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CelebritiesDon Jazzy Reveals What Happened To His First Marriage At 20 (photo/details) by catman(op): 8:05pm On Apr 03, 2021
Don Jazzy Reveals What happened To His First Marriage – Nigerian singer, Don Jazzy has disclosed how he got married to his bestfriend at 20years old and got divorced at 22.

In a recent post on Instagram, Don Jazzy narrated his story of how he married Michelle at 20, and divorced at 22 due to his addiction to music.

He wrote;

“For so long everyone keeps asking me when am I getting married? Well truth is almost 18 years ago I was 20 and I got married to my best friend Michelle @yarnstaswitch and it was beautiful. I loved love and I loved marriage. Michelle is soooo beautiful inside and outside with such a soft heart. But then me being so young and full of dreams I went and bleeped it up cos I was giving all my time to my Music.

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CelebritiesBurna Boy Biography, Cars, Awards, Net Worth, House 2021 by catman(op): 4:48pm On Apr 03, 2021
Burna Boy Biography – Damini Ebunoluwa Ogulu, known professionally as Burna Boy, is a Nigerian singer, songwriter, rapper, and dancer. He rose to prominence in 2012 after releasing “Like to Party”, the lead single from his debut studio album L.I.F.E.

Burna Boy Biography
Real name Damini Ebunoluwa Ogulu
Date of birth 2 July 1991
Country of Origin Federal Republic of Nigeria
Source of Wealth Music, Endorsement
Net worth ₦7.3 Billion

Burna Boy has an alleged baby mama called Uju Stella Johnson, who called him out in May 2016 on Instagram for abandoning her and their baby after she became pregnant for him. Stella also accused him of raping a girl in the United Kingdom and abandoning his trial process. In response, the songster admitted to sleeping with her once but rubbished claims that he got her pregnant for him. Currently, Burna Boy is not married yet neither does he have children of his own.

Burna Boy Net Worth
It’s been a busy year for Burna Boy. The Nigerian sensation dropped Twice as Tall in August, but as he was perfecting the final touches on his latest album, Burna Boy who is one of the Richest Musicians In Nigeria currently has an estimated net worth of ₦7.3 Billion

Burna Boy House

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Romance10 Clear Differences Between Making Love And Having Sex by catman(op): 9:31pm On Aug 07, 2020
Differences Between Making Love And Having Sex – If you’re wondering what the differences are between making love with someone and having sex, you’ve come to the right place.

You might not have slept with many people, or you may never have slept with someone you truly cared about before, so it may feel confusing!

There are some key questions you can ask yourself when it comes to your sex life and your partner of choice.

These will help you figure out if you’re having ‘just sex’ or if you’re sharing something more intimate and genuinely making love.

1. Are there feelings involved?
Many people will have slept with someone they don’t have romantic feelings for before – whether it’s a drunken thing, a hook-up with a ‘friend with benefits,’ or sex with someone they’ve only just started seeing.

It’s just sex – it’s something physical and you’re both there to enjoy yourselves.

Making love, however, is more to do with sharing your feelings for each other through the physical act.

It’s about bonding and feeling closer to your partner, and is a physical way of communicating those feelings with someone you really care about.

You might have spoken with them about how it’ll bring you closer, or it might be something you do to show that you really care.

ALSO READ : 9 Reasons Why You are Still a Single Man Right Now

2. Is it regular or a one-off?
If you’ve only slept with this person once, it’s likely that it was just sex.

Maybe it was something you were both in the mood for at the time; a quick-fix that was convenient!

It may be a one-night stand or a drunken thing with a close friend, but it’s something that happened without much prelude or thought.

If you’re regularly sleeping with someone, there’s a strong chance you’re actually making love to each other.

Essentially, you’re getting to know each other’s bodies and desires, and it’s about mutually enjoying learning more about what the other prefers in bed.

It’s less about a selfish one-off to get what you want, and more about intimately pleasing your partner.

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CrimeTop 20 Countries Found To Have The Most Cyber-crime by catman(op): 12:56pm On Aug 07, 2020
Countries Found to Have the Most Cyber-crime – Have you ever wondered which countries face the most cybercrime? If you have ever wondered which countries have the most cybercrime, then you may be surprised to know that there are few contributing factors that attract cybercriminals to specific regions of the world.

Security research firm, Symantec, has discovered specific factors that determine why a certain country is plagued with cybercrime more so or less than another which allowed them to come up with a ranking for each.

Symantec has ranked 20 countries that face, or cause, the most cybercrime. In compiling such a list, Symantec was able to quantify software code that interferes with a computer’s normal functions, rank zombie systems, and observe the number of websites that host phishing sites, which are designed to trick computer users into disclosing personal data or banking account information.

Symantec was also able to obtain data including the number of bot-infected systems which are those controlled by cybercriminals, rank countries where cyber attacks initiated and factor in the a higher rate of cybercrime in countries that have more access to broadband connections.


The highest rate of cybercrime was found to be in the United States which may mainly contribute to the broad range of available broadband connections, which are those that allow uninterrupted internet connectivity.

All of the contributing factors allowed Symantec to effectively rank a top 20 list of countries that have the most cybercrime.

List of Top 20 Countries with the highest rate of Cybercrime (source: BusinessWeek/Symantec)
Each country lists 6 contributing factors, share of malicious computer activity, malicious code rank, spam zombies rank, phishing web site hosts rank, bot rank and attack origin, to substantiate its cybercrime ranking.

