My husband and i applied for our 10 yrs visa i wasn't given on the grounds that i am pregnant and may not return. Meaning i want to deliver there. Even after i said i wont deliver there but in the US. but hubby was given. Imagine after paying almost 200k. Pls what is the process of appeal? I have a valid us visa and will travel using anther airline instead of ba. I need to appeal before i leave. Help pls

~Sauron~:


Men get bored because women stop trying to look attractive once they get married.
I am not sure if it's laziness or it's just the fact that they believe there's no need to dress to impress anymore.
Another pressing issue is the dramatic change in size of our women.
Size 10 on the day of the wedding, size 18(2 years later).

And what about men? flat tummy before wedding, afo beer after 6 months! Do you think we don't want our men to look same way? You guys don't even bother to take care of yourselves anymore. Shave, mba! bar hair, mba!

All cos you have a wife. Women even have an excuse cos of childbirth. But note that women of these days look hot after even 3 kids. We are trying our best!

My two cents:

Both husbands and wives get bored after some time. I am currently in this situation which is why I came here. In my case, I feel my husband has become complacent. We no longer go out for lunch like we used to ( although it started after I had my daughter as I now go home for lunch to check on her). I have been giving him hints about my sexual fantasies, how we are drifting apart etc. Infact, I'm the one who initiates our going to the movies most times now. It's either he has a meeting somewhere or he is busy with work. I know he isn't cheating cos I seem to know his every move so will be shocked if he is.

Anyway, sex now is a chore to me...boring! All he wants is to penetrate. pre-intimacy has moved to the background. Even the oral that he used to do well now he just keeps licking one portion. I am tempted to buy intimacy gadgets and to get a dude who will seriously appreciate me me and Bleep me well. But I will not cos I'm a woman of God and I believe I will also be cheating on God if I do that.

I have told him that we have to work on our intimacy, we are moving apart. at home, we are always on our ipads, less talk, less chats. We are just 3 and half yrs in marriage. I have a daughter and pregnant with another child. I fear that I may ignore him totally an dust focus on my kids which I know I can do.

he doesn't want to listen so that we can work it out. All he does is to point fingers at me as the cause of this whole issue. may i add that he is Lazy at home. Not domesticated and if not for my nanny/help, I would have died cos he can't even boil hot water!

Pathetic!

sms4health: It's a tough decision, no matter how you look at it.

You might be lucky and none of the children have SS and then all may have it.

If all have SS, you may be lucky that it is mild but then all may have the severe variety.

I have known SS individuals who have died but I also know one who got married about a month ago.

You might decide not to be with this lady and never find love. What is life without love?

Whatever choice you make, make sure you have no regrets.

I love your comment!