Since she is a misandrist, she should do well to date and marry a misogynist.
Seriously, this is why it is foolish not to let God approve of who you decide to marry, or let Him reveal to you who you should marry. The heart of man is desperately wicked. Who can know it?
I want everybody to know that most humans are generally demonic. The only reason you don't witness bloodshed and rape in broad daylight is the fear of the law. If humans were allowed to give their carnal and beastly desires free rein the recent rape festival in Delta state would be a flea bite compared to what would happen.
There are billions of people now walking who do not deserve the human skin God clothed them with. You can easily identify a beast and know how to treat it. What happens when that beast is in human skin?
Fearurcreeator: Even when fela get issues fighting the government, abeg wetin your parents dey do. Now these guy had issues agitating how have you helped him. You are the hypocrite and coward here
What about MNK? Didn't he have problems with the government? What about Sowore? Who has ever spoken against the excesses of this government that has not had a problem with the government?
From a proponent and agitator of self-determination for the South West to a pitbull guard dog for Tinubu. I may not see eye-to-eye with Nnamdi Kanu but the latter has far greater strength of character than the former. MNK can never be bought, and can never be anyone's guard dog unlike Sunday Agbero.
A very wicked son of Adam raped her in her drunk state. Eventually, She is her own problem—getting drunk at a gathering of both sexes. She threw caution to the wind, and this is the result of her carelesness.
saintopus: You will get better advice from older person's who have been in marriage for a long time not the way the poster above me have said. Take the errors that you can absorb, find a way to settle those you can't. No marriage is perfect. Perhaps that's not the reason for marriage. It's about two imperfect people learning how to be perfect. That's what marriage is all about. Am saying this from experience.
Before the issue of imperfection they must first be compatible and complement each other, love each other for who they are. You do not expect a person to marry someone given to undue anger outbursts under the justification of imperfection.
Putinofrussia: lol Is this why South Africa is owing almost 6 times the debt of Nigeria even with their small population? President Tinubu is doing more than South African govt can ever do. Don't you think he is very prudent because he is subsidizing cancer treatment,subsidizing DIALYSIS,giving tuition free technical colleges with free food and #22,500 monthly free money for the students,free health care for pensioners etc. Not to forget massive projects ongoing in the 6 geopolitical regions of Nigeria. Most previous govts have collected loans and embezzled them. No govt in the history of Nigeria has ever performed like this. Give uncountable Gbosas to President Tinubu,sir.
Delusion at its peak of evolution. The APC government only breeds and grooms liars. You made reference to the healthcare sector in Nigeria where the same APC government provided only thirty-six million naira of the four hundred billion naira budget for the health sector...not even up to 1 percent of the budget. So, how did they provide all those things you listed? Lie with sense na.
Their obsession with fantasy was clearly beyond the reach of disciplinary measures. At such young ages. They even made one of their sisters an enemy on the basis of her not identifying with their obsessions. No parent or sibling should experience this.
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Is it what I said or something that gave you the erroneous notion I am seeking your attention? Your sudden leap from reality to illusion is quite amusing.
Diamond098454, you are still green and your suspicion tentacles are not fully developed. You are the kind that scammers pray daily to meet. Question everything. Wear distrust like a necklace that wards off deceivers and scammers from you.
Diamond098454: There's nothing wrong in men hitting on you , is left for you to mess around with them or just be friends with them. Hence you are a woman get ready for men.
And you believe it is a female behind that monicker? Then you can believe the PSquare zoom scam on facebook.
motayoayinde: You're supposed to be worried sick about the content and not the title (if you're normal).
You are supposed to make a distinction between the caption and the body. Truth must be whole if it must be believed, and not having parts edited (or missing). The thread's title and body should be coherent. It is the abc of article writing. Making sense of this report with all its misleading inclusions is like guzzling rotten apple from a garbage trunk. Knock yourself out, champ.
Lies! Why did they untie the tourniquet that had preserved her life before administering the so-called anti-venom shot? Besides, the very first thing they did to her was to administer drip after losing the tourniquet telling her to relax as if they knew what they were doing. She had been on a call with her brother all through the steps she took to save her life. It was only when they administered that drip that did nothing to counter the toxins now spreading in her body after taking the tourniquet that she died.
