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IZUKWU: I believe that it is the name that you give your dog that it will answer and that also that r/ship of which marriage is one ,is btw two people who should be matured enough to know what they want. I have always demanded of my girlfriends to tell me what they want ,what they desire or which for me to do to them sexually. I will also like a wife who will be open enough to me to tell what excites her . I will be willing to listen and try anything at least once within limits.

Do you expect the same sexual experiance from a wife and a girlfriend?

[quote author=OLE-BRUKU]I wil stil do it wen i hv a new patna jst as i did 2 my ex.[/quote]lol!

Hmmm, I think when women put there spouse on their phone it's like bragging and more women will want to sleep with him to know what's so special about him, but if you can handle it then go ahead and put his pic in your pocket and phone screensaver lol! If a man puts his wife on his phone/pocket pic it's like he's proud.

In your friend's case the spouse should know his mate well enough to know if she's into all that kind of stuff and how it would make her feel it he wasn't doing it....I think.

For me I find different men attractive for different reason. I've dated some short guys and tall. I've never dated an average brown skin tho...it's always been ery light or very dark...
Across the border tho...I like guys with minimal acne, normal body weight and a bright smile. Bright smiles are my addiction! My husbands smile til this day drives me WILD!!!! Awww..the things I'll do for that smile...

Ok, so here's my question. Can one be too sexual inside a marriage. I mean are there limitation on what is appropriate? Many may argue that oral pleasure is just plain nasty, some say it should be for someone special, others say it's meant only for a spouse. Now this isn't the only thing in the wide range of sexual acts two can preform.
What about role playing? Or doing "it" in strange places with the thought of getting caught in mind?

Is it best to tell your boyfriend/girlfriend your desires and fantasies in which you wish to full fill after the I do's to avoid shock?
On the wilder end what about party...ie..one spouse wants to try it, should they ask for it?
Now I know based on many cultures a lot of things aren't practiced...does this mean that one doesn't get strange desires which end up going unmet or they end up going outside for a nice little dark place to get it?
Some believe ( no longer just a western world thing but still very low profiled) that anything that the man and wife are in agreement to do is ok and does not defile their bed but...
What do you think about the limitations of sex when it comes to marriage? Is it better to satisfy than to grow apart or even to divorce...Is sexual desire so relevant anyway
Please let's respect each other's answer and not make anyone feel bad if it's avoidable.

This is a great topic!
I believe that a 13 year old doesn't need the lastest phone. A regular no picture sending phone will do the trick. Kids today need to understand that until they are adult, a phone is for basic needs such as communicating with adults when needed. I see so many kids today with iphone 4 and 5 and there is no way for the parents to know what they are sending because the kids will always delete messages. I think it's a way to give a kid too much freedom to do whatever they so choose. I don't like the idea of a device in which I can not monitor the actual activity on it.

Thank you guys for the questions. I'm glad to know that most of you don't have crazy stereo types about African Americans. This shows progress,thank you for participating... ;-)


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BelaMorena: Indeed.

African Americans are not a homogenous group.
I think it is a great injustice to try to group us all as "the same".
There is A LOT of diversity within the black American population that is ignored.

It needs to be studied more and brought to the forefront.

Actually there is alot of diversity all over the world, it's just that in some lands it's alot less obvious

amor4ce: Why are African-Americans associated so much with fried chicken?

As a people we have always loved chicken from our roots where chicken was mostly eating during festive times.

[quote author=Mrs.Chima]Buzzy!!!!!!! I see you came back swinging huh?

I like you so I will attempt to be nice until otherwise. Hope you get some thought provoking and intellectual questions. Muah.[/quote]My favorite forum babe.... ;-)

[quote author=PAGAN 9JA]why didnt your slave ancestors fight to the death against the slavers rathar than face degradation and slavery if many of them would have martyred themselves, more slaves would not have been shipped from Africa and slavery would have ended sooner. .[/quote]Hmmm, good question. As strong Africans....I don't know why they didn't fight to the death.

amor4ce: Why are African-Americans associated so much with fried chicken?

I think it's because we like it...

I believe there are many things people assume about African Americans a.k.a black americans ( black is a color not a nationality by the way). You wouldn't believe some of the questions I've been asked over the years for instance.... I could be somewhere with a nigerian lady, usually in the age rage of 30's and up and has recently come to the states, a person I don't know from Adam can walk by and I'm asked....why is she talking like that? lol! Like I have the answer for the general population of black women.... I'll say...I don't know, then the women may say but.... it's your people....ugh ......interesting.

I think those who don't mingle with African Americans of the states are extremely curious about many things...this leads to preconceived notions that are sometimes true and sometimes far from it. I don't think it's ignorance so please don't post that here....it's just lack of understanding.
I may not have all the answers and some ladies can help me out as needed.

Here's a Q&A I get often....Q:Where are you from? A: Mississippi Q:Is that where slavery was A: Yes but slavery existed throughout the states for a period of time until the northerners no longer wanted it...we then had a civil war. The population of slaves were heavy in the south due to the picking of cotton. Q: Do you guys still pick cotton? A: For the most part no, there has been advancement in technology so machines can do it but there are some small farms who still employee people to pick cotton by hand; I've never actually seen them but have heard friends mention about 15 years ago of going there to work for the summer ( for pay).

Please list your question below and try to be nice....if the question is sexually explicit, try to be mature on your approach of asking it. Thanks.

Hi Mrs. Chima...when you stated " with mutual individuals" does that mean they know her fiance very well? I think there must be a reason they wouldn't invite him...either they don't know him like that and it's a very close friends only kind of setting or...they have a bad impression of him either through her or someone else or actions he has shown at other gatherings... Out of love for my friend I would always invite her partner, even if they're just boyfriend and girlfriend. If she acknowledges him in public then I would do the same. Depending on the situation I don't believe her friends are acting out of love when they invited her knowing that she has someone she cares dearly for. You advised her well, it's best not to give advice based on assumption in this situation...please let us know how it turns out...

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I think it all depends on what a woman wants out of a man... White American men are usually more sensitive and more likely to try and "read our minds". Black men are more like...tell me whats on your mind. Neither can fully figure us out...because naturally women are very complex.It also depends on the type of life you want to live. More and more white american men are becoming Pentecostal but it's still rare, black men, when close to God come with this FIRE that is unmatched for the most part. If you're just going by "feelings" no spirituality involved...either way you're taking a risk of ANY KIND OF THING...
When I went to a Lutheran Church school I found the white guys to be too soft for my liking tho...