused her of anything, I got all the information's through the yahoo boyfriend she ran to when she left me. The yahoo guy posted the message on her Facebook page to embarrass her of sleeping with his friend he tested her with and also with the guy who gave her to him to marry. She did not deny it when I sent her the screenshot rather warned me to mind my business as she could f**ck anyone she likes ...I still have her warning text message on my phone .

chukwuibuipob:
Soldiers/Military

Lol ... I love peace oo bro , I will leave them to God to deal with them .

Omar09:
Look bro, forget about them. Your daughter and your wife, you will be alright without them. If you want to fight for them, you will loose. If you want to fight for your daughter alone, you will still loose. Your daughter is not old enough to decide for herself and when she's old enough, what makes you think she will choose you? She will be brainwashed into thinking you are the bigger devil. Until she's old enough, that's when you can try to get your daughter back. But for now, document all the threats from her brother, record your calls any time you call your wife and make sure you request to speak with and see your daughter, obviously she will reject it, save it and back it up to your Google drive. When she's old enough, show her those evidences. Don't also forget to screenshot all your chats with her and her family and back it up to your Google drive. If after you show your daughter (when she's old enough) and she still sees you as a devil, bro move on.

And until she's old enough, look for other countries to migrate to and move on with your life. Do not base it on this girl and your daughter. How do I mean, don't waste your time trying to bring her back or trying to clean the bad name she's given you. It's not your burden but hers. At the fullness of time, she will come to her senses and then it will be too late. Focus on something. If you want to stay back here in Nigeria, fine hustle. Chat emmaodet up for little beginnings he will guide you just like he is guiding me. Also least I forget, save every money you make via child support on your daughter, they are your weapons. In the end she will cry!

OK

2special:
It's well with you bro...wishing you the best...remain calm and reorganize your life..you will end in praise

Amen

sexylassie2:
Next time, don't be broke.

Put your life together and work to get a better life for yourself.

She played a fast game on you, since you can't afford the life that she wants, she changed.

Also go check the paternity of the child and confirm if it is yours.

Nobody have control over brokenness and failure even Jesus Christ was broke in his entire life on earth, he borrowed donkey to ride and also seek volunteers for food to feed people. Brokenness and failure are part of life as death is for everyone , anyone that is scared of Brokenness is a coward and not ready to learn the true meaning of life and God . Brokenness and failure are the best time to rediscovered yourself for the next journey of life ..Thanks for your advice , I already picked mine between the lines ..

LadySarah:
Screenshot and also record ur conversations and take it to welfare.

The question is will you be around to take care of her and not to leave her with your family to turn her to family help?

I already have all that , my mum will do the job ..thanks

chukwuibuipob:
I guess u are a gentle that’s why some lowlife Dey threaten to kill u,.If u can’t fight back,report dem NOT to police but Pythons .And congrats!God just delivered u from dat jezebel girl.Gather itself together and move on.

Thanks bro but who are the Pythons

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