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raytony: . Na until u see punch website or Osun defender before you go believe? Na me be the source. Picture evidence no do u?

Realtony76: I plan on getting a Gionee P2 tomorrow @ikeja but a friend said it is no long in the market because from his explanation he said he checked almost everywhere ... Please can anyone confirm this?

yes,it's now scarce/costly.But you can contact Elijahdre ,a friend got it from him last week at reasonable prise.

cannonnier: there is hadith that point najash(i.e splashing of urine on the body) as one of the major cause of torment in the kabr.
standing or squating, just avoid the spray of urine on to your body.
it's more like islamic moral.

That's the lesson.Even the prophet was reported to have urinated while standing.

tbaba1234: A lot of common sense in that post.

yes!

^^good writeup.

Danmas: Seriously, i use to pity our sisters' on what they go through in marriage after years of courtship, but most of the time its there inability to see beyond their fingers, they substitutes illusion with reality and latter end of regreting. They usually class the good guys as boring/unwise and ignore them for the percieved CHarming!
As Mac. Mentioned, guys promise them this and that and they will believe which after marriege turn out to be elusion.
May Allah help us. Ameen

The most annoying part is that the said person (husband) is a brother that use to do dawah to people. Though our sisters also have their own flaws .

tbaba1234: "Any women who leaves her house without her husband's permission will be in Allah's displeasure until she returns to the house or her husband becomes happy with her." Fabricated No.1020

Did you see the above

May Allah forgive us.

I know of one similar hadith to this. Aameen

mrsincredible: u see why ur topics don't make front page cos you can't can't even stand a debate without a fight.

If u all claim to have sense why is front page an issue? Cos I don't get wat ur problem is?

But this threa d isn't directed to you.Nobody asked for your opinion.

Pathetic!

@Lanrexlan, ignore all these boys/girls of nl.They are just trolls.
Don't allow them derail this thread.
As salaamu alaykum

It's quite unfortunate that some people act upon these ahaadith.Even some so called "Islamic singers" do quote them to backup their ignorance.

