optionalY09:
Go home or get help from Nigeria community in canada. Black people need to fix their character and start loving each other. Those who have accommodation should assist the people that do not have.

Love yourselves before you start asking others to love you - Use your brain

Collapse all these mushroom religious denominations into one strong Nigerian religions just like the Jewish catholics. Build an effective system with it and use it as a tool to accomplish many things. We are many, smart, yet useless

After helping and accommodating they fleece you and ruin your life!, Africans are horrible, always entitled and seeking to use you!, you might even be killed just for helping someone in need!

Forming rubbish!!!, that's why most things on yall are fake!

DonBenny77:
Of course you belong to your family. They own you. And it's your responsibility to make your family smile before you consider strangers. Build your family I'm not saying you must grant every request but try for your family because when you die na still that family go reciprocate. Some wealthy men impress the streets and let the family suffer then when they fall off in the future they can't sustain because the didn't empower family.
Mikel particularly is a stingy guy, compare him to Mane from Senegal in terms of being charitable. Mikel would rather spend millions on a whip for model than support his family.
Don't downplay family, family is everything

THIEF!!!, change your sense of entitlement, no one owes you shiiìt!!!

nairagenone:

Baba I dey feel you, I was almost at your stage but God just favoured me.
Na so I jam a sweet 27 year old virgin babe, with perfect shape and all.
I couldn't believe my luck, she con be SU join, just what I ever dreamt of.

As someone who has lived in multiple continents and dated all races, when you see my fiance you'd think she jazzed me cos the class difference and every other aspect is so wide.

But I love it like that, men are supposed to marry down so has to be able to earn respect from their wives naturally.
If you check this op brother, he either married his own level/class or a woman earning same as him or more.

When they tell you age long truths that as a man, you must marry down to have peace in your own home some of you will think they are talking rubbish.

Come to think of it even those with class are still a liability to the man especially financially, so why stress my self to marry a rubbish class that'll still disrespect me and feel entitled to my possessions??, Godforbid!... some men no go ever get sense, nothing beats peace of mind and tranquility till you depart this earth at a ripe age, I don't pity foolish people!!!

MrBroke:


Losing what you think I came to play a win or lose game with you. I only stated a truth of mine and you came in playing judge. The only thing I want to win is money not arguments cause as you can see my name is MrBroke. Continue playing your game

Bye 👋 LOSER!!!

MrBroke:



Sense is far from you, I can be everything wicked like me telling you the truth of how useless and of no value your life is and still I ain't corrupt. I ain't your problem okay, go and face your life and I hope the corruption you are engaging in one way or the other is bringing good amount of money or whatever it brings to your broken table. Even my family and my papa self I no get time to convince, who dem help. Ode

When one is losing in an argument they then resort to insults, oga you're deceiving yourself alone and no one!

MrBroke:


You speak too much grammar but can't juxtapose or differentiate between two simple terms.
Wetin I wan convince you do, you get money or any special thing to give me. Mtcheww. There's nothing you can do for me in this life so nothing has to work on you. You don see me do businesses for nairaland b4 or ask for anything.
There's nobody here who I give a f*ck about or trying to convince. Go rest abeg

See who no corrupt...from your words sef I know say na your type be chronic manipulators and good at extracting people's hard earned money, dictionary states "corrupt" as willing to act dishonestly for personal gain while not being Righteous means one being "wicked", so someone who extorts people's money dishonestly is not wicked??, oga carry your over righteousness and fvck off here!, no be only you're not corrupt go and convince your father and family that not me!, everyone is corrupt one way or the other 💯

MrBroke:



Define Righteous
Then Define Corrupt

It should make you understand better

Whatever rocks your boat bro... bask in your manipulations, doesn't work on me! 😆

MrBroke:


You not that relevant or that significant to detest my case nigga. Like I do always say to tribalist who generalises things about people; only a fool generalises.

If God exist you can as well call him corrupt since he created you abi?

God you mentioned said no one is righteous and if you say so you maketh him a liar!, ponder on that bro, Bon nuit!