1. United States of America
Share of malicious computer activity: 23%
Malicious code rank: 1
Spam zombies rank: 3
Phishing web site hosts rank: 1
Bot rank: 2
Attack origin rank: 1

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Health7 Foods That Boost Children's Brain And Turn Them To Super Kids by catman(op): 12:06pm On Aug 07, 2020
7 Foods That Boost Children’s Brain – fast as children whiz from classroom to activity to home and back again, their brains are just as rapidly growing and changing.
The foods they eat are important. “These years are critical for brain development, and what they eat affects focus and cognitive skills,” says psychiatrist Drew Ramsey, MD, co-author of The Happiness Diet and Fifty Shades of Kale.

These 7 foods can help kids stay sharp and affect how their brains develop well into the future.

1. Eggs
The protein and nutrients in eggs help kids concentrate, says Los Angeles-based chef Beth Saltz, RD.

How to Serve It: Fold scrambled eggs into a whole-grain tortilla for a filling breakfast or late-afternoon snack. “The protein-carb combo tides kids over until the next meal with no sugar-induced energy crash,” Saltz says. You can also try serving egg salad sandwiches or a few deviled eggs.


2. Greek Yogurt
Fat is important to brain health, says Laura Lagano, RD. A full-fat Greek yogurt (which has more protein that other yogurts) can help keep brain cells in good form for sending and receiving information.

How to Serve It: Pack Greek yogurt in a lunch with some fun mix-ins: cereal with at least 3 grams of fiber, and blueberries for a dose of nutrients called polyphenols. Dark chocolate chips are another option. They have polyphenols, too. These nutrients are thought to keep the mind sharp by hiking blood flow to the brain.

3. Greens
Full of folate and vitamins, spinach and kale are linked to lower odds of getting dementia later in life. Kale is a super food, packed with antioxidants and other things that help new brain cells grow.

How to Serve It: For some kids, greens are a hard sell. So rather than serving a salad, you may want to try some different ideas:

Whip spinach or kale into smoothies for snack time.
Add spinach to omelets or lasagna.

Make kale chips. Cut kale from stems/ribs, drizzle with olive oil and a bit of salt, and bake.

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Romance9 Reasons Why You Are Still A Single Man Right Now by catman(op): 10:46pm On Aug 06, 2020
9 Reasons Why You are Still a Single Man – Why am I still single? Most probably, you’ve asked that question multiple times because, in all aspects of your life, you think you’re ready to be in one but you’re just not. Read on to discover nine reasons why you’re still a single man.

1. You keep on chasing the wrong woman.
People tend to forget to assess if the person they have in mind is someone that matches them. Getting in a relationship is not just about you. It is also about your target person. For example, there is an undeniable mismatch if you want an independent woman but you treat them like damsels in distress. An independent woman can save herself and will be insulted to know that you think she needs to be rescued. So, to get in a relationship, make sure that the woman you have in mind will also have a chance to like you back because of similarity in values, preferences, and character.

2. You have no other destination aside from work and home.
Even if you have made sure that you match the girl you want to get in a relationship with, you still won’t get into one if you will not broaden your circles. Your life is not like the movies where you bump into a random stranger while you’re walking home on a rainy day, offer your umbrella, and end in a relationship. I’m sorry to burst your bubble, but it’s not that easy. Do you want an adventurous type of girl? Join a group of mountaineers. Do you want to meet someone who loves literature? Join literary workshops. Who knows? The girl that you like might be there.

3. You might not be willing to change.
Regardless of the type of woman that you have in mind, something constant to get in a relationship is your willingness to change. Surely, there will be changes in your life when you get into one. You might have to cut some of the time you spend with your friends because you have to spend time dating your girl. You might have to give up smoking if your girl has asthma. If you are not willing to make changes, it is unlikely that you’ll end up in a relationship.

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Romance15 Ways To Take Care Of Your Pregnant Wife by catman(op): 9:52pm On Aug 06, 2020
Take Care of Your Pregnant Wife – For most couples, having children is a dream come true. However, there is one thing that many do not understand–that pregnancy is a shared responsibility between the husband and wife. Thus, the husband should proudly say “we’re pregnant” instead of “my wife is pregnant”.

How can a husband take part in the pregnancy? He should make sure to actively take good care of his wife and the baby inside her.

If you are an expecting dad, especially if this is your first time to be one, then these are some of the healthy ways to take care of your pregnant wife.

1. Make sure she eats nutritious fruits and veggies each day.
If you want both of your wifey and your baby to be healthy, then these should take over their daily meals. Without a doubt, fruits and vegetables are rich in vitamins and minerals that are necessary for the proper development of the baby. However, make sure to pick fruits and veggies which are fresh, organic and free from pesticides and harmful bacteria. Here’s a list of best fruits to eat during pregnancy from Medical News Today.

ALSO READ: 10 Things You Should Never Sacrifice For Any Relationship

2. Remind her to drink plenty of water.
Pregnant women are more prone to urinary tract infections (UTIs). This is not only harmful to the mommy but also to the baby. For this reason, see to it that your wife gets to drink a lot of pure and clean water every day.

3. Let her drink milk twice a day.
Aside from water, it is also important that your wife can drink milk daily–better if both in the morning and at night. She and the growing fetus inside her womb need a lot of calcium.

A pregnant woman has to strengthen her bones as her body carries a growing weight inside. Her teeth become more vulnerable to damages during this time too. Of course, the baby needs a good supply of calcium to support his/her bones’ development.

Make sure to pick pasteurized milk and other dairy products. Raw or unpasteurized milk usually contains bacteria that can be dangerous for her and her baby. Take Care of Your Pregnant Wife

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Romance15 Signs You’r Being Selfish In A Relationship by catman(op): 9:24pm On Aug 06, 2020
Being Selfish In A Relationship – Is your partner accusing you of being selfish? How would you know if it is really true?

Admit it, it is always easier to see the shortcomings of your partner than yours. That is why, if you want to know how you are as a boyfriend or girlfriend, then you better evaluate yourself objectively.

