Jobs/Vacancies › Re: A Valuable Job Lesson To Learn From Osimhen-napoli Saga by BrutusOj(m): 10:42am On Sep 01, 2024 |
Rickyzagy: Good fools. How many players have you see that become successful with pride? Victor knows he's career is gone if he never renewed his contract cos no sane club will come for him. H3 isn't rudiger or Ronaldo. He's just a kid starting out but being controlled by ego and pride. You all forget how odewige career died after forcing a move to Wigan and was chased out by same people calling him.
Your loyalty to your employer is a good attitude that have reward Not in all cases. Like someone mentioned above, it's all about business. Your employer doesn't care how loyal or impactful you have been to them when they want to dispose you. Some even turn you to their enemy the moment you let them know you want to leave. I worked in an organisation that have a policy which prohibits a former employee from stepping into the organisation's premises after resignation/termination of appointment by either parties. |
Politics › Re: Tinubu May Shake Up Cabinet As Pressure Mounts On Ministers by BrutusOj(m): 9:35am On Sep 01, 2024 |
We have been hearing this since he came onboard. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by BrutusOj(m): 7:55am On Aug 31, 2024 |
Valme1010: Second ask,Please any info on the 25% salary increase for Conpass ,will they be getting it this month ? Obviously consequential adjustment will not be this month as it is still been discussed by labour and FG....has any see the payslip for this month of August ??.. Not implemented based on the alerts that dropped yesterday. |
Travel › Re: Lagos Red Line Rail Begins Partial Operations (Pictures) by BrutusOj(m): 9:36am On Aug 29, 2024 |
A rail expert should kindly educate some of us. Which one is red, blue rail line I always read here? Is it about their speed capacity or size of the train? Or the rail line? |
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Romance › Re: Why Are Guys No Longer Persistent, When Chasing Or Toasting Ladies? by BrutusOj(m): 9:51am On Aug 27, 2024 |
GreatOchuks: As dem never lay allegations for your head about Sexual assault or rape , then you sleep cell , them bail you , you return to meet suspension from work and you begin go Court to defend charges , you no go Calm down take No as No .
Once she says No affirmatively,, even if I don off boxers, I de chucking Odogwu back , wear my clothes , open the door , begin press phone .
No give Village people chance o Go and highlight the part of my posts above that made you type all this epistle. Why do some of you find it so difficult to comprehend? Return to the post of the Op I quoted and see the statement from the lady I bolded. She said, she offered herself to the guy on a plater of Gold and he fumbled. I made my own inference from that statement, I never said in any of my posts, that guys should keep making sexual advances when a lady say NO to their first moves. Una too watch oyibo movies and read celebrities news too much wey don enter una brain. Do you want to tell me now that you asked all the ladies you had sexual affairs with to consent verbally or written before you did? Like you asked them, babe, can we have sex? Babe can we kiss? Babe, can I touch your boobs? Even if you propose to a lady in the presence of the whole Nigerians and she says yes, you can still be accused of rape if she wants to deal with you. So, what's the point here? |
Politics › Re: Benue APC Crisis Deepens As Agada-Led Faction Announces Candidates For LG Polls by BrutusOj(m): 3:46pm On Aug 26, 2024 |
Akume and others who turned Benue to their business ventures in the past are having it so tough with Governor Alia making them chase their own shadows. Alia has refused to buy pigs  for them. |
Romance › Re: Why Are Guys No Longer Persistent, When Chasing Or Toasting Ladies? by BrutusOj(m): 12:40pm On Aug 26, 2024 |
Tallesty1: When she accuses me of rape, what needful will you do? Join the other victims of one side of the story to cancel me bah?