MrBroke:


Everybody no dey like you.

That reply is directed to you!!!... its been proven 💯 always that 99 percent Nigerians are corrupt and dubious, stating and trying to convince me you're different further buttresses you as a highly corrupt individual!

MrBroke:


I believe they are a lot of people like me out there.
Money doesn't push me the wrong way but the right. Even when opportunities of corruption presented themselves I still didn't succumb. I just dey laugh people way dey yan say na because better money never dey involve but the truth b say even $50 million no go make we deviate. I stubborn for that aspect and I am a proud motherfvcker. If I start to mention things now some corrupt people here go calk me mumu self

My brother leave matter for Mathias 🤣

I have never met a Nigerian that's not corrupt, since I start to know something!!!

Kobojunkie:
But I don't displease myself at all as I made it clear that I do it if I can help it. I guess you are all too quick to turn the narrative around to make yourself seem the better person here is why you resolved it the way you did.

2. My friend does that too. When I am in the mood for a great steak and he is around, he respects my needs just as I respect his too. Respect works when it goes both ways. Not the brain damage you seem to be imagining there.

So what if you can't help it??, you still go ahead and eat beef or what??, carry your mentality dey your lane!, I do what I love if anyone doesn't like it they can go fvck themselves! Mtcheeww

Kobojunkie:
But I don't displease myself at all as I made it clear that I do it if I can help it. I guess you are all too quick to turn the narrative around to make yourself seem the better person here is why you resolved it the way you did.

2. My friend does that too. When I am in the mood for a great steak and he is around, he respects my needs just as I respect his too. Respect works when it goes both ways. Not the brain damage you seem to be imagining there.

Well it was your narrative not mine!, finally you said something like a sensible person, respect is reciprocal... The brain damage you stated is a reflection on your comment without further explanation, check yourself!

Kobojunkie:
I have friends who believe cows as sacred creatures and not once have I thought them to be stewpid beings. As a matter of fact, out of respect, I don't eat beef, if I can help it, in front of them.

Lol okay oo, you don't eat beef out of respect to displease yourself to please others??, you sound ridiculous and needs to discover yourself!, how about they respect your decision on enjoying your steaky delicious beef 😋, how about that??

Kobojunkie:
He is not a mumu though. It is his belief and so should be respected. And even better, he is not imposing it on others.

That's still a stvpid believe!, sorry, not everything told to you when you were a kid you believed now, isn't it?

engrjacuzzi:
I don't trust the source of his money... it's either he is illuminati, drug baron, or a secret society member.

No one gives a fvck about what you think, onye ara go and make your own money, quit the jealousy and hatred!

SavageResponse:


How did he make the money he used to build those hotels?

Did you check that when he was a nobody?, idiot!

osuolale95:


One of our forefather turns to this, years ago.

So me eating this is like eating my forefathers

MUMU* 😆 🤣

Amarachukwu/Abdulaziz... it's rife all over

Persephone1:
Okay! I will respond to this, other mentions are from narrow-minded lots who can't deal with the fact that every being ( man or woman ) has freedom of choice and desire.

1) You are right, I have attentively analyzed the Nigerian marriage system and I do not like it. I am from the most liberal tribe in Nigeria but I still do not find the "give and take" systematic structure of marriages pleasing enough. This is from a place of personal preference.

2) Lol you are wrong there, that they do not meet my expectations do not mean I think low of them . There are some same ones but when it comes to relationships most have a lot to learn. Starting with emotional intelligence, did you read a thread where a guy shouted at his suicidal girlfriend and hung up on her because according to him"she didn't say what was wrong with her"? Well, girlfriend ended up killing herself. Now lack of sensitivity and emotions with partners is something common with Nigerian men, it is why a husband would not notice a change in his wife's mood or body until she is admitted to the hospital. I have seen lots of cases and I don't find them pleasing at all.

3) I get your drift. Nevertheless, both couples should learn about each other. On submission and head, I don't have an issue with that as long as the leadership isn't autocratic or dictatorship or the submission isn't subversive.

