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tobby98:
Always central lock your car first thing first, if confused of where to follow, you can ask passersby, don't ever park or pick people on the road especially in unfamiliar places. Obey traffic rules, one way is a serious traffic offense in Lagos now. Just go at your own pace, no rush, weekend would be more better for you sha. Good luck!

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Hello I’m hitting the road soon as a Uber driver as a means to offset one’s current bill and economic recession..I will be driving from Ikeja .. pls if you got any advice for me to aid my confidence in this job pls do share ..have read through the group chats for a while now and I’m quite encouraged by you guys resilience in this business ..I pray the road will be good with me cause normally I get tired easily driving on Lagos road and I’m not too conversant with the Lagos road except heading to few high brow area but I guess google map will be my partner for a while until I get used to this roads ..I hope this job is exciting and most especially encouraging financially, I guess I will find out by myself..

GorillaApp:
Is this actually coming from kobojunkie? Good gracious!

@OP, the child is here, the child is here. That's all that matters. Na you bring her come so grow up and suck it all up.
You ain't too young to haxe a family. Or you are planning to hit 40 first? Don't maltreat that woman and stop looking down on her. You ain't much better than her
You need a mentor to walk you through this phase. I would advise you sit down with your dad and discuss all of these concerns. He will help you see things clearer. Best of luck bro.
I started my own family at that age

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gerizzim:
you see that line.

most of us dt are married sometimes reason this way. Regret of "I married wrongly" , "I married sm1 too low for my status", "my ex was beta",.........and the list of regret and gnashing of teeth keeps going on and on and on

if you think you marid too low, dt means your saying you are wiser , more knowledgeable, more expose, giving or contributing more, more classy Dan dt woman dt has a baby for you.

Shud dt be ur reasoning , den dt is where ur strength lies. use your comparative strength and advantage you have over dt woman and begin change things in dt huz for good.

Reduce ur complaining. you have not put any effort ur already complaining. clarity comes along the way wen you start taking baby steps to resolve ur issue. use your wisdom to bring back your joy you were savouring and saw in her before she got preg for you.

look at her again and write out wat you actually like abt her. see how you can use dos her strength to ur advantage.

Above all, the major reason why your lamenting is because you dnt have enough money. what money cannot solve , more money will solve it.

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ibechris:
Marriage without money is indeed very tough and empty.

U and ur wife need to sit yourselves down and talk about this.

While at the talk pls,don't allow ur daughter to live with another person,don't ever dream it.

Another thing is,u will always overcome this trouble it's just a temporary setback only if u have the quality and traits of a man with vision.

Believe in yourself.

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Emvicprints1:
Young man sit your wife down and tell her in plain words how u feel about her. Tell her to grow up and throw away that nonsense mentality she has and sit down and plan life with you. If she is not ready she should walk out and take the child.she either Purge her self from all those bitterness and look for something doing to better you guys finances.

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Emmy000seun:
Sometimes when challenges comes like yours, if you don't calm and analyse every opportunity around you, you might loss someone that will be hard for you to replace even when you have gotten whatever else you crave for in life.. due to your write up, you have a good woman, am not saying she is perfect bcuz everyone too have their short comings, but there are some correctable trait.. back to you my suggestion, can't you asked your wife to engage in something creative too!! Can't she look for catering job, while she can still get little money while learning,.and also building her own client base, or she engage in petty trading while u figure out road to financial stability..tasting a couple life and going back to single life sometimes drain alot..
There will b a time when after the day stress,you need someone at home to do the house chore, gist partner, and so on..it's not easy tho but talk to your wife about it..find a way out as a partner..thank God you only have a kid, what of me with twins oo, and my wife already had kids before we meet..

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Redoil:
capetownboyz calm down with are. I promise you Five years from now you will surely regret whatever negative actions you take

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Well for a start , I would say my mind wasn’t really ready to start a family but unfortunately I found myself having a baby with my girl friend and we kept hoping maybe we can handle the stress and see what the future holds in store for us and then we can plan better ..