Verbal consent isn't even enough for me these days, I will ensure she consents on whatsapp too. Lol, I understand your fear sha. |
Romance › Re: Why Are Guys No Longer Persistent, When Chasing Or Toasting Ladies? by BrutusOj(m): 12:37pm On Aug 26, 2024 |
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Politics › Re: Jarus Is A Narcissist, Woman Beater - Seun Osewa Launches Fresh Attack by BrutusOj(m): 12:29pm On Aug 26, 2024 |
Is Seun this petty? I thought this guy is a millionaire if not billionaire who ought to be busy with business meetings and all. Or are these strategies for online followerships? |
Romance › Re: Why Are Guys No Longer Persistent, When Chasing Or Toasting Ladies? by BrutusOj(m): 12:14pm On Aug 26, 2024 |
jorion: You no dey hear word until woman trap you. I am not a mummy's boy like you. Grow up and start dating matured ladies who go for what they want not mummy's girls who will be forming hard to touch while they are wet down there  |
Romance › Re: Why Are Guys No Longer Persistent, When Chasing Or Toasting Ladies? by BrutusOj(m): 12:10pm On Aug 26, 2024*. Modified: 3:38pm On Aug 26, 2024 |
jorion: Playful and romantic gini? Before she come the house, she must have known that the DO might be DONE. If you approach and she starts saying NAH in a serious tone, guy zip up o. No go do playful and romantic demeanor take go rape person daughter o.
Most girls are playing CHESS while men are playing CHECKERS. This is why before you invite her, dangle a CARROT in front of her. That way she becomes a lot more submissive. And where in my posts above did i mentioned or encouraged guys to continue pushing if they make advances toward ladies when they say NO. |
Romance › Re: Why Are Guys No Longer Persistent, When Chasing Or Toasting Ladies? by BrutusOj(m): 12:04pm On Aug 26, 2024 |
Entanglement: na your type dey go rape girls up and down 
Shall na Nigeria you dey you fit get away with tape! Carry this your yeye mentality abroad, na prison you go sleep  Your type will borrow data while staying in the interior of a village accessing internet on top of tree and be forming woke online. Mr. abroad, please tell us the conditions necessary for a guy to make sexual advances towards a grown/ mature lady who followed him to his house on first date. |
Romance › Re: Why Are Guys No Longer Persistent, When Chasing Or Toasting Ladies? by BrutusOj(m): 11:26am On Aug 26, 2024 |
jorion: No go rape person daughter o. If she says no, let her be bro. Before you go start to here, "HE RAPED ME" See this one. Too much reading of America rape cases has made most of you guys so timid before ladies. If you a are sharp guy, you don't need to rape a lady, your playful/romantic demeanors will do everything for you. |
Romance › Re: Why Are Guys No Longer Persistent, When Chasing Or Toasting Ladies? by BrutusOj(m): 11:19am On Aug 26, 2024 |
Tallesty1: 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
This is why I laugh at women who, instead of working on their stubbornness, say they will find a man that can "handle" them.
Who told you that a man wants to handle you? The last lady I asked out did something similar.
We vibed well, I took her out once, then invited her over, and it was at my place that I told her what I wanted. She straight up said "na."
I said okay, we're good, and that was it.
We gisted a bit more, I saw her off, and when she got home, she texted me, "Are you angry?" I said, "na," but that was it for me.
It wasn’t even the rejection that was the issue, but how it was said. If you want to play hard to get, at least drop hints that you're interested, otherwise, I'll assume you're playing "never gonna happen."
Later she told me I had everything on a platter of gold but wasn’t man enough to take it.
Ladies don’t realize how stressed the average Nigerian guy is already, and then you add unnecessary hard to get on top of it.
