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chimerase2:
Let them start selling artificial brain abeg naija youth re really suffering

ConfessionsNgr:
Hi, I hope my identity is truly anonymous. I attend this church in South-East region in Nigeria. I have been a regular member for like 3 years. Around last year, I noticed the pastor started to like me more. He will give me money to take care of my siblings. I thought it was just normal liking at first. I respect the pastor a lot, because he is anointed, jovial and prayerful. But his wife is too harsh and strict. She is rude and shouts on people anyhow. They got married before the pastor got born again and turned pastor. The pastor do tell me that he wished I was his wife. He says he likes me a lot and won't mind having me as his second wife, even though it is against the Scriptures. It is obvious that he is not enjoying his marriage. And to make matters worse, his wife hasn't given birth after fifteen years of marriage. Pastor keeps telling me he sees me in his dreams and visions as God's ordained wife for him. I am really confused, afraid and at the same time happy because pastor is a good man, but I don't want to be the reason why he will leave his wife for me. He has told me to go and think about it, but I just don't know what to think about. Any meaningful suggestions?


I just got this. Any suggestions for this lady? To read more and comment anonymously click http://confessionsnigeria.com/post/36/my-pastor-says-he-likes-me-but-he-is-married

Religiondb:
I am a young man tinking of setlling down, there is Dis Lady am in love with and have told her I like us get married, she likes d idea and we are working towards making it come true. The only problem is Dat my parents do not want her cus the girls mother is not my tribe, but her father is my tribe.. wat do I do? wat do I tell her? pls I need Ur contributions and advice

temmym4:
The normal times I cut my hairs.
what does it profit a man who barbs everyday just to stare at his female barber and waste his time and money for fun wetin u wan dey cut on top your head everyday? is it until your head starts bringing out blood? even your head no go wan commot hair again cos u dey stress am all because of one b*tch.

prettythicksme:
yes it turn sour sometimes,a friend of mine met this guy on fb,his very handsome but he never post full pics of him on the site and my friend dnt bother to ask.Time to meet came up and my friend was surprise that it was another person who came to pick her instead of her facebook love.she was really shocked when she saw the guy is a cripple!his two legs are really short that u can hardly noticed say the guy get leg self.my friend never pick the guy call again till date.

uknownboy:
Different strokes for different folks.

1. I've got buddies that have relationships founded on serious cash flow. As in imagine a guy that doles out cash so often for a girl that he doesn't even bother sheathing his debit card. It's always on hand. He was born with a silver spoon and he's paid. She's a serious spender and lives by the mantra that a guy's gotta shower her with cash at all times. That's their dynamic and they're fine with it.

2. Got other friends where the guy is frugal to a fault and the daddy's girl is a spender. Over time and with a lot of love and tolerance, they both found an equilibrium. He's not as frugal but she's not as spendthrift any more.

3. Another couple I know, both of them aka-aradite. It's cute to watch them in action feeding off each others tight hand. They couldn't possibly love each other more.


I guess what I'm trying to say is I don't see why you need advice from anybody. You've gotta do you. As an adult; you need to know what you want, what you can tolerate, what you are willing to fight to change in a person, what you can't deal with and so on.

Let me put it this way. Ask yourself these questions. Can I live with someone like this for the rest of my life? Do I think she can change? Can I effect that change? Is it worth the effort? Etc.

The three couples I mentioned above would reply to your thread with different answers.

Do you Mr man.
Goodluck.

unilagfreshest:
personally, from experience they r overated. i hav a calabar gf nd edo gf, nothin special abt her, jst after 1 round she is tired nd all dat..bt my edo gal....dnt go thr , evrly ready ....calabar r overated , edo rocks

igivefuck4free:
Learning



Btw what's the name of that actress who bare bobby on that movie poster? Is she from cally too?

Input:
And you think the girls will clap for you now ??

lordthree:
hm infact I'll shave my leg hair and arm hair nah that time you go see friction for arms and legs

kliq:


Enough to feed the needy plus she's got lots of that too which she's been sharrrrrring to canvass voters

kliq:
Hahaha

How many kg?

kevinberry:
Those guys for there nor get joy oo....

viczing:
She cannot dress like that in ekosodin, if she tries u will hear her scores tomorrow

Tallesty1:
I will never barb

sameer1212:
WTF infact I will be barbing my hair every day...

PunkyOh:
You tell me. Why should men be allowed to cheat but women can't? Women have been cheating since biblical times too, so what's your point?

falconey:
you don't answer a question with a question. Inbetween am not a pervert.

falconey:
why do you think am lying?

Fabdedon:
barb my scalp join

falconey:
Just once

Penssuwa:
Maybe many men have dug her hole under the pretext of marriage that she feels so cheap nd overused. She is trying to correct her errors by using the only cogent reason while still satisfying her sexual urge.
The guy shld talk to her

chipmunkey:
A long time ago, a Calabar colleague once asked me what I would do if I walked in a room of 7 naked girls.
Oh boy! Na so I confess sey I go run!

Had to change my mind about visiting her cuz I could walk into a set up.. That was the wildest girl I ever met.

prevail23:
can you date a guy that is younger than you??
pls share your opinion ..thank u

Orijin101:
Yea, as at 2yrs ago....
But Edo girls sef no dey last
They are also fatherfvckers

ivyT:
Op from my perspective, I don't think she LOVES u maybe she just CARES nd those r 2 different things

Imagine her comparing u with her rich ex nd telling u dat__ mehn wtf!

MrCork:
....bro...ain't calaba women The ibo women wit beard n mustache? (no ofeeense)