For a relationship to last, a couple should have mutual respect and consideration for each other. It means both partners should love unconditionally and selflessly. If one of them is indifferent towards his/her partner, then the relationship will fall apart eventually.

So, if your boyfriend or girlfriend is telling you that you are selfish, do not ignore it. Find out if it is true. In case it is, decide to change for the better, if you want your relationship to work.

Here are some signs that you are being selfish in a relationship:

1. You always demand for time.
If you cannot understand that your partner has a world outside your relationship, then this is probably happening. You get mad whenever s/he does not reply or call back immediately. Or you always ask him/her to be with you all the time, not minding that s/he has probably something else to do.

2. You are very possessive.
It is more than being jealous. You simply do not like him/her talking or saying “hi” to someone else from the opposite sex. You prohibit him/her from hanging out with friends because you are always suspicious.

Also Read : 6 Reasons You Should Take a Break from Social Media

3. You need to be in control all the time.
You always have the final say in your relationship. Your partner cannot do anything without your permission. On the other hand, you do not let him/her tell you what to do.

4. You care more about what others will say than your partner’s feelings.
For you, your reputation is more important than the happiness of your partner. For instance, you may choose to keep your relationship a secret because your boyfriend or girlfriend is not popular or attractive enough. Being Selfish In A Relationship

5. You want the person to change for you.
To make your partner be your ideal guy or girl, you demand that s/he changes him/herself. You tell your partner that if you want your relationship to continue, then s/he should change what you dislike about him/her.

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Romance6 Reasons You Should Take A Break From Social Media by catman(op): 5:21pm On Jul 21, 2020
6 Reasons You Should Take a Break from Social Media – Here’s a question: Do you remember what you used to do before social media was taking up hours of our days? Back in 2008, before Facebook received worldwide attention, you were probably spending more time on hobbies like reading, working out, or maybe even watching movies and listening to music.

There was not as much pressure to keep up with other people’s lives, and FOMO was not even a real fear then. A few years later, new social media websites popped up. Fast track to more than a decade later, Facebook, Twitter, Snapchat, and Instagram have become the ultimate combination of distractions that have dominated our lives.

Because of social media, we have undeniably developed this urgent need to share everything online and learn about what anyone has to say—no matter what it is they are saying.

Also Read : 10 Legitimate Ways To Earn Money As A Student In Nigeria Both Online And Offline

While it can cause positive things like meeting new friends or being able to engage in important topics in our society, it has also led to depression, social isolation, and even body image issues for some people. It is inevitable to have a sense of FOMO when we see everyone else living more interesting lives than us. What we do not realize is that these well-composed images of high life are only a fraction of the other person’s truth.

The fact is, stepping away from social media has never caused harm to anyone. Some may raise their eyebrows at you and think that you are completely nuts for deciding to detox from social media. “But, how will you know what’s happening around you?” maybe their first question. The answer (and frankly, the crux of why you need to detox in the first place), is that we do not really need to know everything.

If you are someone who’s still wondering if it’s worth doing a digital detox, here are some reasons you should take a break from social media:

6 Reasons You Should Take a Break from Social Media
1. It makes you feel like you do not have enough time.

We’ve all been there: that moment when we feel like there’s no time to finish the work that we have set out to do. Ironically, it’s almost always because we have spent so much time bowed down on our smartphones to check out what our friends are up to. And, honestly, it is not entirely your fault! Social media apps were designed to be addictive. They have made it so you do not feel like you have spent too much time scrolling on your feed.

2. It has taught you to focus more on other people.

Social media is filled with people posting about their successes, their travels, and the fun events that they attended. You cannot really blame them because we are, of course, predisposed to only show the good things happening in our lives. When we see other people do it, though, we tend to feel some level of jealousy or disappointment. Studies have even proved that people who spend much of their time on social media report having less self-esteem and more anxiety.

When we only see the beautiful but filtered realities of other people, while we seem to experience only the ugly realities every day of our lives, it’s unsurprising that we feel sorry for ourselves. We have shifted our focus on other people, instead of focusing on our individual growths. We do not share the same timeline for progress, and sadly, this is something that social media cannot teach us.

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Romance15 Real Signs Of True Love From A Woman by catman(op): 4:04pm On Jul 21, 2020
Woman in Love
15 Real Signs Of True Love From A Woman – Women are often considered to be a big mystery, but the truth is you look at her as a puzzle with no intention of solving it. Just a wee bit of extra care and you are already close to solving the puzzle. Never miss reading between the lines when it comes to women.
The more you observe the more you know about her. Woman are not great with words when it comes to expressing their feelings of love. The fear of rejection and embarrassment creeps in and never lets them propose. But, she lets you know her feelings for you through many small gestures. Never fail to notice these signs that tell you her true love for you.

Read : How to Talk to Girls: 10 Tips to Break the Ice

Women are unpredictable beings. They are emotional and they change their minds easily. They can be impulsive and surprising. They can easily fall in love, and later on have a change of heart. This is one of the causes of men’s heartbreaks.

However, when a woman matures and experiences true love, she can be so selfless that she becomes so vulnerable. She would not let emotions sway her from side to side. She will be faithful to you. Here are 20 signs of true love from a woman. Read on and understand your woman better…

15 Real Signs Of True Love From A Woman
1. A woman’s eyes is a sign of true love
Woman express their love with their eyes. Just by noticing her eyes you will be able to understand her feelings for you. There is always love in her eyes when she sees you, which makes her eyes even more dazzling. She might not be able to hold prolonged eye contacts with you, so she might try to break the eye contact and look away from you. This could be because she is madly in love with you.

