Nothing stupefies a man in any relationship than YOU calling his bluff! Just tell him thanks! BUT LEAVE THE CHILDREN WITH HIM and exercise VISITATION RIGHTS ONLY!!!! Let HIM BE THE SINGLE PARENT!!!!

Shiooooooooor!!!!

You still need proof?
How can ANY SANE WOMAN be 'faithful ' to any NIGERIAN man?

Never met one I could not beat HANDS DOWN!
Out of sight is DEFI-A-TELY out of SIGHT!!!

bukatyne: It is and you know. A christian is not a physical child of Jesus but a person [size=20pt]who is like Christ in thoughts, deeds and actions. [/size]

Sorry about your 'bashing' interpretation. . . I am just an UNEQUIVOCAL poster. . .as always.
As for the red-bolded part. . . I HAVE NEVER MET ANY WITH SUCH QUALITIES. . .THE REASON I CAN NEVER ACCEPT CHRISTIANITY IN MY LIFE OR DEATH. I ain't got all day to address that without derailing this thread. Derailing threads is NOT part of my NL agenda for 2013. So, I thank you once again for this 'folgers-in-my-cup-topic'. . . . !

I have written all there is to write.

Off to the gym!

*thread unfollowed*

Next please.

I would appreciate if christian men can answer.

Other men can but please no bashing allowed.

If you don't understand the concepts, please just read.

Thanks.

There is absolutely nothing like a 'CHRISTIAN' MAN OR WOMAN. . . JESUS CHRIST NEVER GOT MARRIED. . .HE ALSO DIED WITHOUT HAVING SE-X! The next best thing you can ever have are 'COUNTERFEITED-CHRISTIANS' too frustrated to smell their own hypocritical azzzes!

I hope my response does not count as 'basssshing' o!

I am VERY FEMALE. . . UNLIKE ANY CHRISTIAN ONE. . . I DO POSSESS EXTREMELY ACTIVE BRAIN-CELLS! I don't need to thank any GOD for that! It is a WOMAN'S WORLD TOO. . .ESPECIALLY THE CYBER AIRWAYS INCLUDING ON NL!

Boy! I must have slept well!!!

6. Why do some of them still support adultery even when the Bible clearly condemns it?

This is where the HYPOCRISY OF THE SO-CALLED BIBLE becomes the ALBATROSS of CHRISTIANS. How can CHRISTIANS condemn adultery. . .WHEN THEIR HOLY-GHOST with the permission of their so-called "GOD" of Israel and Jacob. . .COMMITTED THE FIRST ADULTERY IN THE HISTORY OF CHRISTIANITY?

Can Satan cast out SATAN? I think not!

There! I have answered. Nice topic.

5. Why do they allow their families to treat their wives like a household slave even though the Bible says a man will leave his mother and father and cleave to his wife?

This can only happen among DIVINE-ILLITERATES or POVERTY-STRICKEN LOW-INCOME-GROUP half-breeds in POLYGAMOUS DOG-OUTS OR BULL-PENS! I have NEVER encountered such a 'PATIENCE NZOKWOR/SALAWA ABENI'-like NOLLYWOOD MATRIMONIALsaga OF PURELY-PRIMITIVE RUSTICITY in my entire life. CHRISTIAN OR NOT! I hope I never do. I don't associate with SUCH BUSHMEATS! I was not born and raised in such environment. . . no matter how financially-disadvantaged in the face of overwhelming material and spiritual poverty!

4. Why do they think humility, gentleness etc are qualities to be developed by women even though they are clearly the fruits of the Holy Spirit (i.e. Love, joy, peace, faith, gentleness, long-suffering, hope, tolerance and self control) which is the characteristics of a believer either male or female?

The same 'HOLY SPIRIT' that adulterated another man's VAJIN bride before he could pop the 'cherry'?
Well, no wonder. Need I say more?

3. Why do they think submission of their wives makes her inferior considering the fact that God told us to submit to one another? Eph 5:21?

Because, they can smell an MGBEKE OR MODINA2 from miles away! Those who take the word 'submit' to the lowest levels of interpretations! If all women were like moi. . .the world submit would have been burned from that local book called 'THE BIBLE'!

2. Why do they always want their wives to submit before loving them even though Christ commanded them to love their wives as He loved the Church?

Even after submitting, wives are still not loved! Domestic abuse is very common in MANY CHRISTIAN homes. There is nothing as oxymoro-nic as an AFRICAN OR NIGERIAN CHRISTIAN. . . .The day he or she follows CHRIST trully. . .the day the world would be a better and more peaceful place!

1. Why don't they practice the kind of love God expects from them? 1Cor13:1 - 13 i.e. Love is kind, patient, polite, not boastful, endures all things, never loses hope, is never happy with injustice, always happy when the truth wins out etc?

Hmmmm! Because they were NOT conceived in such! It is in the genes. You do not expect HYPOCRITES to act otherwise do you?

bukatyne: At bolded, I know that's why i specifically said others can. I directed this to them because I expect them to live according to the Bible they claim to quote or follow. Can you explain point 1?

Ok. . . let me balance with my breakfast fOrst!

Here goes:

NEVER HAVE. . .AND NEVER WILL!
Especially with a NIGERRRRRR-IAN MAN!
I dunn kia to know what he earns or what he has in his bank accounts.
THE ONLY thing we are entitled to is EACH OTHER'S LIFE INSURANCE AND RETIREMENT BENEFITS!!!!

WHEN WE DIE ONLY!

May my H-AGNOSTIC GAAAAAAAAAAD continue to bless H-AMERICAH. . . My home sweeeeeeeeeeetest home!!!!!

That is if I tell him. . . .
YES. . . .MOST NIGERIAN MEN HAVE THE MOST IMPORTANT SAY ON AN UNPLANNED PREGNANCY. . .
They know all at HOT H-ABORTION JOINTS IN TOWN! They usually drive YOU there and PAY for the 'sah-vi-ses'!

Too old for all that now.

I would not even tell him. . .especially if he is a riff-raff. . . I would pay for my own H-ABORTION myself!
Screw his azzze!

This is good news!
Gay boys grew up in 'hetero-se-xual homes. . . I see no reason why they should be stigmatized in society. . .ESPECIALLY IF SOCIETY CANNOT DEAL WITH GAY CATHOLIC PRIESTS AND THEIR SODOMISTIC DEE-EE-KS!

Unfortunately, the cyber airways is not for CHRISTIAN MEN only. . . .that is if you can find one!

So. . . here goes: FROM A BLISSFULLY-BLESSED AND HAPPY AGNOSTIC HAPPILY-MARRIED FEMALE!

1. Because they are brain-washed and daft!

I am talking of both the men and the women!

onatisi:
this is the basic truth ppl are always scared to face or talk about

Don't mind 'em!
Na im dem siddon online with many IDs pretending to be married happily ever after!OFEGE 'REALITY SHOWS' AND ALL! Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew!!!!
MU CHE CHE CHE CHE CHE CHE CHE

Who is zooooming who?

GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOD MORRRRIN' MY DARLING H-AMERICAH! THE LAND OF WOMEN AS THE HEADS OF THE HOUSEHOLDS! WATZZZUP IN OBAMALAND. . .BESIDES THE SUPER 'BRO-BOWL'?

Vikin:

*belches*