~Sauron~:

Where is that written?? What constitution??
With honies like tope2000 around, a man cannot disobery the laws of nature, abeg.

wetin my name dey do hia
Why cant y'all just leave my ugly behind alone na

there should be a limit if one must flirt.

tope,
are you married ni    
I understand that something as simple as being conversational can be misinterpreted as being flirtatious.  But, how can you be sure the "flirtee" is not taking it seriously?

If you would be uncomfortable doing in front of your partner and you wouldn't want your partner doing the same, you  should avoid it at all costs.
Flirting is the at the forefront of 99% of all affairs.  It usually begins with some playful flirting until it backfires.

Busy_body:

Abeg, who am i supposed to be flirting with in church, can't wait, is it the Pastor or the Ushers or the Choir or all of the above

^{muttering to self} _{Knew it was the right decision to submit my life to Christ, was told it came with plenty benefits so can't wait to start reaping where i have not sown Baba God is trully a cheerful giver}

lmao!!!

If the Usher is fine eh, why not?
Pastor? Dnt even go there

IGWE_USA:

@ busy ben

u must be KING SOLOMON

has anyone ever told you your format is quite annoying?

@Treetop
I understand your stance. Are you married?

H2O2:


I understand that something as simple as being conversational can be misinterpreted as being flirtatious.  But, how can you be sure the "flirtee" is not taking it seriously?

If you would be uncomfortable doing in front of your partner and you wouldn't want your partner doing the same, you  should avoid it at all costs.
Flirting is the at the forefront of 99% of all affairs.  It usually begins with some playful flirting until it backfires.

i agree

Treetop20:

there should be a limit if one must flirt.

I agree with you.
NO YIMMING Esp, if you know the dude will take you serious

Treetop20:

online flirting is not good. i would not encourage it.

H2O2:

. . . I personally think it's disrespectful and a dishonor to your marriage, spouse, and children.

0one:

. . . but frankly those should be among the things we leaves behind once the knot is tied.

Hmmn, why is it the men saying it is not good Maybe its because they know they can't control their libido and hence the reason I have to agree with Busybein that only women should be permitted to flirt online, because we can control ourselves

Busy_body:

Hmmn, why is it the men saying it is not good Maybe its because they know they can't control their libido and hence the reason I have to agree with Busybein that only women should be permitted to do flirt online, because we can control ourselves

ehrrrrrm, NO.
Women are more emotional. . . .it's easy to break down their wall of defense.
Some women love fantasy, and would believe anything to get there.

"Oh I love you more than your husband does"
"Oh I'd let you shop as much as you want" _{do I wish}

*Toyinrayo:

I agree with you.
NO YIMMING   Esp, if you know the dude will take you serious

atlest someone does. no, i'm not married

*Toyinrayo:

lmao!!!

If the Usher is fine eh, why not?
Pastor? Dnt even go there

They are both children of God and equal before His eyes na and if you wan chop frog, why not snag the juicy one with the eggs

Busy_body:

Hmmn, why is it the men saying it is not good Maybe its because they know they can't control their libido and hence the reason I have to agree with Busybein that only women should be permitted to flirt online, because we can control ourselves

I will stress his point here, It usually begins with some playful flirting until it backfires and possibly loose control .

*Toyinrayo:

ehrrrrrm, NO.
Women are more emotional. . . .it's easy to break down their wall of defense.
Some women love fantasy, and would believe anything to get there.

