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BaddieFreak:
How does it matter?

If you are from the Eastern part of the country, u will have to relocate to get things done properly.
It might sound odd... You will get things back on track once you are able to serve them. The funniest part of it is that, they are also looking out for people to keep their company.

BaddieFreak:
I am currently in Lagos

Are u a Yoruba or Igbo?

BaddieFreak:
I am in my late 20s and I have older relatives from my mother's side but we don't relate that much. We only talk when it is necessary, I don't really vibe with them that much, I guess I am more of a loner. But I have a elderly boss, he is older than I do, he gives me elderly advice when I need it.

I guess you are the introvert type then. For now, you will need to change the age of people you relate with as in your friends. 1 to 3 people should get you a positive result. 2 males and 1 female like within the range of Senior citizens age.
Where are you based?

BaddieFreak:
70years old? Lol no. I don't . I only go out with my peers,why?

Are u in your late 20's? You need to adopt a father figure for now. If not, u might end up having hatred for all male species. Do u have any elderly homes around you?

BaddieFreak:
I don't know if it is possible to find him, I have tried. My mom said he doesn't know his whereabouts.
I have no father figure. I grew up with my step dad and I can't even call him a father figure. He is a beast.

I read your post recently especially the one you treated your step-dad Bleep up with 2 soldiers. Well, u did a good job for your mom and yourself.
Now, it is time to heal yourself.
Do you socialize with old people like 70 yrs and above?

BaddieFreak:
I don't know if he is alive or not. My mom said he left her while she was pregnant for him. I never got to see him

Try and reach out to him. You really missed the "Fatherhood" phase while growing up. Had it been he was there; he would have done everything possible to protect you. Do u have anyone around you who serves as a "father figure"?

BaddieFreak:
Yes, I once googled the phobia I am suffering from Androphobia. Psychologist? I don't even know if such thing works, I don't believe in them.

Androphobia... Fear of men!!!
It does only if go through the right therapy. Sorry to ask this funny question.
What about your dad? Is he still alive?

BaddieFreak:
I was molested as a kid when I was six by a grown man 45-50 years. Before that incident, my father had left my mom when she was pregnant with me.

So I grew up without a father. I only grew up with my step dad who also harrased me sexually and regularly beat my mom to stupor. I got disgusted by any male, regardless of their age, after that. When I was in secondary school, a boy had a crush on me and confessed, and I hated him for that.

Anyone who confessed his love to me would disgust me. As I grew older and reached my teenage years, my friends would start talking about boys, and I would get left out since the topic wouldn’t interest me and I would walk out of the conversation.

As time passed, my desire to be in a relationship grew, but I couldn’t find a stunning guy I’d like to be involved with.

So I tried to start a relationship with men. I met this entrepreneur who made a decent living, had a 10/10 personality, is accepting, loving, responsible, initiative, young, rich, works out, has a six-pack, eats healthy food, travels but I couldn't feel any thing for him so I left.

I met another guy like that. He was arrogant and proud and was used to women chasing after him. I liked his carefree personality but disliked his irresponsible ways. He was more like a typical hooligan, too immature and irresponsible.

Even though I liked him, I decided that I wouldn’t date him since I thought being in a relationship would force me to be vulnerable and I wasn’t ready to be vulnerable with anyone, so I left him.

I met one or two handsome guys who were extremely rude and arrogant, self-centered, and expect the world to revolve around them. I immediately dismissed them.


I am surprised by women who fall in love with every single guy they meet all the time. Does anyone have a similar experience? How do you treat my case?

You need to see a Psychologist. To me, u are currently experiencing a form of phobia.

[quote author=naptu2 post=97156823][/quote]Check "Dog eat Dog", though he was unable to complete it.

Liposure:
my mistake. That james brown song was da bomb. I listen to it growing up

Unfortunately, the real bomb maker wasn't given the credit.

Liposure:
i heard its orlando owo

I heard it was Orlando Julius. He was the Original composer of I feel good by James Brown.

[quote author=naptu2 post=97154789]Brilliance, humour and logic from beautiful madness. That's one of the things I loved about him.

From "Movement Against Second Slavery" (MASS), this is Alhaji Alhaji (Stranger).

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The Intro was dope.

He be like Robbery
Soldiers no be president.
Armed robbers go come ur house
chop all your foods
Bleep all your wives
take all your money
......

QuietHammer:
What do you know about poly rhythm? What do you know about bitonality?

The Poly rhythm reminds me of the "Zombie" track. Noise lacks direction but The Zombie song get correct direction no be small.
More so, It is rare to see a musician compose a song using two "bass". Only a genius can do that and that musical genius is Fela.

Godwin Isenyo, Kaduna
Officials, members of the Coalition of Northern Group, security experts as well as other participants on Monday, narrowly escaped death as thugs invaded the venue of the security summit in Kaduna State .
The security summit organized by the CNG was starting at the Arewa House Auditorium , Kaduna the state capital when the armed thugs in their hundreds invaded the place.
The Summit aimed to discuss ways to achieve synergy between communities and government security and design a uniform approach to the current security situation in the North .
Participants at the meeting included retired military officers, retired police officers , religious leaders , traditional rulers, various women, youth and trade associations .
The meeting was coming on the heels of the abduction of students of Government Science Secondary School , Kankara in Katsina State and other communities in the north .
It was gathered that as the meeting kicked off , the thugs armed with dangerous weapons stormed the auditorium and unleashed terror on participants and guests at the meeting.
Scores of people who gathered at the venue immediately took to their heels , some jumping through the windows .
Reacting to the development , the CNG ’s Spokesperson , Abdul- Azeez Suleiman , in a statement condemned the action of the armed thugs .
In a statement titled ‘How sponsored thugs invaded CNG meeting, ’ the CNG spokesperson wondered how armed thugs would freely move in the state capital without the intervention of security operatives .
He said , “ We regret to announce that armed thugs numbering hundreds were unleashed on the Arewa House venue of the security summit hosted by the Coalition of Northern Groups on Monday, December 14.
“ Just as the meeting was kicking off , sponsored armed thugs stormed the auditorium after subduing the civil guards at the gate .
“ They overturned tables shattered glasses ,attacked the guests and officials, wounding several people and smashing vehicles parked in the premises .
“ It is disturbing that a battalion of armed thugs can stroll free across the streets of central Kaduna wielding dangerous weapons without the intervention of the security . Security only arrived hours after the thugs had left .
“ It is quite obvious now that some powerful forces are benefiting from the current security situation and would do everything for it to continue.
“ We are now all the more committed to ensuring the safety and security of the North and its people.”

https://punchng.com/armed-thugs-invade-cng-security-summit-in-kaduna-attack-officials-guests/

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When the poor parents of these children send them to school instead of the traditional practices which exploit them the whole nation should sympathise and rise up to the occasion to push for for their safe return. If they cannot send their children to school we are looking at the bottom of a very deep dark hole. It will be a vicious cycle that can undermine this country for years or decades to come.

Right now some parents there will be thinking aloud to themselves, exactly what the point is about seeking western education which is now threatening to bring them misery and pain.

Those parents are going to withdraw their wards and this action might discourage them from sending their kids to school again.

Ur Heart initiates every action u take.

You can't cry more than the bereaved.

RIP