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Choose the right attitude

Wed, 11 Sep 2024

‘Think on these things … and the God of peace shall be with you.’ Philippians 4:8-9

An author writes: ‘Columbia researcher Sheena Iyengar has found that the average person makes about seventy conscious decisions every day. That’s 25,550 decisions a year. Over seventy years, that’s 1,788,500 decisions. Albert Camus said, “Life is a sum of all your choices.” You put all those 1,788,500 choices together, that’s who you are. Victor Frankl was a brilliant doctor whom the Nazis imprisoned in a concentration camp. They took away his livelihood, confiscated his possessions, mocked his dignity, and killed his family. They locked him in a cell with no way out … But he found a door that his guards did not know about: “Everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms—to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way.” He found that when his circumstances had closed every outer door to him, they revealed to him the doors that matter far more—the doors through which a soul can leave fear and enter into courage, leave hatred and enter into forgiveness, leave ignorance and enter into learning. He discovered that his guards were actually far more imprisoned—by cruelty and ignorance and foolish obedience to barbarism—than he was imprisoned by walls and barbed wire. Some people learn this and become free; some never see it and live their lives as prisoners.’

The difference is in the door you choose or the attitude you choose. That’s why Paul writes: ‘Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, … honest, … just, … pure, … lovely, … of good report, … think on these things’ (Philippians 4:. Today, choose the right attitude!

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Honour God in all you do

Tue, 10 Sep 2024

‘Blessed is the one who does not walk in step with the wicked.’ Psalm 1:1

When Moses commanded Pharaoh to set God’s people free, Pharaoh offered him three compromises. First, he offered to let them go if they didn’t go too far away. Second, he offered to let them go provided they left their children in Egypt. Third, he offered to let them go provided they left their business interests in Egypt. In each case, Moses said no. And Satan will make you those same offers. Put distance between yourself and the world. Refuse to let it have your children. Refuse to live by the world’s self-centred and often unethical business practices. You are called to love and minister to those around you but not to become like them.

One of the great gifts that God has given us is the gift of free will. You can choose! If you want to enjoy God’s blessings, you need to make lifestyle choices that line up with His will and are consistent with the values of His Word, not choices reflecting the constantly eroding values of the world systems around you. The way to succeed in life is to stand on Bible principles. Here are two Scriptures you need to meditate on and keep in mind: ‘The blessing of the Lord makes one rich, and He adds no sorrow with it’ (Proverbs 10:22 NKJV). ‘But seek first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you’ (Matthew 6:33 NKJV). Today pray, ‘Lord, I don’t want to live by the world’s standards. I put you first in my life because I know your ways are always best.’

Do it in Christ’s strength, not your own

Mon, 9 Sep 2024

‘I can do all things through Him who strengthens me.’ Philippians 4:13

One of the quickest ways to get discouraged is to try living the Christian life in your own strength. It’s like trying to lift yourself up by your bootstraps; it cannot be done. Indeed, God designed it that way. Jesus said: ‘If you love Me, keep My commandments. And I will pray the Father, and He will give you another Helper, that He may abide with you forever—the Spirit of truth, whom the world cannot receive, because it neither sees Him nor knows Him; but you know Him, for He dwells with you and will be in you” (John 14:15-17 NKJV).

God’s commandments are never too difficult for us to follow—if we do them through Christ’s indwelling strength. And you must learn to draw on that strength daily. He is in you and with you at all times to enable you to do what you cannot do and to do with ease what you would otherwise find hard to do without Him. Paul talked about the constant struggle between his flesh and his spirit. At times it drove him to despair. Then he gives us the key to victorious Christian living: ‘I can do all things through Him who strengthens me’ (Philippians 4:13 ESV). Learn from the light bulb; it cannot illuminate itself. But when it’s connected to an electrical power source, all that’s required is to flip a switch. So, do it in Christ’s strength, not your own.

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God please help humanity 🙏

Thank God for Joseph 🙏

I believe

Zonefree:
If you call them sex objects now, they'll start another protest.

are they not? 🤷

Expect good things from God

Sun, 8 Sep 2024

‘Therefore the Lord will wait, that He may be gracious to you.’ Isaiah 30:18

Your concept of God determines your confidence in approaching Him. Do you always view Him like an auditor, and your books don’t balance? Or do you view Him like a father who loves you at all times and wants to be good to you? When approaching God, many of us consult a mental scorecard to see whether we have more wins than losses, rights than wrongs, credits than demerits. If we feel like we’re not performing well, we avoid God or make Him our last resort. That’s a mistake because God sees you ‘in Christ’ (see 2 Corinthians 5:17), and therefore, you are always accepted and welcomed into His presence. You say, ‘Does that mean I can live any way I please?’. No, ‘… the Lord disciplines the one he loves, …’ (Hebrews 12:6 NIV).

