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[quote author=Busy_body link=topic=212459.msg3279761#msg3279761 date=1230515724]Sharon, Gi' us a kiss for that loff In fact i would have told you not to get married yet but wait for me, to add you as my second husband, for these eye-opening FACTS, if not for the fact that i would have to contend with the Deboskinator Who is Tangent, little bie, Tope2000, Busy_body [/quote]thats it

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=212459.msg3279752#msg3279752 date=1230515510]Tope, u of all people.
You are the biggest flirt on NL. . . . . .Whatz ur hubby's number. L'emme show him what you have been up to on NL.

I can't be bovvered.
Those who come here to flirt are generally the hard ones. They are as tough as nails.
The holier than thou ones are the types u should be wary of. . . . . . .They are the Queen Jezebelz. [/quote]sweetie open ur back door tonight,im coming to take good care of u

JJYOU:
@ busybein , 
hope i answerd your questions?  tell me why would you enjoy flirting with people

yes u did

i flirt not becos i wanna toy wt pples mind but just for fun,i never fail to tell or remind pple of my relationship/marital status when i chat wt them or flirt,dat person has to have it at d back of his mind dat dis girl means no harm

[quote author=*Toyinrayo link=topic=212459.msg3279746#msg3279746 date=1230515380]lolol, so does womennnnnnnnnn. . . .PMS, Pregnancy[/quote]yeah no doubt,but like i said a girl can chat wt a naked guy on cam and still not feel anything,but a man can't keep his third leg down when he sees a naked woman on cam

toyin if a woman really means and wants to be faithful,she will,women can be very determined "if" they want to be

tpia:
I tire.

people and their obsession fixation with what they claim not to believe in.

which bible translation has bread and fishes falling from heaven?

adams bible

H2O2:
Why are men not allowed to flirt?

they loose control easily

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=212459.msg3279713#msg3279713 date=1230514763]That is what people don't get. . . . . .All of a sudden, married men/women should be seen as sacred cows.
They ain't aliens. . . . . .People would hit on married women/men anywhere. Is "MARRIED" printed on their foreheads??[/quote]abi ooo,even at my work place,people still flirt wt me,but i never bother because my man flirts wt me like crazy

like busybody said,its only someone whos starved of sthg,not necessrily sex that will fall for mere online flirting

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=212459.msg3279713#msg3279713 date=1230514763]I don't think i would mind. . . . . . .Unless i expect her to carve out her vagina, parcel it and send it via DHL to the guy he met who resides in India. [/quote]ok dis is funnyyy

[quote author=*Toyinrayo link=topic=212459.msg3279701#msg3279701 date=1230514565]Then it's fair to say that married couples who flirts online are very much stupid.

You logged off ni o, I don't care.
If I find my husband flirting online, I'd take it serious. Because I don't know what the hell he's been doing with her.
lolol, clean mind, if it's not clean nko? oje bi.[/quote]i said im allowed to flirt but hes not

Flirting. . . .define what you mean by clean mind.

A marriage that is danger of failure should not even be exposed to internet affair. . . . .infact no marriage should be exposed to such

clean mind is innocent mind

but all dis flirting stuff is done innocently ooooo no strings attached

H2O2:
Married women deliberately initiating and doing the flirting is another issue.

its not deliberate,some men think women r flirting wt them wt just a little smile from her lips,she did it innocently,but men as usual,always wetting their pants at any slightest opp

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=212459.msg3279672#msg3279672 date=1230514085]Married women are human beings too.
People get to flirt with em in the real world, how much more the cyber world??[/quote]have i given u ur night kiss

d amount of flirts i get everyday in d real world r more than sauron and co i get to meet here

H2O2:
here's a hypothetical situation:
How would you confirm that the hidden identity on the other end of the computer is not jacking off to your "small" affectionate words?  If you find out he's doing it would you still continue it?  Better to be safe than sorry.

let him jerk offf,well if i find out then i might as well stop  flirting with him

but like i said men should not flirt but women r free to,cant stand it if he flirts wt one woman on d net

arrrrrrrrrrrrrrrggggggggg

"Your brain is connected to your mind, Your mind is connected to your common sense etc" lmao Grin Grin

Get into a woman's miind, and you're rich!!!!!!!!

Is she stupid?HuhHuh? Not necessarily, she's just getting what her husband can't give her some where else

yes shes stupid,u dont even need to flirt wt one before feelings come toyin,it might start from admiration(maybe his posts) and stuffs,havent u seen pple tripping for guys they have not evn chatted with na today

na stupid woman go fall ooo,if u really love ur man,and u get wat u want from him,so why should i fall for an invisible face

lmao. . . .sometimes, we should take time to separate reality from online, no?
For a man who flirts with a woman, begins having feelings for her, if he logs off, she's still in his mind.

