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Blackett:
[color=#150000]Trust me, you do not want to tell her this _shit right now.

Stay true to her by avoiding her friend. Never ever reply her friend's chats in an equally seductive manner. Make sure you are never caught in a compromising situation.

If you tell her now, you'll lose her.

If you tell her later after you have married her, she'll get angry. But then, the fact will remain that you refused to sleep with her friend despite her advances. The fact will also remain that you chose not to tell her, not because you do not trust her, but because you know how fragile she is and you weren't trying to hurt her because you love her and you are concerned about her emotional well being. . . After a while, she'll understand your actions and you both will move on with your life. . .

Let me itemize what will happen if you tell her now.

- she'll get pissed
- she'll never believe you haven't fvcked her friend
- she'll ignore you and lock you out
- she'll ignore her friend and lock her out
- you will get lonely
- her friend will see her absence as an opportunity to finally get close to you
- you'll fall for her friend because of the attention she now gives you
- you'll fvck her friend
- you'll hate her friend after fvcking her
- her friend will tell her you both fvcked
- she erases any thought of ever coming back to you
- you remain miserable.

Avoid that _bitch with everything you have in you. Block her from every where blockable. . . Only you have this power.

Choose wisely.

Cc kitnah. This replies you, I hope.[/color]

Thnx Kitnah

sameer1212:
Damn! Can u stop being a pus*sy and act like a man for a second? Tell ur fiance now before it get out of hand.

Thanks bro but not as easy as it seems .it not the issue of been a pus*y she is my fiancee and i know how fragile she can be.. Am just scared i don't want to loose her she like everything to me .

akinsadeez:
For a lady you are about to get married to, I must say that the level of trust you have in her is very very low.

Let's turn the tables around. If it were to be your own best friend that was pestering your girl, telling her you're not good enough and doing everything possible to fvck her, would you be happy for your girl to keep quiet about it and even go on to kiss your friend?

You should have told her immediately the friend came out plainly with her intentions. Honestly it seems you are enjoying the notion of being chased by the friend and the tantalizing prospect of tasting the forbidden fruit.

If you keep quiet about this, you can't predict the length the friend would go, to end your engagement. A girl who can go after her best friend's man obvioulsy has nothing to lose. If you keep resisting her, she might set you up or go to her friend with lies in which case you will just lose both ways.

Thanks bro but am not enjoying it i feel bad about it but telling her hurts me but i feel telling her and losing her wold even hurt more. Try to understand she would freak she is quite fragille.

LadyX:
Are you waiting for your friend to tell your fiancee that you kissed her?
She wants you and she will do everything to get you.

Who knows, maybe she has already started telling your fiance that you are not good enough for her (the same way she's telling you your fiance is not good). Guy, open your eyes! If you are going to marry her, you better build on your trust (both of you should be able to trust each other)

sigh thnx

menix:
Guy na rabbish u dey talk..
If u not happy wiv d whole thing y not tell ur finance to end d whole shyte..

U luv ur finance nd u keeping diz shyte to ursef, broz common sense aint common cous d end wont b appealing...

scared she mite freak out i dont want to loose her

Midehi:
your story is just trash, you want to get married yet you are falling for her best friend...why is it difficult for you to tell your girlfriend, because you want to bleep her,when she invited you for a date,you thought your fiance will be there,story! why did you not call her to confirm the date.
guy pls you dont need any advice from anybody here, go & do the right thing, i can see immaturity here

I am scared to tell her because we had a thing *we kissed* and for the dinner i was wrongly informed it was suppose to be a surprise for her i wasn't supposed to call her.. Thanks for your advise either way.

I would love to take my name of this post . Am a banker and am to get married in few months. I have been with my fiancee for nearly 4 years now. She introduced her best friend to me last year after she got back from the uk to run her masters programme. My 1st time meeting the lady Everything was just the natural no strings attached Then over time i started to notice afew behaviours. She was caring than usual at 1st i thought she was looking out for her best friend who is my fiancee then it began to become more and more complex She started calling me at late nite for advises and all. Then a day came she called me to come over for dinner i was suprised but i thought my finacee was going to be there so i went. lO and behold my fiancee wasn't there that was where i knew something was wrong she started telling me how she liked me how my fiancee wasn't good enough for me i was shocked because she was suppose to be her best friend and her best lady. But for some reason she has feelings for me. so i begged her not to call me again but now things are becoming a problem becuase she sends me nudes in the office she calls me text me and all. I almost fell for this awhile ago when i kissed her because for some reason we were in the house but i snapped with Gods help i didn't have s*x But am scared that with things going this way i mite eventually fall into the trap. I want to tell my fiancee but am scared because it has been happening for a few months and have kept it away from her now am in more trouble because i kissed her. But i love her to much i don't want to loose her with our traditional approaching in a few months. I don't know how to go about it? should i tell her? or how can i chase her friend away? pls advise...Nairalanders

dnawah:
rent ke na free o!

lol

Rapmoney:
Before you e-attack the poster, take note of the 'Most' that begins this topic. Before you unleash your usual venom, take note that being trendy does not make a woman intelligent (I know so many persons confuse intelligence with being trendy)

Through common sense, I have come to understand that most women who are very intelligent, academically and otherwise, are not the pretty, trendy and flashy type!

