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Happy new year shugamania

Uyi Iredia: Fine He will be adding another year tomorrow.

Yaaaay!! Can I bake a cake for him? Please

Jbluv55: Happy New Year Caracta

Wow! Happy new year jbluv

Happy new year everyone

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Jenams: not after u answer my question. Are u okay?

I'll say the Amen for you. You need it.

Jenams: I admire ur laughter, n I remember u mentioned ''quality'' as ur requirement, but wat I dnt understand is ur subtle way to insult boys. #shines eyes @caracta, ''owa alright?

It's not an insult. Rather, it describes what I think of you. I mentioned I don't lead a guy on without telling him my feelings but you insisted I do. No wahala.

I'm still waiting for that Amen.

Jenams: LAST BULLET: just b4 u giv up, we (guys) prefer u STAY AWAY from us if u dnt intend to giv us EXACTLY wat we approached u for. I'm sure d OP will not be driven crazy by d lady in question if u girls r straight wit us. Dnt play us around. We appreciate u (girls) all d same. Cheers.

Hehehe. I just had to laugh.

I already mentioned that I go for quality not boys with comprehension problems. Since you don't want my type of girl, so shall it be for you. Do I get an Amen?

Jenams: A girl that doesn't love you but says nothing about it, drives you on and gives you hope...while she is deeply in love with someone else? This is u right here! So wat truth r u talkin abt huh?

You need to go back to my initial post you quoted. I am the second girl. I said, "however, giving you hints that I feel nada". I mentioned further that it is left for you to believe me. What else?

I give up!

bellong: Fixed

Hahaha. Oga Bellong, you are always on point.

Jenams: I fear ur type. Like seriously, av bn there, done dat!

Which do you prefer?

A girl that lies about loving you, toys with your heart and breaks it when you are deeply in love with her?

A girl that doesn't love you and tells you every now and then that she doesn't have feelings for you?

A girl that doesn't love you but says nothing about it, drives you on and gives you hope...while she is deeply in love with someone else?

Some of you hate to listen to the truth. That's the problem with men.

jay bee: Jay bee the mod is different from jay bee the no 9

We want jay bee the mod

What's no 9?

vizkiz: must u kiss him?

I want him to kiss all of us

xynerise: I wish you same.



This ain't romantic though

At all! Very dry! A whole mod of romance and sexuality section! Smh.

Is that all? Not even a kiss or something?

*rolls eyes*

This is long o...

Brb with my list

Nice one OP

coache: Hmmm.....so touching....why don't you consider a career in relationship counselling? I bet you'll be so famous in it.
On ur question,I apologised several times but she keeps telling me that I don't mean it....then for her dad, I'll say I was still young then to think of that but on another thought, he's so harsh and likes to cage the poor girl even till now.

You see? She didn't accept your apology. She is still holding on to that issue...that could be the problem. Ask her what you can do to have a clean slate with her. Let her state her terms. Put the ball in her court. Use the reverse psychology approach too. Be serious, firm but genuinely sorry. Don't act like a sissy.

As for the dad, you really can't blame him. You would do the same if you found your little daughter in the company of a man.

Again, concentrate more on being her friend. Let things fall in place. Don't just go into a corner and kiss the living daylight out of her. Let her trust you. A day at a time.

experimentist: @character abeg I wan sleep now, where make u hook up in d morning?

Lol...go to bed. I'm always around. Just mention "caracta", na my magnet be that.

Goodnight.

coache: But from a lady's point of view according to the story of how everything happened, do you think I really hurt her to deserve this treatment or she's just trying to be hard to get?

Women are wired differently but we have the same heart-beat. I don't think what you did was wrong but she expected you to protect her. You should have explained to her dad what she was doing with you? Did you apologize?

You really need to talk to her. Be genuinely interested in her. Look out for her. Help her achieve her goals. Show that you care. Be her friend. Help her become a better person. Focus on her and you will win her heart. It works!

Personally, a guy that sings "pls date me, I love you" every minute is a huge turn off. Make me love you helplessly with your actions. Help me to become a better person. Help me to grow. Be my friend. Be genuinely interested in me. I don't need the flowers or the poems, I need your heart. I go for quality.

coache: Hmmm I've prayed but dat fasting part na long thing o.... not dat I can't o

Keep trying. You can also have a heart-to-heart talk with her.

I don't believe in playing hard-to-get for a very long time. It's childish.

experimentist: @caracta, u c wetin u yarn ^up there ehn, na exactly wetin dis babe dey do me and me I love dis girl die. She's always around, play with me etc but she still insist we just friends

As in eeh, idk whata do fa, walai, mek una help me na.

Keep being friends...maybe she'll consider you after seven years or invite you to her wedding

Love is a beautiful thing but when it is not reciprocated, we get hurt and feel "small". You can't force someone to love you.

I'll suggest you get your mind off her. Yes, you can do it. Sometimes, girls like this begin to run after you once they see you are no longer all over them. She would probably miss you and pick up a fight for "abandoning" her for a while. This way, you would know she likes you.

If she had no feelings for you, when you leave, she would be like, "Thank goodness! Good riddance!"

Doesn't work in all cases though.

experimentist: in a relationship?

Yes

We know you are the guy. You opened a new account to start this topic.

*deep sigh*

What's happening to our men?

experimentist: are u married?

No, I'm not