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PulaPower:
Right, but you’re forgetting one thing which is… there are some men that do beg, appeal, promise heaven and earth to these women so as to marry them..

Men begging women for marriage is one of the most ridiculous thing that’s happening on earth. Even animals don’t do such - or have you ever seen a lion beg a lioness for mating/reproduction?

Men are the reason for their misfortune, not women!

Yes such men too will and deserve to suffer, they're SIMPLETONS, a top tier man shouldn't beg a woman to come partake in his resources, benevolence and love!, there are lots of limited top tier men out there tolerating BS from women who won't even give a fvck about them if they were in middle or bottom tier, lots of men are PATHETIC nowadays, hence we preach red pill always to awaken them💯

SmellingAnus:
Okay bro... So it means the woman made the wrong choice of a man ?

Whatever the outcome is the woman is held responsible for her ordeal, Do you know what it takes for a man to conclude to wife a woman out of thousands available??, think it deep!, it's a woman's responsibility to make good choice for herself!

Almost everything said there are done otherwise in reality... we are all deceiving ourselves💯

Feldie:
Dating is different from marrying. She will not be expected to perform wifely duties. She gets sex from the married man and also get money. Doesn't have to wash his clothes, cook for him, carry his baby inside her womb, feed it with her breast, get scolded for not returning early from the market to come and cook. If you are a married woman and your husband is irresponsible and useless, divorce him and look for a rich married man to date

Realistic question is till when??, you think he won't have different taste one day as you ages?, you think your punna will remain tight forever??, think!!!

SmellingAnus:
Does this apply to divorce men also?

It doesn't go both ways!... A man who spent fortune and some even life savings to marry you truly loves you, so I see no reason you should be rebellious to the man, if you don't love him genuinely, REMAIN SINGLE!!!

Edit: I forgot to add... Will continue providing his resources and benevolence even in the marriage, it's very obvious most women "98%" aren't BENEVOLENT and are innately STINGY AND ENTITLED, "especially West African women"

Sirmwill:
He should let her Go



God will be happy with him
He would have a better,more beautiful and more befitting wife.


What if they get married and it later leads to the death of the brother?
What if they are not compatible?

See it in another way Y'all!!

Nonsense manipulations... she get luck she no jam person like me, kuchie ya na bottle, onaa ni iyi!, sha dem dey look face and detect WEAK men easily!

CyrusVI:


Emefiele is lucky hes not Chinese

Same fate would have befallen him

Na only Emefiele??, if we go by this even Tinubu would have been executed for long for drug trafficking!, mumu people everywhere 💯

Alot of Nigerians are foolishly delusional... you finished Degree level with no job at hand you head straight to masters?, knowing the kind useless country you were born into... I know dey pity MUMU people at all!

iamtoofan:
i feel people abuse that quote either ways but

if i cant ask you for help nd if you cant assist me as a friend there is no point being friends ,

the funniest thing be say, the pioneers of nobody owes you anything are grass to grace dem


if you have the capacity to help a friend do it and if you no get let dem know simple ... nobody knows tomorrow and i dont believe anyone is useless, a poor friend might be your rescue everything is not money Life is deep.

You're right but my line of thought is... knowing no "one owes you anything" will make you work harder and get achievements, alot of people are too entitled nowadays. Showing love and help to people is paramount in humanity

NiceLegs:
It's normal.

The popular musician Mayorkun was my roommate back at Eni-Njoku Hall in Unilag for a whole year in 2013.

Then we knew him as Mayowa.

He was in Final Year. I was in Year 2.

He was even a squatter. We used to sleep on the ground. Managing our lives as students.

We were on good terms.

He liked my name so much that he even composed a song with my name back in the room one night.

Fast forward to when he became a big Star all thanks to Davido.

I reached out to him on Instagram several times but baba never responded to my chat till date.

Right now, I've forgotten about him.

In life, never force relationship with anyone especially when they have become rich because they will think u want to come and eat their wealth.

But what they don't know is that the friends you make when you become very rich are not your true friends.

Your true friends are those who knew you and loved you when you had nothing, were struggling and soaking garri.

Those are your true friends.

Money, Fame are all Vanity.

When the money and riches go away, you will see how they will run away from you.

Those that will stay with you are still those that knew you from day one when you had nothing.

Not always the case... priorities changes, all good things comes to end, change is constant, they too do know, except they're FOOLS!

