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kkins25:
At bolded, what's that though?

Another case of "I don't have money, so, I'm a nobody"

you're weirdly funny

Persephone1:
If the lady isn't giving Op issues or demanding anything then Op should work on his insecurity and enjoy his blessing.

If she is doing otherwise,he should let her go.

I'll work on myself more so I can drop better thanks man

AllBlack:
Your brain has come to SELF REALIZATION and is trying to save you from embarrassing situations but you are still thinking of love.
cutting her off will be the best thing you will do
it will pinch you but it is better than SEE FINISH.

I'll let it flow let her decide for herself , am just thinking ahead of time so I don't hurt myself in the process too, I'll reason with her and if she still doesn't mind then we keep sailing

talented321:
Brabie ...
Open up to her if u are too insecured but don't talk about breakup, if she want to stay she will and if she don't want to stay she will leave, it is choice...
You can also convince her to plan with u but nigerian girl can't be trusted...
My God bless hustle' my man....

I'll put it into consideration will think about it thanks alot

Karleb:
You no get sense.

You are not her papa. Let her determine if you are not financially fit for her.

Worse is, she might end up with someone worse than you if you leave her.

I didn't understand the "she might end up with someone worse than me" how?

Persephone1:
If the lady isn't giving Op issues or demanding anything then Op should work on his insecurity and enjoy his blessing.

If she is doing otherwise,he should let her go.

thank you so much I just needed to be sure am not making a wrong decision, if she wasn't a good person or if I haven't seen some firm qualities in her I wouldn't be here saying all this
Appreciate your advice thank you

Persephone1:
The truth is Nigerian women aren't materialistic, Nigerian men are the ones given to Materialism. Here is a very good justification for this notion.

Op is with a lady who chose him irrespective of his financial ability unfortunately Op is not only insecure about his inability to provide material things rather he is also finding faults and attributing few humane reactions to his inability to Provide.

There's this question that has been left unanswered for years till date. It is "As a Nigerian man how do you handle a relationship with an independent lady?" .

Now we have a poster who wants to leave his understanding and not demanding girlfriend because can't buy her things And to top it he thinks he needs to pause the relationship and go hustle

you're completely right on this, that's exactly how I feel. Hmm

jeromestarks:
She didn't train you well. You're her mistake.

Guys that spend on pvssies have what to spend and they don't do more than their power.
My friend don't "take care" of his girl. He only buys suya and some drinks for her whenever she visits and he needs to fvck not you who want to pay house rent, send monthly upkeep, buy data, recharge her line, buy phone, give her t.p etc. Is she fatherless? Is she motherless? Is she a virgin?

As you're trying to maintain her while your stupid mother who opened her legs to be fvcked for your sake has not received Koko from you, another guy is drilling that pretender you called girlfriend.

The truth is, after you must have suffered for her, it's another man who will marry her. Not you.
Again, your mother is stupid for not telling about pvssies. She's foolish for raising you a simp.
All your foolishness is her fault. Her fault alone. So, I don't blame you. I blame the useless woman who gave birth to you.

I don't have to go on with you, your just a sad Human being, keep on going with this mindset and I promise you, you'll end up lonely and miserable.
Every girl you meet was once with a guy that took care of her, I don't think you are married, or even in a relationship cause no one in a relationship talks like this, you were not loved at all, everyone will disappoint you at a time in your life, be it family,friends or lover, but you enjoy it while it last, wether I marry her or not I don't care, it's life. It is what it is. If you don't believe in love or companionship that's your problems , if you come from a home where both of your parents are still together in love you'll understand but I think you're from a broken home that's why you don't understand love and care. I pray you find peace in life.

jeromestarks:
He is one of those small stupid street boys who still feel they need to provide for a girl they're not married to.

The idiotic op was trained by a foolish mother who didn't tell him that when dating a pvssy, you are not responsible for her wellbeing. Her father is.

it's your mother who is foolish, what does my mother have to do with this now, alot of guys who says " woman no fit make me spend on her cause of pvssy and bla bla bla are the people who even spend on it the most, you guys just lie alot

Fahvvy:
Hahhahahahah ...
OP!!!!! You just want to put yourself under unnecessary pressure ...

Please where exactly is it written that a man must do all the above for his girlfriend? Cause I must have missed the memo ...

I get the whole idea of wanting to do nice things for your babe and all, but OP if e no dey, e no dey, no go kill yourself for woman wey fit leave you even if you give am heaven and earth ...

And look at it this way, if she is already giving you attitude (aka disrespecting you) because of some fairy tale expectations, shouldn't that be a pointer of what could happen in future? ...

Do you really want to be with someone who respects you only on the basis of what you can give? Is that the kind of person you want to build your life with? ...

And besides, does she buy you stuff? ...
Take you out on dates? ...

I'm guessing the answer is NO! And guess what?! She prolly isn't even bothered about doing all these things, so why bother yourself? ...

Or you think because you don't have much now, it means she's doing you a favor by dating you? Lmao ...

