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I cant help but laugh at all this comments...i called the boy some days after the incident and asked him why he acted that way the other time...he apologised and said he has a serious crush on me
.... i was surprised and wonder how a young boy will have that kind of feelings for me ..i told him its ok..and its normal for you to have feelings for the opposite sex..but it has to be someone you are older than and someone u truly understand.. he begged me not to tell anybody what happened..i aslo told him not to steal or take somebody's property especially panties and bra..its called stealing. i hope he understands

Yesterday, I was hanging out with my cousins (male) and as we discussed, one of them brought this up.
He said he has a compiled list of reasons why guys in a serious relationship cheat; which he later broke down into 4.
Read through and let me know your view
Boring relationship
When a relationship is boring i.e no spark, no excitement, nothing...just “hi, welcome, how was work and other phrases…”, the guy gets tired of hearing the same daily rhythm and tend to search for alternative(s) out there.
Girls loves attention, someone they can talk to every minutes, and relate with, but guys get bored easily. They get bored of chatting with same person all the time because in most cases they know every other thing the lady wants to say… So in his mind he’ll be like “so what next??”. They get tired of seeing the same old face all the time, get tired of the same old complains, but mind you, all these varies in one relationship or another but might not be a major reason why some relationships get broken.
A guy will always give attention to a pretty lady that shows interest in chatting with him, it is just his nature and when the guy gets acquainted with the lady, gets it done with the lady(s*x) then the lady’s bar starts dropping gradually like “poor network” till it gets to “no signal”. At that point, the lady’s chat becomes boring and then goes in search for another prey even if he is married.


S*x

I really know premarital s*x is not good ,but believe me, we are in the 21st century. S*x! It is everywhere, 18yrs old people are no longer new to it and you will be surprise of some ages that now practice this act too. That aside, now back to the main point…
S*x is like the second and strongest thing ever that will determine if the relationship needs an alternative or not. One thing I want you to have at the back of your mind is that..(Permit meto be raw here) guys like wide s*x, when I say wide s*x;I mean they want to practice the same things they see in porn movies etc, you can hardly fill a guy who doesn’t like s*x...They are all the same.. Don’t let them lie to you. Guys want doggie, they want bl*wj*bs, they want everything, they want to perform all sort of things, experiment and go wide, But they will never ever ...I mean never ever ask that from the wife they got married to... that is called RESPECT. But as much as they want to show this respect, they still want it. Now the question is… How will they get it? The only option its sort it elsewhere…then they cheat. They go in search for a s*xy spouse out there, that will give them a good bl*wj*b, good doggie etc instead of doing the normal boring thing with their wife (missionary position). Yes missionary position, that’s the only good thing the wife does.
Now the only way out of this if and if only their wife is also wild, and you will rarely see a well brought up lady with that type of drive ( lai lai)

Food
Food is by far the most important thing ever. As the saying goes (the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach). Believe me, if a guy has a lady that cooks like a real chef, He will hardly cheat on her, not to talk of leaving her when he knows a bowl of seafood fried rice, chicken and a bottle of red wine awaits him when he gets home. No man in his right senses will ever think of branching someone else. Very few married women prepare their daily meal like it is prepared for an occasion. Just the normal white rice and stew etc. A guy will always want more. It is just the nature of guys. They want to see new things, feel new things and even want to taste something new. Now this low leads to sourcing it outside and through that process they cheat.

Dressing

Guys go to parties and see some scintillating, mad gorgeous babes with miniskirts and all. At this point, they will be like… “Why does my babe not dress like this?”.
Guys go out everyday and see pretty babes. It takes courage for a guy not to actually get tempted and the percentage is very very low and the cause is total dissatisfaction when it comes to their wives dressing

MERCY ME - "I Can Only Imagine"

I can only imagine
What it will be like
When I walk
By your side

I can only imagine
What my eyes will see
When your face
Is before me
I can only imagine

[Chorus:]
Surrounded by Your glory, what will my heart feel

i really love your post Woged2005 ...Thanks

To the ladies, whats the best way to care for your private part to aviod inbalances...is water good alone when washing it or should soap be applied?..how many times in a day?..i remember i had a friend that complained about her boyfriend saying she dosnt smell good down there so to the question, whats the best way to care for your private part?

End time "one night stand "

mobuch: Of course its normald and romantic.

My wife's pink g-string is always in my suitcase; whenever i get to office in d morning, i open my suitcase and sniff d panty, and i perform excellently well for dat day.

what are u guys really sniffing...piss,ovulation discharge,menstration ...
.or what exactly

like Seriously.....u mean is the normal thing for nigerian guys to sniff panties....wtf

slimmy05: OP, if you're not comfortable with it. You can warn him never to try that anymore or tell your brother to tell his friend never to try that anymore.

thanks....what i did just today was get a lock in my room.. i guess that solves it....
.thanks

My Brother's friend who is btw 17 or 18 came for a Sleepover, am 25 . My Parents were out and wanted me to pretty much 'babysit' them while they were away. time went by and I wanted to go for a Walk. As I got back went back to my Room I saw with my own eyes my Brothers Friend smelling my Underwear from my Laundry Basket I was so shoked I stubbornly cleared my throat and he turned away swiftly and looked at me, and couldnt say a word,dropped my painties and left with shame....later that day I sneakily went into my Brothers Friends bag to see if he took anything, As I opened his bag I saw my Bra and 2 of my Underwear, I just got so Furious but couldn't do much.
What should I do about my brothers friend and is it normal? To me sniffing panties is just disgusting, You are smelling something that someone rubs their genitals on.

My Friends Brother who is btw 17 or 18 came for a Sleepover, am 25 . My Parents were out and wanted me to pretty much 'babysit' them while they were away. time went by and I wanted to go for a Walk. As I got back went back to my Room I saw with my own eyes my Brothers Friend smelling my Underwear from my Laundry Basket I was so shoked I stubbornly cleared my throat and he turned away swiftly and looked at me, and couldnt say a word,dropped my painties and left with shame....later that day I sneakily went into my Brothers Friends bag to see if he took anything, As I opened his bag I saw my Bra and 2 of my Underwear, I just got so Furious but couldn't do much.
What should I do about my brothers friend and is it normal? To me sniffing panties is just disgusting, You are smelling something that someone rubs their genitals on.