Wickedlywicked:
Bless you, just what I’m about to say. I’m very conscious of my self pride (not to be mistaken for being proud) as I will only talk to you if you show desires to chat with me.
OP, you will understand their predicament when you eventually get to their level. They too must be facing one or two and trust me, you are the one thinking things are rosy for them and secondly, in this present Nigeria, nobody can give you one clear-cut answer to how he made his money because most of us don’t get it through just ONE magical trade.
Some even started with loans and petty trades while for others, it was just through sheer luck and maybe someone mentioned their names in some high places and to people that matter. Trust me, most are not being snobby or wicked, they are facing things that can’t be discussed with you because you are most probably not going to be able to help (they will prefer talking to someone/ppl who can realistically improve the lives they are managing and packaging).
Also, only get close to people who need your services. Believe me, we are living in a transactional world where people don’t help without getting values in return. Now ask yourself, if they gave you their productive time and helped you, what values would you add to them in return?
In fact, I prefer you asking them for a legally documented loan with collateral while stating your business plans and what they stand to gain than you asking them to give you business ideas or you could have asked them to link you up with someone who could give you access to such loan and clearly stating their own financial gains
Giving you such loan would still be seen as their own way of coming through for you.
When you get there, you will realize that nobody is doing okay.
May God ease your burdens and make things easy for all of us and may you look back and remember this day and smile in the nearest future🙏

Well from your name. Yes, people translate it raw but I know it means being realistic and factual... Godbless for the piece, truth will always be painful till the end of times!

Karleb:
Most people become envious or feel less when their friends achieve more. Some want handouts etc.

It happened to me in 2018 when one of my dude bought his first car. I felt inferior, not gonna lie.

I have learnt my lessons sha. Even if my friend buys a country, I am still going to relate to them as my friend. No inferiority complex or anything. If the friendship is not going to work anymore, it won't be from my end.

The dude I am talking about now owns a fintech in lagos. He could easily employ like this.

I love your personality... you've learnt to be REALISTIC, no one owes anyone anything!

aywagze:
That is wickedness in high places the bible talked about ..🤔

Quit your delusions!... wake up and realise no one owes you anything 💯

Mitsurugi:
A man was lloking for his missing diamond and they suspected one from a group of rats had swallowed it. His friend told him he'd find out who. And sure he did. A rat by itself in a corner. The culprit was all by himself by the corner. When the man asked his friend how he knew, he said it was easy. Assholes isolate themselves from the group when they make money.

Humans aren't rats... in reality NO ONE CARES about your struggles so why should they want to care when you have DIAMOND!?, that quote is a manipulation and BIG SCAM!

Sirchiboy:
I have know this guy wayback in 2013.
We live in this compound.

I could remember this was the period bet was popular so I normally use to win bet.
Each time I have game I give them and we all we win.

I could remember when I won 250k in 2014 and my friends including this guy that is rich now escorted me to collect the winning.

I dash them money and bought drink ...
Late 2016 we lost contact and I went back back to my state because things were hard for me.

2022 I heard that this guy has blow.
He now has a company.
Last month he bought a house and car in leakki.

I sent him chat on FB and he doesn't reply me.

I didn't ask him for money.
I just asked him to give me one or two business idea and this guy read my messages.

Never reply me.
The same thing happened too with these three Guys back in school that I use to help during exam .

These three guys have built houses, married and have cars.
I am still here struggling.
I swear and
I have vowed that this earth will favor me and this money all of us make it. . .
I repeat
I swear and
I have vowed that this earth will favor me and this money all of us make it. . .
I repeat.

Forget everything you were taught... be unique, disciplined, stingy and wicked, that's how you amass wealth and keep it flowing 💯, anything else you will FAIL!

StarGeneral:
Good morning, guys. I'm totally fed up with this country and I must relocate permanently latest, February, 2025. I work from home.

I need a good country where I can relocate to either Africa, Asia or Europe... Good country pls!

Thanks all

NB: I don't want to go through school.

RWANDA!

Quelme:
Nigerians and Indians. Deport all of them.

Lol... you be bad person!

Zonefree:
Israel no get forgiving spirit. Na their God I wan dey serve now.

The teaching of, if someone slaps you on the left cheek, you should turn the right one for them to slap again doesn't sit well with me.

THAT'S A 419 TEACHING, only fools buys the nonsense, treat people how they treat you💯

GeneralOjukwu:


After using the man wella and giving him false hope of succession...dumped him at last minute.

So David Oyedepo sef dey read 48 Laws of Power ?

Pure Machiavellian move.

LAWs

3- Conceal your intentions
7 - Get others to do the work for you,but always take credit.
11- Learn to keep people dependent on you
27- Play on people's need to believe to create a cult like following
32 - Play to people's fantansies

And many more

People are getting wiser nowadays, this laws are getting obsolete.

chikeze:
Please can someone tell me this kind of rash and how it can be treated. I read online it’s called shingle rash. What causes it and how can be treated.

DON'T BE SCARED BRO!... I got this last 3 months, it's simply SHINGLES, if you want more info about it and how I got rid of it DM

Morbeta11:
https://punchng.com/how-to-solve-nigerias-problem-osun-monarch/#google_vignette

There's nothing like God and prayers in Nigeria issues, God has done all he has to do for Nigeria, blessed us with natural resources, good whether and what have you, it's left for us to utilise them for our own growth and happiness, too many evil minded and corrupt individuals in power and authority that's the reason Nigeria is a messed up country, make una leave God to rest no be only Nigeria him create!