But His correction is not rejection; it’s proof that you are truly His redeemed child. Here is a Scripture you need to meditate on: ‘Therefore the LORD longs to be gracious to you, And therefore He waits on high to have compassion on you. For the LORD is a God of justice; How blessed are all those who long for Him’ (Isaiah 30:18 NASB20). Note God’s attitude towards you today: ‘The LORD longs to be gracious to you’. Keep that picture in mind and begin to expect good things from God.

Two prayer principles

Sat, 7 Sep 2024

‘But when you pray, go into your room, close the door and pray to your Father.’ Matthew 6:6

When it comes to the importance of having a consistent prayer life, Jesus is our greatest example. Before He calmed the storm in Galilee, called His twelve disciples, or fed the multitudes with five loaves and two fish, He spent time alone in prayer. And you have been called to follow in His footsteps (see 1 Peter 2:21). In essence, our failures are often the result of our failure to pray. Jesus gave His disciples two prayer principles that will work for you.

First, He said, ‘But when you pray, go into your room, close the door and pray to your Father, …’ (Matthew 6:6 NIV). In other words, find a quiet place where you won’t be distracted. After all, you are meeting with God. As you spend time there, you will grow to love this place, and it will become your ‘secret place’ (see Psalm 91:1 NKJV).

Second, Jesus said, ‘And when you pray, do not keep on babbling like pagans, for they think they will be heard because of their many words. Do not be like them, for your Father knows what you need before you ask him’ (Matthew 6:7-8 NIV). The words ‘don’t babble’ may sound harsh. But what Jesus is saying to us is, ‘Focus; be with Me. Open your heart. Get real. Stand on My Word and believe Me for answers’. After the church prayed all night for Peter to be delivered from prison, the Bible says ‘they were astonished’ when God did it (see Acts 12:16 NKJV). You might say, ‘That’s bad’. Actually, that’s good! It means even though your faith may be weak, when you pray, God will answer you. So, keep praying and standing on His Word.

Speak life

Fri, 6 Sep 2024

‘Let him refrain his tongue from evil, And his lips from speaking deceit.’ 1 Peter 3:10

The Bible says, ‘He who would love life And see good days, Let him refrain his tongue from evil, And his lips from speaking deceit. Let him turn away from evil and do good; Let him seek peace and pursue it’ (1 Peter 3:10-11 NKJV). Note the words ‘Let him turn away’. That doesn’t mean you should be rude or insensitive but be solution-focused rather than problem-focused. Your mouth is a powerful tool that can help or harm. If you can grasp an understanding of the power of the words you speak, it can change the course of your life. You can either speak positive, uplifting, encouraging things into existence in your life, or words that produce negative, discouraging things (see Proverbs 18:21).

None of us want to be a mouthpiece for the devil. But the truth is, the mouth can be used for blessing or destruction, not only in our own lives but also in the lives of others. Your mouth is like a pen, and your heart is like a tablet. When you say something over and over, it gets on the inside of you and becomes you. It’s not something you have to try to do anymore; it’s who you are. Be a mouthpiece for God. ‘The Lord God has given Me The tongue of the learned, That I should know how to speak A word in season to him who is weary. …’ (Isaiah 50:4 NKJV). ‘How forceful are right words! But what does your arguing prove?’ (Job 6:25 NKJV). ‘The mouth of the righteous speaks wisdom, And his tongue talks of justice’ (Psalm 37:30 NKJV). ‘Let no corrupt word proceed out of your mouth, but what is good for necessary edification, that it may impart grace to the hearers’ (Ephesians 4:29 NKJV). Today, speak life!

Christ can set you free

Thu, 5 Sep 2024

‘I will set nothing wicked before my eyes.’ Psalm 101:3

Pornography is sweeping across the world, leaving families torn apart in its wake. Many churchgoers who are struggling to break free feel isolated and helpless. One UK survey revealed that 75 per cent of Christian men and 35 per cent of Christian women viewed pornography regularly or occasionally. When you watch it, powerful neurotransmitters such as dopamine are released, which bond you to the images you’re looking at. According to neuropsychologist Dr Tim Jennings, ‘Any type of repetitive behaviour will create trails [neural pathways] in our brain that are going to fire on an automatic sequence’. Some churches treat this issue as strictly a moral one, failing to realise it’s also a brain problem. We advise people to try more, pray more, and love the Lord more. And that’s important. But when you fight the flesh in the power of the flesh, you end up fighting yourself.

