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Forum Games / Re: How Many People Are In This Room? (photo) by brokenPearl(f): 1:28pm On Sep 15, 2016 |
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Romance / Re: How Do I Ever Recover From This? by brokenPearl(f): 10:50am On Sep 14, 2016 |
columbus007: Naaaah!!...was just super depressed at the time. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: How Do I Ever Recover From This? by brokenPearl(f): 9:32am On Sep 14, 2016 |
firstking01: Thanks, you are correct... I've moved on. |
Romance / Re: How Do I Ever Recover From This? by brokenPearl(f): 9:31am On Sep 14, 2016 |
chronique: That's the irony of life. No, I didn't. |
Romance / Re: How Do I Ever Recover From This? by brokenPearl(f): 9:29am On Sep 14, 2016 |
columbus007: Unborn child? Lol... that was Nov/dec 2015,I didn't go through with it and I have no regrets... I'm actually a much better person and I can say confidently that I'm happy... Thanks for the encouragement tho. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: How Do I Ever Recover From This? by brokenPearl(f): 7:01pm On Dec 12, 2015 |
BlaqCoffee109: Thanks, I wish it could be as easy as you typed. But sadly, I can't begin to burden my family with another baby, I'm not employed, neither do I have the means to start a business. Abortion wasn't an easy decision for me to reach, but its actually the best solution for my problems. I've already suffered and endured a whole lot before, can't continue or add to my sufferings plus, it would make it very very difficult for me to move past my daughter's daddy. Thanks again. |
Romance / Re: How Do I Ever Recover From This? by brokenPearl(f): 6:46pm On Dec 12, 2015 |
Rone16: My family would just kill me if they found out. They managed to swallow their pride and assist me with one and will now hear there's another on the way? My mom would just die of HBP(God forbid), I can't even begin to imagine their reaction, they'll cut me off, totally. I can't do that do them. |
Romance / Re: How Do I Ever Recover From This? by brokenPearl(f): 6:41pm On Dec 12, 2015 |
bim2: Thanks, i'll look it up, meanwhile a friend told me about mistoprostol, and she says it's safe, only very painful. The DNC gives me nightmares, I've never been through it, it's my second pregnancy ever. |
Romance / Re: How Do I Ever Recover From This? by brokenPearl(f): 6:06pm On Dec 12, 2015 |
tpiar: Thanks |
Romance / Re: How Do I Ever Recover From This? by brokenPearl(f): 5:54pm On Dec 12, 2015 |
Tdunjoye: Yeah..it would fade...but the scar? Only God can see me through this. |
Romance / Re: How Do I Ever Recover From This? by brokenPearl(f): 5:51pm On Dec 12, 2015 |
tpiar: My story..my life, my current situation. I'm not an angel, I definitely have my flaws, im a humanbeing, but in terms of this relationship, I was the best a woman could ever be. I only failed to give myself worth, I gave him my all on a platter of gold, he never fought for it, hence, it ended the way it did. |
Romance / Re: How Do I Ever Recover From This? by brokenPearl(f): 5:49pm On Dec 12, 2015 |
MathsChic: My dear, I don't even wish my enemy what I'm going through, I cry myself to sleep every night and wake up in between to still cry. Sometimes, I wish for a tragedy that'll end my life once and for all... the only thing that keeps me going is my baby girl. I'll try to heed your advice, but that man, who will even consider loving me wouldn't even get the best of me, not after all these, I don't think I still have it in me to ever show a man love and affection. I gave my daughter's daddy everything and he could let go of me without even thinking us through, I even went to beg him and he told me I've just been wasting my time, he can never love me. But he used me to climb up the ladder and pushed me away now he feels he can do better. It's well, I never ever be a fool again to any man. |
Romance / Re: How Do I Ever Recover From This? by brokenPearl(f): 5:34pm On Dec 12, 2015 |
MathsChic: I have just about 6months to go in school, Her daddy would be a terrible influence on her, his upbringing is terrible and he shares the same mentality as his mom who raised him. I can't even trust them to raise my child without my supervision. My finance is on the average, my family meets her needs. As for my heart, I can't even keep it open, I can't even think of ever loving anybody again, not after my experience, Most men are just pure evil in disguise. My daughter gives me hope, I can't hand her over. Thanks again. |
Romance / Re: How Do I Ever Recover From This? by brokenPearl(f): 5:20pm On Dec 12, 2015 |
MathsChic: Thanks so much, he's not taking responsibility currently. He wants custody, he says if I want him to cater for her, I should hand her over (which I will never ever do). |
Romance / Re: How Do I Ever Recover From This? by brokenPearl(f): 5:18pm On Dec 12, 2015 |
Rone16: I totally understand you. But then, while I love my daughter so much, I wish she had a far better father, knowing how much I regret that often and stayed with him even when things weren't really working for the sake of having one daddy, one mummy and spare your child step-relate issues,yet he still screwed me over, bringing another child into this life from his lineage, double regrets? I can't even phantom it |
Romance / Re: How Do I Ever Recover From This? by brokenPearl(f): 5:08pm On Dec 12, 2015 |
dachaste: Strangely, I was on pills. There's no excuse, I agree, I've made a mistake, I wish I knew a good couple who wanted a baby and are willing to finance it, as difficult as it sounds, I think I could give the baby to them. There no way I can keep the pregnancy, im not fit, psychologically and financially, not with everything i'm going through right now. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: How Do I Ever Recover From This? by brokenPearl(f): 4:43pm On Dec 12, 2015 |
dachaste: It's really easy for you to sit from afar and judge without thinking for a second about what am going through.. you think it's an easy decision for me? 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: How Do I Ever Recover From This? by brokenPearl(f): 4:41pm On Dec 12, 2015 |
jamex93: So your advise is I should against all odds, keep another baby? With no daddy? I totally agree, im full of mistakes, but another baby for him would only compound my problems I think. |
Romance / How Do I Ever Recover From This? by brokenPearl(f): 4:30pm On Dec 12, 2015 |
Dear Nairalanders, Call me a hopeless romantic or a fool for love, but my story is just really pathetic.. I blame nobody and take full responsibilities for my actions. There's this saying about once beaten, twice shy but I've been beaten over and over again and I keep making the same mistake all over again. I refused to see beyond, paid no attentions to warnings from friends and family. I'm the kind of girl who loves with everything I've got, my time, my finance, my body, my loyalty @100percent, but I've always given all these to the very wrong people or should I say people who have lil or no value for me, despite the fact that I'm really pretty and intellectual. Currently, I'm going through a very painful breakup, almost 4years of my life wasted, a two year old daughter and a month old pregnancy( which I intend to abort tomorrow) as my daughter's daddy and father of my pregnancy has moved on. Can't really blame him, he never loved me, I did all the loving, made terrible choices and mind blowing sacrifices for him and got nothing but hurt in return. If only those who committed suicide had a place in Heaven, I would have done it already. I'm in so much pains, as much as I want to move on, one good look at my daughter and the memories flood in... how do I heal? |
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