I Have Seen Two Igbo Parents Who Are Dark Have Babies Way Way Lighter Than Them...not Yellow But Fair. I Wonder If They Bleach Their Children But I Dare Not Ask. I've Seen Stats And In Real Life... Most Igbo Women Bleach Their Skin. Most Yoruba Don't. Maybe Igbos have always been lighter... That doesn't mean fair in complexion... Fair is a very dull complexion. Yellow Skin Is Beautiful Because Yellow Is A Radiant Color. Most Igbos Aren't Yellow.. Their fair.. Which looks unnatural or like a genitic problem.

THESE KIDS ARE ACTUALLY TRAINING THE SMALLER ONE ON HOW TO BE A BULLY..

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_ECljV8cLwI

CE GARLAND USA CELEBRATING THE MAN OF GOD PASTOR JONSAI.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0BzZG0qVdvA

you're right..it's pretty sad...

buzzedoffbeauty: I was having a conversation with a sudanese guy and asked him did he know of any history of slave traders coming to their region. He stated that yes they did try to come but they would capture them and put their heads on sticks around the perimeters of their land. He stated..this scared them off. I know that thousands died both while on African soil, in the ships, and once in America. The saddess part of the whole story is that Africans...sold their own to the white man and now today look at African Americans as if they are a shame to Africa. We are not..if anything..those who lost thousand into slavery should be most ashamed that a white man came...out smarted you and took your family members..Funny enough everyone says that it didn't happen to their family but odds are...it did o! You are in denial...

you're right..it's pretty sad...

buzzedoffbeauty: I was having a conversation with a sudanese guy and asked him did he know of any history of slave traders coming to their region. He stated that yes they did try to come but they would capture them and put their heads on sticks around the perimeters of their land. He stated..this scared them off. I know that thousands died both while on African soil, in the ships, and once in America. The saddess part of the whole story is that Africans...sold their own to the white man and now today look at African Americans as if they are a shame to Africa. We are not..if anything..those who lost thousand into slavery should be most ashamed that a white man came...out smarted you and took your family members..Funny enough everyone says that it didn't happen to their family but odds are...it did o! You are in denial...

Why would he mention something so sick? I said things seen on x rated videos...have you ever seen an x rated video with something crazy like a dead person....WTH!

LewsTherin:

No offence intended dude but you know some seriously messed up sh*t (pun intended). I thot I was wierd!!!

Like I said previously, anything with limits on preventing bodily hurt, goes as long as it is totaly mutual and not one desire being pressured on the other.

I don't know how someone's entire messege is "Go to the Word" "EVERYTHING YOU NEED IS WRAPPED UP IN THE WORD" can be called fake. If he were just jumpimg all over the place like many leasders do to prove their point it would be different. But because he has actually studied to show himself approved as the bible tells us to do..people want to call him fake...based on...nothing.
If you would let go of your hatred just to attend a month of foundation classes...you will know that God is with him. He is very repititous about readinig the Word of God for yourself, worshipping and praying for understanding. His main duty is to make sure we understand that we are not religious like other chritians. That we know who we are in Jesus which opens up every door in our lives. I've heard this before but Pastor Chris focuses in on it soooo much that's it's the MAIN part of the ministry. Knowing who you are in Christ Jesus is a revelation that many don't have; especially those Christians who still pray " God give me strength" or "God help me"...lol! Did he not give you power and dominion over the earth..did he not send you a helper already What again are you asking for? lol! People who know who they are pray like this..." God I thank you because I am strenghthen" and " God I praise you for giving me a helper so that I may never face challenges alone". A BIG DIFFERENCE WHEN YOU KNOW YOUR RIGHTS AND WHO IS IN YOU ALREADY. IJS.... get off my Pastor's nuts...

I use to think that Americans or Western societies were the only ones who pushed freakiness to the extreme but I've learned that many man of strict cultures do have the same types of fantasies and would love to share them with their wives but refuse to because the feel she is too "holy" to hear it and will write them off as nasty and may even "tell on them". Or have them rebuked in the name of Jesus. Many men don't admit it but are into all the things they see on x rated videos except the homosexual stuff. I've even talked to a christian couple who's interpretation of the matrimonial bed is undefiled is totally different than the majority. They beleive ANYTHING they're in agreement on is ok on their bed. What made me intrigued by such a couple is that they have been happily married for 25 year and got married right out of highschool! She says that the key to her happiness is honesty. That her and her husband grew together intamantly and explored themselves until they found the perfect fit for them. I was talking with a group of women about this and the reactions varied. Mind you this was a women empowerment meeting in a christian setting with a first lady. Most of the women were Nigerian..some from other countries and a couple of american chicks.Many of the Nigerian women said it's an abomination. Yet I know that some of them are dealing with a husband who's penis is always outside their home... This is a touchy topic Mrs. Chima..lol!

Mrs..Chima:
If you are married nothing is off limit.

Each couple is different.

lol...

Atheist:-D:


Do whatever you want as long as you are both happy and willing... and it is not illegal

What may seem unrealistic to one ( like anal sex) may seem totally realistic to another. Sex is all about preference and if you let a person really relax and be themself..you may see that they have alot of sexual things that they have been hiding. IJS...some people are extremely open and it's either they do it with their spouse or they do it outside...period. what do we say to such cases?

Mynd_44:
which is why they need to sit down and discuss their problems and see where one can shift and look at the unrealistic demands and try to accommodate the realistic ones

Mynd_44:
What people don't get is that in marriage, you give up the "I"s for "we" you have to start looking for what would make you and your partner more comfortable and if it means cutting down or increase you intimacy, go for it. The two of you would have a talk and work something out

Yes you have a great point but not all spouses request is simply an increase or decrease in sex..some what to be dominated, some what to be use as toilet, some are into making home porns, some are into threesomes. What would one say to such a person...and if they say no and go to their pastor..will it help or bring a big space inbetween the two of them?

Ok..here's some music then...


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