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tbaba1234: Looking forward, It will be good to have an organised structure so that things are done better.

That's right

^^I thought that has been dealt with before

Hello guys, I'm through with the screening since last week. What's the next thing I will do that won't require payment? Because I don't have the school fees right now. I'm looking forward to seeing your response.

Has anyone tried ifont on this device? I no won brick my fone oh..

Please what is the current price of this phone?

Can't even subscribe to their daily plan oh. I was told '' invalid code ''

brightlomo: mori wipe oo gba eko ile. nitorina ni oo fi mo oro dasi lawujo. wo ibi ti aileko ile gbe e de. idiot

Jazaakallahu khayran. This tips are beneficial. Need to copy, paste and broadcast

What's the essence of greeting when you don't agree with the celebration? It's like wishing people Merry Christmas when you don't quite agree with the celebration.
Remember one thing leads to anotther.
Rem

Sissie: I have discussed with friends and I hear men say, for some of them they know almost immediately they meet a female if they want to marry her or not, that's before the getting to know you phase, do any of the guys here think so too?

The getting to know you phase just usually reinforce what they initially thought.

I don't get you.

babylolaroy: Here is another sorry case. imagine! am getting defensive over my name?. are you kidding me?!!!
if people had to correct you over your name before you got it right, den i pity you. i know my own name right and i know what av chosen to draw of it. besides its none of your business. i didnt mean this to become like this buh i see you need it. you know thats what you do about all threads, creating side attractions and seeking attentions.
And lastly if you think i needed someone like you to tell me the difference between child and baby, den am sorry to disappoint you. NO

Now pls if you dont mind, i'll like you to clear off my path and stop being a meddlesome interlopper

small small ..... That's too much. I don't think she meant it that way.

maclatunji: Neither did they eat eba, wear suits or practice Taekwando.

this your question dey make me laugh oh.

Sissie: @busar we are not talking about celebrating it, we are talking about just saying/greeting happy birthday either the person is celebrating it or not.

I.e it's my birthday, I decide to fast and my sister wishes me a happy birthday. It's not about celebrating it.

It is not allowed to fast on ones birthday. Had it been it's allowed the companions would have fasted on their birthdays.

babylolaroy: mashaaAllah. i love that reply mac. yu see busar, i dont agree with yu. it is sed that we shud not make d day extra special. if we av to be realistic, yu wnt erase it from ur memory dat you were born on a certain date. you can pray and praise and thank Allah for the gift of life and bounties so far. others can say happy bday if dey want, afterall we say happy married life. just dont 'worship' the day by treating it extra different from other days

Marriage is allowed in Islam but birthday isn't.And there are ways of greeting married couple in the sharia .There is nothing like birthday in islam,you should not even initiate the greeting.Nobody can say that the prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم didn't know his date of birth or any sahaba didn't know? Did he make any special prayer it? Or did any sahaba wished him on his birth day?

From Islam QA
what is the evidence on celebrating birthdays,is it allowed in islam?


The evidence in the Qur’aan and Sunnah indicates that celebrating birthdays is a kind of bid’ah or innovation in religion, which has no basis in the pure sharee’ah. It is not permitted to accept invitations to birthday celebrations, because this involves supporting and encouraging bid’ah. Allaah, may He be glorified and exalted, says (interpretation of the meaning):

“Or have they partners with Allaah (false gods) who have instituted for them a religion which Allaah has not allowed…?” [al-Shoora 42:21]

“Then We have put you (O Muhammad) on a plain way of (Our) commandment. So follow that, and follow not the desires of those who know not. Verily, they can avail you nothing against Allaah (if He wants to puish you). Verily, the zaalimoon (wrongdoers) are awliyaa’ (protectors, helpers, etc.) to one another, but Allaah is the Wali (Protector, Helper) of the muttaqoon (pious).” [al-Jaathiyah 45:18-19]

“Follow what has been sent down unto you from your Lord, and follow not any awliyaa’ (protectors, helpers, etc.) besides Him. Little do you remember!” [al-A’raaf 7:3]

According to saheeh reports, the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Whoever does something that is a not part of this matter of ours (i.e., Islam) will have it rejected” (reported by Muslim in his Saheeh); and “The best of speech is the Book of Allaah and the best of guidance is the guidance of Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him). The most evil of things are those which have been newly invented (in religion), and every innovation is a going astray.” There are many other ahaadeeth that convey the same meaning.

Besides being bid’ah and having no basis in sharee’ah, these birthday celebrations also involve imitation of the Jews and Christians in their birthday celebrations. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said, warning us against following their ways and traditions: “You would follow the ways of those who came before you step by step, to such an extent that if they were to enter a lizard’s hole, you would enter it too.” They said, “O Messenger of Allaah, (do you mean) the Jews and Christians?” He said, “Who else?” (Reported by al-Bukhaari and Muslim). The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) also said: “Whoever imitates a people is one of them.”

Sissie: Proof please.

The Prophet (saw) and his companions did not do such. You can bring forth yours if you had anything contrary to this.

In summary, it's not islamic.

maclatunji: Yes, if you are thankful for being alive and do not exceed boundaries that apply to any other day.

that's different bro. We should always give thanks to Alllah not just a particular day.

Sissie: @ameerah
May Allah guide our affairs, and accept our prayers, amin.

P.s can I still say happy birthday or is it haram,

is there anything like 'happy birthday'

[qoute author=tbaba1234]Also, if we have sisters/brothers 'desperate' for marriage. It is an indictment on the muslim community. We have not created avenues for eligible brothers and sisters to do it the halal way. Parents and society create a stumbling block for eligible single to marry earlier. A lady must have x degrees before you accept a proposal.

We make the halal difficult and the haram easy. Look around you, the haram is all around.[/quote]Nowadays, people can't even differentiate between halal and haram. Someone once asked me one day, ' I've not seen you with any lady before or any coming to visit you'. I just told him that I'm not ready for marriage now, so there is no point in having a girlfriend or something of sorts.
When you tell people that girlfriend and boyfriend are haram the next question would be 'will you just pick a lady on the street and marry?'. Our people need understand,most especially our parents.May Allah make us steadfast.

I don't think the said lady was desperate. It was the husband that asked for it not her.

Sissie: Desperation don't make them see/know it's a pity case.

Who is desperate?? I don't understand what you guys are saying.

Sissie: Lol, actually had something similar happened to me, a lady suggested her husband.

She's known me for long, and so she asked me if I had someone to marry, and if I would marry her husband or his he too old and not my type lol. The husband told her he wants a second wife and she should help him look for one.

How did you feel when when she suggested that? If i may ask oh.

Nice contributions from tbaba so far. Jazaakumullahu khayran to you all.
As single brother can you marry a widow or a divorcee? Because there are lot of young widows and divorcees out there. Sisters can also help other sisters by suggesting them to their husbands as wife(ves) .
If you didn't marry them,who will?

My question to the brothers. ...... Loading..........

tbaba1234: ^Once a man and a woman are engaged in prolonged interaction. There is always the possibility of attraction.

So even if a woman genuinely dislikes a fellow now, it is not unlikely that his persistence might pay off.

Islamically, this is not a correct methodology.

rightly said!

^^

Abu, ummu, 'Aaishah, Abdur rahmaan and small Abdullah

^^you are welcome to the bachellors and spinsters hood. . Looking forward to seeing your comments.

It's part of it

Just seeing this. May Allah forgive him of his sins and grant him Al jannah. Sorry my beloved bro.

What will someone that didn't finish primary school put down in the space provided for primary school?