₦airaland Forum

This is our first democratic president since 1999 village and this is happening in his eyes. Big shame on this so called Nigeria democracy since then till date!

Have once been in your shoe before. My advice is to go for the permanent job. My reasons are: you have a better role option there , you have a better pay that you can use to get more professional certificate on this same role and of course in less than three years you can still easily get same role offer in any multinational company that you are intending now.

For me Babangida remain the best President Nigeria ever produced since 1960 going by the milestone projects achieved by him during his era without ethnicity. Third mainland bridge, developing Abuja as FCT and also developing his home town/city into an impeccable city. Meanwhile,many of us here will do same on what he did about June 12 election. Please go and read about the threat he faces by Abacha.

My advice,if you can still recall all those things you do to her before marriage that always makes her happy...try and figure out these things and start doing it again. Start doing as if you guys are still in courtship because everything is not by prayer sometimes. Action on issues like this sometimes could bring back the first sweet relationship you had before marriage back.

Babe... you know what? For me I would advise you give like 6months to study him with less of romantic time. Let it be more of gist like your friend, from this discussion you can figure out what the guy wants from you. Then after 6months if nothing like your intention is coming up from him,sit him on a round table and have a straight talk with him about what you want for your future only. Remember never to ask him about marriage. After this discussion then give him a break for him to chase you,if he is not then forget about him totally and move on.