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Kondomatic:
What is real love?

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

Love never fails 1 Corinthians 13:4-8

Cutehector:
because u two havnt officially asked each oda out..... will I introduce u to my friends as a girlfrnd when I havnt asked you out yet? Wouldn't dat seem weird or smth...


U havnt accepted to be his girlfrnd and he hasn't asked u to be his girlfrnd so I dnt see any reason why u should be thrown off balance.

Well u should be happy he introduces u to his frnds, it's a good thing, it's a sign he really likes u... look dear, just be patient, one thing i"v learnt through mistakes I made in the past is tryn to rush a relationship where it hasn't started yet... u like him, dats good.. it's even easy... someone has to let him knw u r really into him.. do both of u hav a mutual friend? He or she can talk him into it. Dats wat is in vogue nw and it's really really uncomplicating issues.. cuz u will get to knw his mind through the mutual friend. Cheers

We dont have mutual friends. But when people ask who he is thats bae. I make sure they know we arent official but he's definitely bae.

NOOOOOOOO

Cutehector:
Just wait it out please... how will u feel if u just got out of a relationship and a friend of urs dats been deeply secretly crushin on u asks u out immediately..

I guess u can imagine wat u"d respond to him abt dat.

So just be patient.

That isnt whats going on. We've been going on dates. Its not a secret crush. He just threw me off when he introduced me as his friend.

Ok... So we've been "dating". Mostly chilling and having a lot of pretty awesome sex. I just don't want him thinking Im a rebound or booty call.

I'm not Nigerian Im afro-american. I've met the most amazing Igbo man. He's educated, kind, respectful, funny, encouraging, basically if I could have asked God for a man he is better than what I would have asked for.

I really want whatever we have going on to become something more than dates chilling and having sex. He just got out of a relationship by no means am I trying to rush him. I just dont know how to tell him. I really like him and Im not trying to waste his time.

Should I just tell him or wait it out and not say anything?