2. True Love is getting Excited to see you
If you notice your woman getting excited just by seeing you, chances are she is truly in love with you. Just by seeing you around her might make her feel very much alive and completely charged. She gets cheerful and instantly bright when you are near her. She might be ignorant of her small gestures that she does unknowingly when you are around. But you just try to enjoy watching her getting all cheerful and radiant.

3. Sharing her Insecurities is one of the signs
Women never reveal their insecurities or their weakness to anybody unless they truly know that they are purely comfortable with the other. If she can communicate her feelings without any hesitation then probably it is true love. Being honest is what she prefers when being in a relationship with you. She trusts you completely and hence the openness, it is love in its true form.

Read : 12 Mistakes Young People Make And Regret Later In Life

4. She takes care of you like a mom.
You would know how much your girlfriend loves you based on how she takes care of you. Her mother instinct makes her do everything to ensure you do not get sick and you stay well. She serves you as much as she can to accomplish this. She cooks and brings you food, reminds you to take vitamins, and scolds you when you stay up too late because of online games.

5. She is willing to sacrifice for you.
Your girlfriend can sacrifice her own needs to help you. I know some girlfriends who would do the assignments or projects of their boyfriend even when they have their own works to do.

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Romance12 Mistakes Young People Make And Regret Later In Life by catman(op): 10:23pm On Jul 20, 2020
12 Mistakes Young People – We all do silly things when we’re young. That’s the only time we can do those things and basically get away with it. However, some mistakes can be more costly than others and sometimes there are just some mistakes you really wished you didn’t make. To help you avoid getting into any real sticky situations we’ve put together a list of a few common mistakes young people tend to make.

12 Mistakes Young People Make And Regret Later In Life
1. Young people spend money on trivial things.

This is one of the most tempting mistakes made by young people. Most young people want to have fun, want to enjoy life and feel among themselves: they look at others and want to be like them and live the way they do. Young people are more likely to run after fashion, fun, style, extravagant lifestyle and many more. There is nothing wrong with being fashionable and buying the latest I-phones except that, it’s making you poorer. As a young person your long term goal ought to be, how to build a long-lasting financial goal, and to do this you must learn the habit of saving and learning about investing wisely. You can own or have anything you ever desire, but that’s when you have built something. Successful people today, who make money genuinely, can attest to this fact. Don’t be tempted by peers and latest fashions, when you are financially stable to some extent you can have all that but, first thing first. 12 Mistakes Young People

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2. Young people think schooling is enough to get rich.

This is true but some young people find it hard to believe it. Maybe it’s not their fault actually; maybe we should blame the educational system. Schooling can never give you the wealth you so desire. Sadly, we were never taught how to make wealth in school. We must realize that the real schooling begins outside the forewalls of the classrooms or the university: it’s an ever learning process, we must keep learning every day. The “real world” is quite different from the university system. Successful people keep learning even decades after they left school, but painfully, so many youths today stop learning the day they graduate from school leading to poverty, frustration, and unfulfilled life. Read good books, listen to online programs, and learn from people: whatever you want to be or achieve in life, somebody else has been there before: learn from such people. Develop yourself not just in academics but in other spheres of life.

3. Young people tend to give up so easily

Young people, most times form the habit of quitting too easily. Quitters aren’t champions. Consistency is paramount. No one became wealthy overnight. They were involved in some sort of building process before they became who they are today. Sadly, most young people fail to see this picture and consequently, by all means, they want to boycott the process and make instant riches and wealth causing them to dabble into a lot of bad things that could destroy their lives and render them useless. It’s so easy to quit when something seems too hard. Quitting seems to be the quickest and easiest option to take. Pushing through the hard times is what makes a better and well-rounded person. When things keep getting tough don’t take the easy way out in compromise, but rather dig your heels in and keep on pushing, don’t be surprised that when you walk through something tough and come out the other side there is no better feeling. Don’t give up. Keep on fighting.

4. Young people do accept what they hear easily and believe anything.

We must admit that there aren’t hard and fast rules for life. Young people are prone to deception; they easily consent to what they are being told. Young people are people with a great mind, ideas and are full of opinion but they will hardly challenge what they hear from older generations: age doesn’t necessarily come with wisdom. Youth should be the time for learning but also, it’s a time for questioning some ideology and status quo thereby getting deeper into their best thought and point of view that will eventually shape their life for the best. Experience may lead you to see that issues that seem black and white are made up of shades of grey: Following your instinct can take you very far if you know how to follow it very well.

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Romance12 Sure Signs Your Ex Doesn’t Want You Back by catman(op): 9:24pm On Jul 20, 2020
12 Sure Signs Your Ex Doesn’t Want You Back – One of the hardest things about moving on from a breakup is accepting that the person who used to be the center of your world does not want to be part of your life anymore. The difficult part is when you are left hanging, because you are not sure whether to wait or not.

READ : 12 Tip On How To Make Out For the First Time Ever

However, knowing that your ex does not want you back anymore should push you to move on no matter how hard it is. If you do not do it, you will end up being pathetic from wallowing with bitterness while your ex is freely enjoying his/her new life.

12 Sure Signs Your Ex Doesn’t Want You Back Any More
1. Your ex does not respond to your calls or messages.
This one is normal if s/he does not answer your calls and messages days after your breakup. Maybe, s/he just needs time and space. However, if after weeks and months your ex does not even bother to ‘seenzone’ your messages on Messenger, and s/he never picks up even if you call every day, then it is clear the person does not want to communicate with you anymore.

READ : 10 Things You Should Never Sacrifice For Any Relationship

2. You get blocked or s/he changes mobile number.
When you get blocked on Facebook and his/her phonebook, it means your ex does not want you reaching out to him/her anymore. S/he may even change contact details to make sure you cannot contact him/her. When this happens, just respect the person’s privacy and stop looking for ways to communicate.