The hospital is culpapble for negligence. They should have applied the efforts expected of their profession to save the girl. The first hospital that rejected her should be closed down for being useless. Anti-venom medicine should not be a scarce commodity in our today's world. Nigeria is still breathing the air of the 1800's.
Kobojunkie: I am 74. Five years ago, at 69, I left my husband after 42 years of marriage. It was the hardest and best decision I ever made. I know what you are thinking. 69...is that not too late to start over? Why would anyone leave a marriage after more than four decades? She must be unstable. She must be selfish. She must be having some kind of crisis.
Maybe it looks that way from the outside, but inside, I could finally breathe. If you're in an unhappy marriage, worried about wasted time or age, hear me. I believed those lies, too. Before I share why I left, let me explain why I stayed so long, the untold part.
Everyone wants to know what finally made you leave. They never ask about the invisible chains that keep you there year after year. I got married at 27. It was 1979. We were living just outside Cleveland, Ohio. I thought I was doing everything right. My husband Thomas was dependable. He had a steady job. He came from a good family. My parents approved. My friends said I was lucky. I wore a white dress and believed in forever.
The problems did not arrive loudly. They arrived quietly. There was no violence, no obvious betrayal, nothing you could easily point to and say, "This is wrong." He simply did not see me. did not really hear me. Did not ask what I wanted or needed. Every major decision was his, where we lived, how money was spent, what our weekends looked like. When I suggested something different, he brushed it aside. That is impractical. That does not make sense. Why would we do that?
Eventually, I stopped suggesting anything at all. I remember one night, maybe six years into the marriage, I told him I wanted to go back to school. I had always wanted to finish my degree in English literature. He smiled and laughed, not cruelly, just dismissively, like I had said something naive. "What would you even do with that?" he asked. "We cannot afford that right now." There was always something more important. His career, the house, the car payments, everything except me.
I told myself this was marriage, compromise, sacrifice, and being realistic. My mother had stayed in a quiet, unhappy marriage. So had my grandmother. This was just what women did. Then we had children, two daughters, and suddenly staying felt noble. “I am doing this for them,” I told myself. They need stability. They need both parents. I poured everything into being a mother. If I could not be seen as a woman, at least I could be needed as a mother.
For a while, that was enough. The girls kept me busy. They distracted me from how lonely I felt lying next to someone who felt more like a roommate than a partner. Thomas and I became polite strangers. We attended school events together, went to church, and hosted holiday dinners. From the outside, we looked fine, respectable, stable. But inside the house, we barely spoke. Whole weekends passed, where we moved around each other like ghosts, sharing space, never connecting.
I remember our 25th anniversary. our daughters through a party. Friends raised glasses and spoke about our beautiful marriage and lasting love. I smiled. I thanked everyone. And that night, I went home with a man I no longer loved. Lay on my side of the bed and cried silently into my pillow.
The years kept going. The girls grew up, moved out, and built lives of their own. And suddenly my reason for staying was gone. They did not need me to stay anymore. But by then, I had a new reason. What would people think? I was 56, then 61, then 66. We shared our history, friends, and family. How do you untangle over 40 years? How do you tell your children their childhood was built on quiet unhappiness? And practically, how does a woman in her late 60s start over? I had not worked full-time in decades. I did not have my own income. So, I stayed year after year, telling myself it was too late, too complicated, too frightening, until the call from my doctor.
I was 68. It was a routine mammogram. I had done dozens before. This one was not routine. He said the word no one is prepared to hear. Cancer, breast cancer, stage two, caught early, but serious surgery, possibly radiation. I sat there listening to treatment plans and statistics, and all I could think was I am going to die having never really lived. Not because the prognosis was bad. It was not. But because I suddenly realized something unbearable. I had been slowly disappearing for decades.
The surgery was scheduled three weeks later. And in those three weeks, something shifted inside me. fear, clarity, and the awareness of time. All the reasons I had stayed, reputation, comfort, and fear, suddenly felt meaningless. Because if I died tomorrow, the last 40 years of my life would have been a performance.
I survived the surgery. The cancer was removed. Recovery was quiet. I remember lying in that hospital bed while my husband sat nearby scrolling through his phone, not holding my hand, not speaking, just present in body. And I knew at 69 years old, I made a decision. If I were lucky, I might have 10 or 15 years left. And I refused to spend them slowly disappearing.