"Oh I love you more than your husband does"
"Oh I'd let you shop as much as you want" _{do I wish}

so also d men,in this case i will say that d men easily fall for rubbish,their weakness knows no rival


imagine people chatting on webcam,a woman can see a naked mans stuff wtout shaking,but men for realy toyin,95% of men will get a hard on immediately if they get to see a woman

nope some men lack self control

Busy_body:

Hmmn, why is it the men saying it is not good Maybe its because they know they can't control their libido and hence the reason I have to agree with Busybein that only women should be permitted to flirt online, because we can control ourselves

Not really.  I realize that everyone differs in what's considered proper and acceptable in their relationship.

tope2000:

wetin my name dey do hia
Why can't y'all just leave my ugly behind alone na

Your ugly behind is TDDUP.

busybein:

dankes constitution 101 of d 1874 law of flirting

Re-write it. Don't marginalise innocent men like us.[quote][/quote]

H2O2:

tope,
are you married ni    

I'm waiting for you na

I understand that something as simple as being conversational can be misinterpreted as being flirtatious.  But, how can you be sure the "flirtee" is not taking it seriously?

I agree but i have never experience that before

If you would be uncomfortable doing in front of your partner and you wouldn't want your partner doing the same, you  should avoid it at all costs.
Flirting is the at the forefront of 99% of all affairs.  It usually begins with some playful flirting until it backfires.

How u take know, u typing from experience

~Sauron~:

Your ugly behind is TDDUP.

What is that?

I get it now

If my wife has a tendency of seeking attention from other men, I would prefer to walk away.
I expect my commited partner to make a conscientious effort to prevent all possibilities of our marriage being destroyed. That includes recognizing and safeguarding all potential avenues that an intruder might use to exploit her.

H2O2:

If my wife has a tendency of seeking attention from other men, I would prefer to walk away.
I expect my commited partner to make a conscientious effort to prevent all possibilities of our marriage being destroyed. That includes recognizing and safeguarding all potential avenues that an intruder might use to exploit her.

its only an idiot or a cheap and foolish woman dat will fall for mere online flirting

*Toyinrayo:

ehrrrrrm, NO.
Women are more emotional. . . .it's easy to break down their wall of defense.
Some women love fantasy, and would believe anything to get there.

At least it takes women longer to get THERE, unlike the guys who have no self control and who would chat up the babe and nail her within days

*Toyinrayo:

"Oh I love you more than your husband does"

I love being loved, one can never have too much love, can one

*Toyinrayo:

"Oh I'd let you shop as much as you want" _{do I wish}

I also love being spoilt rotten whats not to like

H2O2:

If my wife has a tendency of seeking attention from other men, I would prefer to walk away.
I expect my commited partner to make a conscientious effort to prevent all possibilities of our marriage being destroyed. That includes recognizing and safeguarding all potential avenues that an intruder might use to exploit her.

U r jealous sha
Most flirting r not intentional jare

busybein:

its only an idiot or a cheap and foolish woman that will fall for mere online flirting

No, it's not.
Atleast not all

busybein:

so also d men,in this case i will say that d men easily fall for rubbish,their weakness knows no rival


imagine people chatting on webcam,a woman can see a naked mans stuff wtout shaking,but men for realy toyin,95% of men will get a hard on immediately if they get to see a woman

nope some men lack self control

Lol, I see we're on the opposite sides of the road.
I get your point, but I still think it's not advisable for married couples to flirt online.
Real life problems dey, why add online one?

0one:

I will stress his point here, It usually begins with some playful flirting until it backfires and possibly loose control .

Tell that to the men-folks, they need to stop flirting, don't think i can allow ma hubby to flirt though

*Toyinrayo:

No, it's not.
Atleast not all

it is toyin,a woman wt brains should know wat she wants,and wat she has already,its only a foolish woman dat will fall for all dat thrash

*Toyinrayo:



Lol, I see we're on the opposite sides of the road.
I get your point, but I still think it's not advisable for married couples to flirt online.
Real life problems dey, why add online one?

there is nothing like real life problem,dis is wat one does and forgets about it once u r logged off d net,d husband gets d whole attention and gets to touch and do d real thing

a wise,smart,responsible,intelligent and matured woman shouldnt fall for some dude hding behind his PC

dats crazy

Busy_body:

At least it takes women longer to get THERE, unlike the guys who have no self control and who would chat up the babe and nail her within days

Lol, lol, lol, you caught me here.

