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RomanceRe: Iamdbull Fake Life Can't Help His Career... by candidladyTemp(f): 11:34am On Feb 18, 2022
Although iam not a fan of the dbull but this your hating is on another level...



Get a life, Iknow a dealer who could give you one at a very affordable rate!!!!
HealthRe: 18-year-old Boy Commits Suicide After His Father Refused To Marry For Him by candidladyTemp(f): 10:07am On Feb 18, 2022
sad


One potential incel gone many more to go
RomanceRe: Valentine: This Restaurant Owner Is Looking For Something Else (picture) by candidladyTemp(f): 10:02am On Feb 18, 2022
grin
RomanceRe: Confused by candidladyTemp(op): 10:00am On Feb 18, 2022
Truvelisback:
Na which kain grammar be all these one? Didn't u asked for an advice?
You are just trying to be funny








Ifind clowns annoying sad angry
RomanceRe: Help A Brother! by candidladyTemp(f): 9:55am On Feb 18, 2022
Lucky you



You got a sister who is a daughter of Amphitrite
RomanceRe: May God Bless And Reward All Okada Men by candidladyTemp(f): 9:47am On Feb 18, 2022
undecided
RomanceRe: What's The Craziest Reason Someone Gave For Not Dating You? by candidladyTemp(f): 9:32am On Feb 18, 2022
sad


Although he never told me...


Who iwas crushing on told a friend of mine he ain't into me cuz of my height (still finding it hard to forgive him)


Apparently he into tall girls those he could smash while sucking on their teatees at the same time..

°°°°idiota of a being °°°°
RomanceRe: What Drugs Can I Take To Last Longer On Bed? by candidladyTemp(f): 9:25am On Feb 18, 2022
NaijaEmailMiner:
What drugs can men buy at the nearby chemist to drink to last longer on Bed?
Kush+shakubanzi+ a mixture of Jameson and dynamogen

Thank me later
RomanceRe: Confused by candidladyTemp(op): 9:21am On Feb 18, 2022
Truvelisback:
Smoke more, u will get better.
Genuinely tell me your probs against stoning...


Or

Gtfoomm
RomanceRe: Confused by candidladyTemp(op): 9:16am On Feb 18, 2022
rickpat:
you are welcome...just don't feel confused,clam down and take anything you do..one step at a time...the best of everything you desire will definitely find you...I believe so...I understand the "lie"..just be calm and maintain an open mind those everything including the herbs and if any possibility if happiness outside the herbs exist....thanks to a anh.ie too...thanks for sharing your experience and how you gave it all up for your kids...God bless you ma'am
Maybe when ieventually got kids(girls) like ah.nie imight drop it...

Thanks rikky for trying to look out for me.

Truvelisback:
Keep Smoking.
Hell yeah fcking right ...

Guess you must think you are having it better or a better person that me ko?
RomanceRe: Confused by candidladyTemp(op): 8:50am On Feb 18, 2022
rickpat:
... maybe he feels he wants to make you better...a habit may not sort him but that doesn't make you a bad person
Ido know he wants what's best for me... And that too could be selfish



happiness outside it (I meant the OUTSIDE THE HERBS)
Yeah iknow but idont think one can find peace outside the herbs


just don't let anyone pressure you to a new lifestyle you ain't ready for... everything depends on you and your choices...please no pressures from him...change is your sole decision
Thanks ihave dropped a message explaining my reason for the lies

Just hope he understands
RomanceRe: Can You Imagine? by candidladyTemp(f): 8:45am On Feb 18, 2022
illicit:
I wouldn't do that, babe

Pun intended

I want u hooked on my illicit substance wink
Same illicit substance that got your girl in trouble with her aboki

Anyways come join me .... CB + Campari mixed with a lil heaven dust..
RomanceRe: Confused by candidladyTemp(op): 8:26am On Feb 18, 2022
SmellySperm:
You shoulda made it clear to him from day1 you blow trees. Not you lieing to him. There's nun'wrong in smoking mari.

Now it's either he accepts you the way it is or you adjust to his wills. Choice is yours
He knows ispliff, dude been/being my shrink and itold him I'd drop it...

Whenever he around itry to wear another perosna just so he don't find out iam still in it..


Yesterday was just terrible...


Ihate being/been lied to. So iknow how he feels currently..

ahnie:
Sometimes when we genuinely loves someone we have to let go of some of our unhealthy habits.

I for one,I like taking spirits alot,but I had to put an end to it when it started affecting my health and my kids were complaining.

Yesterday I took small stout mixed with laxatives,I had t pour away most of the stout.because it was irritating me.
I have replaced spirits with daily intake of milk.
I hope you get my points.
Thanks anhie... You are indeed a true African lady...

Your kids are lucky to have a mum like you..
RomanceRe: Can You Imagine? by candidladyTemp(f): 8:18am On Feb 18, 2022
illicit:
Let's hook up nah
Dude you had to use the word HOOK UP sad

Go on mingle2 you'd get enough hookups wink
RomanceRe: Can You Imagine? by candidladyTemp(f): 7:55am On Feb 18, 2022
illicit:
Candidladytemp


wink
My illicit substance smiley
RomanceRe: Confused by candidladyTemp(op): 7:52am On Feb 18, 2022
illicit:
Morning sunshine
U are doing well

