, hey guys, I read the first and last page of this "interesting" conversation as everything in between was too much for moi.

I just like you guys to be careful when you refer to the oyinbos, as a lot of comments on here really can be perceived as "racist"

we DUDUs like to hold on to the wrong doings of oyinbos of centuries gone by, but we never shy from being blatantly racist ourselves.

A whole lot of hula baloo will have been made if oyinbos were the one referring to any one of us "fat ugly black".

I respect your opinions each, lets just be part of the solution not the problem.



My Word Is My Bond !!!!!

WHAT!!!!!!!!!!!, yes i started this thread. imagine my suprise when i got a notification and came here to find activity on a thread i started in 2005,

i really had fun reading it and the contributions of the two girls who made this a hot topic on that sleepy september night in '05.

so many things have changed, hahahaha!!!!

Find a Guy , who calls you beautiful instead of hot.*

lol, james blunt's song was originally called "you'r hot" before it was renamed to you'r beautiful, go figure


Who calls you back when you hang up on him.*

how nowwwww, na she dey buy me credit!!!!!


Who will stay awake just to watch you sleep.*

what!! even if u r watching a movie cos u no get work and i have to be up by 6am the next morning, make i dey watch u?, HELL NO


Wait for the guy who , kisses your forehead.*

even if there is a big ripe pimple on ur forehead like a unicorn's? no, i will pass thank you


Who wants to show you off to the world when you are in your sweats.*

"yeah there goes my gurl, the one in the sweats with the crazy ass booty, wooo weee"


Who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares about you and how lucky he is to have you.*

really this is just pathetic, do I have to be that insecure to show i care?


Who turns to his friends and says, ' That's her!!*

yeah u catch me with anoda gurl and u want to kill me, i see u coming with a cutlass and yell to my friends "yeeeee Thats her, mo ku oooo"



my word is my bond!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Ehn, is this what's reigning now? airing our dirty, personal laundry in public, ?

tsk tsk, not cool guys,

well since u asked thread starter, yeah, I like hurting the opposite sex,

hence my whips, leather and lace, mace and collection of sordid love toys,

what?, thats not what u are talking abut, oops, sorry,



my word is my bond!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Not all Fine Boys are Shy: Fact

Not all Shy Boys are Fine: Fact

but for the ones who ARE shy, it most likely has to do with the fact that they've been judged all their life by how they look

therefore some of them are a bit insecure cos they arent sure if ppl see or appreciate them for who they are and what they can do but for

they look like. Take a look at fine gurls, most of them are hideously insecure cos they've already been presumed just on their looks alone,




My word is my bond!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

truelover:

Me too dey look for white chick o.
Anyone available contact me on walex662010@yahoo.co.uk
Okay, For serious relationship.
I am tired of these our unfaithful black gals.

hahahaha, tired of blak gurls? i feel u gee, but really white has their wahala too o, they wont only cheat (which they think is the norm)

but if u dare break their heart, its either they shoot u dead straight!, or they turn serial killer on ur black ass, lol,

as for the spare part dealer, i really dont think it will be happily ever after, i just have that gut feeling.

Hope am wrong


my word is my bond!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Kelvinj:

@kok
oh itz attraction at which sight? Week sight i guez. C'mon we'ar all sayn d same tin. U see a girl aft a week she luks sexy & catches ur eye guez u'll call it luv coz itz nt d first time.