CJStarz:
Wonder why people attribute mystical powers to anthills.
As children, wee were told spirits reside I'm anthills

No mind Africans jare, everything is spiritual, yet they were colonised and couldn't resist the white man's weapon (gun), most Africans are very dumb!

shortgun:
It’s not that I haven’t received marriage proposals—I have, but they’re always from the wrong people

This statement is what is keeping her and many other ladies single.

Most of them are delusional... there's no perfect or wrong person, you both work out life together

What does he do for a living??, he seems suspicious to me!

NerdWriter:
He could just move on and avoid the drama.some things in most cases can be overlooked. You don't owe her your time, life anymore so let the sleeping kiosk be.

What does he expect? To begin to boast he made her or what?

That pride is a poor man mindset.

You don't get it!!!... taking it back is to prove one thing... to prove you're a not a fool or someone she thinks she can USE!, that's the reason I will do same!, I might even pieces it there and sell it off as fire wood and scrap to iron condemn people...its to teach her a lesson not to think she's smart and to cease playing with people's emotions not for anything else, best way to live life is to treat people how they treat you💯

NerdWriter:
I know of someone that sponsored his girlfriend through the university only to find out she's been cheating in him since 200 level.

What do you expect him to do?
Collect back the school fees?

Nah, nigga just grabbed the lesson but it really pained for real.

Only a stupid idiot trains a woman he's not married to in school... BTW a wise person knows nothing is promised on earth, if its not favouring you immediately quit it!, don't allow any form of gaslighting and manipulations to make you think or do otherwise!, problem is there are lots of SIMPLETONS everywhere and women love such mumu men, who no like maga to fall for am?🤣

GanagiBitrus:
Do you know that this world
would have been a paradise
if every evil deed
is instantly punished.
&if every good deed
is instantly rewarded.

The world can never be like that!... watch Natgeo wild and your environment, it's survival of the fittest!

NerdWriter:
Hustle oo make you no dey drag kiosk wey you dash your babe

Quit the stupidity, even if you owns millions a cheater doesn't deserve nothing from you!, a cheating woman can send you to early grave, be wise!

Wealthoptulent:
LEGIT MOINEY is the best.... thats why i am Happy i made all my money legitimately , today i live in the WESTERN world with my FAMILY, for years now; i sleep n wake with out fear or expectation of LAW enforcement ANYTIME or DAY.. back wen i was at home, i WORKED as ACADEMIC STAFF in HIGHER INSTITUTION , but i SELL CARS back to back.. my STUDENTS EVEN GAVE me "YAHOO LECTURER" as nick cos the PLACES they find me, i no dey BEHIND these HKN BOYS, i spent every dime with SENSE but i ball n be small too, they even gbe mi jaiye.. they were my most CUSTOMERS/CLIENT dem no dey price, they jus Pay so i made sure i had good CLEAN RIDE as DEALS.. LEXUS, VENZA BMW, BENZ were my market products for them. i usually gave dem my ADVICE, that u can use COOPERATIVE money to BUY CAR but u cant use the COOPERATIVE MONEY for its MAINTENANCE .. Meaning its easier to see any HUGE money to buy car but think of how to MAINTAIN it if no such income every time


So you think you never Touched Bløọd Money before? Make i because of say Customer Do ritual , make he buy my Goods and make he no pay? NA CHARITY I dey RUN? abi RITUAL money no Full BANKS?

I know bro... my point is no clean money anywhere, so forget that legit money talk, even our politicians all na criminals!

dauntless15:
This Stanbic mutual fund I'm seeing 20% per annum does it mean if I invest 1million na only 200k I go make after one year?

YES

Harddiskng:
It’s a real conservative investment fund, your money used to investment in low risk instruments like treasury bills, commercial papers etc.

It is doing about 20% per annum now, which is a pretty decent return for a low risk investment.

You can get started for a little as 5k. Just imagine it like a current bank account, where your money grows.

Check out the mutual fund trend:
https://www.nairaland.com/1912965/mutual-funds/337

I would recommend Stanbic IBTC Asset Manager or FBNQuest Asset Management (Stanbic is baba for operational efficiency - getting money in and out: nowadays FBNQ seem to be offering better returns and i see they also making effort to fix their operational efficiency too).

God bless.

Wow that's great, I really appreciate... I will do more research on it, thanks alot

aariwa:
many people are in prison today or are dead because of this mindset of you must commit crime to be wealthy

The prison and execution is the Karma!, even the governments knows there's no spiritual entity to pay you back for any wrongs hence there's law enforcement agents, let's leave out that and rely on Karma, you'll see the world turn into anarchy and mayhem, reason why I don't belive in forgiveness except unintentional but on deeper stretch humans are mostly intentional and uses its the devil's work and please forgive to perpetrate there evil and wrong doings on others, if there's actual Karma no politician or wealthy business man will be saved from it, best is to be smart and avoid being scammed/used, reflect deep on this.