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Should I Tell Him... by Callie24: 4:14pm On Mar 06, 2016 |
I'm not Nigerian Im afro-american. I've met the most amazing Igbo man. He's educated, kind, respectful, funny, encouraging, basically if I could have asked God for a man he is better than what I would have asked for. I really want whatever we have going on to become something more than dates chilling and having sex. He just got out of a relationship by no means am I trying to rush him. I just dont know how to tell him. I really like him and Im not trying to waste his time. Should I just tell him or wait it out and not say anything? |
Re: Should I Tell Him... by Nobody: 4:17pm On Mar 06, 2016 |
IF U LIKE HIM THEN GIVE HIM A SIGN THAT URE INTO HIM, if he is into u then he will ask you out but dnt tell him. 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Tell Him... by matrix199(m): 4:17pm On Mar 06, 2016 |
Callie24: Patience is a virtue. Give it time 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Tell Him... by Cutehector(m): 4:18pm On Mar 06, 2016 |
Just wait it out please... how will u feel if u just got out of a relationship and a friend of urs dats been deeply secretly crushin on u asks u out immediately.. I guess u can imagine wat u"d respond to him abt dat. So just be patient. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Tell Him... by Nobody: 4:20pm On Mar 06, 2016 |
Since u are not a Nigerian and perhap ur mindset is different from the way we reason, then u should tell him |
Re: Should I Tell Him... by Callie24: 4:21pm On Mar 06, 2016 |
Ok... So we've been "dating". Mostly chilling and having a lot of pretty awesome sex. I just don't want him thinking Im a rebound or booty call. |
Re: Should I Tell Him... by Callie24: 4:27pm On Mar 06, 2016 |
Cutehector: That isnt whats going on. We've been going on dates. Its not a secret crush. He just threw me off when he introduced me as his friend. |
Re: Should I Tell Him... by goodmorning40: 4:34pm On Mar 06, 2016 |
our igbo man Here won't like u telling him. just show that u are serious with him and responsible enough for him, and allow him do the telling, it's a man's job and it makes them feel like one 1 Like |
Re: Should I Tell Him... by Cutehector(m): 4:35pm On Mar 06, 2016 |
Callie24:because u two havnt officially asked each oda out..... will I introduce u to my friends as a girlfrnd when I havnt asked you out yet? Wouldn't dat seem weird or smth... U havnt accepted to be his girlfrnd and he hasn't asked u to be his girlfrnd so I dnt see any reason why u should be thrown off balance. Well u should be happy he introduces u to his frnds, it's a good thing, it's a sign he really likes u... look dear, just be patient, one thing i"v learnt through mistakes I made in the past is tryn to rush a relationship where it hasn't started yet... u like him, dats good.. it's even easy... someone has to let him knw u r really into him.. do both of u hav a mutual friend? He or she can talk him into it. Dats wat is in vogue nw and it's really really uncomplicating issues.. cuz u will get to knw his mind through the mutual friend. Cheers |
Re: Should I Tell Him... by Nobody: 4:37pm On Mar 06, 2016 |
Tell him it will help you get clear on what you have with him and free you from fears of being just a booty call. |
Re: Should I Tell Him... by Kondomatic(m): 4:40pm On Mar 06, 2016 |
I am officially confused. |
Re: Should I Tell Him... by Callie24: 4:40pm On Mar 06, 2016 |
Cutehector: We dont have mutual friends. But when people ask who he is thats bae. I make sure they know we arent official but he's definitely bae. |
Re: Should I Tell Him... by Cutehector(m): 4:44pm On Mar 06, 2016 |
Callie24:phew... well, I dnt knw wat to tell u any further.. u two keep doin wad u do already. Wateva comes out ain't any of my business afterall... Why not quit the sex part first... |
Re: Should I Tell Him... by Pinkiedearie(f): 4:59pm On Mar 06, 2016 |
The Igbo men I know loves taking those kind of decison themselves...abi you wan turn the man...chill |
Re: Should I Tell Him... by britbuz(m): 1:17pm On Mar 07, 2016 |
Auntie, are you talking about an opening ceremony? These days dating happens spontaneously |
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