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15 Signs You’r Being Selfish In A Relationship by catman: 9:24pm On Aug 06, 2020
Being Selfish In A Relationship – Is your partner accusing you of being selfish? How would you know if it is really true?

Admit it, it is always easier to see the shortcomings of your partner than yours. That is why, if you want to know how you are as a boyfriend or girlfriend, then you better evaluate yourself objectively.

For a relationship to last, a couple should have mutual respect and consideration for each other. It means both partners should love unconditionally and selflessly. If one of them is indifferent towards his/her partner, then the relationship will fall apart eventually.

So, if your boyfriend or girlfriend is telling you that you are selfish, do not ignore it. Find out if it is true. In case it is, decide to change for the better, if you want your relationship to work.

Here are some signs that you are being selfish in a relationship:

1. You always demand for time.
If you cannot understand that your partner has a world outside your relationship, then this is probably happening. You get mad whenever s/he does not reply or call back immediately. Or you always ask him/her to be with you all the time, not minding that s/he has probably something else to do.

2. You are very possessive.
It is more than being jealous. You simply do not like him/her talking or saying “hi” to someone else from the opposite sex. You prohibit him/her from hanging out with friends because you are always suspicious.

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3. You need to be in control all the time.
You always have the final say in your relationship. Your partner cannot do anything without your permission. On the other hand, you do not let him/her tell you what to do.

4. You care more about what others will say than your partner’s feelings.
For you, your reputation is more important than the happiness of your partner. For instance, you may choose to keep your relationship a secret because your boyfriend or girlfriend is not popular or attractive enough. Being Selfish In A Relationship

5. You want the person to change for you.
To make your partner be your ideal guy or girl, you demand that s/he changes him/herself. You tell your partner that if you want your relationship to continue, then s/he should change what you dislike about him/her.

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Re: 15 Signs You’r Being Selfish In A Relationship by Oluromantic: 10:29pm On Aug 06, 2020
Gbam. You just described my ex
Re: 15 Signs You’r Being Selfish In A Relationship by Ugaboy: 10:35pm On Aug 06, 2020
They are all love reaction, if your partner doesnt possess ane of this attribute, believe me you are dating yourself
Re: 15 Signs You’r Being Selfish In A Relationship by Nobody: 10:36pm On Aug 06, 2020
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