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truthhurts2:
she won't. I think she really wants me to do something wild, something really violent to her that'll get me locked up. The more I'm trying to avoid that the more she's really looking for it.

It got a little bit violent this morning.

She has disappeared now, not coming home to sleep, and to be honest, I really don't care am just worried about my child that's with her.

no matter she will always carry the child along with her , if you hurt her they might see everything as your fault and tag you an abuser and all that .. modern women tempt men a lots this days and push us to the wall .. For me I’m glad my mum stopped me from doing something crazy but looking back now all that anger wasn’t worth it and I feel more for my child being dragged in an adult conflict and I want to grow with her, I don’t subscribe abandoning a child and during separation do well to provide and smooth things via communication even though you don’t intend to be with your wife anymore .. find a way to resolve this issue and seek a separation for the time being .

truthhurts2:
giving the space automatic mean stopping my business, cos i work from home. If I leave how will I live?

tell her to leave to her parents place and stay there for the time being ..

truthhurts2:
Let me get this straight... Does that mean I'm stuck with her for life if I can't afford a court case?

If yes, then somebody's son or daughter will go six feet below or end up in jail one day

seperation should be your next solution for now and don’t tend towards violence cause it solves nothing.. give her a space and get yourself back on track and see wether you still want her in future if No , go ahead and process your divorce ..

Kobojunkie:
I don't have a problem with people who are unmarried or searching at 50, nor do I have a problem with baby mamas and baby papas/single fathers in general. But you certainly seem to. That explains why my calling you out for attempting to denigrate a baby mama/single mother when you are yourself a baby papa/single father seems to have gotten under your skin. 😒

issokay let not derail op thread ..

Kobojunkie:
So, you have a problem being called out for the baby papa/single father that you are? 😒

better than being unmarried and searching while clocking 50..

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Kobojunkie:
Ah! So, you are a baby papa pretending he is above his own babymama? 😒

You can get shared custody of your child so you can spend 3 or 4 days out of each week with your own child. 😒

better go drink on some juice and mind ur effing business

Marriage crashes this days feels crazy and here I am dealing with a baby mama and looking for means to bring her back into my life along with my baby cause I can’t bare to grow apart from my child most especially..

Cause I refused to accept some rides and now they are claiming I accepted the rides and canceled , this guys are just just users ..28 percent acceptance rate dropped from 71 cause of radius manipulation and I stayed off the platform for a week ..getting back online today I was met with suspension lol ..Still got a good driver score of 79 ..anyways looks like I will need a break from this hustle ,make I find other side incomes ..

Eazilyfe:
Yes bro, i drive Matrix 2009 2ZR FE engine(same with Corolla & Pontiac Vibe)

if you drive daily make sure you change engine oil after every 30days and service your throttle body, service spark plugs too monthly(recommended oil only)

You can change transmission Oil after 4-5 months, 3 months sometimes

Shock absorber - can be remove and re-gas so it can bounce back up

CV - Joint( Shaft) if it starts to make noise from full turn ask your Mechanic to help u pad it with Soft cloth to reduce the gap and you can still manage it for a while b4 you gallant to change it.

Make sure your Radiator fan works well to avoid Engine, Gear and Compressor overheating.

Etc

One of the important thing is to know a car repair & maintenance history, if the former owner cares to tell you which i doubt. - reason is not all mechanic sabi motor faults, you fit get hard start due to bad fuel injectors make u don change Coil, Fuel pump, Spark plugs & Battery make the only solution be say u change injectors(nozzle)

So as you dey repair & maintain the vehicle u sef go don get the car history

what if shock absorber is leaking oil and making cranking sounds driving through rough surface .. can I regas it or change to a new one ..

Eazilyfe:
Baba i think we started the same month/time(late January)

Apart from cash Trips, Offline trips, Trips on Bolt & Indrive. Na wetin dey my Uber wallet be dis untouched. You need to find a working pattern for your driving. I on AC for all my trips

I use all the 3 apps differently and with different locations, i no fit reach Yaba make i use Bolt/uber. Na Indrive i go use. Yesterday(sunday) na 71K after removing fuel money i carry go house

Pattern recognition & algorithm shey koko.

More blessings boss

sure have earned equal or more sef ,just that I started with fixing the abs of my vehicle which costed me up to 600k ,I needed to pay the money which I borrowed in fixing the issue ..which I have done ..the rest na just extra vehicle repairs and maintenance plus family responsibilities..so I get ,single guys fit into this job more perfectly and with lesser expenses you can save and do more ..

Latonal1:
I drive 1.5L engine capacity, I have never done 10trips a dey before because I patiently for an average distance not long and not short with a good price no unnecessary spending especially on women or alcohol even if a rider tip me 50k to me it is interest not awoof money for me to spend anyhow like today is amount 12noon if I set out today I might not do more than 3ride I will patiently look for good prices buy 15k fuel which is around 11litres dome of you wey dey do CNG una no know say your car dey depreciate in value, while some of you using Camry because carmy is big car is bigger than Corolla, my question is that big car making your pocket big

spent 90k last week on maintenance now I’m getting I need to change the 4 shocks for the vehicle ..Camry hybrid ,though it one of my family vehicles but I’m tired putting back profits in maintenance and fuel prices .. I average attest 3/6 trips a day but I’m quite picky where I drive to .. in all , I responsibilities that eats into my earnings, more reason I’m managing to be out there and get something done rather than staying at home.

