Plain and simple cheating.......The best part is that it's subconscious so their mind is on autopilot(mistake my ass). Why most people don't get caught is because they use babe or dear.

Doesn't work, just accept the fact that you bf/gf is fucking someone else. If you can get used to that idea then it can work.

Otherwise you're just fooling yourself. Men and women are the same when it comes to SEX, both want and need it. It's just something you have to get used to. Even if you break it off with them just know that the next person you meet could have done the same thing and if put in the right circumstance will do the same thing.

Wish I had read this before because my gf year is about to finish and some things have come to my attention. All women/men are the same doesn't matter how much they try and convince you otherwise.