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Re: Why Do Husbands Get Bored Of Their Wives Soon After Wedding? by Nobody: 1:13pm On Aug 13, 2013
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Re: Why Do Husbands Get Bored Of Their Wives Soon After Wedding? by Catona: 4:15pm On Oct 22, 2013
My two cents:

Both husbands and wives get bored after some time. I am currently in this situation which is why I came here. In my case, I feel my husband has become complacent. We no longer go out for lunch like we used to ( although it started after I had my daughter as I now go home for lunch to check on her). I have been giving him hints about my sexual fantasies, how we are drifting apart etc. Infact, I'm the one who initiates our going to the movies most times now. It's either he has a meeting somewhere or he is busy with work. I know he isn't cheating cos I seem to know his every move so will be shocked if he is.

Anyway, sex now is a chore to me...boring! All he wants is to penetrate. pre-intimacy has moved to the background. Even the oral that he used to do well now he just keeps licking one portion. I am tempted to buy intimacy gadgets and to get a dude who will seriously appreciate me me and Bleep me well. But I will not cos I'm a woman of God and I believe I will also be cheating on God if I do that.

I have told him that we have to work on our intimacy, we are moving apart. at home, we are always on our ipads, less talk, less chats. We are just 3 and half yrs in marriage. I have a daughter and pregnant with another child. I fear that I may ignore him totally an dust focus on my kids which I know I can do.

he doesn't want to listen so that we can work it out. All he does is to point fingers at me as the cause of this whole issue. may i add that he is Lazy at home. Not domesticated and if not for my nanny/help, I would have died cos he can't even boil hot water!

Pathetic!

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Re: Why Do Husbands Get Bored Of Their Wives Soon After Wedding? by Catona: 4:49pm On Oct 22, 2013
~Sauron~:


Men get bored because women stop trying to look attractive once they get married.
I am not sure if it's laziness or it's just the fact that they believe there's no need to dress to impress anymore.
Another pressing issue is the dramatic change in size of our women.
Size 10 on the day of the wedding, size 18(2 years later).

And what about men? flat tummy before wedding, afo beer after 6 months! Do you think we don't want our men to look same way? You guys don't even bother to take care of yourselves anymore. Shave, mba! bar hair, mba!

All cos you have a wife. Women even have an excuse cos of childbirth. But note that women of these days look hot after even 3 kids. We are trying our best!

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Re: Why Do Husbands Get Bored Of Their Wives Soon After Wedding? by Ivoy01: 12:48am On Aug 14, 2014
When I was younger I tried finding love but every man that comes my way have never spent 2 months with me without leaving, and my family called me so many abusive names and say that I will never get married in time, even my younger sister and brother were already married with 2 kids each and were happily married.

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Re: Why Do Husbands Get Bored Of Their Wives Soon After Wedding? by Ivoy01: 12:49am On Aug 14, 2014
Good evening or morning for you perhaps!!
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Re: Why Do Husbands Get Bored Of Their Wives Soon After Wedding? by illuminatti: 2:00am On Sep 28, 2014
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Re: Why Do Husbands Get Bored Of Their Wives Soon After Wedding? by inosend: 4:14pm On Sep 29, 2014
Seven-year ITCH shocked
Re: Why Do Husbands Get Bored Of Their Wives Soon After Wedding? by annyplenty(m): 4:27pm On Oct 19, 2014
Build your marriage on JESUS, THE SOLID ROCK and then your marriage can not crash.

Love your wife as Christ loves the church.

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Re: Why Do Husbands Get Bored Of Their Wives Soon After Wedding? by Skybright227: 10:00pm On Oct 19, 2014
Too
much of sample/testing diff kinds of girls before marriage cos it all
boils down to ur memory....thereby thinking about them when your wife
couldn't deliver.
Re: Why Do Husbands Get Bored Of Their Wives Soon After Wedding? by ufemia23(f): 12:20pm On Nov 07, 2014
Relationships and marriage scares me. Because human beings are never constant, the man u know today will not continue to be the same tomorrow. Everyone gets bored with a particular thing or somebody,wat will keep u two togeda is d decision u have made to stick to that person no matter what. Love is a decision not a feeling or attraction cos all that is subject to change

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Re: Why Do Husbands Get Bored Of Their Wives Soon After Wedding? by Nobody: 3:10pm On Nov 07, 2014
a man who is not happy with himself can never be happy with anyone else, simple!

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Re: Why Do Husbands Get Bored Of Their Wives Soon After Wedding? by plaetton: 3:36pm On Nov 20, 2014
astuto:
Oh my God. The views i see here!  Is marriage still worth it?

Look eh, if physical attraction is so important, why marry at all? come on, there's always free girls around. why not just  go on sleeping around with d hottest gal u can pick, eh?  angry angry angry I am shocked at what i am seeing here o. I no gbadun.
      Na wa for some comments o:
      Getting tired of sex with d same person, eh?  whilst still craving sex! come on, WAKE UP, it's all in your freaking mind! Forget that mentality that man is like a virile animal, men are NOT! Haba!!!
       A woman shd look good for her hubby but if he cant take her as she is , he can jump into the lagoon. grin

       I am scared for d future of marriage in dis country o. I no fit shout o,

It is not a mentality.
It is nature.
Some men are able to tame this nature to different degrees.