What’s the answer? Your mind has to be renewed, and that’s a process. When your brain has been trained the wrong way, it must be retrained the right way. This calls for radical commitment, such as removing pornography from your life and sometimes walking in accountability with a mature Christian friend you can turn to in times of testing. Above all, it involves reprogramming your mind with God’s Word. Paul writes: ‘I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that you present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable to God, which is your reasonable service. And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God’ (Romans 12:1-2 NKJV). You don’t have to live in bondage to pornography. Christ can set you free.

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God bless Lagos State always.

A bi ode nii Sanusi you nii? 🤷..... This man fall my hand. Though I knew he is a Fulani man, but still him and all his kingmen are foolish. Who caused it causing all the havoc in Nigeria at the moment if not the Fulani? Which tribe did the past president came from and he messed up the whole nation? Fulani should just mind themselves and stay on their lanes,if not they will collect and continue to be collecting.

Take a faith-based risk (3)

Wed, 4 Sep 2024

‘I will build my church, and the gates of Hades will not overcome it.’ Matthew 16:18

Gates are defensive devices, and storming those gates requires offensive measures. Think of the church as a battering ram. Instead of complaining about the culture, we need to present better options. We must produce higher-calibre films and compose more extraordinary music, write more notable books, and start superior schools and form better businesses. The old aphorism indicates we should stop cursing the darkness and start lighting some candles. In Roaring Lambs, Robert Briner writes: ‘Why not believe that one day the most critically acclaimed director in Hollywood could be an active Christian layman in his church? Why not hope that the Pulitzer Prize for investigative reporting could go to a Christian journalist on staff at a major daily newspaper? Is it really too much of a stretch to think that a major exhibit at the Museum of Modern Art could feature the works of an artist on staff at one of our fine Christian colleges?

Am I out of my mind to suggest that your son or daughter could be the principle dancer for the Joffrey Ballet Company, leading a weekly Bible study for other dancers in what was once considered a profession that was morally bankrupt?’. Paul didn’t criticise the philosophers on Mars Hill and tell them they were going to hell. Pointing to their altar to the unknown God, he indicated, ‘I’ve come to tell you who He is, and His name is Jesus’. What was the result? ‘… some mocked, while others said, “We will hear you again on this matter”’ (Acts 17:32 NKJV). Go ahead; take a faith-based risk and see what happens.

Imagine? 😥

God help them

This man is full of disgrace 😔

ShogunNoName:
Stop joining us in any rubbish. It is Ibo vs Yoruba m the stupid lady joined us into that nonsense like most fools do because they assume Edo state indigenes are yoruba which is very wrong and deceitful!!

WE ARE NOT YORUBA!!!! STOP THIS GENERALIZATION!!!
.EDO STATE IS NOT YORUBA STATE

The gods will descent on anyone joining us with Yoruba ,there by bringing insults to us that we don't warrant.

We have never in history of Nigeria since independence had any issues with Ibo tribe, so clearly this stupid woman is one of the numerous fools who call Edo state Yoruba state..

We are not Yoruba!!

Face Yoruba and leave us out of it!!

Thank you

mumu 😥

Take a faith-based risk (2)

Tue, 3 Sep 2024

‘But without faith it is impossible to please Him.’ Hebrews 11:6

When making important decisions, especially when they can affect the lives of others, the Bible says you should do two things. First, count the cost (see Luke 14:28). That means you should evaluate and investigate, and you should seek guidance and counsel. ‘The way of fools seems right to them, but the wise listen to advice’ (Proverbs 12:15 NIV). How certain should you be before you move forward? In his book, The Next Generation Leader, Pastor Andy Stanley writes: ‘Generally speaking, you are probably never going to be more than 80 per cent certain. Waiting for greater certainty may cause you to miss an opportunity’. What are you waiting for? A guarantee that you won’t make mistakes? That you won’t be criticised or experience embarrassment? If so, you will get nowhere. When you have done all that wisdom demands, you must trust God and take a faith-based risk. If you don’t, you will end up living with regret.

In a research study done by two Cornell University psychologists, they learned that time is a major factor in what we regret. We typically regret our actions over the short term. But over the long term, we are inclined to regret our inactions. The study found that in an average week, action regrets were somewhat higher than inaction regrets—53 per cent to 47 per cent. But when people think about their lives as a whole, inaction regrets exceed action regrets 84 per cent to 16 per cent. In other words, you won’t regret the errors you made as much as you will the God-ordained opportunities you missed. So, go ahead and take a faith-based risk.

