Jokes Etc › Re: Woman Gets Cropped While Sleeping by buttlover(m): 9:08pm On Mar 16, 2020 |
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Romance › Re: Why Do Girls Hate Calling Their Guys???? by buttlover(m): 8:58pm On Mar 16, 2020 |
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Education › Re: Seven Things You Should Know About Nigerian University Lecturers by buttlover(m): 1:03pm On Mar 14, 2020 |
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Politics › Re: Muhammadu Sanusi II Our Next President (why?) by buttlover(m): 6:08am On Mar 12, 2020 |
SEE THEM, NIGERIAN YOUTHS already talking for northern leadership again. TUFIAKWA. una like suffer. |
Programming › Re: Serious Minded Folks That Are Interested In Real Live Hacking by buttlover(m): 7:37am On Mar 01, 2020 |
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Romance › Re: Mature Minds, What Are Your Sexual Experience by buttlover(m): 10:55pm On Feb 26, 2020 |
the doctor that circumcised you really cut 70% of your sensitive part. |
Nairaland General › Re: It is well with my soul by buttlover(m): 9:19pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
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Travel › Re: 20 Days, 3000km, Nonstop In Phillipines by buttlover(m): 3:10pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
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Romance › Re: Afonja Why?3: My Experience With Afonja Olosho. by buttlover(m): 4:48pm On Feb 23, 2020*. Modified: 6:56pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
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Nairaland General › Re: Grass To Grace To Grass Again. (my True Life Story) by buttlover(m): 3:44pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
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Politics › Re: Nnamdi Kanu's One Million March For Washington DC. USA, Is It Good Or Bad Omen? by buttlover(m): 3:33pm On Feb 23, 2020*. Modified: 4:19pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
WOW. if he can achieve this, then there is 70% possibility of Biafra freedom. i cant wait to get a biafran passport and start a new fresh Life. |
Politics › Re: Gen. Tukur Buratai Bags Man Of The Year Award by buttlover(m): 5:38am On Feb 22, 2020 |
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Technology Market › Re: Mini Laptop by buttlover(m): 4:42pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
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Family › Re: How Do I Ask My Cousin To Leave My House? by buttlover(m): 1:26pm On Feb 19, 2020*. Modified: 11:10am On Aug 14, 2021 |
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Celebrities › Re: Do This ONE Thing First – After Collecting Your Crush's Number. by buttlover(m): 6:26pm On Feb 17, 2020 |
NengakGodwin1: A lot of guys.
Out there, miss this a lot.
And it's because of this...
That even a girl who has shown a lot of interest in them.
End up feeling irritated and bored. Then, end up placing them in the frustrating "friend-zone". Or at worst, see their calls and say to their friends;
"ooooooh! This annoying guy has called again".�
Then, they ignore your call. And move on. At times they even edit your name and change it to "mumu". Just to easily reject it when next they see your call.
I know this because, severally...
It used to happen to me. So, I know how it ends up when you start calling a girl the next or very day you collect her number.
And at times, the girls I'm going out with, do this a lot. And I'll kind of wonder.
And ask;
"Ah-ahn! Is he not trying to check up on you?".
And the response I get when I inquire about how they met makes me understand why they often act so cold to you when you call them immediately or the next day.
There is a strategy I personally use to avoid this. And it almost always work for me.
And the reason why it works is because...
1.) It makes you appear different from other guys. And you don't appear desperate.
2.) It makes the girl to subconsciously "expect your call".
3.) It makes her to keep thinking about you. And if you're smart enough to create "open loops"(the first time you meet). It'll make her keep craving to find out more about you. Thereby, making her become emotionally eager to see you.
And I call this strategy the;
"iPhone Swag".
Let me break it down.
It means, you need to be perceived as a valuable guy. Just like an iPhone is seen as something with a high value. Something that is uneasy to get. Something that anyone who has it feels "lucky".
Now, don't get this wrong.
It's not about using money to buy her gifts. It's not about taking the girl out(shit! I don't go on dinner dates).
It's not by showing her you "get money".
It's not by calling her every minute as if Airtel don give you one year free calls bonus. It's not by buying And wearing expensive clothes to look expensive.
That's not what it means.
All you have to do is;
***Be busy. Have a life. A goal. Or something you spend your time thinking about achieving. Instead of spending your precious hours only thinking about one "Chioma" weh you meet for road.
***It means, you should NEVER focus on one girl(sheh, you never marry?). And if you don't like the idea of double-dating.
Remember that you're still free to meet new girls.
And you don't have to have a sexual affair with dem sef, like I mostly do...even if they're showing you all the green-lights for you to come and "nack"(because, I'm very choosy about who I have sex with).
***It's about NOT being a needy type of guy. Mind you, "trying" to get a girls attention doesn't make her interpret it as "true love" like most good guys think. She sees your nice attitude as a fake one.