When we were boys, we longed to marry a very beautiful woman who is trendy and flashy; now we are men! We know better. Most of the pretty ladies you see are just bimbos! Their brains are allergic to intelligent discussions! They can't even suggest answers to simple everyday mathematical questions you might solicit from them if both of you happen to be together working on something. Ask them how many centilitres make a litre and see the amount of confusion you have caused in their life . If you are not too sure any more of the number of seats we have in our Federal House of Representatives or you have forgotten, don't bother to ask them to remind you, else you incure a tremendous wrath from them that might sweep you off your feet. If you are on Who Wants To Be A Millonaire's hot seat, don't bother to use them as the 'call a friend' option. They will surely dissapoint your as.s and you lose your prize

When getting married, look beyond the beauty! If she is pretty and intelligent, that's fine but don't hang your all and all on her beauty, big bo.obs and big as.s. Am sure you don't want a woman that will use your daughter's WAEC fee to purchase Brazilian hair! You will thank me later

Goodmorning all!

bloody lies

wristwatch:
Are u a lesbian

14yrz

dnawah:
i will ask for house service. probably use one of my room as shop.i swear i no go stand up from that seat again.

lol won't you rent it koh??

dnawah:
i will ask for house service. probably use one of my room as shop.i swear i no go stand up from that seat again.

lol

ani33:
You need an eye lens

true!!! Big lens

Vince77:
pls where can i buy or download this grey movie?

in alaba

Akposb:
U go to a car shop and u start testing...u will only create confusion for yourself as different type exist.

For those avowed test runners I hope u don't end up creating a long trail of problems for yourself. At the end the love is patience is d binding force of marriage not SeX.

wordup

LewisO:
[color=#000033] This question had been asked more than1000 times, and had been answered more than 1million times.

Staled question.

#Next question please. [/color]

Obho

Fulaboy:
let the sleeping dog lies

But she's too young to be that now

kk o

Cutehector:
lmao. Am I boko haram dat I wil bomb her local government area? One ov d reasons why rods dnt last is due to over excitement I guess

ronald4lif:
I don't think that's the ideal thing to do, what if she ends up cheating from poor sexual frustration? Marriages have collapsed on such grounds. There should be compatibility between couple before exchanging marital vows to avert any uncertainties and sex is one of the areas to be satisfactory of.

true

kingofpool:
Have he tried using his teeth?

lmao be serious man

Kingblingz:
Just live her,b4 u go do style wey go kill you!

lmao

PunkyOh:
Of course. Who wants to be stuck with a one-pump-champ? 3 pumps on rare occasions & that's if you're lucky

lol

I need the help of nairalanders A follower of my blog has issues in his relationship he claims he has tried everything to satisfy his fiance. He has done every possible thing you can think of licky tongy Touch toes bulwider etc.. Still yet his girl tells him she is not satisfied with the level of s*xual pleasure she gets from. He his becoming scared that she might breakup their courtship because of this and he doesn't want to loose the realtionship he spent 3 years to build and wants to marry. PLS ADVISE mATURED MINDS ONLY

Fulaboy:
excuse me Ma

You're lady I think

wat if?

Well it true the bible says we should keep sex until after marriage. But when you go buy a car won't you test run it before you pay for it and they take it home should incase it doesn't work well. Have seen many couples breakup because oF TRYING TO KEEP IT until they are married where they find out s*xual problems in their partner ... Pls what do you think is best? to try it? or to wait?

Emusan:
You said DEVICES as if 100% of the world are now internet literate.
Beside just do research you can know better.

Well bro............. U have a point but Trust me u cant be too sure with the reach that is on ground.

Emusan:
That means you never read your Bible very well.

"And this gospel of the kingdom shall be preached in the whole world for a testimony unto all the nations; and then shall the end come." Matt 24:14 ASV

Ask yourself has the Gospel been preached in the WHOLE WORLD?

If your answer is Yes! Then your thread is meaningful and a serious problem to Christendom but if it is NO! then your thread is meaningless.

Bro you think the Goodnews hasn't reached the world yet Even where legs can go devices have gone there.

johnydon22:
keep on waiting...

read the book of john 20

Orijin101:
looking at the babe's yansh

he is looking for his toy

kestolove95:
U go wait tire

You in for a shocker

Moments when i wonder when christ would come. The bible says like a thief in the night right ? isn't it night already.... All the signs have virtually happened in our eyes and yet the end is not here yet? Sin is a normal thing people don't get criticized for sin anymore Sin are now been based on human rights i.e You can do whatever you like because it your right to do so.... Won''t Majority of the world wax cold with every passing time. Brethren lets encourage one another For the End would surely come But when? no1 knows but we know its like a thief in the night be prepared.