But to be honest ,I find myself back tracking and seeing myself alone not bothered by a family at my age cause I’m more of an introverted person and I love my peace and quietness but this days it just hard to focus on myself when everything seems like a burden and responsibility..

I’m not that financially buoyant or have something doing at the moment but I’m quite comfortable enough due to my past earnings in some few businesses which normally was to take care of my mental well being alone but this days I find myself trying to be there for my family and coupled with recession and bad economy ,it is taking a toll on my mental health and I’m being forced to be out there doing something concrete enough that will back my young family financially but this is not my trend and sometimes I find myself still thinking I’m living alone and looking out for opportunities in my own comfortable way not same way that feels hectic and serves as constant reminder for me to proof to myself and show that i am capable of handling the family life I got myself entangled in..

As regards my other half to be honest she is amazing ,beautiful and well disciplined but I’m not quite satisfied with her back ground and it feels like I went too low and I didn’t aim higher . She got this home domestic trauma that she experienced from her family , seeing her dad hit her mom and all that , though she let me know of this issues which I thought to myself wasn’t that really deep but tonight I find myself arguing with her cause she saw a post of a woman who was abused by her husband and due to that she kept mentioning that she will stab and kill any man who does that to her repeatedly and find that really offensive and full of negativity. Thinking how to best figure out my finances with my family and here I’m being reminded of someone who is emotionally unstable as regards abuses her mum faced from her father and aside that have seen many red flags that doesn’t quite balance with me ..

I keep thinking , how I wish I was still alone and how needed to be by myself and plan my life well but at the end of the day I’m reminded have started a journey which I ought not to have cause it feels just too early for me ..Though I’m 31 by age this year but I don’t think age should be a determining factor as regards when you choose to settle down ..Due to this difference,I’m thinking of just leaving or asking her to leave and take the child away but I’m worried cause my daughter is too beautiful and loving to be left alone with her mum ,which to me I don’t really trust her and her back ground cause she grew up from a seperated household but I don’t think that should affect her as regards her household but to be honest it feels heavy to me and I feel like giving up but at the same I want to fight it out and believe I can defeat this phase of my life and channel a good purpose through my family but my lingering worries are : if she is really worth it, I mean doing life with her and creating a good foundation and purpose for ourselves.. Our insecurities are clashing and we find ourselves arguing over this and it starting to feel like we will be heading out different ways soon but still I can’t leave my child cause I don’t trust her well being with her mom cause she herself is not financially stable and likewise her family but I can handover the child to my parents cause they are doing well for themselves and capable of keeping a good eye on my child but she is adamant and swearing she won’t leave her daughter alone and I’m quite worried..

Pls advice me ,how do I create a balance and purge any negativity from my family ..I’m still looking for a job or thinking of getting a enough capital to start a business ..have really exhausted myself financially starting from when she got pregnant, till now and a never ending cycle of commitment and responsibility which is eroding my sense of freedom ..

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Amazing job..

Anyone having issues getting his renewed driver license ? It been 6/7 months I renewed and I am yet to get my licensed .. the lady who got it done said something about issues at Abuja, license not been printed out., Nawa for this country ..

Osiris12:
u no get Benz for civil servants

no wonder .. na why u de price like person way government de deny better welfare .. barawo

Ekene522:
Used C300 is not more than 8m naira even that 8m is few months used even toks sells for below 13m

shey u don’t want to buy , barawo ..

Osiris12:
its page 2 already. 88 more pages to go. Keep up

you no wan buy ? Thif

Osiris12:
its page 2 already. 88 more pages to go. Keep up

another Peter Pan , check out the updated price .. poor stalker ..

Ekene522:
Used C300 is not more than 8m naira even that 8m is few months used even toks sells for below 13m

check out the updated price , MR 8m .. joker

Osiris12:
its page 2 already. 88 more pages to go. Keep up

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