3. All your stuff are returned.
Usually, it is hard to return the things of your ex after breakup if you still love the person, because doing so is like letting the person go for good. That is why, if your ex gives you the stuff you gave him/her, it could be a sign that s/he is already letting you go.

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Romance15 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship by catman(op): 12:26pm On Jul 20, 2020
15 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship – Relationships are complex organisms, so it’s difficult to define the overall dos and don’ts. However, some behaviors cross the line no matter what. If your partner’s engaging in any of the following, it may be time for you to think carefully about where your relationship is headed and whether you’re getting the treatment you deserve.

Top 15 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship
1. Emotional Or Verbal Abuse
So many of us accept emotional abuse without realizing it. Physical abuse comes with bruises you can see, but emotional abuse is characterized by manipulative comments and controlling behavior that cause self-doubt. Live Bold and Bloom explains, “The victim of the abuse often doesn’t see the mistreatment as abusive. They develop coping mechanisms of denial and minimizing in order to deal with the stress.”

The behavior of emotional abusers may seem insignificant at first, but ongoing degrading treatment is representative of a much deeper issue. Behaviors to keep an eye out for include humiliating you in front of family, friends, or co-workers, forcing you to ask permission before you can go somewhere, taking anger out on you whether or not the problem has anything to do with you, insulting you and calling you cruel names, and threatening you in order to maintain control — and the list goes on. Long-term emotional abuse can result in low self-esteem, withdrawal from family and friends, depression, illness, anxiety, and giving up on goals. You do not deserve this treatment, but recognizing and leaving an emotional abuser is a process that takes time. Take advantage of available resources and hotlines as you gather the courage to leave the relationship.

READ : How to Show Commitment in a Relationship & Make Them Feel Secure

2. Physical Abuse
If your partner is physically abusing you, gathering the courage, strength, and ability to leave is a long, difficult process that can be complicated by economic barriers, among other issues. So be kind to yourself, while also recognizing that you do not deserve this treatment and have every right to leave the relationship. When you have decided that you are ready, there are precautions and steps to take in order to make your transition easier and safer. These include gathering any evidence of the abuse should you decide to press charges, having at least two escape plans and a predetermined safe place to go, and packing a bag with cash, medication, legal documents, a change of clothes, etc.

3. Monitoring Your Activities
Just because you’re dating somebody, doesn’t mean they need to know where you are or what you’re doing 24/7. They should respect your need to be by yourself and maintain a certain level of privacy when you’re already sharing so much of who are you with them.

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Romance10 Things You Should Never Sacrifice In Any Relationship No Matter What by catman(op): 11:16am On Jul 20, 2020
10 Things You Should Never Sacrifice In Any Relationship – You have to learn to love yourself before you can be in love with someone else. You have to learn to respect yourself and become your own defined person, separate from your partner, or you’ll just get lost in your relationship and never have a personality and identity of your own.

All relationships take hard work, commitment, and sacrifice. However, there are certain things that you should never sacrifice for a relationship, no matter how much you love someone, unless you want to lose yourself.

10 Important Things You Should Never Sacrifice In Any Relationship
1. Your ambitions and your career path.
If you dream of scaling the mountains, don’t give it up for a relationship! If your partner loves and respects you, he will never ask you to put aside your dreams and goals for his. Do what you’ve always dreamed of doing, otherwise you will really regret it in the years to come.

READ : 12 Really Sweet Ways to Show a Girl How Much You Love Her

2. Your mental health and inner peace.
If your relationship is causing you a lot of stress and trauma, walk away from it no matter how much you might love your partner. I know this is easier said than done but nothing is worth putting your sanity at stake.

3. Your beliefs and the things that you stand for.
If you believe in a certain faith or thing, don’t just give it up because your partner doesn’t believe in the same things. There is no reason why both of you cannot pursue your own beliefs in the way you choose to. You shouldn’t be standing in each other’s way but instead be each other’s support system.

4.Self-love
When you enter a relationship, you commit to loving the person you give your heart to. Loving involves taking care of your partner’s needs and being careful not to hurt him/her.

Nevertheless, you cannot lose self-love in the process of loving someone else. Before you love others, you have to love yourself first. This is not selfish. It simply means you can only love others effectively by learning to love yourself.

Therefore, never forget about your own needs. Do not let yourself be abused in any way in your relationship.

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Romance12 Tips On How To Have Sex With That New Girl For The First Time by catman(op): 7:11pm On Jul 19, 2020
Wondering how to make out for the first time because you want it to be amazing? It’s the first make-out session of your life, here’s 12 tip on how to make out for the first time !

Oh god, learning how to make out for the first time can be a stressful mess! I remember the first time I made out with someone. I was sixteen, sitting on the couch with my then-boyfriend. We would share innocent kisses when he then asked me, “do you want to French kiss?”

I was obviously mortified. French kiss? What do I do? How do I position my head? I was a sweaty, nervous mess. Needless to say, the first time wasn’t amazing. It wasn’t bad, but it wasn’t great. I was trying to figure out how this all worked, where does my tongue go, how much pressure I should use.

It took me some time to get the hang of things, that’s for sure. And though this story is embarrassing, I wanted to share it with you because you need to know your first time making out with someone may not look like something out of a movie.

Instead, it could be a little awkward at first, but that’s okay. It takes time to learn anything new for the first time, so don’t be hard on yourself. Instead, when it comes to learning how to make out for the first time, enjoy these 12 tip on how to make out for the first time and go with the flow

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12 Tip On How to Make Out for the First Time
Okay, I don’t want to stress you out or make you panic, so let’s walk you through this straight away.