There is NO normal man that cannot crumble to sexual allure of a beautiful exciting woman.
A beautiful and exciting woman is what every man, especially married men , crave secretly or openly.
The only differences in men is whether they are responding to that urge discretely or non-discretely.

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Re: Why Do Husbands Get Bored Of Their Wives Soon After Wedding? by andrewlisa2: 5:31pm On Feb 06, 2015
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Re: Why Do Husbands Get Bored Of Their Wives Soon After Wedding? by Vickysmith4: 10:47pm On Feb 08, 2015
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Re: Why Do Husbands Get Bored Of Their Wives Soon After Wedding? by Bosch10(m): 9:45am On Feb 14, 2015
annyplenty:

Most married men complained of being bored of their wives soon after wedding and they start nursing a feeling of getting an extra spice from outside, I mean from another woman.

What will make a man get bored of his wife not too long into the wedding?.
because they are not prepared for it in the first place,they actually married for the wrong reasons
Re: Why Do Husbands Get Bored Of Their Wives Soon After Wedding? by Nobody: 9:28am On Mar 26, 2015
annyplenty:

Most married men complained of being bored of their wives soon after wedding and they start nursing a feeling of getting an extra spice from outside, I mean from another woman.

What will make a man get bored of his wife not too long into the wedding?.













The law of diminishing marginal utility has set in
Re: Why Do Husbands Get Bored Of Their Wives Soon After Wedding? by clarke1: 4:40pm On Mar 29, 2015
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Re: Why Do Husbands Get Bored Of Their Wives Soon After Wedding? by Chinum: 3:30pm On Apr 14, 2015
annyplenty:

Most married men complained of being bored of their wives soon after wedding and they start nursing a feeling of getting an extra spice from outside, I mean from another woman.

What will make a man get bored of his wife not too long into the wedding?.


They should ask their wives cos they r probably tired of them too. So why not find ways to spice up ur marriage than going outside to look for what is not there.
Re: Why Do Husbands Get Bored Of Their Wives Soon After Wedding? by tuckerstacey: 3:22am On May 09, 2015
Thanks be to God that i have found some one like Dr tatota the great man who help me out when my lover left me, i have being a relationship with my lover for over seven years before i knew it my husband started dating his office girl when i cut them in the hotel room i ask my husband what is going on here he just told me what am seeing is what is going on if i can take it i should live it and allow him to live his life the way he want to,it just like a dream to me that my husband did such to me after staying for seven years i cried all over the day and night no help till the day i was passing by my friend called me and told me that i am look so stress up i told him every thing that happen to me he said i should not cry again that he we introduce me to one great man that help her out when she was like me too that is how i contacted Dr tatota on his email ; tatotaspellcaster@yahoo.com and his phone number +2348114162478 to my greatest surprise after Dr tatota cast a spell on me in just 24hours my husband called me for forgiveness and beg me to come back home that is how my husband came back to me all with the help of Dr odudu here is the email tatotaspellcaster@yahoo.com if not this man dont contact any body contact Dr tatota his the only man that is bless with so much power am happy today is the help of Dr tatota. EMAIL; tatotaspellcaster@yahoo.com PHONE NUMBER ; +2348114162478 MARYLINE FROM U S A

Re: Why Do Husbands Get Bored Of Their Wives Soon After Wedding? by tuckerstacey: 3:23am On May 09, 2015
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Thanks be to God that i have found some one like Dr tatota the great man who help me out when my lover left me, i have being a relationship with my lover for over seven years before i knew it my husband started dating his office girl when i cut them in the hotel room i ask my husband what is going on here he just told me what am seeing is what is going on if i can take it i should live it and allow him to live his life the way he want to,it just like a dream to me that my husband did such to me after staying for seven years i cried all over the day and night no help till the day i was passing by my friend called me and told me that i am look so stress up i told him every thing that happen to me he said i should not cry again that he we introduce me to one great man that help her out when she was like me too that is how i contacted Dr tatota on his email ; tatotaspellcaster@yahoo.com and his phone number +2348114162478 to my greatest surprise after Dr tatota cast a spell on me in just 24hours my husband called me for forgiveness and beg me to come back home that is how my husband came back to me all with the help of Dr odudu here is the email tatotaspellcaster@yahoo.com if not this man dont contact any body contact Dr tatota his the only man that is bless with so much power am happy today is the help of Dr tatota. EMAIL; tatotaspellcaster@yahoo.com PHONE NUMBER ; +2348114162478 MARYLINE FROM U S A
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Re: Why Do Husbands Get Bored Of Their Wives Soon After Wedding? by Chinum: 12:53pm On May 09, 2015
plaetton:


It is not a mentality.
It is nature.
Some men are able to tame this nature to different degrees.

There is NO normal man that cannot crumble to sexual allure of a beautiful exciting woman.
A beautiful and exciting woman is what every man, especially married men , crave secretly or openly.
The only differences in men is whether they are responding to that urge discretely or non-discretely.

Speak for yourslef mister! lipsrsealed

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