But I still say women are more emotional. If the guy wants sex, it's easy to get her laid.

Who cares, both of them should NOT flirt. period

Busy_body:

I love being loved, one can never have too much love, can one

I also love being spoilt rotten whats not to like

trust me, too much love dey. It's creepy

lmao, who doesn't love being spoilt

How do you draw the line between harmless flirting and seriously flirting?

H2O2:

Not really.  I realize that everyone differs in what's considered proper and acceptable in their relationship.

Men and women are wired differently. Whilst it can be harmless fun for us women, cos we have to fall in love or have a need before we succumb, men are weak by nature in comparison and would not be able to resist the temptation with a willing and eager accomplice who is ready to knock boots with them

H2O2:

How do you draw the line between harmless flirting and seriously flirting?

brov, they don't rather they carry on like nothing is going on to fool everyone while other things are going on outside the forum.

H2O2:

How do you draw the line between harmless flirting and seriously flirting?

as long as its done online,no exchage of numbers or contacts,not even YIM chat then its harmless

as long as u don't harbour unnecessary feeling s for that person its cool

just that some girls easily fall for dudes,even if its a rat that is chatting wt them they will fall,but i blive most of dis girls r those that lack attention from dudes,because if u don't,no man behind d mask on a Pc will trip u,unless its destiny

busybein:

it is toyin,a woman wt brains should know what she wants,and what she has already,its only a foolish woman that will fall for all that thrash

Gbam

And they would have to fall out of love with their man and fall in love with the new man before anything can happen, unless the man at home is not satisfying whatever needs she has.

Busy_body:

Men and women are wired differently. Whilst it can be harmless fun for us women, because we have to fall in love or have a need before we succumb, men are weak by nature in comparison and would not be able to resist the temptation with a willing and eager accomplice who is ready to knock boots with them

That is a very clever red herring you are attempting to clinch.  But if you want to go in that direction please present some solid truths.
If you know it makes your spouse uncomfortable would you continue?

busybein:

it is toyin,a woman wt brains should know what she wants,and what she has already,its only a foolish woman that will fall for all that thrash

"Your brain is connected to your mind, Your mind is connected to your common sense etc" lmao

Get into a woman's mind, and you're rich!!!!!!!!

Is she stupid?? Not necessarily, she's just getting what her husband can't give her somewhere else.

busybein:

[b]there is nothing like real life problem,[/b]this is what one does and forgets about it once u r logged off d net,d husband gets d whole attention and gets to touch and do d real thing

a wise,smart,responsible,intelligent and matured woman shouldnt fall for some dude hding behind his PC

that is crazy

lmao. . . .sometimes, we should take time to separate reality from online, no?
For a man who flirts with a woman, begins having feelings for her, if he logs off, she's still in his mind.

If your husband doe snot give you the attention you deserve, yet another is giving it to you, what will you do?

Am surprised you did not mention self-control. . . .maybe self control plays a role? or maybe it doesn't.

busybein:

as long as its done online,no exchage of numbers or contacts,not even YIM chat then its harmless

as long as u don't harbour unnecessary feeling s for that person its cool

just that some girls easily fall for dudes,even if its a rat that is chatting wt them they will fall,but i blive most of this girls r those that lack attention from dudes,because if u don't,no man behind d mask on a Pc will trip u,unless its destiny

here's a hypothetical situation:
How would you confirm that the hidden identity on the other end of the computer is not jacking off to your "small" affectionate words?  If you find out he's doing it would you still continue it?  Better to be safe than sorry.

Busy_body:

Gbam

And they would have to fall out of love with their man and fall in love with the new man before anything can happen, unless the man at home is not satisfying whatever needs she has.

Not exactly! Remember you said earlier that "a woman can never have too much love" .
And how are we so sure it's only a foolish woman that will fall for that trash. Since we as humans are imperfect beings, what makes you think you are above or immune from deceit