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Religion / Re: Just Had A Vision Where I Hung Myself by calmness0(f): 9:35pm On Oct 15, 2022
Kobojunkie:
Sure! God can save even the world but God won't do that since He clearly stated what it is He will do, making clear what He won't as well. grin

We'd have to be deceiving ourselves if we believe God will go out of His way to rescue us. undecided

Bro seems Your problem is deep. From your assertions seems U don't believe in God
Religion / Re: Just Had A Vision Where I Hung Myself by calmness0(f): 9:17pm On Oct 15, 2022
Kobojunkie:
Depression results from change in level of brain chemicals. So, are you asking OP to reject and rebuke his brain or the brain chemicals? undecided

God can do anything
Religion / Re: Just Had A Vision Where I Hung Myself by calmness0(f): 9:07pm On Oct 15, 2022
Kobojunkie:
Rebuke and Reject what exactly? Brain chemicals? undecided

Lol, are you living with op?
Religion / Re: Just Had A Vision Where I Hung Myself by calmness0(f): 9:02pm On Oct 15, 2022
Rebuke and reject that bro
Family / Re: What's Your Plan B If Nobody Marries You? by calmness0(f): 6:38pm On Oct 14, 2022
Basiljoe:

Lol. You don't know me. I hate to sound like a brag. But I know more on Christ and religion than you can imagine. Anyways, nothing spoil. Amen to your request.

Big bro. I greet you in the name of Jesus, please help me because of God, I am very Broke, anything to help my current situation boss. Pls do not ignor sir, save a soul.
Travel / Re: My Trip To San Francisco, CA | Bay Area by calmness0(f): 9:19pm On Oct 09, 2022
Mstravelindiva:
Okay, so here’s Part 3, of my vacay in San Francisco…we headed north to Napa Valley!

And to show my gratitude for all the love and support NL has shown me, the first 10 people to tag me AND respond to Part 3 I’ll be sending you some airtime.

Peace, blessings and safe travels to you all!

Now back to Part 3.

Here’s a cost saving tip for anyone that loves wine, consider only purchasing one tasting flight and sharing with your significant other at the wineries. It’s half the price and you’ll get to visit (and experience) more wineries during your visit. Napa Valley, CA is not cheap, so this will definitely help cut down some of the wine tasting costs!

Also skip the expensive reserve or upsell wine tasting “experiences”, many are not worth it. Grab a nice bottle of wine, swing by Walmart or Oxbow market and get some gourmet cheeses, jams and crackers, and have a picnic at the lake Hennessy or near the mountains for FREE!

During my stay we visited the following vineyards/wineries:

Ms Travelin Diva Vineyard (I own a small vineyard in Napa)
Bouchaine
Domaine Carneros
Mumms
Chappellet
Robert Sinskey
Maxville

Tourism is awesome, I also love traveling. Bless me too ma

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Romance / Re: My Girl Has A Crush!! by calmness0(f): 7:47am On Oct 02, 2022
falcon01:
You are a disappointment to the Male community, get the fùck out of here!! angry

Nonexisting1:
These are the people I share dick with. Oh God.

Lol,
Make una cut d dude small slack na, na teenager em be

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Politics / Re: Highlights Of Peter Obi's Rallies In Lagos, Kaduna, Uyo, Others (video/pix) by calmness0(f): 5:36pm On Oct 01, 2022
maco1:
He can never be Nigeria president, na so they become president, show us his pedigree and track record and the structure with continuity on ground and what is been built on since he left as a governor. That's what will convince Nigerians Pronto.

Obi is coming.

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Politics / Re: Pictures From President Buhari's Visit To Imo State by calmness0(f): 8:33am On Oct 01, 2022
kiss
Politics / Re: Pictures From President Buhari's Visit To Imo State by calmness0(f): 7:04am On Oct 01, 2022
Odewaleadesoye:

God bless you.
Politics / Re: Budget 2023: The Planned Borrowing Of N11 Trillion by calmness0(f): 9:02am On Sep 29, 2022
They are selling your children's future o, it's Time we wake up and flush this set of thieves out.
Culture / Re: Photos Of Dogo, The "Tallest Man In Kaduna" by calmness0(f): 1:51pm On Sep 27, 2022
haslaw:



Stop taking mkporu mirri.