4) Good, hopefully, this will continue and soon enough all marriages will be enjoyed not endured.

5) In the Western world there's hardly discrimination of roles. Couples understand their weakness and strength and complement one another. They share roles according to ability and willingness, you may never come across gender roles with them. And when there is it comes with different forms of support that ensures none is burdened. But here you see people saying it is the job of a man to provide any which way ( even if he is limited) while a seven-month pregnant wife must take care of the home any which way. A very toxic system if you ask me.

6) Analyze the shortcoming of both genders in marriage and you will realize which gender has the most redemption and restitution to do. I have written it here once, a Nigerian lady has only financial dependency syndrome to deal with if she's to date or marry outside her race while Nigerian men have so much more to correct. If Nigerian women travel more, they will be hot cake out there, because they are very homely and lovely. But Nigerian men are trained to be money bags which in the long run does not meet long-term commitment standards.

Although there are some black sheep most marriages fail when the woman gets tired of enduring in Nigeria.

Your I too know will ruin you!... you can never be a man and the world will remain a man's world till eternity, you're just creating problems for yourself, Pathetic!

UyaiIncomparabl:
Only insecure men bother about not wanting to marry a first child/daughter. Truly, some families comes with lots of financial baggages, and this is what most of these men fear.

Some families too, are very shameless. How they manage to heap their numerous needs and wants on the men is just so nauseating.

I can't even give any man that glory to take care of my siblings or parents for me. I too get pride abeg! It's your choice to help, if you want. No be say tomorrow go reach, one man go come give me my life history of how he catered for my family and I when we were nothing. Kolewerk!

The fear of liabilities and going wreck is the beginning of wisdom!, there's nothing insecure about one being smart and avoiding unnecessary problems for themselves.

Curiouscity:


Sadly, this thread is not about me and my marriage challenges. But, my partner has a wrong view about money and responsibilities. She is yet to understand what family mean, or where her focus should be.

She works, but she expects me to run the house, and still take care of her extended family members.

Omo leave her ooo, for your own sanity!, her focus should be her immediate family once married!, finally when you wreck same family will bad mouth you and dump you, use your number 6!

Marry rubbish as wife!, can never be me... I go condemn that mouth she dey use insult me, carry her go hospital myself!, can't even marry someone like that in the first place cus I test people to the extreme!, you be real weak man and you're pathetic, Nonsense!

20k dem dey use drink beer at a spot, chai some people dey suffer and are very far from reality!

Jennyclay:
I put to you that this bolt driver is not innocent .

The police should tortured him and watch him confess all his evil deeds .

As long as I’m alive, I can never trust a man not even a Nigerian man.

Biko!! Torture him!!!

Mad woman!, seek help!!!

Hendrixky:
And so what

We should celebrate this now

When a dollar equal 1300 naira already

Big shame to tinubu
The problem with Nigeria is that there are too many sentimental, wicked and tribalistic souls in Nigeria

Reason we can not unite to fight our politicians

Imagine the picture below. Now he is aware that tinubu is not a magician
That same energy he used in tormenting Jonathan administration he can no longer use it because of tribalism

He's a mad man!

Supremos:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=msOYMd5sf7Q?si=waYjICSxH7qOlL9y


My boss deceived me into donating my kidney over empty $20m promise — Driver
By Evelyn Usman

A 42-year-old man, Nwoko Eric, yesterday, revealed how his former boss allegedly deceived him to donate one of his kidneys to his (the boss) younger brother, only to abandon him after the transplant was done.



https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/10/my-boss-deceived-me-into-donating-my-kidney-over-empty-20m-promise-driver/

The less you trust people the better for you!, be very wary of anything too enticing to be truth!

NameInUse:



I no like rough play oh. His gbola no go small oh.

Well I might be the "His" 😆

NameInUse:
Out of curiosity, anyone here tried penis enlargement oil or herbs or cream and it actually worked?

Seems your man gbola small, lol there's no way for it to grow... all na scam!, manage am like that or you come to me 😋