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Larryfly:
Stop asking girls for rship like an animal. When you spot a girl, study her befriend her first for sometime before you launch your attack. Your study might even show you that she is not your kinda girl or that she might reject you. Most guys just hurriedly ask a girl out after two days of his and hello. No be every girl dey cheap o

you are right, take your time, but not too much time

Somethings don't need the religious views before judging them. Can you go for a corporate interview with a dreadlocks? What will you call a pastor with Galas hairstyle or an Imam with his hair weaved? Looking responsible is a moral obligation. So you judge

remotecontrol:
My dear I need settle down . the lady is beautiful and down to earth. Good character only the sex part is her problem. I was thinking if I marry her I will satisfy her then she willnt have anyreason

one thing you forgot to take into consideration was your partner's feelings, she is human too. Maybe you guys are not made for each other. Just move on

I guess you shouldn't have taken her back the second time. Just move on bro. How you overcome sexual temptations, that; I don't know. But keep it up

Feelings of romantic rejection can be painful and embarrassing, but they shouldn't cripple an otherwise healthy love life. Being rejected occasionally is bound to happen, no matter how cool or good-looking you are. Dealing properly with rejection can get you back into the dating
game in no time.Dealing with rejection starts right from your preparations to asking her out.


PREPARING TO ASK HER OUT


1. Know that rejection is a common reality. If you want to get dates, you'll need to ask ladies out. If you ask ladies out, you'll eventually be rejected. It's a simple fact - rejection is a near-unavoidable part of the dating process

2. Temper your expectations. Remember that you aren't entitled to a "yes" response. You are however entitled to politeness and civility, provided you extend your crush the same entitlements

3. Avoid infatuation. No one is perfect, but it's hard to remember this if you have suffer from infatuation (commonly called "puppy love." Constructing an ideal version of someone before you know them well is a sure-fire path to disappointment. If you're rejected, it will be crushing, and if you get the date, she won't live up to your impossible expectations. Remember that everyone, no matter how attractive, has faults. This will make it easier to work up the courage to ask her out and it will make a potential rejection much less painful.

4. Remember that your crush is a human being. If a girl asked you out and you rejected her, would it be an indication that you hated her? Probably not. Like men, women have complex emotions. A rejection might not be an indication that she doesn't like you - it might
simply be an indication that she was having a bad day. Always remember that the object of your affections is a living, breathing, feeling human like you.

5. Leave yourself other social options. Maintain your friendships. Rejections are easier to deal with if you have friends to fall back on. If you're single, it's also perfectly acceptable to harbor more than one crush at once. This way, if one lady rejects you, you'll still be able to
pursue others.

MOVING ON AFTER REJECTION

1. Realize that rejection is not a personal indictment. In most cases, rejection isn't a judgement of your character. If a lady decides she doesn't want to date you, it doesn't mean she dislikes you or even finds you unattractive. Every instance of rejection is different, but the
common thread is that "you" are not rejected. Rather, your request to date is

2. Accept lingering awkwardness. If your crush is someone you see regularly, it's normal (but not inevitable) to experience residual awkwardness after a rejection. With time, nerves can cool and normal friendship can resume. Awkwardness can take the form of:
Silences
Avoidance
Irritation
Unnatural, overly-friendly behavior

3. Occupy yourself with other people. A rejection can be a blessing in disguise if it motivates you to find happiness in other people's company. Take the opportunity to pursue social avenues you normally wouldn't. Spend quality time with friends. Ask a different crush out. Go on
a blind date. Positive interactions with other people are scientifically proven to raise our happiness, so seek them out.

4. Focus on your personal aspirations. After heartbreak, it can be rewarding to devote time to improving yourself and pursuing your interests. Over time, you will become more attractive and naturally meet people who like the same things as you.

5. Consider trying again - in due time. One rejection doesn't necessarily mean dating someone is impossible in the future. Before asking again, however, it's best to consider your options. Allow time for circumstances to change before asking again.

ADD YOURS

References

http://christiehartman.com/why-rejection-can-be-a-good-thing/
http://www.succeedsocially.com/handlingrejection
http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-attraction-doctor/201107/dealing-rejection-part-1-handling-others-rejecting-behavior
http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-attraction-doctor/201107/dealing-rejection-part-1-handling-others-rejecting-behavior
http://www.dumblittleman.com/2013/01/7-effective-ways-to-deal-with-rejection.html
http://www.xojane.com/issues/how-i-crawled-out-of-post-break-up-depression-by-dating-myself

cc lalasticlala, mynd44, Dominique,

kinglekan:


I dey here oooo!

as I no see your breaklight for 2 days, I been dey think say you don finally quit

Mhizkel:
I refuse your proposal In Jesus Name. (Amen)

c'mon this ain't a proposal, just doing ma job... wristbangle, abeg come talk to your client. And you miLady you won't regret my service

wristbangle:
Oya. Do the needful

oya mhizkel, bangle said you need serious pumping, he asked me to do it..., kindly let me help if you don't mind

wristbangle:
Leme get a vulcanizer to pump u then.

*calling mustapha in loud voice* maa bo oo!

Wa pump ara binrin kekeyi

How can you call kabiru to pump her.. m a vulcaniser now.., lemme pump her oga

Played with and against footballers who use the drug before a match. It's useless, its just like petrol and fire, burns rapidly and the residue is always ash...

prettythicksme:
Just wnt to knw

sorry you can't..

Dragon blade.....

prettythicksme:
what?

I av forgotten why do you want to know sef?

prettythicksme:
I love Jesus

that's good... At least I know one thing bou you now...

prettythicksme:
who is bros jay?

so you wanna deny Bros J? Anyway, Bros J is Jesus

prettythicksme:
lol ok

smh chai its good sha. Just don't make me wait till Bros Jay show up

prettythicksme:
U wnt me to really do this?

seems playing me is what comes into your mind.. it's go on.. I have the time

prettythicksme:
oh really?

yeah, Buh don't bore me so go on

prettythicksme:
Dunno pwhat to tell u!

start from somewhere including irrelevances, just tell me any thing that pops Into your mind...

Every guy wants an intelligent lady but not every guy deserves one. This, my guy, is not an intelligent act.,

prettythicksme:
what do wnt to knw about me?

she don finally get my time... you definitely are not expecting me to list them out again right? So you tell me all you can tell here.

Baba wet dey the bobo stage yii sha... the dude far me reloading even tho e no make sense

Choi.. make I just dey watch in HD.. where kinglekan sef?

Good write up brother.. always coming late

prettythicksme:
hehehehehehe dunno but go ahead and ask ur questions!

No, I need to be sure and its not an interview, thus should be an Interactive session... so watcha say?

prettythicksme:
Nice to hear dat but wait,what shall we resume?

you just like to dey wahala me.. anyways I like your flows too.. no lies tonight o. Will you disclose those infos here?

Evening here

prettythicksme:
hehehehehehe,my day is moving smootly&urs?

dat was ok, BPL made my day, coupled with other things sha. So shall we resume?

Gurgle:
An elderly advice, thanks

h[s][/s] lol, uwc

Gurgle:
Looooool don't want those kind of yeye suitors

lol, yeye suitors that may end up getting married to you.. You don't chase them away dear... no one knows tomorrow

prettythicksme:
I am fine&u?

m good too.. m sure you are having a great day.. see what you turned my 'good morning' into now...