Kelvinj:

I object wen u say its only lust @first sight. Ok letz see it lyk dis As a guy u meet a girl 2day & notin abt her thrills u & aft like a week or so u've bin seeing her, she cums out 1 fine mornin lukin sexy & u hapily walk up 2 her & tell her watz in ur mind! Wat wuld u call dat? Luv dat caught fire or lust dat is frozen

lol, I just love it when ppl show that they are from another planet, and dont have the slightest clue what they are saying and what is even being

SAID!!,

djakarta:

ITS REAL BECAUSE WHATEVER FRIEND U HAVE BELIEVE U ME, U MET HIM OR HER AT FIRST SIGHT NOT AT SECOND SIGHT. WHEN U SEE PPLE THE FIRST TIME IS IT NOT FIRST SIGHT? [/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][color=#000099][/color]

guy, WHAT r u smoking?!!!!!!, this is the lames thig i have heard in a while,

Love at 1st sight? naaaaaaa, Lust at 1st sight? most definitely,

I heard a quote once that said "love is friendship that has caught fire", thats deep

Love is something that grows, meaning you can have lust at first sight that actually grows into love

afterall, ATTRACTION is what makes anybody take interest in the opposite sex at first, not love,

those who say the believe in love t first sight or what ever are just sooooo full of it,

GULDER ULTIMATE SEARCH or ULTIMATE HUNT!!!!!,

@ Thread Starter: I sense some haughtiness in u,

and for one with this kind of emotional dilemma, such an attitude is very confusing,

you tend to sound very intelligent atimes then very opposite most times

I would have tot the answer to this was very obvious, but then women tend to be more emotional than rational

so if u need telling listen to the lovel NairaLanders,

and trying to regulate the type of responses ur topic generates is not the NairaLand way,

when you piss in the wind, be prepared to have thrown at you,



word is bond!!!!!!

To all who have ears, I have said it once, and with this sorry story above, I will have to say it again,

Women, Gurls, Ladies, Chiks, what ever word you use to describe them,

ARE NOT TO BE TRUSTED!!!!!

if you play the lover boy, or faithful husband and trust them for a frigging second, you wont only get hurt,

you will be left asking silly questions like Thread Starter!!!!

IF NOT ALL, then MOST FEMALES ARE NOT TO BE TRUSTED!!!!!

Word is bond!!!!!!!!

Thor:

FOR CLARITY

Slim and Curvey does not = Fat with a big great sweaty Booty

Thor, now that you put it that way, I think, yeah, that mightn't be so badd you know, big, Booty,

@ Thread Starter: are you Fat or Broom Skinny,

pls be aware, a lot of intelligent, handsome, young brothers like myself, , not only realise that Fat women are a serious health risk to themselves

and those they claim to love, but they cant compare to the "Not Skinny"  but slim and Curvy beautiful black sisters out there, , (am such a pervert)

word is bond!!!!

@ Thread starter: why in all honesty do u seem so particular about this lady and this matter?

or are you the lady in question?

Emmanbaba:

There is this babe i'm in love with. I've asked her out but what she told me was that she doesn't want to be distracted in her studies, And i want her badly. Pls how can i convince her.

first and fore most gee, stop using the word "LOVE" carelessly

its an insult to ppl like me who dont believe in LOVE,

2nd, i hope u havent been telling her you love her, cos telling someone who hasnt even started liking you, "you love them", will never make them

love you, also i question the veracity of ur confessions because, who can claim to love another b4 that other even likes them?, think abut it


so really, u like her, u wanna Bleep her , thats all fair and square, but plsssssss stop saying you "LOVE" her,


word is bond!!!!!

Big ups to you for the article, i dont know if you are still online but i need some explanations

how does one know when trust becomes blind Trust?

you know that whole trust him/her when u arent with them, dont kill urself thinking they are cheating and all what not.

all fair and square but

i need clarification, when does common sense trusting becomes blind trusting.

also i need to know is it possible for a person to TOTALLY lose the ability to trust the opposite sex again?,

well, again nice article bro, finally sumthing we can all learn from



word is bond!

tpia.:

naija women no dey hear word.

you can say that again gee,

Hell hath no fury,

kinnkw:

the funny thing about that cheat thing is that she was always the one to confess after she has done it.
I never found out because leave in a different state from her, dont you think thats a credit?
Well doesnt change anything.
Anyone with contact to enough chicks, that would help too.

yo kid, this is for you: www.enoughchicks.com

knock ya self out, thank me wen you come to,

emilyone:

@ poster

ur notion is dat every female on this foruim is a virus carrier ? sad

e don do nowww,

poor silly chap has accepted his mistake, una won stone dead body to death again,

we've all been guilty of talking before we think atimes, comon NairaLanders, where's ya'll spirit of forgiveness?

mind you , i wont try such a dumb stunt ladies, i swear, scouts honour, lol,



word,

kinnkw:

All of you are right in your own ways, i'm the one wearing the shoes so i should know better. I have dated her for just 8months and judging by what has happened in the passed,The cheats and lies she has told me even till now that this final incident happened, i really think i should move on.
I have forgiven her for so many things and ended up being hurt again. Its just hard because i have strong feelings for her but decisions are made to be taken.
Especially hard ones like this.

I applaud your seeming determination, but I can also bet you that you still going to call her, lol

dont mean to be negative, but i can bet you that you are going to call her again,

it just takes a while to get them out of our system totally, been there felt that,

you need to go out and look 4 more chiks that will help, it helped me.

all the best with ur dogged determination tho,



wurd is bond

Stoneval:

Pls hit her fone and ask her out, i want to be free from evryday SEX

Thats it!!! you just gave youself away, pull up your skirt and expose your true sex, Bitch!!!

awww shit, you ass-hole, lol

now do you know how many man-meat men are going to be buzzing her fone up like a hot line?!!!!

forget gee, am outta here, lol


wurd

@ Thread Starter,

I need you to raise your right hand slightly above ur right ear, yeah not 2 high, then give yourself a wack on the ear, not too hard but hard enuff,

dude!, whats wrong with you dawg?!, this is the stuff out of porn films happening to you and you are acting so undecided, look keeping giving

your sister's friend what she wants and keep a silly smile on your face for your sister, just make the gurl happy for God's sake will you!!!,

and dammit if u are sooo not interested, whats your sister's friend's name and number?,


word is bond!!!!

@Poster: look i only have two things to say, first i served in  Katsina, fantastic yeah?, very accomodating chaps those hausas, try some kilichi wen u

are dere , u''l love it,

second, there might be a lot of insults entwined in these posts, but peeps got it right, u cant police ya lady too much, my advice to you will be too cheat

as much as possible with other ladies, the logic might be elusive to you just yet, but trust me

if u dont go living ur life right now, and u stay worrying over a lady (who u mite not even marry in the end) tsk, tsk, un-necessary cardiac

bro so go to Katsina, eat kilichi, let ur gurl some elbow space, and as a man, get some of the free available pussy around you, gospel truth,


word is bond!!!!

Gees up, Hoes down,

BlueDiva:



Don't understand?

you said a picture would help you judge, i just seconded that,

but i want a bikini pic, (am just a womanizer, )

BlueDiva:

It's one thing to be rich and pretty.
It's another thing to have style, class and grace.

Perhaps, you lack these and so attract ruffians.
BTW, let's see a pix to judge, we might see you from the 'ruffians' view.

i second that ma, and pls if you have any in a bikini,

that will do just fine, you know, help, guys, em, em, make a very unbiased opinion,

Bro, i sense you left out some pertinent information that we need to give you real sound advice, did u meet this lady online?, is she older than you?, cos

(apologises here) but by the tone of you, it sounds like she is, and in as much as this is not a big deal, i feel it could set a pattern for how the relationship

goes. To set her pastor on you means she is serious and doesnt want to make a mistake with you, yeah you had every right to feel insulted.

look i can give you advice like a gentleman and say: stick with her if you really really care about her and she does about you, or i can tell you what a rude

boi like me will do, be rational, thats why we are men and not women, what does the future hold with a lady in UK and u here, what do you do for

sexual satifaction, bro, dont mean to sound cruel but look for a nice lady, that u can see, touch, (kiss) lol, they are every where (ok not really) but i

think that will be better, and it saves youa lot of heartaches in the long run, lol

word is bond!!!!