Only an mkporu miri CANNIBAL with a dead brain would argue that his failed hero with a girly voice is not short

Boy, Stay off my mention. I can't give u d attention u seek.
Culture / Re: Photos Of Dogo, The "Tallest Man In Kaduna" by calmness0(f): 12:07pm On Sep 27, 2022
haslaw:



Peter Obi is a short man with a girly voice.

El-Rufai is short too but he doesn't have the voice of a 9 year old girl.


Those who live in glass houses should not throw stones.

I can see that you are obsessed with Peter Obi matter, who did this to you?
Culture / Re: Photos Of Dogo, The "Tallest Man In Kaduna" by calmness0(f): 10:35am On Sep 27, 2022
haslaw:



Peter Obi wouldn't have been governor of Anambra state

You think Peter Obi is short? ask El-rufai how market first.
Business / Re: ➜ ➜ ➜ Football (+/Other Sports) Betting Season 16 ➜ ➜ ➜ by calmness0(f): 10:01am On Sep 27, 2022
alextso:


Another giveaway tomorrow? Drop likes if we should do it

Gave u a like, do it again bro
Culture / Re: Photos Of Dogo, The "Tallest Man In Kaduna" by calmness0(f): 9:40am On Sep 27, 2022
If only hight was the criteria to be a governor.

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Phones / Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by calmness0(f): 8:19pm On Sep 25, 2022
jboixxx:
Rules are rules, sir.

Noted boss!
Phones / Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by calmness0(f): 8:04pm On Sep 25, 2022
jboixxx:
Send a PM via profile. My email is valid and active. I just need the last 4 digit of your number for confirmation. You don't have to provide the 11 digits here.

Boss check my answers, I did well, but my network too slow
Phones / Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by calmness0(f): 7:29pm On Sep 25, 2022
atheistandproud:


1, 2, 3 are incorrect boss

Check out my answers, bro
Phones / Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by calmness0(f): 7:26pm On Sep 25, 2022
1. Two Xiaomi devices suffer from a condition known as deadboot, name them. ans; POCO m3 & Redmi 9T.

2. Which Redmi phone uses Helio G90T? Ans: Xiaomi Redmi Note 8 Pro

3. What year was the Redmi Note 9S released? Ans;March 2020

4. Which Redmi phone uses Snapdragon 665? Ans: Xiaomi Redmi Note 8

5. Name 1 difference between Redmi 10C and Redmi 10 Ans: RAM memory not the same, 6GBvs4GB

6. Name 2 entry level Xiaomi phones Ans: POCO M4 and Redmi 9a

7. Name 2 midrange Xiaomi phones And: Redmi, apoko, black shark.

8. Name 1 flagship Xiaomi phone Ans; Xiaomi 12

9. Redmi 8, Redmi 8a and Redmi 7a used the same processor. What is the name of the processor? Ans: Qualcomm Snapdragon 439 Octa-core Processor

10. What is the name of Xiaomi's current flagship? Ans; Xiaomi 12
Phones / Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by calmness0(f): 5:58pm On Sep 25, 2022
blaquemyc:
whoever wins tonight giveaway make e no forget to do giveaway for me o cuz i dey pray for una to win as i dey laiso grin

I am also praying 4u, remember me if u win o
Phones / Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by calmness0(f): 5:57pm On Sep 25, 2022
jboixxx:
7pm. Simpu Zimpu kwesions grin
Ow, okay grin
Phones / Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by calmness0(f): 3:04pm On Sep 25, 2022
jboixxx:
shocked

This thread de hot. Make we do giveaway this evening to calm am? Random giveaways....6pm

Make e reach me senior man, I need am.
Politics / Re: PDP Moves To Sideline Wike by calmness0(f): 9:59am On Sep 21, 2022
EtinosaDLaw:







This Wike dance dey always mud me grin grin grin grin

Lol guy
Politics / Re: DSS Recovers Incriminating Materials, Military Equipment From Mamu's Home by calmness0(f): 7:31am On Sep 09, 2022
Bontafa:


U no dey surprised say people dey reason from belle for Naija ?