#1 Are you ready? Do you want to make out with this person? Or are you doing this because you think you have to? Because you don’t need to make out with anyone unless you want to, so don’t go into this feeling any pressure. If you want to do it, then do it. If not, don’t do it.

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#2 Use your manners. It can be a little hard to control yourself when you really want to kiss someone. But nothing is more frightening than having someone’s mouth charging to yours without any heads up. When it comes to kissing, use your manners. You can lean in slightly and see if they accept and lean in towards you. But if your partner is dodging any physical contact, don’t do it.

#3 There had to be physical contact before making out. You cannot just grab someone and start making out with them. Okay, you can, but depending on the circumstances, it can be frowned upon.

If you two have kissed before, then you can slowly transition into making out. But there should be physical contact before the make-out session.

4 Go with the moment. If you’re wondering how to make out for the first time ever, you should remember that there will be a moment when you two will share this emotional connection that will lead to the kiss. Feel that moment, feel the energy. Are you two being pulled closer together? Is the sexual tension building?

Well, that’s the energy you want when going into a make-out session. Both people want to be kissing each other, and they want more.

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Romance12 Sure Signs To Know If You Are Dating A Prostitute by catman(op): 6:55pm On Jul 11, 2020
12 Sure Signs To Know If You Are Dating A Prostitute – Most of the time, certain women indulge in prostitution out of a need for financial resources. However, in today’s world, love of authority and fame, or even the simple need to be maintained by men in return for sex, often propels women into this path voluntarily. If you see these signs in the woman you are currently dating you need no soothsayer to tell you that she’s definitely a LovePeddler.

#1. She has a poor or average income but lives large

Of course, she might be a cleaner in the local hospital but she manages to afford a comparatively affluent lifestyle without family support.
Who pays for it? Is she surviving on a financial loan?

#2. She makes it a routine to request for something (maybe monetary) before giving you sex:

These type of girls are so cunning in their dealing, when they first starts a date with a potential costumer, they will give you frequent great sex(they are very good in bed) without requesting anything in return at least for a week or less.

When she has succeeded in blowing off your mind in bed ( that period you starts behaving like a small pikin) ,then gradually she reduce the fun ( to make you beg for it) to a reluctant transactional chore she performs for you only when you have done something for her first (usually something of monetary value). S*x now becomes a reward in the relationship.

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RomanceHow To Forgive Someone: 15 Positive Ways To Unburden Your Mind by catman(op): 8:47am On Jul 11, 2020
How to Forgive Someone. We’ve all been there… someone did something bad to us, and we’re mad. Steaming mad! But here’s how to forgive someone who has hurt you.

For some reason, forgiveness seems to be one of the most difficult things for a human being to do. It’s almost like people think that if they hold on to the resentment and dwell in the negativity, that somehow it will undo the past.

Well, let me tell you what you already know… it won’t. If you really want to hold on to your sanity, you need to know how to forgive someone.

As Buddha once said, “Holding on to resentment is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die.” While that might sound ridiculous, think about it for a second. It’s true! What good does it do to hold on to the anger? You might think it’s doing some good like punishing the other person, but trust me, it’s not.

Why it’s so difficult to learn how to forgive someone

Why, oh why, is it so hard for us humans to forgive? Well, there are many reasons. But one of them is that we have expectations. Yes, you heard me. Expectations of other people’s behavior. And when those expectations are violated, then we feel hurt and offended.

I’m not saying that other people don’t do a lot of crappy things. They do. And they vary in degrees of seriousness. So, don’t think that I’m trying to tell you to stick around in an abusive relationship – I’m not. In situations like that, you just need to remove yourself.

But if the wrongdoing is not of gargantuan proportions, and it’s relatively mundane in the grand scheme of things, then you need to learn to let go and forgive.

Tips for learning how to forgive someone

I don’t have a magic wand that I can hand you for you to suddenly become a master at forgiveness like Mother Teresa. But, I do have some tips for how to forgive someone that will definitely help you move on and find happiness again.

#1 Think of them as a child. When a child does something wrong, we usually have the attitude of, “Well, I don’t like it, but they’re still learning so they’re doing the best they can.”

I hate to break it to you, but some adults aren’t very wise or mature. So, they are probably performing on the level of a child. That’s why you should think of them as someone who doesn’t know any better. That doesn’t mean you have to condone the negative behavior, however.

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Romance12 Reasons Most Men Patronize Prostitutes by catman(op): 1:25pm On Jul 10, 2020
Reasons Most Men Patronize Prostitutes – No matter how hard any government or society tries to eradicate or even curb it, the trade will never cease to exist due to the fact that the men who patronize them will always find a way of rolling with them.

In Nigeria, they are identified with different names like ”, ‘Akunna-Kunna’, ‘Karuwa’, ‘Akpara’, or ”, and other derogatory names but the fact remains that without the male customers, they would not be in business.

Men who patronize these commercial sex workers, either married or single, have their reasons for doing so. Some of them range from the hilarious to the most absurd.

1. Men Prefer To Sleep With Hotter Women

Yes, you read right. Most married Nigerian men complained that the moment a Nigerian woman is married, she losses her guard and most times cannot even ‘try’ to be as radiant as she used to be before she got married. Most Nigerian men prefer a stunning woman to the one that is not properly dressed.

2. Men Like The Fastest Route To Having Sex.

All men used different methods of visiting prostitutes. While some revealed they used some websites, a larger percentage revealed that they visited a brothel and another set got the prostitute’s number via personal connection. But they all agreed: it was the quickest way to get sex when they felt the urge.