I will pass abeg. I can say you are still learning about Nigerian ladies sha, she came to your house on first date, you didn't do the needful with her instead you started talking about relationship afresh? Babe don already assume her duty as your babe na, she wanted more of you in your room not gentle man talk of relationship. Nowadays, you don't ask ladies out formally, from the first romantic move you take towards them, it has started. Going straightforward most times spoil everything for those ladies who have dated very badt sharp guys  |
Romance › Re: Why Are Guys No Longer Persistent, When Chasing Or Toasting Ladies? by BrutusOj(m): 11:06am On Aug 26, 2024 |
How many times will posts like this makes front page? If the ladies are desperate to get guys, they should do the needful not disturbing us daily with lamentations of guys not chasing them jaree. You see a gentle and fine guy you like, walk up to him and tell him how you feel. African China sang about this in his last hit song. |
Crime › Re: Woman Shot Dead In Benue (Photos) by BrutusOj(m): 9:27pm On Aug 25, 2024 |
TrackerSK: Benue is just like somalia If Benue is like Somalia, what then is Zamafara, Kaduna, Plateau and Borno? |
Family › Re: How Can I Be Emotionally Detached From My Wife, I Need Help by BrutusOj(m): 9:59pm On Aug 24, 2024 |
Proserpina: Lol... You killed your woman's confidence in being vulnerable with you. You may think she has forgiven you, she might have but she's not comfortable with you anymore. She's always on guard with you so she avoids weak moments with you. Lest tickling her leads to "involuntary gas" release and then crucification .
One thing you men these days is the maturity to correct without making your women feel less of themselves. And when you see get the outcome you blame your women and imaginary "new men " in their lives.
Your woman isn't a stranger , it's five years so you should know how to pacify her. Admit to her you might not have handled some situations in your home wisely and you are ready to give it second time to make your marriage right. You have created a wall, and the only way to bring it is to meet her halfway. Show her you aren't Mr Perfect
If you kill your feelings for your wife, soon enough you two will start living as flatmate.
BTW I read your previous threads, is she the same "faargin" lady you were in relationship with in 2017? You complained about not enjoying the relationship. Lol let it not be her 😂 She is definitely. People see red flags everywhere before going ahead to marry and then come to public domain to disturb people with complains. Return to his old threads and see how he technically deleted all his posts there to avoid people joining dots to slam him. It's either the stories are the usual fictions we read here or he never heed to danger signals while in relationship. |
Education › Re: NELFUND Acknowledges Receipt Of ₦50 Billion From Recovered Proceeds Of Crime by BrutusOj(m): 1:21pm On Aug 23, 2024 |
Good news. |
Family › Re: Nigerian Woman Ends Her Marriage Over Husband's Poor Personal Hygiene by BrutusOj(m): 12:33pm On Aug 21, 2024 |
madridguy: One of the major disaster that can befall someone is to marry a dirty spouse, the thing can sound funny but it is a calamity.
I personally sabi a man, he is a tanker driver, his wife is so dirty that even pigs are learning from where the woman dey. No neighbour will allow the woman spread her clothes beside their own because clothes are just like rags because she cannot wash properly. She leaves her kids used diapers inside the room, even when the kids poo she will not pack it and might leave it there for over 24 hours.
