Yesterday, I was hanging out with my cousins (male) and as we discussed, one of them brought this up.
He said he has a compiled list of reasons why guys in a serious relationship cheat; which he later broke down into 4.
Read through and let me know your view
Boring relationship
When a relationship is boring i.e no spark, no excitement, nothing...just “hi, welcome, how was work and other phrases…”, the guy gets tired of hearing the same daily rhythm and tend to search for alternative(s) out there.
Girls loves attention, someone they can talk to every minutes, and relate with, but guys get bored easily. They get bored of chatting with same person all the time because in most cases they know every other thing the lady wants to say… So in his mind he’ll be like “so what next??”. They get tired of seeing the same old face all the time, get tired of the same old complains, but mind you, all these varies in one relationship or another but might not be a major reason why some relationships get broken.
A guy will always give attention to a pretty lady that shows interest in chatting with him, it is just his nature and when the guy gets acquainted with the lady, gets it done with the lady(s*x) then the lady’s bar starts dropping gradually like “poor network” till it gets to “no signal”. At that point, the lady’s chat becomes boring and then goes in search for another prey even if he is married.


S*x

I really know premarital s*x is not good ,but believe me, we are in the 21st century. S*x! It is everywhere, 18yrs old people are no longer new to it and you will be surprise of some ages that now practice this act too. That aside, now back to the main point…
S*x is like the second and strongest thing ever that will determine if the relationship needs an alternative or not. One thing I want you to have at the back of your mind is that..(Permit meto be raw here) guys like wide s*x, when I say wide s*x;I mean they want to practice the same things they see in porn movies etc, you can hardly fill a guy who doesn’t like s*x...They are all the same.. Don’t let them lie to you. Guys want doggie, they want bl*wj*bs, they want everything, they want to perform all sort of things, experiment and go wide, But they will never ever ...I mean never ever ask that from the wife they got married to... that is called RESPECT. But as much as they want to show this respect, they still want it. Now the question is… How will they get it? The only option its sort it elsewhere…then they cheat. They go in search for a s*xy spouse out there, that will give them a good bl*wj*b, good doggie etc instead of doing the normal boring thing with their wife (missionary position). Yes missionary position, that’s the only good thing the wife does.
Now the only way out of this if and if only their wife is also wild, and you will rarely see a well brought up lady with that type of drive ( lai lai)

Food
Food is by far the most important thing ever. As the saying goes (the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach). Believe me, if a guy has a lady that cooks like a real chef, He will hardly cheat on her, not to talk of leaving her when he knows a bowl of seafood fried rice, chicken and a bottle of red wine awaits him when he gets home. No man in his right senses will ever think of branching someone else. Very few married women prepare their daily meal like it is prepared for an occasion. Just the normal white rice and stew etc. A guy will always want more. It is just the nature of guys. They want to see new things, feel new things and even want to taste something new. Now this low leads to sourcing it outside and through that process they cheat.

Dressing

Guys go to parties and see some scintillating, mad gorgeous babes with miniskirts and all. At this point, they will be like… “Why does my babe not dress like this?”.
Guys go out everyday and see pretty babes. It takes courage for a guy not to actually get tempted and the percentage is very very low and the cause is total dissatisfaction when it comes to their wives dressing

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Nagging ..I dread a nagging woman

That your cousin dull! (no offence)

CRAP, a guy dat wil cheat wil cheat, even if u feed him frm nw til tomoro,giv him d wildest sex, wear pant and bra always @ home,if he wants to cheat he wil stil cheat, a guy dat has made a decision nt to cheat,wil overlook dis tins or instead talk out tins wit the partner

bullshit!

Rabbish

All dis longinus wey u write dere no follow at all. Na 2day? Guy wey wan cheat go cheat. Na so e dey happen, na so e jux b.

