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excoba101:
You have a right to make your point, after all it is a debate.

I will continue to express myself when there's a need. If I was speaking of another nation, I bet they would join in. I dont care, I talk bad about my own people when there's a need to. But the topic is about nigerian men, and I will respond with honesty. Not sugarcoating because its a nigerian forum.

190:
[color=deeppink]This carolece should be banned

she insulted all nigerian men including jaybee,dobosky and me!!


I suggest we teach her a lesson!! [/color]

Are you the only nigerians here, or you are the only ones that fit the description I give about nigerian men?

If I get banned, do you think I will loose sleep over it?

NL is not the only place I post on, this is the most intriguing one though.

^^ Its modern time. I dont want to pass a message through someone's hand.

Putting it to Admin. Why not make that an option for posters? Sometimes members would like to say something to another poster in private.

We took over the thread so they abandoned it. I'll apologize for both of us hahahahaha

Here's a picture of some very cute fat chix. Enjoy dudes, yall stomachs are so strong. I wouldnt like to be a man. OMG!

^^ I think we've said enough hahahahahaha

excoba101:
You are right. But the truth hurts.

Yeah, and it generally hurt the ones with issues.

Most of them are like, damn, they know how I am hahahahahaha

I aint playing no fool to any of them, I tell them outright I aint interested because I know who they are before I even know them. I dont care, I generalize, because I wont be one to say "If I had known". They come with their mouths full of pretty talks and bragging about what they have and what they want to achieve (nothing aint wrong with wanting to achieve the best, but when its all talk and no action, then there is where the problem lies).

MRbrownJAY:
@poster
this is definitely NOT love but insanity!
there is absolutely NOBODY i would give my life for, none whatsoever!
no love is worth dying for and if anyone ask you to then this person clearly doesnt love YOU. . . . . . . . . . . . .thus a waste of time!

my parents would never allow me to do such a silly thing for them, and if i were to die for my children then who is going to feed and care for the damn kids?! lol

Right! People just talking crap bout giving their life for someone, especially a husband or wife, bull sheeeeeet!

Not that I wouldnt love my kid, but if someone is going to kill a child of mine, how stupid could I be to give my life for that one child. I can always have more, no one can replace another, but what would happen if I'd given my life for a child, it would be a bigger loss. Other kids would be left without a mother, and the husband a wife (biggest support for a man most times). They could be there for each other in the child's loss and be strong again.

SOPRANO:
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I bet your carolece only know about 50 or less Nigerian men, so she can not conclude on their character based on 50 men out of over 150 million, u dig?, [b]

I dont care what you have to say. But yes I know less than 50 of them. But I wont use the time out to meet more, dont have the interest or the patience either. If I am in a fruit tree and the first bunch of fruits I see and pick from, and all of them are bad with worms, I aint going to a second bunch, sorry. I'd deem that tree of fruit all bad.

excoba101:
So you mean from 50 people you can not tell how 1b could be like in a country?

Q: Are Nigerian people not loud and vain?

You dont have to argue with anyone.

I dont know you, and neither do you know me, and I share the same feeling that you share from the experiences. All the Nigerians I've met are the same. Yes loud, obnoxious, likes to live on people (free loaders), rude, think you own them something because they are from the "motherland", Africa as they think Nigeria spells Africa, controlling, did I say they like to live on people for free? Did I say controlling and loud?

Similar story. Nice
http://www.greenpacks.org/2010/01/07/guatemala-school-built-with-trash-and-plastic-bottles-as-construction-material/

Does NL offer such, am I not yet privileged, or its just not offered here?

MzDarkSkin:
lol@ Carolece and I thought I was angry @ men! My girl beat mi by far! LOL.
Finding a decent man is like sifting in a Diamond mine.

Wrong comparison. You'll have luck finding a perfect piece of diamond, but what are the chances of finding a man that will suit what you are looking for entirely? Zero to none.

What's up girl?

excoba101:
What i said was the truth. I am a Nigerian(little mix) and i grow up in Nigeria, so i know what i am talking about. Anything wrong in the world can be found in Nigeria in different proportion. Trust me.

@topic

Seems more like an allegation. People have to talk with their last breath to stop you guys from generalizing.

I beliveved what you said.

no1madman:
U sound like a fool. . .sorry 2 dissapoint u,i'm really into big chicks.

U sound like a real nigerian. . . sorry 2 disappoint u,i'm really dont think being fat is healthy or hygenic.

PS. Carry on with your nastiness, to each his/her own.

excoba101:
The prince or the empty barrel?

Latter 

But I was merely referring to what you said, they tell the truth, they are corrupt and have alot of talk and no walk.

190:
[color=deeppink]Carolece

would you STOP this, you are indirectly insulting me as well

For Phock sake Im Nigerian too!!