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CrimeMust Watch : Difference Between These Warri Police And Armed Robbers by catman(op): 2:12am On Jul 10, 2020
I have traveled 22 states in Nigeria and i must say with all sincerity that Delta State and Benin have the worst and most corrupt police system in Nigeria. Police harass and kill people on a daily basis and nothing has been done about it. SAR is even the worst, armed robbers are better than them. the video click below was captured show how deadly Deadly Delta State police can be.

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Celebrities18+ 10 Nollywood Actress Who Have Posed Completely Naked: Photos/video by catman(op): 5:14am On Jul 09, 2020
Nollywood Actress Who Have Posed Completely Naked – Sometimes showing off a lot of skin in the entertainment industry cannot be avoided and over the years we have been opportuned to witness a couple of Nigerian actors strip completely to show off their skin.

Here are 10 Nigerian actors who have posed completely naked at one point or the other.

#1. Moyo Lawal

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Romance12 Reasons Why You Should Have Sex Tonight by catman(op): 11:28pm On Jul 08, 2020
12 Health Benefits Of Having More sex –

I know a man who gave up smoking, drinking, sex and rich food. He was healthy right up to the day he killed himself.”

This old wisecrack is credited to American late-night talk show host and comedian Johnny Carson. Sorry, Johnny, it may be funny, but you’ve got it wrong. Although giving up unhealthy habits like smoking, drinking and rich food will certainly improve your health, giving up sex will not.
In fact, when you’re in a healthy relationship, sex is one of the best things you can do for yourself. Here are 10 reasons why.

If you’re stressed, sex may be the last thing on your mind. But if you can get in the mood, sex is a great stress-reliever. The act of sex floods your brain with all sorts of feel-good chemicals while reducing the stress hormone cortisol.
Dopamine, which impacts the brain’s pleasure and reward centers; endorphins, which can reduce pain and stress; and oxytocin, also known as the cuddle hormone, are all released during sex, with higher levels after orgasm.

#1. It boosts your immunity.
Having regular sex may also help you fight off disease.
Researchers at Pennsylvania’s Wilkes University asked US college students how often they had sex each week and then compared the levels of immunoglobulin A, an antibody that functions as the body’s first line of defense, in their saliva.

Students who had sex once or twice a week had the highest levels of immunoglobulin A: 30% higher than those who had no sex, but alsothose who had sex three or more times a week. In addition, students who were in longer-term, satisfying relationships had the highest levels of the antibody.

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CelebritiesMust Watch Video Of Top 10 Nigerian Instagram Twerkers Ever by catman(op): 1:48pm On Jul 08, 2020
Video Of Top 10 Nigerian Instagram Twerkers – Checkout the list of top and upcoming Nigerian instagram twerkers. This young ladies have taken upon themselves to set your Instagram on fire, trust me they have what it take to make the pope loose is calling.
This list is based on their Instagram popularity and their influence as some of them are brand ambassadors and faces of very important product. They are also popular video vixen and model.

See list below:

Top 10 Nigerian Instagram Twerkers

#1. Jane Mena

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Romance12 Types Of Women Every Man Should Avoid : Don’t Date These Women! by catman(op): 12:54am On Jul 05, 2020
Types Of Women Every Man Should Avoid – The dating pool presents an abundance of different types of people. Ideally, you want to strive to find that one person that matches you so perfectly that the two of you will never want to be apart. How exactly you’ll find this person is never certain. You may find that your life partner is someone you who would have never expected. However, there are certain women you should always steer clear of.

#1. Women who are attached

As obvious as it may seem, it’s always in your best interest to date single women. There’s more than a few taken girls out there who will gladly take on a number two, but aside from being unethical, this presents a multitude of problems. You put yourself in a risky position in regard to her other boyfriend, who may have an angry or violent streak in him. You also set yourself up to have your heart broken at any moment as she tells you “sorry, I think I should really try to make things work with my boyfriend.”
#2. Gold diggers and feminists

Always avoid gold diggers. Women who are out only to find a man to provide for them financially are not what you want. Even if you don’t have that much money, you may still encounter girls like this; interested only in what money you do have. A tell tale sign of a gold digger is the lack of a job. If a woman has no motivation to support herself, then odds are her goal is to be supported.
#3. Elitist women

Another type of woman to avoid is the elitist. They can come from all walks of life, but it doesn’t take too long in conversation to spot one. If a girl talks down to you or preaches at you, chances are she lives on her own little self created cloud (likely born from her own insecurities) and no matter how hot she is, you do not want to date her. A relationship needs to be mutually beneficial to both parties. Holier-than-thou girls who put themselves on a pedestal will leave you feeling emasculated and should be avoided. Feminists also fall into this category.

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Romance10 Things Every Woman Want After Sex by catman(op): 9:52pm On Jul 04, 2020
10 Things Every Woman Want After Sex – When men want sex, they can say and do the right things; but how he feels about her is revealed after the sex. Many women get great sex yet feel unloved by the man they are building a future with, many wives feel used by their husbands.

Some men start the sex well, get the high and conclude it poorly; they doze off as if their objective has been met and have no need for her anymore, making her feel it’s always about him.

Women want more than the sexual high, to them, it is an act of intimacy, they long for affection. Man, what she needs after the climax is…

#1. To be told how amazing she was.

Women often feel a lot of pressure to be sexy and to be great in bed.Tell her how awesome she was, allay her fears and arrest her questioning whether she is good enough in matters sex. The more you praise her, the more she will do for you.

#2.Play with her fingers and the wedding ring.

Fingers speak love, touch her fingers, run your finger on the wedding ring you gave her. Tell your wife you are only hers10. Apologize or forgive, if it was makeup sex. Don’t let the issue go unresolved and swept under the carpet just because you had great sex.Too many couples are in problems but are hiding behind sex. Let the makeup sex be the start of a new chapter.

#3. To be told, “I love you”.