Lol, sometimes na hunger de cause am
Politics / Re: DSS Recovers Incriminating Materials, Military Equipment From Mamu's Home by calmness0(f): 7:08am On Sep 09, 2022
Bontafa:



Talking like a full blown Monkey who wears catapult and loads his pocket with stones

Comrade, early morning Vawulence detected.

Be calming down.

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Politics / Re: PDP NEC Passes Vote Of Confidence On Iyorchia Ayu by calmness0(f): 4:53pm On Sep 08, 2022
Any Job/task I can do now online to earn 2-3k today? In deep urgent need.
Business / Re: Who has a Verified US PayPal account to assist me with Payment by calmness0(f): 4:51pm On Sep 08, 2022
Chizillar1:
Hello house,

I am presently having difficulty making payment online. My transaction is being declined.
Which other banks support their naira debit card payment above 20 dollars transaction limit?
Any Job/task I can do now online to earn 2-3k today?
Jobs/Vacancies / Job search by calmness0(f): 4:49pm On Sep 08, 2022
Any Job/task I can do online to earn income today?
Romance / Re: I Need A Very Intelligent Person To Explain This Please? Winner wins 10k cash. by calmness0(f): 5:08pm On Jul 26, 2022
Badboibipo:
Okay I know I’m not crazy and I’m definitely not the only person on earth who experiences this weird shit.

Some times we come out of our houses , irrespective of how we look. We may look very good or even very bad. But one weird thing happens, every eye is on you throughout that day. Everybody stares at you like there is something wrong with your face. People won’t stop looking at you and if you want to confront them they immediately look away.

Then you find a way to make sense of it in your head “ oh maybe is because of my beauty or my style or whatever” right? Okay.

So another day, irrespective of how you look again everyone avoids eye contact with you. It’s like you’re invisible to everybody, you could even walk nakeddd and nobody will notice you. Now you may even look your best and yet you will be invisible. And on days you even look your worst everyone focuses their eyes on you.

WHAT DOES THIS MEAN PLEASE?

If nobody explains this or can relate to this I will officially declare myself a mad person that experiences something no other six billion of humans experience and I will start seeing myself as a mad man.

Please explain this to me, I swear on everything I will give anyone with a satisfactory explanation 10k, just explain and drop your account number.

Thank you.

Its called The Spotlight Effect.

The spotlight effect is a term used by social psychologists to refer to the tendency we have to overestimate how much other people notice about us. In other words, we tend to think there is a spotlight on us at all times, highlighting all of our mistakes or flaws, for all the world to see.

For people with social anxiety, the spotlight effect can be much worse, to the point that it has an effect on your ability to work or feel comfortable around other people. It is not uncommon to find yourself feeling embarrassed.

For example, if you wake up late and go to work with disheveled hair, you may be convinced that everyone is noticing and secretly thinking badly of you. You may blush or try to hide from your coworkers, convinced that they are pitying or mocking you.

It is believed that the spotlight effect comes from being overly self-conscious as well as not being able to put yourself in the shoes of the other person to realize that their perspective is different from yours.

All people, but especially those with social anxiety, are very focused on themselves, their actions, and their appearance and believe that everyone else is just as aware.3 Being aware of the spotlight effect can help to lessen nervousness or embarrassment in social situations.

If you can get to the point that you realize nobody is really paying attention to you, then you will stop worrying so much about it.

However, for those with social anxiety, it can be much more difficult to recognize this fact and overcome anxiety linked to the spotlight effect.

Do d needful op. Keep to your promise

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