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ayobase: Im sure we are not all the same since u said ''some''!

Mynd_44: The OP should be shaped thousand and the slapped again just for starting this thread

ms pookie: NOBODY asked u to try them all

tellwisdom: Mshewwwwwwwwwwwwww

mekaboy: [b]THESE ARE THREE THINGS I THINK BECOME HINDRANCE TO RELATIONSHIPS. WHICH IF BOTH PARTIES UNDERSTAND THEY WILL BE HAPPIER.

1) HONESTY:
THIS IS THE MOST IMPORTANT OF ALL, AND GUYS ALWAYS HAVE A PROBLEM WITH THIS. GUYS ARE AFRAID TO DEFINE THEIR RELATIONSHIP OR WHAT THEY WANT .YOU WILL HARDLY SEE A GUY THESE DAYS OPEN UP TO A GIRL AND TELL HER, I JUST WANT TO BE IN A SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU, I WILL BE NICE TO YOU AND PROVIDE THE THINGS YOU NEED BUT NO EXTRA FEELINGS, LETS KEEP IT SEXUAL. BECAUSE THEY LIKE THE GIRL PHYSICALLY, THEY WONT TELL HER WHAT THEY WANT, THE YOUNG GIRL WILL BE BUSY DREAMING AND BUILDING HER LIFE AROUND A GUY THAT JUST WANTS HER SEXUALLY. WHEN THE GIRL NOW START ASKING QUESTIONS, ABOUT MEETING HER PARENTS, FUTURE PLANS, HOW MANY KIDS, ADVISING ON GETTING A BETTER ACCOMMODATION OR JOINING RESOURCES TOGETHER TO START SOMETHING. THE GUY BEGINS TO FIND REASONS AND GET PROVOKED AT EVERY SMALL THING. YES YOU CAN LIKE A GIRL AND WANT TO BE WITH HER, BUT DEEP WITHIN YOU, YOU KNOW SHE IS NOT THE TYPE YOU WILL MARRY. LET HER KNOW, DONT TAKE BECAUSE OF SEX AND KEEP A WOMAN FOR YEARS, WHEN U HAVE BEEN HAVING SEX WITH HER FOR A YEAR, SHE IS THINKING OF MUCH MORE THAN SEX, BUT SETTLING DOWN.

IF YOU KNOW YOU DONT PLAN TO SETTLE IN THE NEAR FUTURE, LET HER KNOW, DONT BE PROCRASTINATING, JUST TO HAVE HER AROUND FOR SEX.


2, INSECURITY :

THIS IS ALSO IMPORTANT,FOR MEN AND WOMEN, WHO ALWAYS WANT TO MONITOR THEIR PARTNER TO ENSURE THEY DONT CHEAT. MY ADVICE TO YOU IS TO ASSUME THEY ARE CHEATING ALREADY. ACCEPT THAT THEY ARE CHEATING , BUT APPRECIATE THEM FOR RESPECTING YOU ENOUGH, NOT TO DO IT IN YOUR PRESSENCE OR GIVE YOU REASON TO SUSPECT THEM. THAT WAY YOU WILL BE FREE OF STRESS. HAVE THIS MENTALITY, "CHEAT BUT DONT BE CAUGHT OR GIVE ME REASON TO SUSPECT YOU". THAT WAY YOU WILL HAVE PEACE.

3) COMMUNICATION: BE OPEN TO ONE ANOTHER, AND TALK ABOUT EVERYTHING, AND MY ADVICE FOR LADIES, IF YOUR MAN, BECOMES SILENT AFTER SEX THEN DONT BUILD YOUR LIFE AROUND HIM, BECAUSE HE DOES NOT SEE ANY FUTURE IN YOU. ALL HE WANTS IS SEX AND WHEN HE GETS IT, THE NEXT THING ON HIS MIND IS HIS BUSINESS AND CUSTOMERS. REMEMBER YOU WILL HAVE ALOT OF TIME TO LIVE TOGETHER WHEN MARRIED, AND IF THERE IS NOTHING TO TALK ABOUT THE MARRIAGE WILL SHUT DOWN .[/b]

Korrection: The world population amounts to 5 to 6 trillion of which women are 4 trillion doubling the mens folks...now its God's infinite mercy that we all see our partner to be with...iv been into relationships where i was a fool.gave out everthing i had yet i was dumped....when i started telling lies and cheating on girls i found out that they love me more but i dont want it that way....now im single just waiting for the right person to show up..this time no rushing cos i now realise love grows and a virtuous woman who can find....

freecocoa: ^Is that how it works for you?oh well.

I for one will not worship any man or make him think if he leaves then my purpose on earth is finished,IMHO the day you give any man that much power over you is the day he starts misbehaving.

IYA NGBALI: and so foking what?so we should start clapping or what do you expect us to do.Now i know why some people keep saying that this place is full of shiiit.That the topic made a front page says it all.

Kalman: Who are those two people?

flow1759: ibo has so many delicious soup; ofe nsala, ofe oha, ofe olugbu, ofe owerri, ofe ogbono, ofe okazi, ofe ugba ...... And d list goes on. OFE means soup.

reachout2stone: CNI Global is another scam orgnztion. Dey ar in2 herbal/health products lik GNLD, but dey go online advertizin vacancies. I fell victim to deir gimmicks yestday. I left ibadan very early 2meet up de test/oral interview only 2hear dat i shld pay N20000 instalmentaly 2 obtain a health faciltator license. I learnt my lesson de hard way. If i hd checkd out dis thread b4 now, i wld av seen de scam of lik organzations such as VHR abov& saved de 5k thrown away.