Posted by bro.Yousuf on facbook.
As-Salaamu'Alaikum wa'Rahma tu'Llahi
wa'berta khatu. Below are some weak A-
Hadeeth from Silsilatul-Ahaadeeth ad-Da'eefah
forwarded to me through a salafi email group in
Ohio, insha-Allah for the brothers and sisters to
benefit from our shaikh Al-Albani
(Rahima'hu'Llah)...
1. " The Deen is the brain, and he who has no
religion has no brain." Batil No.1
2. "Whose prayer does not stop him from evil
and sins he will only get further away from
Allah." Batil No.2
3. "Work for this life as if you are living forever
and the Hereafter as if you will die tomorrow."
No Hadith No.8
4. "I have been sent as a teacher." Daif No.11
5. " Two types of people from my Ummah, if
they are good my people will be good: the
leaders and scholars." Fabricated No.16
6. " I don't need to ask Him for He knows my
affair." This saying is attributed to prophet
Ibrahim (alayhe salaam). It's alleged he said it
before he was thrown into the fire}. Fabricated.
No.21
7. " Adam (alayhe salaam) saw the kalmia (La
illaha illallah Muhammad dur Rasoolulah) written
on the Arsh (Allah's throne)." Fabricated No.25
8. " There is goodness in me and my Ummah
until the day of Judgment." Fabricated No.30
9. " To love ones own country is a sign of Iman."
Fabricated No.36
10. " Who sleeps after 'Asr and losses his mind
should blame non but himself." Daif No.39
11. " Whoever performs Hajj and does not visit
me has boycotted me." No.45This and all the
other Hadiths about visiting the Prophet
(salallahu alayhe salaam) after his death are
Fabricated.
12. "Disagreement amongst my Ummah is a
mercy." Fabricated No.57
13. " My Sahabah are like stars..." This and
other Hadith with different endings are all
fabricated. No.58
14. " My household (Hal al Bait) are like stars...."
Fabricated No.62
15. " My Lord has disciplined me well." Daif
No.72
16. " To rub the eyes when hearing the
Adhan..." Fabricated No.73
17. " All people are dead except the Scholars,
and all the Scholars are punished except the
workers, and all the workers are drowned except
the sincere, and the sincere are in great
danger." Fabricated No.76
18. " There is no Mahdi except Isa (alayhe
salaam)." Munkar No.77
19. Prayer with the Aamama (head clothing) is
equivalent to 25 prayers than without it...."
Fabricated No.127
20. " Get married and do not divorce because
divorce shakes the Arsh." Fabricated No.147
21. "Love the Arabs for three; because I am an
Arab, the Qur'an is in Arabic and the language
of Jannah is Arabic." Fabricated No.160
22. "For everything there is a heart, and for the
Qur'an this is Surah Ya Sin and who reads it, it
is as if he has read the Qur'an ten times."
Fabricated No.169
23. "Contemplation for one hour is better than
worship for sixty years." Fabricated No.173
24. " Hajj is Jihad and Umrah is optional." Daif
No..200
25. " The neighbours rights are up to forty
houses away..." Daif No.274
26. " I was a Prophet before Adam (alayhe
salaam) and before the water and the mud...."
Fabricated No.302
27. "Who does not care for the Muslims affairs is
not one of them..." Daif No.309
28. " As you are, so will be your leaders." Daif
No.320
29. " Who abides by my Sunnah at the time of
corruption of my Ummah he will get the reward
of a hundred martyrs..." Daif No.326
30. "The Prophet (salallahu alayhe salaam)
kissed a Sahabah by the hand and said that this
hand will not be touched by fire." Batil No.391
31. "Seek knowledge even in China." Batil
No.416
32. " People will be called on the Day of
Judgment by their mothers names." Fabricated
No.433
33. " As Sultan (The Ruler) is the shadow of Allah
on the earth..." Fabricated No.475
34. " Exaggerate in remembering Allah until
others call you mad." Daif No.517
35. " The son of Adam (alayhe salaam) does not
do a dearer deed than on the Day of Nahaar
(sacrifice during Eid ul Adha) than spilling blood
of the sacrifice. It will come on the Day of
Judgment with its horn, wool and huffs and
Allah accepts the sacrifice before its blood
reaches the ground..." Daif/ Fabricated No.526
36. " He used to pray in Ramadan twenty rakahs
taraweeah and the witr." Fabricated No.560
37. " When the Prophet (salallahu alayhe
salaam) came into Medina the women and
children were singing Ta la al badroo
aalaynaa....." Daif No.598
38. " The believer is courteous, clever and alert."
Fabricated No.760
39. " Who honours the women is noble and who
humiliates them is mean." Fabricated No.845
40. " O my Uncle if they placed the sun in my
right and the moon in my left to give up this
matter (Islam) I would not do so, until Allah
makes it prevail or I perish in the process." Daif
No.909
41. " Do not urinate standing up." Daif No.934
42. " He use to stand on the mimbar leaning on
a stick while giving the Khutbah." Daif No.964
43. " Ali (radiAllahu Anhu) missed the 'Asr
prayer and the Prophet (salallahu alayhe
salaam) prayed for the sun to reappear until Ali
(radiAllahu Anhu) had prayed." Fabricated
No.971
44. " One day from a Imam 'Adl (Just Ruler) is
better than sixty years of worship." Daif No.989
45. "Whose prayer does not stop him from evil
and sins, will not be accepted." Munkar No.985
46. "He used to pray four before Jumah and
four after." Batil No.1001
47. " Any women who leaves here house without
her husband's permission will be in Allah's
displeasure until she returns to the house or her
husband becomes happy with her." Fabricated
No.1020
48. " The dearest women to the Prophet
(salallahu alayhe salaam) is Fatima (radiAllahu
Anhu), and from the men is Ali (radiAllahu
Anhu)." Batil No.1124
49. " Who has died has met his Qiyamah." Daif
No.1166
50. " I recommend the two cures, honey and
Qur'an."Daif No.1514
51. " If someone backbites his brother then you
should seek forgiveness for him as this is a
kaffarah" Fabricated/Daif No.1518
52 . "I am an 'Arab, the Qur'aan is in 'Arabic,
and the language of the people of Paradise is
'Arabic."
This narration was collected by At-Tabaraanee in
Al-Mu'jam Al-Awsat (2/285). Al-Albaanee called
it mawdhoo' (fabricated) in
Silsilatul-Ahaadeethid-Dha'eefah

Baarak-Allaahu Feekum - wa sal-Allaahu wa-
sallam 'alaa Nabiyyinaa Muhammad,
was-Salaam 'alaykum wa-Rahmatullaahe wa-
Barakaatuh.

Abu' Salafia'tayn Faruq Al-Fauzani As-Salafi 'ibn
Fuqua

-From As-Salafiyoon in Columbus-

deols: What if he grounds her?