OP...
As long as you're nice to her and giving her your best, that's all that matters, if she wants to go, LET HER GO!! ...

you're right I'll thread more carefully and do my possible best

yrhuhfy113:
you can build with her right?

must you throw away the baby and the bathe water?

hmm I get it thanks alot I appreciate 🙏

yrhuhfy113:
You knew you were not financially capable before you wasted her time.... YOU SLEPT WITH HER O,

now you are done using her and your eyes is clear.... YOU WANT TO QUIETLY LET HER GO.... so she will now become one of your FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS...


HUMAN NATURE is wicked.


THERE IS NO WAY YOU CAN DEFEND THIS.......... NO EVIDENCE.... you can not say, YOU JUST SUDDENLY REALIZED THAT YOU WERE NOT FINANCIALLY STRONG.


You can't eat your cake and have it

if you hurt her, things may go worse for you..... SHE WILL START DATING GUYS FOR MONEY AND CURSE YOU FROM HER HEART....


YOU CAN DECEIVE OTHERS but the truth is glaring.... YOU CHOP AM... you clean mouth.... NOW YOU ARE SAYING SOMETHING ELSE.

I feel really bad, tell me how I should go about it, am already starting to work on myself but I don't know how long it will take before I start yielding the fruits of my labour and will she still be around because I really want her to be the person that enjoys it

What do I do now you seem to really get this well

garriAndsugar:
she should manage with you

how do I explain it to her, how do you tell someone to manage with you

Fahvvy:
OP sir...

Can you please explain what you mean when you say "I'm not doing what a boyfriend is supposed to be doing" ...

what I meant is, like buying her stuffs, taking her out on dates, and so on you know the normal relationship stuffs

I've been thinking about it for a while now and I don't want to spoil it.
I've been dating my girlfriend for a couple of months now and everything is going fine she is a nice person, kind and cool.
But for me am not yet financially strong enough to do what a bf is suppose to be doing, she's not complaining but I can see it in some of her attitudes towards me, I was thinking of telling her I want us to cut it off, more like taking a break off all this love stuffs so I can really work on myself and start doing what am supposed to be doing as her bf.

I want to tell her that "I still love her and want her but I can't be with her like this anymore because it hurts me so much, that am not able to do stuffs for her, I know eventually she might start to see other guys, I don't want it to get to that so pls guys help me out

WHAT SHOULD I REALLY DO OR SAY TO HER

I still want to be with her but not in my current condition now

samfelly:
Ayenekami, Brabie, this is the only link (above) that I'll say you should concentrate ur will power on. Since you need money and a prop firm account, you have it 2-in-1 in that competition, make it count.

Register today and wait for July 1st when it will kick off

thanks man @samfelly I've registered too

samfelly:
let me see how I can advice him

pls sir @samfelly am here sir I need your help man

samfelly:
let me see how I can advice him

pls sir am patiently waiting too pls thanks so much

dottozil:
There are allot of challenges out there that are free, you don't need a penny to start just pass there evaluation stage and you will get a challenge account, you can tag @samfelly to drop there links

is he here on Nairaland, how do I get to him pls sir I really need it cause I don't have the money to purchase MFF evaluation account

Feshizzy:
Do prop competition.

Pls which prop competition is that I am really interested in it pls how can I get it and start up pls

dottozil:
People should help you up with $50 , lol this guy funny

Can you help me out with a challenge I can trade like Evaluation and trade,
Am only asking that's all, am sorry if I've offended anyone

rainlover:
Meshpips wouldn't let us rest. How many moniker only u get?

you can video call me to see pls, I just want to get a prop firm from MFF Even if it's the $5000 account I can get pls, if there is any information you want to verify let me know and I'll provide. Anything you wanna know so you can believe me

Geovanni412:
Prop firm is the equivalent of trading with 10 percent of your capital as risk

If you start with a prop firm, their drawdown is 5-10 percent and profit is 10-20 percent

That means with a risk of 1 percent, you cannot have more than 5-10 consecutive losses and you lose all the money you invested

Since you don't have prop firm money, take the money you have...find a broker who will give you a cent acct in naira or dollars for you to use such as fxtm

Risk 10 percent of that capital and try and withdraw every day till you hit your capital target.

If you find it difficult hitting that target, then you probably were not ready for the prop firm in the first place.

I understand how prop firm works sir the daily and overall drawdown and everything, I just need a little capital to trade up and buy a prop firm that's why am asking for $50 that's (37k) to fund my account and trade. I know how to trade sir and I know I can do it, prop firm is the only way I can be a successful and profitable trader sir.
All I need is $50 sir Pls

Hello everyone and good day to you all.
I would love to also start trading the prop firm, been trying to save up for it but it hasn't been easy, pls is there a challenge I can trade and make profits from so I can purchase a propfirm.
Don't have capital for it.
Pls anyone here who can help a brother out with $50 so I can trade it up carefully and purchase a prop firm pls Guys

Below is my number
09153133572 both call and WhatsApp
I stay in akwa ibom state, Uyo
Pls kindly reach out pls my life depends on this