If your husband doe snot give you the attention you deserve, yet another is giving it to you, what will you do?

Am surprised you did not mention self-control. . . .maybe self control plays a role? or maybe it doesn't.

aww ive missed AJ,where is she,like she will always say,as long as it is done wt a clean mind,dats why i said its only pple dat lack attention dat will fall for dat rubbish

imagine my man telling me how pretty i am,and how sexy i look,whispering sweet nothings  to my ears and telling me how much he loves,and then takes me to bed and does d acrobatic dance  tell me if i log on after d whole exercise and decide to flirt,do u realy think it will come wt feelings,d feelings there will be of wa happend a couple of mins ago wt my man and not an invisible face

even wtout my man doing anything, d facvt dat we r living happily and playing like kids will be d first thing in my mind

H2O2:
How do you draw the line between harmless flirting and seriously flirting?

as long as its done online,no exchage of numbers or contacts,not even YIM chat then its harmless

as long as u don't harbour unnecessary feeling s for that person its cool

just that some girls easily fall for dudes,even if its a rat that is chatting wt them they will fall,but i blive most of dis girls r those that lack attention from dudes,because if u don't,no man behind d mask on a Pc will trip u,unless its destiny

[quote author=*Toyinrayo link=topic=212459.msg3279589#msg3279589 date=1230512486]No, it's not.
Atleast not all[/quote]it is toyin,a woman wt brains should know wat she wants,and wat she has already,its only a foolish woman dat will fall for all dat thrash


[quote author=*Toyinrayo link=topic=212459.msg3279589#msg3279589 date=1230512486]Lol, I see we're on the opposite sides of the road.
I get your point, but I still think it's not advisable for married couples to flirt online.
Real life problems dey, why add online one?[/quote]there is nothing like real life problem,dis is wat one does and forgets about it once u r logged off d net,d husband gets d whole attention and gets to touch and do d real thing

a wise,smart,responsible,intelligent and matured woman shouldnt fall for some dude hding behind his PC

dats crazy

i blive,oya bite me mr adam agbero brody

H2O2:
If my wife has a tendency of seeking attention from other men, I would prefer to walk away.
I expect my commited partner to make a conscientious effort to prevent all possibilities of our marriage being destroyed. That includes recognizing and safeguarding all potential avenues that an intruder might use to exploit her.

its only an idiot or a cheap and foolish woman dat will fall for mere online flirting

[quote author=*Toyinrayo link=topic=212459.msg3279556#msg3279556 date=1230511803]ehrrrrrm, NO.
Women are more emotional. . . .it's easy to break down their wall of defense.
Some women love fantasy, and would believe anything to get there.

"Oh I love you more than your husband does"
"Oh I'd let you shop as much as you want" _{do I wish} [/quote]so also d men,in this case i will say that d men easily fall for rubbish,their weakness knows no rival


imagine people chatting on webcam,a woman can see a naked mans stuff wtout shaking,but men for realy toyin,95% of men will get a hard on immediately if they get to see a woman

nope some men lack self control

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=212459.msg3279518#msg3279518 date=1230511205]Where is that written?? What constitution??
With honies like tope2000 around, a man cannot disobery the laws of nature, abeg.[/quote]dankes constitution 101 of d 1874 law of flirting

[quote author=IGWE_USA link=topic=212459.msg3279502#msg3279502 date=1230510866]@ busy ben

                   u must be KING SOLOMON [/quote]yes oo men shouldnt flirt,but women should

now seriously its no big deal if married pple flirt on d net,as long as it does not go beyond dat like exchanging numbers contacts and so on

its d net,i wonder why pple take things happening on here way too seriously

Treetop20:
online flirting is not good. i would not encourage it.

i just wondered because you answered me.

i answered u cos im d poster,its my right to answer everybody

men r not allowed to flirt but women r

Treetop20:
are you married?

why do u ask sir

Treetop20:
married people should not flirt on the net

ok sir

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=212459.msg3279437#msg3279437 date=1230509888]Sheets tangling = rats in ur bedroom.
Get congo rat killer in Yaba market[/quote]i remember telling u to buy d rat killer,instead u came back with "durex"

[quote author=Busy_body link=topic=212459.msg3279425#msg3279425 date=1230509693]Whats not to like, I LOVE IT [/quote]my dear its not only u,i love it like seriously it gives me joy

JJYOU:
this is interesting

oh good,my back watcher is around,u know u r always watching my back when i reply some riff raffs on dis forum

so tell me,lets start wt u,dats if u dont mind?r u married_?if yes,will u allow ur wife flirt on d net wt some dude or dudes,and can u flirt too on d net wt women?

0one:
yes tell we us    all of a suden i am intrested

it all started on one raining day  . . . . . . . .

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=212459.msg3279362#msg3279362 date=1230508539]What are we talking about?? The cheese-burger??[/quote]the sheets tangling