Na only WIDE SEX, how about NARROW sex?

alutacontinua: Na only WIDE SEX, how about NARROW sex?

bunsexy:

S*x

I really know premarital s*x is not good ,but believe me, we are in the 21st century. S*x! It is everywhere, 18yrs old people are no longer new to it and you will be surprise of some ages that now practice this act too. That aside, now back to the main point…
S*x is like the second and strongest thing ever that will determine if the relationship needs an alternative or not. One thing I want you to have at the back of your mind is that..(Permit meto be raw here) guys like wide s*x, when I say wide s*x;I mean they want to practice the same things they see in porn movies etc, you can hardly fill a guy who doesn’t like s*x...They are all the same.. Don’t let them lie to you. Guys want doggie, they want bl*wj*bs, they want everything, they want to perform all sort of things, experiment and go wide, But they will never ever ...I mean never ever ask that from the wife they got married to... that is called RESPECT. But as much as they want to show this respect, they still want it. Now the question is… How will they get it? The only option its sort it elsewhere…then they cheat. They go in search for a s*xy spouse out there, that will give them a good bl*wj*b, good doggie etc instead of doing the normal boring thing with their wife (missionary position). Yes missionary position, that’s the only good thing the wife does.
Now the only way out of this if and if only their wife is also wild, and you will rarely see a well brought up lady with that type of drive ( lai lai)

so a well brought up lady cannot have a good and wonderful sex with her husband?and so the sex style of missionary position is what a well brought lady should always have?tell that ur cousin that he or she is very dull

crap

This write-up contains some of the most ridiculous things I've ever heard.

First and foremost, daily greeting such as,"Hi, how was your day?" Do not equate "no spark or excitement" in the relationship/marriage. Keeping the relationship exciting is not the duty of the wife alone, it's both the responsibility of both parties. There are many ways to keep the fire burning in your relationship/marriage. For example, make time for date nights, romantic outings, romantic vacations and quality time together. In order for this to succeed, effort is required from both individuals.

If you don't want to see the same face everyday, don't get married. Stay single so that you can have the liberty of running from one chick to another. It's that simple.

Secondly, who said a well brought up woman can't give her man amazing sex? This has to be the dumbest thing I've heard in a very long time. Of course a well brought up woman can turn it up in the bedroom and satisfy her man. I think it's great for couples to try new things in the bedroom. It's a great way to bond, plus it helps in keeping the excitement.

Ladies, once in a while wear a sexy lingerie for your man, strip for him, when he comes home from work, meet him at the door naked -- wear only a cute robe. Keep the fire burning!

As for dressing, if a man doesn't like the way his woman dresses he should start buying her the kind of clothes he wants her to wear. Why go chasing other women when all you have to do is say, "Baby, I don't like that. I want you to wear this or that." or "Sweetie, I love it when you wear curly hair. It brings your beauty out." By doing this, you are teaching her what you like. Most women love to please their men, so they will do as he wants.

This your cousin must be a young boy 'cause no grown man can provide such foolishness for reasons as to why men cheat.

bunsexy: Yesterday, I was hanging out with my cousins (male) and as we discussed, one of them brought this up.
He said he has a compiled list of reasons why guys in a serious relationship cheat; which he later broke down into 4.
Read through and let me know your view
Boring relationship
When a relationship is boring i.e no spark, no excitement, nothing...just “hi, welcome, how was work and other phrases…”, the guy gets tired of hearing the same daily rhythm and tend to search for alternative(s) out there.
Girls loves attention, someone they can talk to every minutes, and relate with, but guys get bored easily. They get bored of chatting with same person all the time because in most cases they know every other thing the lady wants to say… So in his mind he’ll be like “so what next??”. They get tired of seeing the same old face all the time, get tired of the same old complains, but mind you, all these varies in one relationship or another but might not be a major reason why some relationships get broken.
A guy will always give attention to a pretty lady that shows interest in chatting with him, it is just his nature and when the guy gets acquainted with the lady, gets it done with the lady(s*x) then the lady’s bar starts dropping gradually like “poor network” till it gets to “no signal”. At that point, the lady’s chat becomes boring and then goes in search for another prey even if he is married.


