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debrief08: Oga Sir, first of all I dont write to impress anybody I write what i feel is true to the situation. You work Sir, If you didnt work and depended on your wife would you be fair in comapring her with others and their capacity to provide for their in laws? From the posters tone I guess he must have decided that the wife shouldnt work but even at that there are several businesses any woman can do while staying at home in as far as she is industrious and smart thinking. I dont believe in being a house wife at all, every one needs to work, life is too uncertain to depend on anyone totally.

Honestly, u write to impress people. u of all ple shld know that not everyone is as fortunate as u are to get a gud job and all that.Pls give the OP solutions as to how his wife wld get a job and not blaming the wife.Ǎ̜̣̍м̣̣̥̇̊ sure she wana work OP is just bein selfish.Meanwhile kudos to Pak, u said it all

Nice piece,thnx

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Looks like its mainly males that were killed n no female

Echete obi esike,Dike na agha...

Folala: And who told you every girl that dates a guy for 2years intends to marry?

theb y waste her time wen u don't ve the intention of marrying her.Listen to urself speak

[quote author=Ms. Potato]It will mean everything to me because if I have my own and I still want my husband/bf own?I mean common. . . wouldnt that make me selfish? He has a life as well. He has his own ecpenses as well. . . And nver will I ask him for a cent not even when we are married.

But the honest problem here is my bf thinks like the 11th century men where he has to give me money everytime. . . So its kinda frustrating [/quote]babe who u wan decieve here?ℓ☺ℓ

[quote author=Efemena_xy]And I hope you see nothing wrong with doling out 2K to your boyfriend to "help" buy fuel, recharge cards and take him on a shopping spree for clothes, boxers, perfumes, etc?

I mean afterall, you need to apply this same logic of yours to show that you "care" for him too, abi?

Don't come here to talk-the-talk. Put your money where your mouth is girl.[/quote]Emefena I keep sayin u shld shut up.....anitank u r just on point.Most men here r just lazy ass#things broke men say*smh

Efemena u are the one who needs to think here.This lady isn't married to the man yet so why do you put'husband/wife'.Remember that if one can't tolerate smth in a rship,its better not to get married cos it might get worse.If they r married n he probably loses his job or smth n OP aids him then fine but they aint married yet.OP that guy has a mission

Efemena pls keep shut if u ve nothin reasonable to say...how can you encourage a man to allow his wife be the breadwinner?besides,we don't even know the motive of the poster's fiance.Most guys r just too lazy,they look for already made women to carry their burdens.This guy doesn't even have an apartment of his own so what are u yackin?

Most of the guys who insult and call girls illnames like bitches et al are not well trained, 80% of them had/ve no respect for womanhood not even their mothers.Most of those girls u call bitches have probably suffered from ur fellow men after being 'miss nice' to him in d past so dnt come here saying rubbish.Don't judge ple until u ve worked in their shoes and as for the ones saying they won't get married,don't even bother to.Keep wasting ur lives.

Things broke men say*smh

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