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Nope

What for?

Smh for bill payment

Colourich:
You could end up losing the both of them.

You're right, it's just like a greedy person who is never satisfied with anything she has, she will end up losing what she has

So why double dating in the first place?

And from what Tayo Demola said in this article, u may lose both of your boyfriends & it may even be hard to get another one

It's just like u're selling yourself

Will be back

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True indeed

milemimi93:
Should men have backup gf?

They believe they are free to have back-up girlfriends because it's a man's world, but they think women should not try it & remain faithful to them! Hmm e get as e be oh.....

kpolli:
A little google (or any other search app) search will show that some means 1-99.... Only thing that is not in some is all, none and one.... So I know you think you're right but sorry you're not.... Some has nothing to do with majority vs minority

[/quote]"Some", from Google search:

Determiner:
1. an unspecified amount or number of.
2. used to refer to someone or something that is unknown or unspecified.
3. (used with a number) approximately.
4. (pronounced stressing ‘some’) a considerable amount or number of.
5. (pronounced stressing ‘some’) at least a small amount or number of.
6. (pronounced stressing ‘some’) expressing admiration of something notable.

pronoun
1. an unspecified number or amount of people or things.
2. (pronounced stressing ‘some’) at least a small amount or number of people or things.

[quote]

Take note of number 5 above under Determiner. Also take note of number 2 above under pronoun.

That's the actual meaning referred to. At least a small amount of something. A small number of people. It can never be a great part of them, but a small part of them. That's a minority, not majority. So it's a minority or small group of women who do this. Are u still willing to argue this? Bring it on here, I will challenge u to it. I will show u why u're wrong on this! Waiting for u if u're still willing to discuss this!

MissRaine69:
Main man and side n1gga that’s how some women roll

With this, they are already prepared that their relationship or marriage may not last

kpolli:
A little google (or any other search app) search will show that some means 1-99.... Only thing that is not in some is all, none and one.... So I know you think you're right but sorry you're not.... Some has nothing to do with majority vs minority

Hmm, I'm coming back soon

kunlesmiles:
Double dating is just too stressful and time consuming

It will even stress ur brain. But I know some people do it perfectly well. But I wonder how they do it...

And if u have back-up boyfriend, will u have a backup husband too?

It goes without argument that it's dangerous for women just as the op put it

jenigurl:
My dear Nigerian men ...

You will support do all you can to be there for him.

You will avoid anything that may make him say" Because you think your parents shave money"

He will take and take and you 2ill give all but at the end of the day.

You will find out he was changing the life of one girl in his neighborhood with all you supported him with

That's an ungrateful man who does that.

kpolli:
Some by definition means an unspecified amount of things, at least a small amount which might just be greater than small... So by definition it can mean anything from 2 to all minus 1... So my dear, we are both correct.... Why can't you just share victory with me

Some can mean anything from all minus one? No, wrong. All minus one will mean 100-1, will be 99. And that's 99%. Can 99% be minority? No 99% is absolutely a majority. Absolute majority. And this can't be some, but definitely a majority. So u see that ur argument is wrong? Doesn't hold & can't hold water. QED

Has this now turned to a class war? Why the war?

akbahbah:
This one na confirm ashawo! waste of sperm.

Haba! Why na??

Mind u, spm is not a waste, can't be

Amberon11:
Sorry I don't converse with mad people.
Go meet your fellow mad people at yabaleft. I will no longer read nor reply you back.

Yabaleft? Yabaright nko?? Lol!

kpolli:
Then we have to agree to disagree

No agreement on this. Some doesn't mean majority, neither does it mean half. Some means few of something. It means far less than half of something. So u get it??

akbahbah:
This one na confirm ashawo! waste of sperm.

Ha Bros cool down na, take it easy na, haba

kpolli:
Let's come to a compromise, half

No, I disagree

Hmm hmm, really serious things are going on here

emydnoble:
Obviously, you guys misunderstood Joro article. Simply have a good man who has marriageable quality around you, while being a spinster with your dream man. Never, be emotionally attached to him (Backup man), rather discuss issues and rob mind together without romance.

If your relationship fails he can easily embrace you into his life for serious settlement.

So u agree with Joro's advice & not with Tayo isn't it? That ladies should put themselves to all that risk wit men just to find a partner which she may not even succeed getting in the first place? Smh

So what happens if the guy u're keeping by the side already has a girlfriend, perhaps even 2 & by the time u're now ready to date him after breaking up with you bf, the side guy who already has 1 or 2 girlfriends, u now automatically become a side girlfriend & spare tyre to him! U see now that it's never a full proof as there are no guarantees u will get what u want in the long run.

U might end up with heart break most likely, lol

kpolli:
Ma binu, some (aka majority)

No, few, not majority

akbahbah:
That is why most you women end up being a single mother that different men easily access and turn you to sex machine anytime they want. single mothers are the easiest to Bleep these days. they are so cheap.

Women won't learn. STOP AGITATING FOR GENDER EQUALITY. You can't say because your husband has side chicks you are also entitled to have side bobo. you will eventually join the association of single mother last last ni and thousands of men can finally have access to you to Bleep your stinking pussy out of your fat thighs. shior. STOP COPYING OYINBO CULTURE. Even oyinbo sef know say dem culture get some fault but its too late to change it. some of them are actually embracing African culture now. . see, our culture is our values leave sentiment apart, Men and women can never be the same. the more you agitate for gender equality, the more you make world a tough place to live.

No

Reelmii:
everybody is a relationship counsellor, I guess they all read G&C in school, whats my own self

Even those who don't know much about relationships would come & claim to be relationship counsellors.

Amberon11:
Actually you can't even love more than one person genuinely in your entire life time.I believe that once you miss that special person, that's it. But it's my opinion tho.

U can fall in love any time if u open ur heart & if u're ready to be loved.

kpolli:
I dunno why someone wrote this long list, Naija women have always had backup boyfriends (note the plural)

Some, not all