Because, she gets so much attention from guys who are doing the same thing like you.
And it's boring.
So, she feels like you're "faking" it. Or "assumes" it's something almost every guy does and you also do the same to every girl that comes your way.
She also interprets it as a form of "disturbance".
Why?
She is yet to have any(much) FEELINGS for you. Because their brains are drawn towards what makes them "feel" something. It's why they watch more dramas than us.
And remember what I said.
In my previous posts(go and read them in case you didn't).
The ONLY way to make her give you attention, chase you, give you mind-blowing sex, or even agree to be your girlfriend is to know how to CONTROL HER EMOTIONS.
And one simple but valuable strategy to do this(out of the many) is to have what I call the "iPhone Swag".
Like I said earlier.
By not presenting yourself so cheap by having a "chinko-phone" swag.
So, whenever you get a girls number. Don't call her the next day.
Till at least, two days after.
Like me, I sometimes leave it till up to a week(which I recommend, the most)
In fact, using this tactic, mainly. There is this fine babe(I still run) whom I collected her number and deliberately refused to call her. I just faced my grind.
And ignored her number.
Even though, there's this advice flying around that if you like a girl you meet.
Advices like;
"a real man will always call a girl he loves" nye, nye, nye.
"always call her and tell her your feelings for her". Lol.
But, they'll not tell you that if you do that when a girl is not yet MADLY in Love with you, it's going to make her form hard-to-get for you.
So, I didn't follow all those "advice".
(I simply used my "one-week space rule"wink
Now, Guess What Happened?
She later apologized for not calling.
As in, she said she's "sorry for not calling" me. The day we bumped into each other(in a shop). Mind you, I didn't even complain why she didn't. Or apologize to her for not calling "to check up on her".
You see?
But, I'm not saying it's how every girl is gonna act.
Some may, and some won't.
But, one thing about the "one week space rule" is they'll hardly disrespect you when you have an "iPhone Swag" like I explained. As in, e go hard mek she form hard-to-get sef.
For why na?
So, if you've been wondering what to do after collecting a girl's number.
Then, this is one of the first things you should do to avoid stories that touch.
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Then, join my underground FACEBOOK group called; "Dating Secrets Hub" – were we share badass dating secrets to help you step-up your game, real quick.
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Bye for now. Nengak Godwin mtcheww! after 2months of wooing ada, she finally agreed, the first time nacking, her kpekus smell so so rotten, i deleted her number that night. |
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Health › Re: China Rushes To Build New Hospital For Virus Within 10 Days by buttlover(m): 7:27am On Jan 25, 2020 |
i suspect a country's hand in this virus |
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Celebrities › Re: US Vs Iran: I’m Dumping America For Nigeria – Rap Star, Cardi B Bla by buttlover(m): 11:11am On Jan 13, 2020 |
kestolove95: US rap star, Cardi B, has condemned the killing of Iran commander, Qassem Soleimani.
On Friday, a US airstrike killed Revolutionary Guard General, Soleimani, who is head of the elite Quds Force, at Baghdad International Airport.
The strike also killed Abu Mahdi al-Muhandis, the deputy commander of the Iran-backed militia, Popular Mobilization Forces, which recently stormed the US embassy in Baghdad.
In her reaction, Carbi B said President Donald Trump has put the lives of his citizens in danger.
She tweeted: “It’s sad this man is putting Americans lives in danger. Dumbest move (by) Trump did till date. I’m filing for my Nigerian citizenship.”
Meanwhile, the UN says another world war was possible if leaders failed to exercise restraint.
The world body, in a terse statement, on Friday said: “Secretary-General, Antonio Guterres, has consistently advocated for de-escalation in the Gulf.
He is deeply concerned with the recent escalation.
“This is a moment in which leaders must exercise maximum restraint. The world cannot afford another war in the Gulf.”
US Secretary of State Mike Pompeo, in his explanation, said President Trump ordered the take out of Soleimani to protect Americans.
Pompeo stated that the action was to disrupt an “imminent attack” that could have cost American lives in the middle east region.
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Crime › Re: Nairalander New Year Scammer 'delight5378'' Beware! by buttlover(op): 10:34pm On Jan 12, 2020 |
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Crime › Nairalander New Year Scammer 'delight5378'' Beware! by buttlover(op): 10:25pm On Jan 12, 2020 |
This poor dude ''Delight5378'' with phone number 09057264986, just scammed me off N4000 Glo airtime. may curses be in your future strives. |
Business › Re: How did you get your POS? by buttlover(m): 10:16pm On Jan 12, 2020 |
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Business › Re: N4000 Glo Airtime For Sale For N3000 Only by buttlover(op): 1:28pm On Jan 10, 2020 |
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Romance › Re: Old Female Facebook Account Is Needed by buttlover(m): 10:05pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
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