Even a governor did that to his wife.

And if she is suffering and could die from his beating, she should leave.

What is that list of what you must protect?
1. Religion
2. lives
3. cant remember.

Her life is more sacred than the marriage institution.

Marriage is not a do or die affair.There are always options.

onegig: Wht about if she doesnt want to seek divorce?

What of she wants a change in him?


Is it not someone who comes out unscathed that would seek divorce?

Might not be physical ill treatment it might be emotional abuse or lack of care?

Be realistic, Which man would accent to his wife returning to her parents because of maltreatment?

If she asks and he declines her request but the ill treatment continues. What happens?

She can go to sharia council for the divorce if he declined. But if she didn't want to divorce him,she can then invite the third party if it persist.

onegig: I thought as much. Because the husband at that point has lost the position of head of the house and protector of his family.

His rights over her is limited and i don't think the normal routine CAN be applicable here.

His right over her ain't unlimited before. But I think he still have the same rights he had before.
But if the lady is tired of the marriage,she can simply tell him to release(divorce) her .

tbaba1234: This is a fiqh issue and beyond our scope.

Ordinarily, she needs to seek permission but this is a special scenario of abuse.

This is exactly what I know of.
I was discussing with a muslimah(married) one day and she made mention of brothers hiding their true character from the sister.But she would get to know his true character afterward.
I think/know that she(the sister) is experiencing the same thing.
Question: how can you know the true character of someone without courtship before marriage?

onegig: You dont wanna see a mob of ladies carry stick and chasing you for "advocating" they get beat for locking their husbands in.

Can a married women leave her husband's to her her parent's house due to I'll treatment from the husband without his permission?
Note:let give responce without sentiment please.

What's happening in here

Sheykul Islam: I guessed your problem was u dont know the meaning of a companion.

Sissie: SMH so stopping a man from going out and breaking his phone is now enough reason to get beaten!!!!!
How dare she, she should be beaten to the extent she would have to be treated in the hospital next time ko ni dan wo.

Where do this people come from, better people living in dream land than indirect domestic violence supporters.

you are missing something here

@deols,did you read mac's post at all

deols: Is it now normal to classify men into
a. those who beat their wives
b.those who don't beat their wives

argh!! when I thought we made progress

Some people will even get married with the thought that they would beat their wife if she misbehaves. Words like 'misbehave' and 'punishment' is frequent in their vocabulary.

What is my own?

I can only be bothered about the greater good of the society. Children who watch their father beat their mother can never be normal. I only pity those Children.

I can't be bothered about the He-whatever who is planning to hit or beat his misbehaving wife. I can bother much less about the female(drum) who thinks being beaten is normal.


The question to ask is, so the man got annoyed and decides to beat her. Would it be ok that she beats him when she gets annoyed as well?

Not what you are thinking sister. That should be the last resort. Just a soft push/hit in o, not the one you are used to

maclatunji: Ok, wife stands at door and blocks husband from going to work? Husband tries to call her "people", wife pounces on his phone and throws it away.

Man has to get to work on time or there will be serious repercussions which could lead to his dismissal.

Husband has tried for wife to reason with him but she won't. What do you think the husband should do in such a situation?

Start begging her.. ...Just got to do the needful.A little hit will do
But if the husband was the type that don't beat his wife,that little would made her come to her senses in sha Allah.

deols: arghhh.sorry o.

Didnt mean to insult you.
I will not joke with you again. bye

Pelummy: it's not an insult , just a joke

No wahala

tbaba1234: In true mafian fashion, my dad told my sister's husband that the day he beats her, he will fly over there, break his legs and take his daughter.

.It will rings into his ears whenever they have misunderstanding

Pelummy: deols hurt u? sowie

it's insulting........

deols: I hope you learnt your lesson, busybody

Beating won't even stop her from nagging/misbehaving in the house.there are several ways to punish a wife /women besides beating/flogging, it will even worsen the situation at hand. The best I will suggest is for the man to keep calm when she's boiling. but when she comes back to her sense he can talk some sense into her dry brain.
A neigbhour of mine was fighting with his wife one day,he was so angered to the extent that he picked a plank to hit his wife but fortunately the plank hit a fellow neighbour that was seperating them on her arm.The poor neighbour suffers the pain for days.
Note:Anything can happen during the fight.I remenbered a day I was trying to seperate a fighting couple,I was hit in the stomach. during the course.

chidoo4luv: godvilla help your man abeg

this guy is desperate oh.