This confirms to her the lovemaking was done out of love. She is the only one you desire.

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Romance10 Things All Women Do When They Are Cheating by catman(op): 3:31pm On Jul 04, 2020
Things All Women Do When They Are Cheating – We have been conditioned and programmed to believe that men cheat most however the gap is fast closing. More and more women are stepping out of their marriages and partners for reasons best known to them.

While it may difficult to find out exactly when a woman is cheating, there are certain behaviors she will display that can give her away.

To identify whether she is cheating, below are signs you need to watch out for.

#1. She nags a lot

Granted women can nag and that is nothing unusual. But what you need to watch is her constant nagging. She will nag about everything from the smallest to the biggest issues. If this is happening it could indicative of trouble. She will begin to magnify her partner’s imperfections and if she is smitten by the other man she will use that as an excuse to break up.
#2. The ‘We’re just friends‘ line

This is a classic explanation women used when asked about the other man. If you ask her, pay attention to how acts and answers. If she’s uneasy and refuses to give you eye contact and divulge more, chances are she is seeing him.

#3. They “forgot” to mention a night out.

People who are cheating “tend to engage in sins of omission. “They operate on a ‘need to know’ basis, which is not healthy for a relationship.” Although neglecting to mention that time they grabbed drinks with co-workers could be completely innocuous—maybe happy hour just wasn’t that memorable—if the behavior persists, it could reflect general dishonesty, Klow says.

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Romance15 Things Almost All Women Do Behind Closed Doors by catman(op): 12:01am On Jul 04, 2020
Things Almost All Women Do Behind Closed Doors – We all have a few interesting things we do when we’re alone, that we might not want to readily admit. You might, for example, stand in front of the mirror and pick at your pimples. Or you might get ready for work in the morning, and pull on a dirty pair of underwear. And you know what? While these things might seem gross, they’re also things many of us have done at one point or another.

And thus, aren’t that big of a deal. “We tend not to discuss [these things] with other people because of a fear that we won’t be liked, or that it’s taboo and will put people off us,” wellness coach and yoga teacher Helen Sian India tells Bustle. But in reality, we’re all pretty interesting beings, and “the more we talk about it, the less [of] a ‘big deal’ it is.”

Of course, you don’t have to share anything if you truly don’t want to. But knowing that you’re not alone in your “bad” habits, or the mysterious goings on of your body, can serve as a bit of a comfort. And, it can make it easier to discuss any health changes with your doctor — who, by the very nature of their profession, has likely seen and heard it all.

Here are a few habits many women have, and a few bodily functions that happen to the best of us, that are nothing to be ashamed of, if you find yourself experiencing them.

1. Re-wearing The Same Bra or Underwear
If you’ve ever shimmied back into a pair of old underwear, or worn a bra for the fifth (or 15th) day in a row without washing it first, you’re in good company.

“There is a good chance that the [underwear] and/or bra you are wearing at this very moment have not seen a washing machine in a good while. [And] that’s OK,” Caleb Backe, a health and wellness expert at Maple Holistics, tells Bustle. Not everyone has enough time to wash their clothes regularly. So when you’re in a pinch, there’s nothing wrong with wearing yesterday’s bra.

It is, however, recommended that you wash your bra after every fifth wearing, at the very least, and your underwear after each use. But don’t be ashamed if you don’t always get to it, since this happens to many people.

2. watched themselves cry in the mirror at least once in a heavy cry session . You know after sobbing for 20 minutes, you want to see if you cry “prettily”. Most of the time, it will be a disappointment lol

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Romance12 Secrets Women Will Always Hide From Their Men by catman(op): 10:07pm On Jul 03, 2020
Secrets Women Will Always Hide From Their Men – We’ve all been there; you start dating someone and you want to present yourself as the best possible version of yourself but what that usually means is hiding some embarrassing things or habits that you don’t want your partner to know about. This goes both for men and women, but women are truly masters of the art of hiding their little secrets.

No matter how well you think you know someone, there are always things about them you have no idea about, and sometimes, that is actually a good thing. After all, you don’t want to know about all the places your girlfriend has been plucking hair from before you went on a date with her, do you? And she doesn’t want you to know about them either, so where is the harm in that?
On the other hand, there are some secrets she is keeping from you because she might be afraid how you would react if she told you, and they often involve her ex-boyfriends or some financial issues she might be having. Why do they do that? Well, every girl is different but there are some things most of them do have in common. So let’s dive deeper into the subject and talk about 12 things girlfriends will ALWAYS hide from their boyfriends.

#12 SHE DOESN’T LIKE YOUR MOM

If your girlfriend and your mother get along really well, you are one lucky dude because that really doesn’t happen very often. The key problem here is jealousy. Your mother is not happy about the fact she no longer is the most important woman in your life, while your girlfriend doesn’t like your mother trying to get too involved in your relationship. Of course, she will never EVER tell you that, especially if you are one of those guys who really care deeply about his mother. In fact, she will do anything to hide the fact she is not fond of your mother at all. After all, she doesn’t want to hurt your feelings and she also might be afraid it could have a really bad impact on your relationship.

#11. YOU’RE NOT THE BEST LOVER SHE HAS EVER HAD

You and your girlfriend might be just perfect for each other and, although you love each other dearly, that doesn’t mean you are the best lover she has ever had. Of course, she will never admit that! Sure, it might have crossed her mind once or twice, but she won’t talk to you about that ever. Instead, she might try to navigate you to do some things her ex did just right in the sack, but you’ll never know that is what she’s been doing. Keep in mind that she doesn’t like to be compared to your exes because that feels just awful, so she is actually doing you a solid by not comparing you to hers. On the other hand, every lover is different, and so is the chemistry between two people.

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