Take a faith-based risk (1)

Mon, 2 Sep 2024

‘The Kingdom of Heaven has suffered violence, and the violent take it by force.’ Matthew 11:12

Peter gets unfairly criticised. He is the disciple who denied Christ three times, but he is the only one who got close enough to Jesus to get caught. He is the disciple who impulsively cut off Malchus’s ear when the lynch mob came to arrest Jesus, but he is the only one who came to Jesus’ defence. He is the disciple who sank in the Sea of Galilee, but he is the only disciple who walked on water. It’s so easy to criticise people from the comfortable confines of the boat.

Basically, there are two kinds of people: creators and criticisers—those who get out of the boat and walk on water and those who sit in the boat and criticise the water walkers. When everything is said and done, our greatest regrets will be the God-ordained risks we didn’t take. German author Johann Wolfgang von Goethe said, ‘Hell begins the day that God grants you the vision to see all that you could have done, should have done, and would have done, but did not do’. Jesus said, ‘From the days of John the Baptist until now the Kingdom of Heaven has suffered violence, and the violent take it by force’ (Matthew 11:12 ESV). What do you believe God is leading you to do? What is the persistent prompting of the Holy Spirit urging you to do? Do it. Failing to take a faith-based risk is like permanently misplacing a piece from the jigsaw puzzle of your life. It leaves a disappointing hole. When we reach the end of our lives, our biggest regrets will be those missing pieces. So today, go ahead and take a faith-based risk.

A Father’s Blessing (2)

Sun, 1 Sep 2024

‘May God give you of heaven’s dew and of earth’s richness—an abundance.’ Genesis 27:28

Let’s look at the next two ingredients of a father’s blessing:
(1 The power of prayer. Here’s how Isaac, who was a farmer, prayed for his sons: ‘May God give you of heaven’s dew and of earth’s richness—an abundance of grain and new wine.’ Dad, have your children ever heard you praying for them to succeed in life? Perhaps they’ve heard cutting and critical words like: ‘How could you be so stupid? Don’t you ever think? You’ll never amount to anything!’ If so, apologise and ask their forgiveness. Then create opportunities for them to hear you talk to God about them by name; to hear you speak blessing over them. What a powerful thing is a father’s prayer of blessing over his family!

(2 The vision of a glorious future. The Bible says, ‘Where there is no prophetic vision, the people cast off restraint.’ (Proverbs 29:18 ESV) School counsellors grieve over the lack of vision in their students. Many of today’s kids see nothing ahead for them but economic gloom, unemployment and hard times. They need somebody to believe in them; to assure them they can succeed and live happy lives; to know their best days are ahead. Isaac didn’t wait for his boys to devise their own vision for the future. No, he prayed for their future success, for their rise to prominence, and for respect with their family and society. Dad, your kids need you to motivate them in the right direction.

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A Father’s Blessing (1)

Sat, 31 Aug 2024

‘By faith Isaac blessed Jacob and Esau concerning things to come.’ Hebrews 11:20

Every child needs their father’s blessing, and every father should speak words of blessing to them. When Isaac blessed his sons he was speaking with divinely given authority, not out of sentiment or favouritism. By Hebrew custom a father’s blessing had these ingredients:

1) A meaningful touch. ‘Jacob went close to his father Isaac who touched him… Then his father Isaac said to him, “Come here, my son, and kiss me.”’ (Genesis 27:22, 26 NIV) A father’s blessing included the laying on of hands, a kiss, and an embrace of love and acceptance. Jesus also knew the importance of this: ‘He took the children in His arms, placed His hands on them and blessed them.’ (Mark 10:16 NIV) And such expressions of love still bless your children’s hearts when they get them from you, Dad.

2) Words of affection. Before blessing Jacob, his father Isaac said to him, ‘Ah, the smell of my son is like the smell of a field that the Lord has blessed.’ (Genesis 27:27 NIV) To a city dweller these words might bring a puzzled look, but not to Isaac’s boys. Isaac, who loved nature, was saying, ‘That’s my boy—a country boy, a hunter, a man’s man like his dad!’ He couldn’t have spoken more affirming words to his sons. Dad, make sure your words aren’t demeaning or insensitive; speak words that say, ‘I love you, I believe in you, I’m proud of you, and I’ll always be here for you.’

OgaTheTop2:
Uncountable times....especially when I was looking for naira notes my dad must have kept somewhere. My paale stingy die

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