Two months later, I told Thomas I wanted a divorce. He did not get angry. He looked confused. We have been married over 40 years, he said. Exactly, I replied. And I have been lonely for almost all of them.
The divorce took nearly a year. It was painful, expensive, and uncomfortable. Some friends disappeared. My sister told me I was selfish. "You are throwing everything away," she said. But I was not throwing anything away. I was finally choosing myself.
Telling my daughters was the hardest part. They were grown by then in their late 30s. They were shocked. But you and Dad always seemed fine, one of them said. That broke my heart because it meant I had hidden my unhappiness so well that even my children believed it was normal. Eventually, they understood. One of them even thanked me. She said watching me choose myself gave her permission to question her own life.
At 70, I moved into my own apartment alonefor the first time in my life. I was terrified. I woke up at night wondering if I had ruined everything. But I did not fall apart. I learned. I adjusted. And slowly I remembered who I was. The woman who loved books, who had opinions, who had dreams. I even went on a date. It did not last, but it reminded me that it is never too late to feel seen.
I am 74 now. My life is not perfect. My apartment is small. My income is modest. Sometimes I am lonely, but I am free. And that freedom is worth more than anything I lost.
Here is the truth. No one tells you the regret is not about leaving. The regret is about not leaving sooner. If you are watching this and quietly unhappy at any age, hear this. You are not too old. It is not too late. And you have not invested too much time. The life you are waiting for is waiting for you to choose it.
If this story touched something in you, I want to ask you one thing. What is one fear that has kept you stuck longer than it should have? You do not have to explain everything. Just one word is enough. Sometimes writing it down is the first step to letting it go.
It must have been hard to reveal this aspect of your life to the public. It is courageous. Well-written.
Sonnobax15: . My dear, relax and please don't take life too serious.
BTW I have a job my dear . Nairaland is a forum to get updates,and where people while away time. Some people actually come here to catch fun,and of which I belong to their category,while others come here to get updates.
No too take life too serious..
You now have first hand experience of God's presence and power in our lives through the experience of the gift of prophecy. I will never ever argue with unbelievers and atheists about the existence of God. They are free to doubt. All I know is that there is one day that will forever quench their doubt with or without preaching. All are destined to be believers whether they believed unto salvation, or they believed too late. Congrats to you brother for receiving healing.
runningriot: Bro! we should be rational, logical and objective in our submission. No place on earth have the same prices of goods the same way from 2015-2026 absolutely not even one single place in the world especially when it comes to essential goods as a result of some many natural and economic factors even yourself you are not the same as 2015-2026 so it is pointless to make that comparison. Equally, a good comparative analysis make use of such years eg 5 years, 10 years 15 years 20 years... For easy understanding and comprehension. Additionally , it is imperative to the blind that food prices has drastically dropped to a significant all time level in five years. For goodness sake a measure of beans was sold for 3K and above as of 2024 now that same measure is sold for 5-700 naira apparently this signifies that you could get 4-6 measures for this same amount almost same to maize and that of rice has a positive change so then it means staple food has significantly changed and the trajectory is also taking that same shape with pasta and noodles. So we should be appreciative. Finally what pains me the most now is that some bitter and enemies of humanities are arguing that yes that is positive and significant fall in food prices but fertilizer is too expensive I want to ask when these food were expensive was fertilizer cheap? Absolutely no! were these people protesting on how food prices sour and expensive absolutely yes! The simple reason they are equally agitating for cheapness of food today in reference to unaffordability of fertilizer is because they are bitter and frustrated people who don't want anything good to happen to a common man in the street of Nigeria because of political and sentimental reasons.
To be on the payroll of the biggest scam called APC in the history of Nigeria's politics is something that must be earned like you are doing now. You must be Helinues' replacement.
Nastrademus: God will continually punish Nigeria politicians and their supporters Too cheap how? I bought 3 bags of rice for #25,500 at the rate of #8,500 per bag in 2015 for my marriage, I bought a bag for my Christmas use at #59000 and this slowpoke is here yaning rubbish, God punish y'all and your st*pid supporters again and again and again
and again and again and again back to back and again and again and again
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. My dear, relax and please don't take life too serious.