₦airaland Forum

Blacklister:
Albaqir God will bless u abundantly and continue to increase u in knowledge .Amin.

phetto:
Dis is business, It is Halai

AbdelKabir:
Done that already....... And the answer is not there...

AbdelKabir:
Done that already and when I did no "more" there, checked settings, nothing reasonable, checked import/export nothing reasonable either...

AbdelKabir:
Thanks! BT it seems my display is different from yours...

AbdelKabir:
Then there is a p o......can u give screen shots pls..

AbdelKabir:
Went to my "contacts"(on phone) but did not see anything like " more"......I'm running on android 6......

AbdelKabir:
Lol..

BTW...

Just retrieved my sim, do you have an idea how to retrieve your contacts on a newly retrieved sim?

Rilwayne001:
Replace brother with Demmzy15 please

onegig:
Why do you sound like someone from Nairaland's past?

It's good you have these long lists.

However, you know why we most times have challenges in today's marriages? It is because we take offence at the slightest things that doesn't go with our rule book.

When we were courting he never had a used singlet on, never wore the same dress twice agreed his mum would never stay with us for a single day, I can't cook fresh meals, she has to always look se.xy, his breath was always lovely and so on but now the opposite is the case...These little things that doesn't tally with our ideals amounts to bigger things that shreds up the marriage in the end.


You don't want a family that you would greet in english and they would take offence? I know it's an example but what if they consider greeting them in English that disrespectful? And it's not like they are being stoic and archaic but they just feel that way? What would you do? Stick to your guns or call it quits?

Truth is compromise goes a long way. Yeah, there are certain things that are truly not acceptable like a man cheating and so on but I can assure you, he would "bleeping" (i used the f word) go against many of those things you listed up there unconsciously and you would definitely do things he considers unacceptable. Humans aren't robots and even machines do fail. For me not to annoy or piss you off sometimes would be boring as hell in a marriage.

Do you have an heart to close your eyes to such minor things and learn to just forgive every second and move on ?

Wait , did i just read gym? Chai. Daily living in Nigeria is enough, i don't know how those who are a bit overweight manage it. And you want to add to those rigours?

But in all, a girl can dream and imagine. Wish you get all those qualities


As for reviving the thread. It is all good but peeps say we talked too much without taking actual steps to achieve all those noble ideas. I can assure you that less than 10% of all those who made "mouth" on this thread few years back are married( yeah we know it's destiny and God's time) but nonetheless if you bring them back today, they still have lots of excuses and their ever changing lists of qualities to give e.g. Mr busar up there



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Toyorsih:
Yes they have, the battery status bug has been fixed

peterbello:
How is the OS update so far? Are you guys experiencing any other issues with it?

Cc: toyorsih, prescott001, jameek, directonpc

golpen:
From dawahnigeria fb page...like them

Sometimes,
I want to open my Hijab,
and show the world
that I too,
Am beautiful in the people's definition.
But,
Deep down here,
in my little heart,
I know that beauty is by definition, a mystery.
And it is forever more rewarding,
to be beautiful in God's eyes.

Sometimes,
I want to wear ruffled dresses & tight jeans
show off what I really look like,
under those baggy shirts & loosely fitted pants
make a statement that I too have a figure and worth looking at.
But,
I know better,
to avoid entering the world of men's imagination,
for I love my future hubby
and I am ashamed,
what should be his, has already be unveiled by others.

Sometimes,
I want to show the world,
the other side of me,
the bubblier, bolder and crazier me,
put myself on display
for everyone to see, to be desired and admired upon.
But,
I know that eyes are not just eyes
seeing is not just seeing,
Image & Respect are gained,
Shame & Humility deserve a better place...

Copied from Abdusalam Hiqmat Kehinde
August 14, 2013

AbdelKabir:
The books this hadeeth was mentioned like kitaab kabaa'ir of Adh-Dhahabi was mentioned without any chain, even when a shaafi'i scholar wanted to mention it, he said it should ne noted that all it said was "it was reported....." no chain, nothing! so in essense we are not sure if its authentic or not......people cared less about it since it wasnt attributed to the prophet...



the ones that said its compulsory said so, cuz stories like the one you brought has not been established to be authentic, since there is no chain....



This is true, one of the reasons why i believe its not compulsory is, you can't say its haraam for falling short at times.......The bold part is true to some % since there is a possibility of it being compulsory as some scholars stated, and the narration you brought is not established. barakallaahu feeki.

ayowiz:
Still needed

ayowiz:
Still needed

baddo11:
We've got alot of them here in Nigeria....but why the tag MUSLIM boy?