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Talking abt. communicatn,only one in a million will own up.she needs proof b4 she can confront him.she has 2 do it d hard way.

posakosa:
why are you searching thru is phone ? Why get married to someone you don't trust ?

R u sure that you are not re-inventing a nollywood movie, ? Look, its not by force to get married but if u don't trust the guy don't get married yet, give things some time,


Communication is key, so I think you both have a loong way to go in your relationship. btw, how long have you known the lad ? Im confused,

y won't she go thru his phone?D guy is a suspect.anyway,i always advise people 2 know who they r dealin with. @poster--i give u d right 2 dig out more things about him.

olanajim:
To be honest with you, the whole thing still remain unclear to me,

I know that people want to be loved and that they want to love somone, but I still can't understand certain things especially with regard to those who travel abroad and then deceive innocen ladies into love only to flee after they make a breakthrough. This act should b roundly condemned and must be collectively outcasted. Any amn who do that should be ostracised until he is back in the lowest rung of the society where they belong,

There are many options for you, Madam poster. But it all depend on what you want.

I recommend that you see what is happeneing as seed that will yield something positive for you. At this moment of your darkness, I now you will need strenght to carry on. You will also need extra-ordinary will-power to be able to trust men again, especially those that are from the lower rund of the social ladder. But you must never be negative.

It's easier said than done.

I don't have problem with potbelly coz i like fat

All u need is patience and wisdom.u know how women r,so be smart.

Ex=EX.i'll wish all my ex well.

Go 4 dna test if a german woman  claim 2 have a child 4 u,coz a lot of german children call d wrong guy "FATHER".

100 is 2 much.i don't like crowd.family and close friends r enough.

MRbrownJAY:
what if he had already eaten or not hungry, i believe in paying if i am going to eat as well but definitely not paying to watch someone eat. if a woman is THAT hungry then why dont you buy your own food or call for some take away to be delivered?!
or does a man has to pay EVERYTIME?! he asked you to come over and didnt mention dinner as i understand, maybe he had something "else" in mind to chop.

abi,first impression means a lot.

Honestly, some nigerians r like that,even worse.move on,he's a con man.

He doesn't know what he wants.

Czarskit:
~ Some people usually forget their brains at the door of cyber cafès ~

so who r u refering to?

What i'm trying 2 say is that some guys look down on men who have relationship or dealings with phat women.personally it doesn't bother me, cos i know and believe that more or a good number of men r physically attracted 2 plump women.The only problem is that some big women lack confidence in themselves because of what d media portrays.         [quote author=Ziggy_mama link=topic=263304.msg3752122#msg3752122 date=1240166263] Brutal dear can u clarify matters pls?[/quote]

is this 4 real?

ibkaye:
Why don't you go and ask them

Where do i look for them?or do u have their cell phone?

How does it feel 2 be used?

Plum70:
Yes. However, the Swiss embassy in London has been considerate enough to say that should a 3rd party retrieve the BC, we can submit the certificate here in London and they would then liaise with the Swiss folks in Abuja for the authentication process. Time line is about 6 months actually.

It's not a situation of being considerate cos they don't expect u 2 travel back home because of a minor issue.if they actually want 2 prove that u r d one in ur B.C.,then i''ll advise u 2 give them egunje when they visit ur folks.usually is one(NAIJA) representative.take style, tell dem say na 4 transport. :'

Plum70:
My husband and I got married in the UK and the Home Office inspected my passport (containing my date of birth) before granting a certificate of approval for marriage (which also bore my DOB).

I guess that the UK Home Office had no reason to doubt that my DOB was anything other than what was reflected in my passport. However, the Swiss embassy are more wary (and rightly so!) preferring to inspect the original document before registering foreign spouses in the Swiss family register.

So, just to clarify for the last time! - the birth certificate should bear my maiden name ONLY.

Many thanks.

i got it.d B.C. would be inspected back home at d swiss embassy in nigeria.it might take at least 3 to 4 months.i guess they have same law with germany.

Why is it difficult 2 understand that some of us naturally love fat women.(BBW).

post-since u know about monkey.How many times do they sex in a day?

it still depends on what u guys mean by fat.fat have grade or level.i personal go 4 beautiful fat girls with curves because i naturally have passion 4 them.some guys don't have a choice,but i don't blame them.some go 4 cripple and old women.

Normally it should be issued in ur maiden name;but i don't know any country where d b.cert. is not required b4 d approval of d marriage.i am also from delta state(ibusa).

u r a fine girl,who doesn't appreciate u,should go 2 hell.

[quote author=Ziggy_mama link=topic=263240.msg3749017#msg3749017 date=1240084239]it's ok sweets don't mind anybody it is givin u headaches.[/quote]

t00 cUTE:
am just here u ve fun and maybe help. pls maybe u and alot of pple didnt like my thread, mayube u guys mis understood me a bit but dat doesnt give u d ryt 2 insult me d way ure doing, not only on my thread, but on oda pples thread ok. u dont knw me, u cant judge my attitude or anytin abt me. so pls just stop using harsh words on me like i ve offended u b4 now or somethin ok. if i post smetin u dont like say it nyc and quitely.

u r right,i dey ur side.

[quote author=neo_welsh link=topic=263097.msg3747353#msg3747353 date=1240059626]Hey bro, u can get any girl of ur dream, only if u use d right language 4her, 4nigerian babes abroad, 96% of them are just after greener pasture, while the remaining 4% believe they've had enough of you, so dating foreigners, is 1 their greatest achievement.[/quote]right bro,they want 2 help their family back home.

if u r not yet married u need a spinster cert.too.something is not right here and i don't know what type of visa u have right now.

Plum70:
One last thing:

If a family member were to handle this process on my behalf, would the age declaration & NPC birth certificate be done in my maiden name or my married name? I assume it would be my maiden name. Which means a copy of my marriage certificate would be needed (as all my identifying documents are in my married name)?

Thanks

So strange that d foreign office didnot asked u 2 present ur b.cert. b4 issuing u marriage cert.