S*x

I really know premarital s*x is not good ,but believe me, we are in the 21st century. S*x! It is everywhere, 18yrs old people are no longer new to it and you will be surprise of some ages that now practice this act too. That aside, now back to the main point…
S*x is like the second and strongest thing ever that will determine if the relationship needs an alternative or not. One thing I want you to have at the back of your mind is that..(Permit meto be raw here) guys like wide s*x, when I say wide s*x;I mean they want to practice the same things they see in porn movies etc, you can hardly fill a guy who doesn’t like s*x...They are all the same.. Don’t let them lie to you. Guys want doggie, they want bl*wj*bs, they want everything, they want to perform all sort of things, experiment and go wide, But they will never ever ...I mean never ever ask that from the wife they got married to... that is called RESPECT. But as much as they want to show this respect, they still want it. Now the question is… How will they get it? The only option its sort it elsewhere…then they cheat. They go in search for a s*xy spouse out there, that will give them a good bl*wj*b, good doggie etc instead of doing the normal boring thing with their wife (missionary position). Yes missionary position, that’s the only good thing the wife does.
Now the only way out of this if and if only their wife is also wild, and you will rarely see a well brought up lady with that type of drive ( lai lai)

Food
Food is by far the most important thing ever. As the saying goes (the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach). Believe me, if a guy has a lady that cooks like a real chef, He will hardly cheat on her, not to talk of leaving her when he knows a bowl of seafood fried rice, chicken and a bottle of red wine awaits him when he gets home. No man in his right senses will ever think of branching someone else. Very few married women prepare their daily meal like it is prepared for an occasion. Just the normal white rice and stew etc. A guy will always want more. It is just the nature of guys. They want to see new things, feel new things and even want to taste something new. Now this low leads to sourcing it outside and through that process they cheat.

Dressing

Guys go to parties and see some scintillating, mad gorgeous babes with miniskirts and all. At this point, they will be like… “Why does my babe not dress like this?”.
Guys go out everyday and see pretty babes. It takes courage for a guy not to actually get tempted and the percentage is very very low and the cause is total dissatisfaction when it comes to their wives dressing

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mennn ur cousin is Man with a boyish mentality. A man's wife is a TRUE reflection of d man HIMSELF. So if his wife is boring, he is boring also.
A CHEAT IS ALWYS A CHEAT BE YE MALE OR FEMALE.

@ OP, your post is wrong on multiple levels.

OP pls try beta nxt tym y'hear....buh wait o...whc 1 z "wide sex"?

First tym i agree wit wat iaz posted,ur cousin is rily dull,so u/ur cousin tinks guys jst lyk gurls dat give them wide s*x and wears mini skirt,sure!guys r st.upid bt nt dat st.upid..

Petitequeen: OP pls try beta nxt tym y'hear....buh wait o...whc 1 z "wide sex"?

I guess wide sex is the name of one ghanian movie like that,the cousin or the op is having negative effect of watching too much nollywood and ghollywood movie so that is why they have become the gullible type.

leavestory: I guess wide sex is the name of one ghanian movie like that,the cousin or the op is having negative effect of watching too much nollywood and ghollywood movie so that is why they have become the gullible type.

abeg leavestory pls m eatin, dnt make me go "wide with laughter" pls..i dnt want my throat 2 b "pepperized"..abeg

Petitequeen:
abeg leavestory pls m eatin, dnt make me go "wide with laughter" pls..i dnt want my throat 2 b "pepperized"..abeg

leavestory: I guess wide sex is the name of one ghanian movie like that,the cousin or the op is having negative effect of watching too much nollywood and ghollywood movie so that is why they have become the gullible type.

with em hawush,hawush baby,take it deeper,faster,haaaa,,yeaaahhh.am comming.whos your daddy its peter,.smh

Boredom is n remains one of d biggest but yet unrecognised reason people cheat.
If d excitement level starts dropping n continuosly so, then u had best b careful.
Everybody likes d thrill..d occasional edge while hangin onto d safety rope.
Nobody likes stale /lukewarmness, not even God.
Strive t keep tins continually fresh..reinvent urself, continually develop n grow
KEEP TINS FRESH..n exciting

njuwo: All dis longinus wey u write dere no follow at all. Na 2day? Guy wey wan cheat go cheat. Na so e dey happen, na so e jux b.

So does dat mean u Will not play ur own part t minimise d chances of that happening ??
Cover ur bases n blive f d best..
To each their own
Am outtie

this is a front page material..... mods should push this to front page

kulyie:

with em hawush,hawush baby,take it deeper,faster,haaaa,,yeaaahhh.am comming.whos your daddy its peter,.smh

abeg no spoil me oooo,wetin dem dey take deeper,faster?shey na lyrics from song?lol