Stop Generalizing,if you wanna insult call names even though we dont know who they are.

or are you High on Balize tonite!! [/color]

I did say most. So if you are compiling yourself in the lot I've described, too bad. Its still morning in the US where I am at, and no, am not on anything, not even coffee.

excoba101:
One problem about them is that they are empty barrel(they are very loud). If you meet 100 Nigerian guys, 99 claim that they are princes. They are also very corrupt minded athough doesn't change the fact that they could be plain too.

Thats what they are and nothing can cchange them.

Gilgamesh:
I came down from port Harcourt to settle Lagos in 2006 and I met this lady. she was 27 years old, beautiful, educated and had a good job. I loved her with everything I had and i believed she loved me too. We dated for like six months and I remember thinking she could be the one.

One day, i was filling my tank at a Petrol station when a guy Ive never seen before walked up to her and greeted her like a long lost sister. she introduced the guy as an old friend. They exchanged numbers and we left.
After that day, i started noticing strange behaviours from my girl. She finds excuses not to come visit me, hides her cell phone, avoids intimacy with me most of the time and generally made things difficult.
I got fed up and challenged her. That was when she broke down and confessed that the guy we saw at that filling station on that day, was actually her first love. He it was who disvirgined her(when she was 17 years old) and she had sworn to marry only the person. Therefore, I should forgive her, but we cannot be together.
I was stunned! I invested so much into the relationship. and to lose everything all because of a promise she made when she was 17 years old? Unbelievable!!

Well, am now wiser. I won't be had so cheaply again. i've double locked my heart and surounded it with razor wire.

But i still wonder though, what is so special about this virginity and why is it so important to women?
After all, i was a virgin once too, and i lost my virginity didn't I? and i didn't make a song and dance about it, did I?

Cry a river.  Build a darn bridge and get over it. Most men leave a woman for less. You are lucky you got an explanation. Loosing the virginity to a man is important to a woman, not to most men who think sex is nothing but a climax.

excoba101:
True talk! They are annoying in many ways. They don't even like themselves.

LOL. I have this friend who has one as a roomate, she always complain how he is. Truth is, I'd put his azz out a long time with all the problems he's causing her. Most of them are very annoying for real. I dont know how people put up with them at all. I dont have the patience or the stomach.

Friends/socializing/outgoing.
Material things.

Those are the two that would get my vote. When you are settled, the most time spent should be with your partner. For me, ALL outgoing should be stopped unless its US. Not controlling, but thats the way it would be on my end, so I would expect it to be the same way on your end. This boils down to me (as I've said over and over) I will NEVER have a man/husband for too many reasons.

[quote author=Mrs, Eve link=topic=563594.msg7289402#msg7289402 date=1291739121]Why do I hear a stampede of fat chick lovers coming rushing to the thread all at once?! Scammers do not care if you are fat or skinny if they want something they will use anybody they can use they don't care what race you are or what you look like. I know a white chick who looks like heidi klum a little bit and she was dumped by her husband who is African when he got his green card. He was gone! He left behind sorrow, mistreatments, and a foul scent. (He doesn't wear deodorant) However, not all African are scammers but a quite few of them are and she was bitten bad by one. He left her hung and dry. He took all her money and she staying with family members until she can get back on her foot.[/quote]She's one of the very few naive ones. Too bad for her. But most of who get those treatments are the fat azz chicks.

And yes, I can agree to you on that nonusage of deodorant with some of those African men, eeeeeew. Some of them dont believe in toothbrush and toothpaste either.

^^ why are you amazed? I dont sugar coat nothing I have to say, plain truth. I hate men, I just use them for sexual pleasure. If I could get the same effect using a toy I wouldnt need to even look at one of you.

Digriz:
u made a good point here; they wld spend on u because they are nt all that attractive bt may hv a huge bank account,daddys girl.

right! thats the kind every kind or man come to the US and get. They use them to get green cards. poor stoopid fat girls believe when a man say "i love you" they do everything to keep them and when they get what they want they are gone for slim beautiful, or almost beautiful women. Shame!

No man wants a fat girl. They either are happy with what they are getting or staying in for the long haul because they (the men) are worthless and like living on people's expense.

Hygene has a whole lot to do with people when you are fat. From personal experiences, being around most fat people, they smell funky, eeeew.

Nothing is wrong in choosing what kind of partner you want, all of us has our personal preferences. I wouldnt want a fat man for various personal reasons. But where the problem lies is when you start to descriminate and make fun of someone because they are not in your line of liking. I wonder what kind of speech does that president present to his people.

Never. In saying so, I woulnt put my life on the line for no one, not even my mother. I will try to save their life in every way I can, but dieing for someone, nope!

One of the many many many reasons why I will NEVER have a man, and no I will not go for same sex either, wont have one for keeps. I hate men, yes really I do. For many many many many many reasons.

I dont know if its just me. But I find most Nigerian men (that I've met) voices to be very very very annoying.

Where are the moderators to get rid of those threads?