Infact, the man said he can only climb his wife only when his drunk. He doesn't eat his wife food. To nail it all, the man finally ran away with another woman. Story from your personal experience or hear say? So na Ajengunle face me I face you house you de live and you always come on Nairaland de sing government praises everyday?  |
Events › Re: Lady Accused Of Stealing At A Wedding, Deceived Guests And Couple (Photos) by BrutusOj(m): 4:47pm On Aug 20, 2024 |
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Events › Re: Lady Accused Of Stealing At A Wedding, Deceived Guests And Couple (Photos) by BrutusOj(m): 7:54pm On Aug 19, 2024*. Modified: 4:47pm On Aug 20, 2024 |
Some people don't trust their family members at all. If very close family members were used instead of the event planners to pick money, this situation would not have arose. |
Sports › Re: Mikel Obi Reveals He Funded Nigeria's Olympic Football Team Flight To Brazil by BrutusOj(m): 10:58pm On Aug 17, 2024 |
And someone used the flight money to lavish on one Abuja oloshoo while EFCC became blind at that time. Nigeria, we hail thee! |
TV/Movies › Re: Kellyrae And Kassia Kiss (Photos, Video) by BrutusOj(m): 10:47pm On Aug 17, 2024 |
There is really hunger in the land. Back around 2017-2022, BBN threads are usually all over the front page of Nairaland with campaigns everywhere for housemates. Hunger don spoil show for the organisers like this. If the situation continues in the country like this, I doubt if mods will even push a single topic on BBN to front page come next year. |
Crime › Re: Identities of Medical, Dental students Kidnapped in Benue by BrutusOj(m): 10:41am On Aug 17, 2024 |
atiku4President: Fight back when their women mostly call the shots while the men drink away their lives with biyee You and the person you quoted are both foolishh for the nonsense you typed here. So, the kidnapping happening all over Nigeria is cos the women and men in those areas are wayward and drunks? When you people elect people who have no regards for the life of the common man out there, we will all suffer for it. How's kidnapping a Benue thing in the first place? How many kidnap case have you been hearing from Benue. |
Romance › Re: Is Porn Messing Up The Mind Of Indian Men? by BrutusOj(m): 11:16pm On Aug 15, 2024 |
Am average Indian man is sex starved and behaves like he goat on heat when he sees a lady's body part. |
Romance › Re: Is Porn Messing Up The Mind Of Indian Men? by BrutusOj(m): 11:13pm On Aug 15, 2024 |
9japride: I believe the issue with Indian men is that they don't usually have the privilege to see the majority body parts of their ladies. So the thought of female body parts can make them go crazy. You are right, that's why they are all over Facebook begging women for their nude pictures. As in they stalk ladies on Facebook like their lives depend on seeing a nude woman's body. Are there no oolosho in India ni? |
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Travel › Re: Us-based Nigerian Man Shows Sleeping 'box' Costing $80/8hrs by BrutusOj(m): 10:30pm On Aug 15, 2024*. Modified: 8:56am On Aug 16, 2024 |
Sonnobax15:
 Na wa oh......
To think that some people will sell their properties that's worth millions of naira in Nigeria only to japa and go and be living like slaves in another man's country is the last wonder on this earth 🙄
But then again,that box is equivalent to a Nigerian mansion tho  How's that casket abi prison box equivalent to a Nigerian mansion? You started well and ended badly. There is no place like home. If we have leaders who are average in leadership, our lives here will be far better than most average men out there. |
Politics › Re: 20 Million Nigerians Have Received 50k, 25k Alerts From FG - Presidency by BrutusOj(m): 11:20am On Aug 15, 2024 |
The loot that is happening under this administration will triple that of Buhari whom we thought holds the record of all time highest financial corruption. This is purely government of palliative scams. Till date, we don't know how Betta's case and the other woman in Humanitarian ministry ended, no prosecution has been done since then. |
Music/Radio › Re: D'Banj And Don Jazzy Preview The Entertainer Sequel (Video). by BrutusOj(m): 10:37pm On Aug 13, 2024 |
heysquare: Without D'banj too there is no Don jazzy too!N their 2 heads is better than one. Their stars work together but they failed to understand that nature. Maybe they just realised that and it is long overdue. I wish Stylplus can realise this as well so that they can back to the stream It doesn't work like that. Stylus come back to do what? There is a season for everyone, their time has passed, why didn't you say, Plantashun boys, Boyz 2 men, Backstreet Boys, Boy zones, Destiny Child, Remedies, Maintain and other band groups should come back? And for the bolded, Don Jazzy is still a leading force to reckon with in the industries. |
Music/Radio › Re: D'Banj And Don Jazzy Preview The Entertainer Sequel (Video). by BrutusOj(m): 10:28pm On Aug 13, 2024 |
happney65: Watched minutes ago on IG. Can't wait for the release on Friday
It's Dbanj again I am Dbanj It's Don Jazzy again
Bad Boy since 04
A Forever Fan! |