Maria? I don't know who's that
Mariangles

How are you enjoying kubwa
RomanceRe: How Do You Ask Your Boyfriend/girlfriend For Financial Assistance? by candidladyTemp(f): 7:49am On Feb 18, 2022
HellVictorinho3:
Do you truly assist people financially?
Gtfoomm angry
RomanceRe: Confused by candidladyTemp(op): 7:47am On Feb 18, 2022
rickpat:
.. yeah,it might seem selfish but again maybe he feels he wants to make you a kinda better person ..if you must drop the habit though let it be for yourself first not for him..cus if you drop it for him,what if he leaves tomorrow would you angrily go back to the habit?,..but trust me a greater peace lies in a world without those herbs..you find happiness in them,I know my friend[b] but a more permanent happiness lies outside of it.[/b] ..I know you want him to accept you the way you are...it's hard for him too....all I ask of you now is to take a time away from him...try to look yourself in the mirror and look at the good and bad side of the habit...then decide whether to give it a try to quit or continue,it's all about you first before him...sorry girl,this is a very difficult situation *hugs* but I believe everything will be fine and you will always be happy... ofcourse I will always support you and your point is valid about him being kinda "selfish" but again sometimes people walk into our lives and makes us try our new things for the better or for the worse..you will be fine whether he stays or goes
@B1
Make me a better person ko?!!! What makes me a bad person.. ??

@B2
Permanent peace lies outside?... Really funny


Thanks
RomanceRe: Confused by candidladyTemp(op): 7:30am On Feb 18, 2022
illicit:
U didn't have to lie
That's what would have pained me not even the herbs

I prefer herbs to cigarettes

Not everybody will take u for who you are, sometimes u have to compromise

A lie is a lie no matter the quantity or purpose

I know u need a new friend like me wink

BTW do u know datbored.berry in person?
But you know at times outta respect/regards for a person you have to lie

Most people find it hard to stomach the truth

Thanks for your input I'd try to process it..


Berry Fernandez and Maria are my e pals





Good morning
RomanceRe: Confused by candidladyTemp(op): 12:11am On Feb 18, 2022
MufasaLion:
You're right about your second statement. Although, he's only trying to be a good friend to you. Him not comfortable with what you do doesn't mean he resents you. He want you not to be hooked on it but then, you didn't get used to it in one day and you can't stop totally in one day. He needs to understand that.
Liberal !!!!; liberal !!!!

Idont care a milli when he drinks to stupor.. I'd be there to wipe the closet clean....





Yes, you've found peace and I understand how thrilling it is. I strongly believe that if you are determined to take a bold step at conquering it, you would be able to.
Conquering peace huh Whose side are you on uh!!!!

No lies am I faulty?
RomanceRe: Confused by candidladyTemp(op): 11:38pm On Feb 17, 2022
rickpat:
sometimes is not about people accepting is the way we are but us accepting ourselves the way we are NOT,all we need is strength to let go of things that doesn't portray the true us.

candidlady this is more like a triangle..you want your friendship,but you need to be healthy to have that friendship and the only enemy to your friendship and your health is the stuffs...THIS IS NOT ABOUT HIM ACCEPTING YOU THE WAY YOU ARE BUT YOU ACCEPTING YOURSELF THE WAY YOU ARE NOT,THEREBY COVERING THE TRUE AND REAL YOU..




sorry for intrude...don't mind if I get bashed....#runs away
My health got nothing to do with Nada... Iknow iam healthy cuz the natural herbs engineered by the earth to give fresh air (peace)


Don't you think its selfishness you wanting in your world but you can't stand a min in mine huh
RomanceRe: Confused by candidladyTemp(op): 11:33pm On Feb 17, 2022
MufasaLion:
You really don't need to hide anything from anyone. It's your personality. It's either he get along with you and accept you or leaves. If he doesn't want you to take a spliff again, he must understand that you're used to it and you can't just stop it all of a sudden. He gotta be patient to make you stop it by gradual process.
Ihave always had conversations with myself as to why ikeep him in dark as regards my love for the mari

When it comes to understanding terrestrial beings tend to be selfish !!

Yes, you like him being around you and vice versa. You have to let him know you wanna stop also but he's gonna accept you for what you are now while at the same time you work on withdrawal.

Just give it time.
@bolded
That would be a lie... Ifound peace on this quest...
RomanceRe: Confused by candidladyTemp(op): 10:55pm On Feb 17, 2022
rickpat:
permitted to speak?
Rikky speak your mic is connected to an outlet that can never be off smiley
RomanceRe: Confused by candidladyTemp(op): 10:50pm On Feb 17, 2022
ahnie:
Sweetie you would be alright laslas,that's all that matters.
Thanks so much...

But ihave always kept my heart guarded..

But he is the only one that knows some secrets of mine that even God can't know..


After my mum the dude is a father
RomanceRe: Confused by candidladyTemp(op): 10:43pm On Feb 17, 2022
MufasaLion:
We can't change people unless they are willing to. So, he's gotta accept the reality about you or sacrifice the friendship for his principle.

Worry not! Ain't nothing bad with 4:20.
If he got to sacrifice then what would ihave to sac too...

Cuz the only sac ihave done is by hiding it...

Iaccepted his way of life but after what he saw he is finding it hard to accept mine...

Ireally enjoy his company especially when iam stoned

Modified: pardon whatever typo ihave got up there...
RomanceRe: Confused by candidladyTemp(op): 10:17pm On Feb 17, 2022
ahnie:
.
Please say something

Your girl is confused
RomanceConfused by candidladyTemp(op): 10:02pm On Feb 17, 2022
He saw e_cig in my pigeonhole .... Laced with mari!!!


Ilied ionly do cigarettes...

Although he has told me times with out digits not to spliff again....

Don't wanna kill our friendship but then again I can't end the relationship igot with the MG

Mufasalion datboredberry illicit sonnobax
Smellysperm kriss216

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