Latonal1:
My monthly trips is 100trip any addition is from offline I only pick trip minimum 550naira/km only if I done see a trip of over 600naira/km in a month I buy fuel within 400k to 500k, my feeding is around 200k I save nothing less than 500k monthly I don't smoke I don't drive I don't have a wife or girlfriend, I stop drinking and all since December to see how far I can save, presently I have around 1.4million in my account interest made this year serviced my car already this year changed 2 tires this year and some some things done already, I am practicalizing till October to see what I can achieve, last week I just did a thrift shopping and some native wears plus nice slippers 2pcs and a sneakers, if I wan nack once in a while I follow girl reason my budget no dey pass 10k, and I do support family members and friends with what I can afford

500k even with this current rate of fuel prices , mehn you take this hustle serious and religiously..have barely saved anything sef ..I’m newbie sha ,3 month in this job but so far mehn ..it like I’m forcing myself to be out there .

Latonal1:
Yesterday I had only 6trips with 25k few after everything like fuel commission feeding I take 38k go house and I spent around 4hrs driving saved some fuel and also car stress and energy

you mean you spent 25k on fuel to earn 13k ? 38k !

AutoTechDoyz:
They reverted to using radius from linear distance without informing their drivers of the new development. Immediately I noticed this, I cursed their father. I rained so much expletives and invectives on them thinking the bloody dodos would block me, as I was already gradually moving my ministry on to the Uber platform, wallahi na shalaye dem just dey do for me. Bunch of clowns.

Once I'm fully back in ride-hailing again, I'm ubering all the way.

I’m dragging the issue with support ..like having 70 percent acceptance rate to beating down my score to 38 under 2 days cause I avoided some ridiculous trip which I have always done so in the past, worst still 9 min which I normally get as out of radius for a trip now shows as normal trip and I don’t take way too long pick up distance ..each miss one point goes down which doesn’t make sense ..think I might just go back to Uber and Indrive for now ..

You work next thing you are spending money again on car maintenance’s.. how much profit man come de see sef 😫..

Bolts keeps beating down my acceptance rate cause of some far trips out of my radius I refused to pick not it seems so deliberate,taking one points for every ignored trip ..points I worked so hard before just get taken away so easily by them ..This apps think we are slaves to their business or what ..pffft

My woman left and we got seperated,I’m trying to fend for my daughter this period ,not been easy though ,I hope I overcome this challenge and achieve that billion dollar dreams of being financially free and healthy..

As a driver are you meant to help a rider carry they load unto your vehicle ? Except age factor …This increase in fuel price again .

I don’t if it is just me ,the motivation to keep getting more jobs done on this app keeps declining , though I’m facing some emotional stress and I’m prioritizing rest for a while now ..But not getting past 3/4 trips in day and averaging 30k or less makes me worried ..I’m not pushing myself hard enough though coupled with this fuel economy that adds to it ,with little profit to take home and not many juicy trips ..I hope it gets better in coming months ..

Taking a trip to Alimosho is it a good Area to go to ?

Avail..still available ….relocation sales

Available and negotiable

I got this few house hold items I’m selling of due to the size and I’m downsizing on the loads due to my relocation in some few months ..
TV wall units : 8ft to 9ft quite large ; going for 850k
Ceiling lights : 200k each
Bed stand and bed : 200k
Side drawer with glass : 100k
Hanging sitting couch original with iron and wool :250k
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frankoben:
I had my first child at 27 out of wedlock. I'm 44 now with four kids from four different women, still single and never married.

how do you feel having four kids with different women and not still feel like you are married ? Cause I feel what makes a marriage is being responsible to yourself,your wife and kids and with this instance you got 4kids in picture .so in some kind way you are married but act single ..

iLoveYouToo:
Never married, planning on having children out of wedlock.

careful what you wish for

I got this few house hold items I’m selling of due to the size and I’m downsizing on the loads due to my relocation in some few months ..
TV wall units : 8ft to 9ft quite large ; going for 850k
Ceiling lights : 200k each
Bed stand and bed : 200k
Side drawer with glass : 100k
Hanging sitting couch original with iron and wool :250k

Bought fuel 15,700 and averaged 32.524 and that amounts to 16,824 and minus Uber fees of 5,986 ,I’m left with 10, 856 in profit , started my first trip at 11:29 am ..I’m not complaining ohhh but this shit sucks ..😁 .una way de get am right with this hustle ,hmm I give it to you guys ..everyday reminds me of why I need to exit asap cause hustle like this doesn’t cut it in any part of the world ..Make I never talk the assault way I still face earlier this week ,working for paltry sum ..I’m pissed

cr7lomo:
He gave u a fantastic deal and u are rejecting it...If both cars are placed for sale , any sensible person will take the 2013 model.... his car runs , urs dont run.... he's own has more value than urs ... u should even be the one to balance him...

make he no worry if never sell the car ,I will snap and upload the the ride and see the clean car I’m offering ..it one of a kind ..sport trim v6 2013…first paint and shinning like ever ..

zig2ryme04:
You know this one has engine issue. Howuch do you want to add

500k it’s a clean Benz and barely used ..

Will you be interested in swapping with 2013/2014 clean registered naija used Benz c300