This thing we are talking about can actually be a problem most especially when your in-laws dont really like the idea, what about when you dont understand each others language? Then you both speak your languages with members of your family when they come visiting or what? Another tower of Babel.

This is really very interesting, getting to hear the views of the two sexes involved. but one thing i know is that for a relationship to be healthy, then the sex factor must be out because what sex does in a relationship is to cloud your judgement about the person you are involved with. In situations where you are supposed to ask questions and notice things that might not be so right, your mind is busy thinking about what should be left for later. I bet a great deal of self control is needed here for a relationship to be healthy.

No, the ladies dont search, as the saying goes, he who finds a wife... the guys will have to search to find, while the ladies wait to be found.

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